a lot of people have used some variation of the phrase I used to like you until on me throughout my life I used to like you until you told me how you voted or I used to like you until you told that joke or I used to like you until you got food coloring all over our apartment from popsicles that were mine in the first place I know you apologized but you posted a YouTube video you made dancing around with them called it's popsicle time just minutes later which made the apology mean a lot less okay that last one might have been Fair sorry Amelia I really am there are of course many legitimate reasons to write people off what is never a good reason though is on behalf of a partisan political power scheme that cares nothing for you other than as a pawn for its own ends this scheme has unfortunately been increasingly successful blinded by outrage we're missing the reality that it's rarely if ever as simple as one team versus another