welcome home Devin howdy you Jen I love that it's cute as hell wow did you know that they were going to do that I have no no they don't even do that for like my birthday that's definitely my mom's idea she's the best I can't to meet her Jen and I are about to walk in to meet my family and I'm not going to lie I'm I'm super nervous In This Moment you know I I didn't get to do this with my last uh relationship and it's not something that I ever thought I would be doing anytime soon and lo and behold here we are okay H me again yes so meeting yes so you're going to have my mom Jennifer yes my dad Teo it's much longer than that but just call him Teo uh my grandfather Gary okay my grandmother philis my brother Pierce and I believe that's it your step out is here oh my stepdad Tod oh my God I forgot him completely look that's how nervous I am okay you know I haven't introduced a girl to the family in 10 years so I'm scared for sure you you know I'm a strong person but I'm going to need to lean on you in there you can always lean on me I just want everything to go right and I don't want to let myself down and I don't want to let them down in these moments because I have let them down before especially with my choices and women and you know this is something that I'm proud of and I just want it to go right hello what's going on oh my gosh who better than me to love you love you love you this is Jen hi everybody this is Jen this is my grandmother Devin expresses all the time how unconventional his family is and how untraditional it is and he was nervous coming into today but his family coming all together for him and for us means so much it's so nice to meet you hi Papa how are you how are you doing meet nice to meet you hi Mama family is so important to him and so getting his family's approval is huge so I am nervous meeting his family I I loved the sign outside yes that was such a nice surprise yeah we've missed you so much we've had quite the journey crazy Journey it has been we've been all over the world M where'd you go well we went to uh Melbourne Australia yeah awesome you want to take the reins on these on that one um so have you guys heard of Thunder Down Under in AUST Vegas yeah yeah my dad knows he put on a little show for himself oh we did like a whole strip show it was it was the most dude it was why does that not surprise me you know what's going to you're you're going to be surprised at what I wore nothing oh no I he wor he wore he wore a g- string he wore something don't don't say that very as little as they could possibly let me wear I am feeling so excited to have Jen here and to meet her she seems super genuine super sweet I could see the Jitters between both of them but in a good way the happy Jitters the um the giddiness but of course I want to make sure her intentions are sincere that would probably be my number when concern and then that was our last group date right but that night you opened up to me about some things and de got the group date rose that night I did it was intense a very nervous experience for me but Jen really helped me pull through and um Jen has been that person who has been there for me and and that was a huge deal for me I can see the chemistry between both of them I'm excited I'm a little nervous Deon you want to chat yeah let's do it once I talked to Deon and talked about certain concerns we'll see what happens after that how are you feeling how are you feeling in all this process um I I told her I'd fallen in love with her but I I I'm pretty sure I love her at this point you know and I'm not scared to say that to you I'm scared to say that to her of course um but she's she is a person that I do see the rest of my life with but I don't want to tell her I love her and then for her to turn around and tell somebody else that she loves them too yeah that's that's a scary part you know we we haven't been the luckiest family with relationships yeah you say yeah you say that again and I've seen Mom struggle I've seen you struggle and Pierce I mean everybody everybody everybody you know like everybody here is is gone through some some something in life yeah and for me I want so hard for it to be different this time and I don't want to be wrong you know I know you guys want the best for me but I just want you to be honest and and and and let me know if there's anything that I'm missing the only concern I have because it's it's there's other guys around and I don't know I don't know the other guys I know you yeah I know you and I know what you're capable of I I know what you do so yeah that's the only thing that kind of worries me a little bit and I don't want you to get to the end and then have your heartbroken yeah you know my dad is is a realist he's somebody that I I rely on when it comes to this kind of stuff but I think that I'd be lying if I said I wasn't worried about telling her I love her because I don't want her to turn around and tell that to somebody else that's something that scares me when I say I love you I want to know that I'm the only one so I got to ask a question um what makes Devon special he is so emotionally intelligent so himself so confident and you know Devon has talked to me a lot about the way he grew up and his family and it's not the most traditional and