Tia Mowry & Erica Mena REGRET Divorcing EX Husband !!!

am is coming to w TV no I've never dated you you want me to kiss you I'm going to be doing my own dating show when I was you know dating this person it was beautiful it was amazing it was wonderful there was courting that was you know involved um and I was saying how I feel like that's no longer my ex-husband pulled up on me found out where I lived pulled up on me and a renting Phantom playing shade like out the mic like out the car and pulled up in front of my house and just stood there until I like realized he was outside the window cuz I wasn't answering his DM now that I like what's up guys it's your girl Riva and I am back again with another video and so I wanted to basically make a video um talking about how women become impulsive and play themselves okay and recently I did a V video talking about Erica a Mena enough I gave him two babies I'm like you know back to B right back um and in the comment section there were so many people who were also drawing reference to the likes of Tia Mai and it dawned on me that the the two of these women have so much in common though they come from very different backgrounds and though they have very different walks of life you know and it just goes to show that certain women who are in certain spaces always tend to lean on or Draw to the closest things um in relation to one another and what I mean by that is you have women who come out of relationships they act like everything is all cool they act like everything is good you know they feel great about the situation and later on they end up being the ones who are crying right so you know even going further to the similarities of these two women you know her name is Tia Mai you know it's Erica Mena so it's Tia M Erica M you know then Tia had a relationship with Corey Erica had a relationship with Safari so it's like Tia Erica Corey Safari like it even goes down to that right and so it just dawned on me as I said before you know Tia uh you know was happy about her divorce marriage was a success yeah I look at it as like a curriculum at the end of that curriculum and at the end there's a graduation Erica Mena was also happy about her divorce oh my God I'm officially divor yes Tia as we can see you know has been thirst trapping on Instagram as well as Erica Mena has also been third strapping on Instagram Tia was throwing shade to her ex after the breakup made a very interesting comment under this video toxic Partners who refuse to pay bills and tia not only liked this post but she also put the side eye in the comments Erica minuta is constantly on the internet throwing BR shade to her ex Safari for everything that he does I got to sit back and watch my kids literally suffer already as it is because you're their daddy both of these women are a grand example of what happens when women are too impulsive or when women you know for a lack of better words jump the gun in a relationship right they go out you know they're they they have this this reality between them that maybe they you know graduated or maybe that they've been you know too patient or whatever the case is and then what happens is that they get to these spaces within their relationships and somewhere in their mind tells them oh you know I could do better oh I could do better by myself I don't need you you know I'm not going to be in a situation where I'm bound because I know I can find somebody else who's going to take me exactly as I am love all my um my um imperfections stay with me stick with me take care of these kids and do better than you know I have done in the relationship than I've done with you a lot of women come up with that ideology they run back to the streets thinking that the streets are going to be there you know welcoming them with open arms when Unfortunately they are they are hit with the reality that that's not the truth you yearning for outside of honesty oh my God I just want somebody that I can just build with you know like I just want I want someone I can be myself with as I said it a million times you know they go outside thinking that the grass is going to be greener on the other side ain't no grass okay okay it's gravel Stone sticks mulch hard is it in the da world now oh my God what is it like out there for for for a single teil it get it got worse but I feel like it's about to get worse it got wor it got wor that's what they realized they thought that when they went out there to the streets that there was going to be better options you know running down their door or flocking to them and that's not always the truth so what do you do for work do you like that do you like that there might be men who will be there who will lay with you there might be men who will be there for a short period of time to sleep with you but to be able to be invested in a longf relationship somebody who is going to sit there and stay with you I'm not saying that it's impossible especially because of their uh celebrity but it is definitely going to be harder to find than the two of these women probably thought when they decided that they were going to leave their relationships I am officially stepping into the love connection realm I'm going to be doing my own dating show theori is coming to WV unfiltered and divorced congratulations thank you unscripted no I've never dated you you want me to kiss you another thing that a lot of women do not realize is that whenever you make the the I you know mistake of thinking that you can talk bad about your ex and that other men are not going to have a problem with it men take note of how you treat the man before them when men look and they see that your longest standing relationship with a Man Who provided you children with a man who stayed with you with a man who you know was was um committed to you for the long term when they see that you can go on the internet and Bash them critic them or make fun of them they look at you sideways they do they take note of that again which AIDS them in the ideology of yes I will lay with you yes I will be intimate with you but it does not mean that I will take you serious or wife you that is a harsh truth a very harsh truth I don't think I ever look twice at Cory Hardrick I'mma keep it real with you he always look like Tia husband not anymore when a lot of these women leave their relationships you know they think that they have the upper hand right especially again what the two of them have in common is that they both have garnered their own fan base or um whatever it is based off of their TV appearances before that they were in relationships with these [Music] men Erica is a young vibrant