Love Is Blind UK THE REUNION- Just My Opinion. -THE TRUTH HURTS

[Applause] [Music] and you know who else lost Sabrina Sabrina lost but you know what I don't have no sorrow for Sabrina nor stevenh cuz I told y'all from the very beginning that this was not going to work that Sabrina was selfish she was self-centered everything was going to be about her and I already told you that Stephen was not going to make no sacrifices for Sabrina because Stephen already told us who he was when he left that woman with cancer he already told us he was not going to make no sacrifices for no woman and Sabrina went off here thinking that this this man is going to fold his complete life into mine I'mma start this new business in Belfast and he's going to support me she says she fell in love and quit her job girl you quit your job before you fell in love Sabrina stop lying over here you quit your job before you fell in love okay so don't act like you quit your job for Stephen no you quit your job first fell in love and then you asked Stephen to support you probably not only support you emotionally she probably want a little support financially until she can get her business off the ground and Stephen as I told you he's turning out to be a 2.0 Tom I told you Stephen was not going to turn his life around for no Sabrina but she was so hungry to have a man fold into her life she bought a hook line and sinker and um she came up here talking about we was going to split our time between Belfast and London no that's not what Stephen said Stephen never said that Sabrina so I don't know who you talking to um Stephen always said he wasn't leaving London and that y'all was going to spend the first couple of years in London but sabrino here talking about no we going to split our time in between London and Belfast for a year girl no that wasn't the game plan these two was never on the same page I said it from the very beginning what were they talking about in the pod nothing all they were doing was living it up just like Stephen said it was wonder wonderland everything was paid for dates were curated we were in pictures picturesque places Stephen was over here for the free food the free vacations come to find out his gym was going under his clients had left him he was broke and here Sabrina is thinking she going to be quitting her job and he's going to be supporting her financially and he going to move to baell fast girl talk about delusion delusion she said over the time you never even came to Belfast she said she came to London seven times and he came to Belfast only twice but then later on she told Stephen you haven't even seen me for eight months which means if it's been a year since the weddings there was only four months where they even tried to work it out so there this relationship fell apart in four months y'all four months and in that four months Sabrina is saying she came to London 7 times and he only came to Belfast two times well that's six times in in four months so that would mean they're coming and Le seeing each other a couple of times a month what was Sabrina expecting you know what Sabrina was expecting she wasn't expecting a longdistance relationship Sabrina was expecting Stephen to leave London and basically live in Belfast with her that's what she was expecting because if you are aart for four months but you've seen each other what her seven his his one CE or twice that's nine times that seems like a longdistance relationship but that's not what Sabrina signed up for Sabrina won a man who was going to quit his job move to Belfast live with her let her do her career a man that didn't want kids okay all these things she wanted for herself girl Sabrina Sabrina is sounded like a Tom a 2.0 2.0 she want 50/50 she wants 5050 this girl was on the petty train she said you came to London i r in a car for you to go to the gym she said I don't even drink tea and coffee I bought you a French press girl you getting real Petty the the one that told me she was on the petty train first class first class on the petty train was when she said first class on the petty train when she said you wanted an iron board and I bought you an iron board girl you are Petty you about as bad as Tom over here andash talking about I'm not sharing my popcorn at no movie theater she 50-50 girl she keeping track of everything she want to make sure that she's not giving more to the relationship than she's getting out of it like I said this was a bad Notch from the beginning Tom's lip was on the floor his mouth was wide open because he couldn't believe how hard Sabrina was coming at him I can believe it I can believe how hard she was coming at him you know Sabrina want to walk around and talk about how um in all her past relationship remember she was treated so horribly she probably was treated horribly because don't nobody want to be in a relationship with no woman who's counting up everything she does for you who wants to be with a person who keeps a tally I bought you an iron board then I went bought you some starch godamn you running a tab on me she said two B Before Christmas you didn't want to come to Bell fast for Christmas with me well why didn't you take your ass to London what I don't get this Sabrina why didn't you take your butt to London if you want to spend Christmas two days that ain't far that ain't bad you can get to London you can get to London you can get to London in two days Stephen said I couldn't come money was tight money was low I couldn't get there my business my clients was gone Sabrina's like I don't care nothing about that I don't care nothing about that I need you where I need you to be doing what I need you to do regardless Serena don't give a damn about no no one else but herself