we related a lot on that because I grew up in a similar different way um my parents are also divorced and I don't have a relationship with my dad at all and it was very tumultuous growing up and Devon and I just shared a lot of similarities and how we felt about the way we grew up and what we've learned from it and he's spoken so highly of you thank you so much yes and I you know I I it took me a while to get to my love story and you know I didn't always modeled the best relationships for Devon and Pierce and being a single mom for so many years it was it was challenging um but I really put my focus in them and you know and then now here I am you know I've found my love story with Todd his stepdad and I think Deon really appreciates seeing that that you know how happy I am but it hasn't always been easy for him absolutely Devon's mom is so resilient and she's still so optimistic having gone through everything that she's gone through and definitely reminds me a lot of my mom and how much she loves me and how resilient my mom is too so do you feel like you're you're fallen for him where's your heart in all of this yeah so Devon and I have expressed to each other that we are falling for each other um he told me he was falling for me before I did and I'm not the most emotional person and it took me a couple weeks to get there but I just really felt like we've gotten to a point in our relationship where I feel so strongly for him and can really see a future with him he has a lot of love to give yeah but of course I don't want to see Devon get his heartbroken I know there are three other guys so I know you're in a difficult spot but I hope that you know Devon is a shining star and all of this I could see Jen as part of our family but it does make me nervous that there are three other guys in this same situation as Devon and if he's not the one that Jen chooses his heart could potentially be broken and I worry about that for him how was your how was your conversation it went well so how are you feeling it it has been a very weird experience for me mhm so I don't know I'm just looking for some motherly advice about this whole process well I would I will say that um I you know I want to make sure your intentions are sincere and your heart's in the right place I've been to places with this girl in my heart and in my soul that I've never been with with anyone else right so it does scare me you know that that I feel this way about this girl and I want it to work so bad but you know it bothers me that there's other people still involved I can't stand that I I can't sit to here and and tell you that I'm fine with that I'm not not at all I know you talked about you know feeling a certain way with her how are you feeling do you feel like you're falling in love no I love her are you already in love with I love her I love her and this I think is the first time that I'm in Love For Real have you told her you love her okay I'm scared to tell her I don't like the idea of saying I love you to somebody and then that being turned around and being said somewhere else well and that's going to be my advice if you're feeling that way don't hold back I think you need to tell her that you love her and especially because there are other guys involved you're not going to be the one if you don't yeah yeah you're my hero thank you de I love you m i love you I love you so much I love you too I do I think sometimes Devon can be reserved so that he doesn't get his heart hurt but as a mom I want Devon to have that happy future and his own love story that I know he could very well have he needs to take that risk he needs to go all in and open up to her and share those feelings with her and let her know that he is in love with her good night bye see you later if he really really wants to be the one he's got to take that risk and and share with her how he's feeling oh she's so cute is she she's so cute I love her oh my I had so many fears coming into today I don't know why I think it's cuz I've I've felt a certain way about you for a while and you know I told myself so many things walking into this [Music] moment Jen I told myself that I was you know not going to walk in here and and make assumptions based off of the situation and how I feel but don't care anymore I love you I love you D I need you to know that okay I'm so happy and dein loves me makes me feel really Giddy and excited and happy and it's a really good feeling you want you know I'm falling so hard for you and even with today just feel like my feelings have grown exponentially more for you and I feel like I got to know even more about you and a different side of you and it's just it's unreal I feel like you're not even real I'm a real person you can touch me I feel like you're not real I want you to know that I really do see a future with you I love that right now I'm feeling ecstatic I'm excited but I'm also like you know to finally be able to just say what I've been feeling I feel like you know weight's been lifted off my shoulders in a sense today was the best day the best day I'm going to miss you I'm going to miss you too but guess what I'll see you again really soon okay okay I've never been this happy with a woman and I feel like I couldn't get everything I've ever wanted in my life