ambitious model looking to transition from modeling to singing Erica's been in more than 30 videos and she's done hundreds of photo shoots and campaign so they go out there on social media and they have you know women who are always you know women supporting women women who will back them women who will tell them or you know fan their flame and tell them how amazing they are and how perfect they are you know they have all these women who are standing in accordance to whatever it is that they say and whatever move that they want to make and so in my in my opinion and the this is all my opinion it goes to their head and inflates their ego again diluting their ideology of the options that they really and truly have and they end up being the ones who are crying in the end we saw tiam Mari she was on this campaign she was dancing on social media she was talking about self love is the best love she was talking about how happy she was you know what it is is self love I'm not ashamed to say it I'm in my ho phas right now happiness over everything where's your mind talking about all these things and then the next thing we know we saw her having a conversation of the inner work and then she's crying on social media it may sound cliche but time truly does have a way of soothing pain someday I believe I'll be able to look back on this time with nothing but warmth and gratitude for the beautiful children brought into my life and a stronger version of myself that emerged from the experience we then saw the likes of Erica menah who just did an interview that I just you know had that long conversation about and in the interview she's talking about how you know um if things went differently she would still be married and then every time that she actually talks about the situation she's the one who's in tears to my my ex-husband longer than anybody in my life ever so when you say like do you think you waited around long enough I was suffering in bed when put to get it together initially when women walk away from from situations they feel so power they feel so happy you know they feel like they took their power back they feel like yes you know now I'm going to be able to be um happy now I'm going to be able to be the woman that I want to be you know now that this relationship is over I'm going to feel fulfilled I'm going to feel everything not realizing that the reason for the um for the unhappiness was not necessarily related to your relationship it was more of the work that was going on within you that needed to be done get with people and like they have these natural like these childhood traumas and we know what we're getting into it with that person and once your knee is deep and your heart is in there and you don't you don't think about nothing but trying to make your partner okay there's a very you know there's there's Truth uh to the to the idea that you know a lot of the happiness that you're looking for is on the inside of you there's women who go through certain things they go through certain things within their relationships or whatever the case is and they think that the reason for their unhappiness is from their spouse not realizing that maybe it's their idea of how their their spouse is supposed to relate to them maybe their unhappiness is actually linked to their inability to control their temper or control their attitude I mean at the end of the day everybody has problems everybody has demons it's just a matter if you're mature enough to I don't I problems or not I don't I don't come out aggressive you're aggressive and I don't like the aggressive sidey what you don't like the aggressive sidey maybe their unhappiness is is linked to their lack of self-love but that had nothing to do with their relationship it had to do with the idea that they had to put people before them themselves and not take care ofs but their husband never asked them to do that Amari says dating is complicated but she's not going back to something that no longer served me a lot of women look up to certain women or they see certain women in the media and because maybe they had a tumultuous situation or maybe they're not the happiest in the state that they're in they take these women as Blueprints and wreck their whole relationships and wreck their families because they think that that is the only way to solve the hurt or the problem or the issues that they're having I know you as being selfish all the time so that's not how I I know you as being selfish that's but that's that's your assumption that's not my intentions yeah that's not my assumption that's your action just because you know what do they say what's good for the goose is not good for the gander just because other people are making certain situations and they are making it seem as though it's so easy or they're making it seem as though they're so happy and so relieved this is a harsh truth that needs to be talked about because again other people who looked up to Corey and um and um Tia in their marriage and and were so happy about their black love and it gave them confidence to work through things within their marriage based off of the things that they literally have stated through certain interviews that they did you have to work hard you know to stay married you know and stay together you know what I'm saying there are times when I'm like wow like last year was pretty tough but this year here it's good that we stuck you know to it there are people who were also going through hard spaces in their marriages who were married maybe around the same amount of time as Tia and Corey maybe you know they have certain similarities to their relationships as they did and so now when that woman feels a certain way in her relationship she's going to look back and say oh well Tia left so maybe I should leave too Tia seem happy maybe I'll seem happier too DMS that I have gotten from so many women that are going through the same thing and just saying how they admire my courage and my strength they see the facade of the happiness and you know I personally feel that a lot of these women should have come out and talked about the real pain that they feel but because of the ego and because of you know supplying The Sisterhood with all these fantasy stories they're not able to do that but you know it was a a year and a half crying myself to sleep every night you know nobody see that nobody see that ER commanda did the same thing she comes out she talks about how happy she is and how you know everybody is faning her flame and she don't got no problem and she don't got no this and she don't got no that and then turns around and talks about oh if producers weren't