I’m a queer man. Women find me irresistible, here’s why…

hey everyone so I just wanted to jump on here and tell you something that really I needed to hear when I was younger as a queer man growing up and that is that women love you like there are any queer men out there any FM presenting men any men who paint their nouns any men who are bisexual or men who are attracted to women but for some reason fall out of that traditional masculine stereotype I need you to know how attractive you are to women I spent so long living my life in fear and I felt like I had to live up to this masculine stereotype and I want to read you some comments that I get online every single day from women which are really really revealing about how women feel about me okay so I've never thought of myself as sexy I've never thought of myself as like you know a sexy guy or an attractive guy uh to women I've always been down to myself but I express my aarness online in front of thousands of people every day and here are just literally a smattering of comments like literally the the fewest I get these every single day from women okay and I'm an open bisexual queer guy I paint my nails I you know I do drag like okay are you ready okay these are all from women that I get I wish that my exes could have owned themselves as much as you you are a bisexual stud that's that's number two number three queer men who paint their nails are underrated yeah number four I'm a bisexual woman and I want to find a man like you number five you being confident with your femininity and masculinity means that I can open myself up to you next one sis straight guys seem so insecure and IT projects onto women Mark you are my type please marry me call me um next one um this guy is uh this guy is totally my type of a man handsome confident and stable in himself nothing more attractive thank you um we bu women love by guys where are y'all at right as I say that's just a mattering of the comments that I get on a daily daily basis and what I've realized in my life is that when you express yourself in your authenticity when you own everything that you are as a man women will go absolutely nuts for you I cannot stress that enough when we try to fit a stereotype when we look at the guys around us when we look at the traditional archetypes of manhood around around us and we try to emulate that what we're doing is we're abandoning ourselves and it is that abandonment of the self that lack of self-confidence that not being in your own skin that is deeply unattractive to women it's also deeply unattractive to pretty much everyone okay and it's hard like it's really really hard we get told that we have to be a certain way but I cannot stress to you enough like if you can actually be brave and strong and proud and own everything that you are inside as a man everything that you are inside as a man even that stuff that you've been told is is it's not going to be attractive it's going to get you rejected whatever you can own all of that stuff oh my gosh you will shine you will shine you will feel attractive you will feel sexy and there are women out there who will go nuts for you I cannot cannot underline this stuff and it's true not all women will go for that there are plenty of women who aren't into kind of quer presenting guys there are plenty of women who prefer a kind of traditional masculine stereotype whatever that is and that's absolutely fine that's absolutely fine love to those women you know you do your thing there are plenty of guys out there for you that's that's wonderful but there are so many women who are desperate to find a man who is not like that and if all of us are trying to live up to that stereotype then there's there's we're never going to know about those other women who would really appreciate us if we just showed our true self and being online you know I speak to hundreds of women all the time online you know I coach um a lot of que women and and so on like women are so diverse in what they want and what they're attracted to and I just want guys to know that um you won't meet those type of women until you start loving yourself and expressing yourself I even do drag right I do drag and I get dressed up in like a pink leotard and a wig and like sometimes I wear heels and like I wear makeup right couldn't be less traditional bloke right women go crazy for me in Dr like women go crazy for me in Dr like and there are so many aspects of me that get brought out in that that I never knew were sexy to women you know I have really long legs which I always thought oh were unattracted because I was like skinny and lanky and tall and like I wasn't the tough buff guy so many women so many gorgeous women have been like oh your legs are everything that like wow like and and you know I have to B people away I have to bat people away since I have owned my queet I have to bat people away it's it's like I do not say that to um have a big head or anything like that I just genuinely genuinely want want people to know that if you're confident in yourself like people will people will be attracted to you people will be drawn to you um and I think there's something by the way if you want to help with your self-confidence if you want to work with me I provide one-on-one coaching we also have mentoring through um our patreon site um so check the links below and come and I can help you to really realize that self-confidence if that's something you would like um I think a lot of the you know you see these kind of things like um Alpha Male like um you know be the be be the matcho guy um kind of thing like get girls and stuff um there's a lot of kind of training programs for like alpha males and dominant you know and and these are cool but but like the the thing is a lot of the time they they go on this basis of you need to be strong in your masculinity so that a woman can be confident in her femininity and she can trust you to be feminine in your presence you don't want to be feminine because you know then she won't feel um that she's able to right and and there's a lot of toxicity in that kind of space however the point the point can be valid um but people get it totally wrong they think that that that men have to be this archetype of masc linity no here's the truth here's the truth of the matter okay this is really really really important point right when you are a man and you are in the energy of looking at other men and thinking oh I I'm I don't measure up that's you being weak that's the lack of strength right there yeah if you are a man looking at other men and going I have to be like him otherwise I won't be able to get a woman because I depend on getting a woman to validate me as a man that's weakness and let me tell you women going to spot that a mile off you're not confident you're not owning yourself you're not strong so she won't be able to trust you do you see whereas the actual point is about owning you you and that can be really really difficult when we happen to be that kind of guy who maybe like falls out of the mold yeah maybe we're different to the other guys that can be really really difficult but we have to own that version of us and once we own that version of us then we will have that inner strength that inner stability yeah no one can screw with me yeah and that is the thing that women a lot of the time need and that is the the confidence and the trust I couldn't care less what anybody thinks of me and that's why a lot of people find me you know appealing because they're like he's so strong I can feel stable I can feel safe I can feel calm I can feel you know in his presence that is the reality that that is the thing that they're talking about okay it's not about playing football it's not about drinking beer and eating steak and you know going hunting or whatever you can see I I don't know about those things right um it's not about doing any specific thing if you like those things great do those things and love those things and own those things you'll find a beautiful woman who you know loves you for that but if your thing is like painting your nails and dancing and singing and like I don't know crocheting or whatever it is whatever it is that you like as a man whatever it is that you are like own that and don't let anybody tell you any different and you will find the right woman for you the right person of any gender for you if you are trying to be someone else you will attract somebody who wants that but they won't want you and the relationship won't work own you be you and you will attract someone who likes you you will attract a woman who is attracted to your type of masculinity your version of masculin yeah women have told me so often that queer masculinity is so so so hot okay that's what I wanted to say today do you relate with this are you struggling with yourself confidence if you are Come And subscribe come and check out our other content because we've got so much uh on this coming out I thank you for listening let 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