and and Stephen was over here lying to her soaking up like I said he was lying just like he I told you when he did that thing with that woman with cancer he said when the real world came when the real world came into view he was like with Sabrina I didn't really like it I only liked it when we was at fancy places eating fancy dinners I didn't have to pay for nothing living in fany apartments having sex every day and in picture ex places but once we got to the part where you got a hey bills you got to be accountable to each other you got to be responsible for each other he was like that [ __ ] wasn't fun Sabrina said the real world changed him girl no the real world did not change Stephen the real world exposed him he didn't change Sabrina he was that person before you just didn't see it the real world exposed him it didn't change him those are two different things and she said to him you know what you a man of of many words but you're not a man of your word W anybody ain't going to be a man of their word with Sabrina because according to Sabrina you got to do everything she wants you to do so ain't nobody going to be a man of they were that's why she didn't like none of the men she was with because Sabrina judges you based on how well you comply with what she wants of you if you don't comply with what Sabrina wants then you're going to be a horrible person because she sat up there and talked about stepen like a dog like a dog rough Ruff but you know who's out of the Dog House Jasmine and Bobby Jasmine and Bobby are not in the dog house and Bobby ain't in that dog house with that Mama that Mama saying she 110% love Bobby I know she does I know she does because her daughter wants Bobby and if she want to be in that mama she want to be in that daughter's life she better keep faking it until she makes it even if she don't like them even if she don't like them she better keep faking it until she makes it because let me tell you talk about being the villain of the show that Mama has been a villain of the show and she came on this reunion tightened up she came on this reunion tightened up the way she should be that's right Mama keep it together keep it together because we don't want to hear nothing from you nothing keep faking it until you make it I was really happy to see these two together I was happy to see that they made it um it was just so good to see them jelling together um Jasmine I mean Bobby's like he moved right away to London and seems like he quit that cruise ship job thank you I knew that was the only thing he was going to have to do and he he quit it with quickness he quit it with a quickness I love it Bobby I absolutely love it he said he seen that firecracker Jasmine side but he says you know what I like the fight in her I like the fight in her because what Jasmine is going to do is Jasmine's also gonna fight for this marriage you need a little you need a woman with a little fight in her that means she going to fight for the marriage too so it looks like Jasmine is keeping it under control just enough and Bobby has such a capacity for Jasmine that it's working out really well I love it they're playing in a family they look like they are working on having babies to be honest with you Jasmine looked a little a little a little bit like she could be with child right now and I ain't going to lie Jasmine was glowing and she had the look of pregnancy already but early on in the pregnancy so maybe it's not true but she looked I mean them them breastesses of Jasmine's was sitting up like it was producing some milk I ain't going to lie them breastesses were perking up like it was producing milk already but who knows that's just me she looked beautiful she was glowing I guess that's what happens when you got a man that loves you and is taking care of you so happy for them so so happy for them but another person still not happy is Maria still not happy and Maria spent this whole time trying to villainize Tom for not wanting a life with the life Maria grew up Maria I told y'all Maria doesn't know cornerstones of marriages and I don't know why she's still putting down Tom for not wanting the life she wants nothing's wrong with that of him not wanting the life Maria and just because he says he wants to raise daughters who he wants to go out into the world and not rely upon the man to pay her bills doesn't mean he's insulting your family just like I say hey I'm the type of woman that would want to work I like going to work every day doesn't mean that I am villainized in or I'm putting down or insulting stay-at-home moms that's not what I'm saying there's values in both people but I'm saying what is my preference for my life what Tom is saying is the preference for him is that he wants to raise girls maybe the next president of the United States maybe he wants to raise the next president of the United States what's wrong with him saying that that's a woman who likes to go out and work that's a woman who may not necessarily depend on a man to pay her bills that doesn't mean that he's insulting all the women at home now don't get me wrong I knew who Tom was from the very beginning Tom is not a giver he's not a giver and that's okay but what I didn't like was I didn't like that Maria was trying to put him down so much for it that part I didn't like I was very aare who Tom was what I didn't like about Tom was he didn't realize who he was and instead the reason why he was with Maria was because he wanted to received from Maria that's what I didn't like about Tom I don't have a problem with a person saying they want to be 50/50 that's fine then go find you a 50-50 person Tom need to run over there and get with Sabrina or Tom need to run over there and get with Tosh either