involved in the situation she would still be married and I will say this had I not involved producers in my marriage I probably would kind of still be married initially when um relationships break out break up it's the women who are again like I said impa Ed in the beginning they feel so good and strong and all this and and and high and mighty and a lot of times the men are the ones who are hurt initially because as much as women are the ones who push the issues of be you know I'm not going to be a girlfriend you got to marry me as much as as women are the ones who walk into those steps of talking about they want that stability from relationships women are also the ones who decide that they want to run right Erica Mana stated that she filed for divorce playing a game thinking oh well well I want him to know that he should fight for me you filed for divorce you already already filed paperwork what is he fighting for you know when I file for divorce I was trying to send the SOS like you're about to lose your whole family and I was hoping it triggered what needed to be triggered to save us right after the men get over the hurt that they endure um after the reality that the relationship is actually over when men gain the happiness that's when actually the tables turned and the women are still out there trying to figure out where the good men at where the men at that was supposed to come and save me where the men at that was supposed to come and be in a relationship with me where are the men who were supposed to replace this man and who were supposed to be better than he is where are they I was you know dating this person it was beautiful it was amazing it was wonderful there was courting that was you know involved um and I was saying how I feel like that's no longer back let's go back my ex-husband pulled up on me found out where I lived pulled up on me on a rented Phantom playing shade like out the music like out the car and pulled up in front of my house and just stood there until I like realized he was outside the window cuz I wasn't answering his DM now that's the I like and the men are happy one thing that I saw that was very common um well that they had in common with Corey and Safari is that you know both of them are not even um shedding light on any of the toxicity of these situations the advice to keep you grounded and not lose yourself in a relationship um be still and and keep God first and just be silent and the noise the noise disappears you know what I'm saying that's all I do I be still and I think about the big picture and I keep the main thing the main thing which is my children God first you know and um my career and just moveing peace and love me and Watos right now Kingston you know and um yeah we giving back you see we every time I come out here it's like yeah we you know put money in people hands and things like that but but I want to do something bigger and better they are moving forward focusing on their business focusing on whatever it is that they got to f um you know focus on and they are not even articulating or saying anything in regards to these women they're letting them do whatever they're letting them paint whatever narrative they're letting them you know talk about them uh say whatever it is that they want to say about them and they are not saying anything in return because they are focused on whatever it is that they're doing and you know the reason why because both of those men are 100% removed from that situation they're over it when Cory recently became a heartthrob because of his new movie that he has out with Megan good you know all of a sudden uh Tia goes on her social media on Instagram and start talking about how oh you know um a man who's broke and this and that the same exact things that she was stating right after the the relationship broke up about the two of them having some kind of issues and she was under people's social media post putting eyes to when a man is broke or whatever the case is he made a very interesting comment under this video that was reposted by The Neighborhood talk and in this video this guy named Lee hamic was talking about toxic Partners who refuse to pay bills likewise when Erica has seen Safari on the scene with you know a new girlfriend or dating another woman you know she's constantly in comparison of her herself to those women you see all the wom he been with hasn't been able to redeem himself since because she's genuinely not happy about the fact that he is able to move on when she's still unable to do so thought it screwing everybody could possibly think of and made it public this conversation is for regular women right who see these um people do these things who who see these certain situations and the moral of the story is don't play yourself don't pay attention to the likes that you're receiving on Instagram from men and and that um equates to you that you have all these options out there and that you could just leave him whenever you want to because somebody going to come to replace him uh you know and do better don't pay attention to the DMS that you get from exes or from potential people who want to be with you and who try to tell you that you don't need to be with that man because they're going to put you in a in a different predicament you don't need to pay attention to any of those things because those things are not set in stone and that is not reality reality is going to hit you where you decide that you're going to leave this relationship with this person who is invested in you to go out there to shaky Waters only to find out that those men was just playing only to find out that they just wanted to sleep with you only to find out that it was just about the chase because you were already in a situation or in a relationship and they are not really going to pick up the torch and take care of you and your children don't play yourself don't let your ego get in the way humble yourself fix it there's going to be es and flows in relationships there's going to be ups and downs everything is not going to be perfect everything is not going to uh be all Glitz and glamy glamour or a Disney fer tale there's going to be things that you go through work through it elevate through it fix it don't be so quick to run for the hills thinking that you're going to find better you might to the hills and ain't nobody there it's just you will you be okay with that i' like to know what you guys think about this in the comment section down below I'd like to know you guys' opinions on this entire conversation on the comparison do you see the similarities do 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