Samantha jeffri known for her appearance on Bachelor in Paradise has turned a challenging experience into a positive lesson during the show Jeff faced a medical crisis after being unable to have a bowel movement for 12 days leading to her early exit and hospitalization this unexpected notoriety has inspired her to co-author a children's book titled Sam can't poop aiming to normalize bathroom issues for kids Jeff an occupational therapist works with many children who struggle with bathroom related anxieties she and her co-author Carling Gwyn had already considered writing a book on the subject before her reality TV experience after the show they saw it as a sign to proceed with the project the book which releases on August 27th uses jeffy's own experience to help children feel more comfortable with bathroom challenges on the show Jeff bonded with fellow contestant Aaron schwarzman who she included as a character in her book although their romance didn't last they remain close friends Jeff who first appeared on Clayton eard season of The Bachelor has since moved on and is now dating someone she met on hinge