one of them what I didn't like about Tom is that he's a 50-50 person but he went after a woman who didn't want 50/50 because what he wanted from Maria was he wanted to receive from Maria and Maria in a lot of ways made Tom believe that she was a different woman if had shown from the very beginning who she really was Tom would have never chosen her see but Maria hid who she was and then when Tom told her I don't like who you are you're a makeup artist you're not career Orient or you don't have a high power career you're not um you're not into higher education you know Academia um and you also want to be a stay-at-home mom those aren the things he values he said I grew up with a single mom who worked and went to work every day and I really never saw a man taking care of a woman so maybe that's the reason I've come to conclusions where I am why I don't want that for my life but that doesn't mean I'm putting you down Maria but Maria made this whole thing personal to be about her and her whole family girl Tom didn't say nothing about your family he talked about what he wanted for his life and what he wanted for his children and it didn't line up with what you wanted for your life and what you wanted for your children she tried to villainize Tom I didn't really like that she should have just said you know what I should have told Tom more who who I was from the beginning and then Tom would have never chosen me instead of not telling Tom who she was and then once Tom rejected her being mad n Maria that's on you girl that's on you Tom was very apologetic he said he showed some very ugly Behavior he was she said that there was some words he wish he could have taken back but I'm telling you he might want to take back the way he said things but he's not taking away the mindset Tom is who he is and he and every woman just needs to know who he is there's a woman for time out there there is absolutely a woman it's just not Maria and and Tom is not the man for Maria Maria go find the man you say you want just be honest with that man up front so you don't keep attracting men based on one thing but they really don't want the life you want be honest be honest upfront like I said the truth hurts but let me tell you it's better to tell the truth in the beginning because then you can save yourself from the heartache on the back end Maria wasn't truthful Demi wasn't truthful these people weren't truthful from the beginning Sabrina wasn't truthful and because they weren't truthful with themselves and didn't know who they are they picked wrong Partners they picked wrong Partners know thyself be honest with thyself that way you can present yourself truthfully and don't be afraid of rejection rejection just means that the man is able to reject you because you're showing up authentically and he's telling you that who you are authentically is not who I want because if you fake it till you make it once he finds out who you are he's still going to reject you he re Steven rejected Sabrina okay Tom rejected Maria Ali rejected Demi because these ladies were not showing up authentically who they were they really weren't and these men were here to get something from these women because the women weren't truthful Steven was there to receive from Sabrina cuz Sabrina started acting like she's this woman that was willing to be compromise and fold into step's life no she wasn't once he found out she wasn't willing to fold into his life he dropped her he dropped her Ali was not interested in Demi Tom didn't once Tom figured out who the real Maria was he dropped her too this is the story this is the story but we still got a happy Endy from banayan Nicole and it looks good y'all I'm happy for him it looks good it seems as if Banas says I'm hippy I'm hippy Nicole just a little a little bit they are getting along swimmingly swimmingly and um I like these two together they are doing a wonderful wonderful job remember the only part that I said what they would have to do is that um banay was going to have to step up a little bit he was going to have to step up a little bit and you know what never ever happened on this show the production team never asked bayah what's he doing for living now um they were respectful of this marriage they protected this marriage and what it's really what they should have done so now that you know you have a couple that's together they're happily married what's the point of digging in so deep that you create a rift in this couple so I respect the production team for not really going in on these questions with Baya Nicole because you know what whatever it is it is they left alone the fact that we still don't know what bayah does um has bayah really gotten a real job is he back in London sounds like it is he working is he building L cabins in the middle of the city of London they didn't even go into it cuz that was our concern could could um Bia stopped being a nomad we didn't even get an answer to it the most important question they never asked you know why they didn't ask it they didn't want to touch it with a 10ft pole the other thing that they didn't want to touch I know a lot of you want to believe that Sam was lying about Nicole want to sleep with him but it wasn't a lie I don't believe it but I think what they did was out of the respect of the marriage between Nicole and bah they didn't bring it up but you know who brought it up Nicole uh production wasn't going to ask or call Sam to the carpet and say sam why did you lie and say that um Nicole wanted to sleep with you when it wasn't the truth you know why production didn't bring it up they didn't ask a question because they know what happened they know what happened and they weren't going to bring it up because why would you bring that up to a married woman with a married man and they're happily married now if they were a part if B Nicole had made it they absolutely would have brought it up but they're not going to touch it so they didn't bring it up in the question it wasn't on no Q cards for those hosts and hostesses but you know who brought it up Nicole did and you know why she brought it up she brought it up because when it was brought up in the actual television show she never did deny it not only to Sam when he said it to her face she didn't deny it even to bayah and I'm quite sure that affected bayah because bayah really wants to know did his wife want to sleep with this man and Nicole's a married woman now and what she said was I'mma bring it up and I'm going say um yeah yeah and when you were trying and and and so Nicole brought up and said to Sam yeah when you were trying to say you slept with me uh uh that was hurtful and she said oh yeah and a lie girl you should have land with the lie if someone lied on me like that I would have been like that was a lie Not only would I said it was a lie when he said it to my face I would have said it was a lie when he said it to my husband and I would have said it a lie here first off and said no that was a lie I would have said that was a lie and it was hurtful but I want to start with the hurt because what she was starting with was which was the real emotion which was it was hurtful that he revealed it and then after he said it and he said uh yeah um yeah okay he never said yeah I lie he apologized he apologized because he shouldn't have said it he shouldn't have revealed it and when he apologized she looked over at Sam I mean she looked over at her husband bah and said see see girl I'm going give Sam a few points he saved a married woman which he should he saved a married woman and he realized I've been villainized so badly I've been villainized so badly out here what good would it be for me to tell Nicole to her face right now it wasn't a lie um you made the right choice Sam you just went ahead and took the bullet which is what you should do because you've been villainized so bad rightfully so um that there's no reason for you to sit here now and put and further put down a married woman in front of her husband production company already didn't want to touch it with a 10-ft pole they were never going to ask the question or bring it up but Nicole had to bring it up the reason why Nicole had to bring it up because it's been a lingering thing in the relationship with bah she had to make sure her husband believed the story that no she didn't do that but I'm pretty sure she did it you know else I know she did it because what um Demi and Ali told us what Ali said on the Jessie woo um interview was that in between the idus and the meeting in Greece they don't actually see each other so um that means there was concerted effort for um there was a concerted effort for Nicole to see Sam that's when I think it happened no one else was seeing each other they they they met each other in the pods and the next time they were meeting was in Greece but we know from what we know from what Nicole said she made a concerted effort to meet up with with old boy Sam and I believe that's when all that went down because what she wanted to do was she needed to get her physical validation affirmation but I'm going leave it alone she's a married woman no need for me to keep going on about it it worked out the way it worked out and it worked out the way it should work out and she's happy and I'm happy because I like to see I I like when love wins and these two honestly look very very much in love and they look very very very happy together knew it wouldn't and Katherine came on here trying to save a little bit of face herself she wanted to make sure uh that she said she took accountability for what went on in this relationship and she agreed that their lifestyles are different she stopped trying to play as if that wasn't her lifestyle because we already know that Katherine lives at home with her mom and dad so she spends all her money on going out she spent all her money on going out she at home not paying no bills and every bit of money she makes she spends it on going out she said you know what y I was a little bit Snappy and she's working on it she say she's learning some things from Jasmine uh she's learning some things for lots of different people she said she's going to go away and become a better person because she got villainized out on these streets too rightfully so hey confronted Freddy on why you buy those earrings why you buy that wreath for Catherine's grave when you buried her with your no he was like well I did it because I didn't want to look bad and it seemed like um it will be frowned upon let me tell you Freddy knows all the right things to do even if he didn't really feel the sentiment behind those earrings he was going to send some flowers you know when you can't show up to a funeral somebody said well let me at least send some flowers he said I ain't going to marry this girl but let me at least get her some earrings I'm sure we'll probably see Freddy or maybe even cat or some other show love Island love match I don't know I wouldn't be surprised if they showed up on another show they seem like other the people on this show they seem like some people maybe you could uh move forward and put them on another show who knows maybe they're even queuing up Demi to be on another show I don't know uh because like I said that was a rigged fight that fight was fixed but anyway that's it y'all let me know what you think about uh the reunion how you like like it drop down in the comments talk to you 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