Bachelorette Star Called Out By Ex For Leading Her On - Second Woman Comes Forward?! [SPOILERS]

Intro hello everybody it's Dave Neil standup comic and host of Bachelor Nation news in this video we have an ex of a current cast member of The Bachelorette speaking out and it looks like there may be several x's and there are receipts that accompany the X uh brevity is not a virtue here there are very long videos to go through so I'm going to discuss all of them uh and what is actually going down uh audiences tend to love videos like this because we love Justice and uh in some cases those that speak out um do so for their own clout or purposes like that I don't see that with this person she seems really sweet the one I'm looking at right here she seems really sweet and she seems like she was kind of just she seems I don't I don't want to say naive as if it was her fault but it seems as though she expected more from this man than she got and feels um you know ripped off which stinks you know what I mean so we're going to get into it right now there's plenty of Sam Mckin layers to this story uh and we do want to credit Reality Steve of course for being front and center to all of this so I'm going to play a clip of what he's had to say about this the contestant is named Sam mckin he received the first impression Rose which is you know pretty big deal um Ray let's see rayy Loren is the lady she has her first video and then a second video and then a third video and then Reality Steve also discusss um you know that there may be another lady involved so what could have gone down um I want to play the first video it's in its entirety for you but I'm telling you right now it is long like biblically long like the uh the the The Art of War you know kind of like the ilad uh you know it's very it's a very it's an odyssey folks it's an odyssey I will say this and it is no it is no disrespect to Ray Lee a good story starts with a strong thesis statement let me tell you about the time I defeated a bear in uh in you know Camp Pendleton okay oh what my gosh and then we're just waiting we're invested she doesn't provide much of a thesis for the story so I will because when I watched this I was like one minute in and I was like is she going to get to the point um and no she doesn't really but God bless her um because you know no one's asking her to be a perfect Storyteller she feels like she was wronged so I'll give the thesis here is a lady who's going to explain to you why she feels like Sam went on The Bachelorette for the wrong reasons I'll play a little bit of it Story Time okay story time I went to Nashville for my best friend's bachelorette party and ended up meeting this guy at a bar um we hit it off all night and um so already she's lost me it's 20 seconds and all right Tik Tock has a certain energy level like let's go so she meets a guy at a bar Nashville they hit it off they exchange numbers she then goes to a wedding in Texas with him so they're actually together they're doing their dang thing right um she actually has another real where she explains oh this is the guy cuz people started to call her out you know uh the comment section was kind of brutal I was one of them I said boy maybe his love language is brevity you know what I mean just because it was like a very long story um someone said I fell asleep woke up fell asleep again you're still talking he might just have gotten tired of you saying um dear Lord I'm worn out spit it out woman okay so again uh wish Laura did that um so again it is no knock on her she really does seem like a sweet person it's just a long story it's eight minutes long let's go to the last 20 seconds yeah I always say this is my luck so I This is my luck mean life sucks at times but but it goes on all right it does go on and so does this Tik Tock video but either way I hate it I I would I would warn her she's a young lady I would warn her when you say oh this is just my luck if it wasn't for bad luck I'd have none at all you are bringing more of that negative energy into your life um for whatever reason you're you you trusted this guy and he turned out to not deliver according to her story so her story as she shared was that he kind of started pulling away from her for no reason like they were going good until they weren't and then she found out he auditioned to be on The Bachelorette and then was on The Bachelorette um so the there's another lady to that story which we'll get to in a second but her second No one believed her reel was this where no one believed her I realize that this is a hater coming onto my page but one thing I'm not doing is making something up so we're going to prove that point now I believe her this is me and my best friend in Nashville for her bachelorette party the guy standing behind me whose hat I'm wearing is about to start looking a little familiar this is us later on that night This Is Us in Texas for the wedding he flew down for um sorry these photos are a little blurry my mom was taking them and the reveal of who it is and the last sedding photo this is him in Dallas when he came down and then this is the last photo we ever took in Myrtle Beach now here's what the truth probably is and it then that doesn't mean it's a good thing the truth probably is is that he found her to be hot and enjoyed being with her but she wasn't going to be someone he wanted to settle down with he wanted to go on the show to further whatever sort of thing was going to feed who he is and he didn't have the communication skills to communicate those expectations to her maybe he was a people pleaser and told her everything she needed to hear now is that wrong yes it's wrong to lead somebody on absolutely um maybe he didn't maybe he liked her and again I'm not I'm not saying this to make excuses for him maybe he liked her and didn't know if he was going to get on the batch R so he wanted to wait to see how it all played out I'm not sure here's what Reality Steve had to say about the matter and that's up on realitysteve.com so you can check that out but one of the things that I put in there and one of the things that I mentioned on Sunday night was the fact that Sam knew and producers knew that he had to be home for his sister's wedding cuz he was the officient of it and it's actually out there on social media like the day Facebook announced the 28 possible men for genen season if you look you know how they put all the guys pictures out and then everybody can comment what ever they want under Sam's picture now it might have been deleted I've had this screenshot for three months they might have gone in and deleted their comments but Sam's brother-in-law Ed wrote under one of wrote Under the Picture best dude I know can't wait couple other people commented Sam's the man hope he wins and then some guy said can we place bets on him I'm trying to retire this year which Ed responds Ed is Sam's brother-in-law he'll have to leave the show to come marry Olivia and I in Costa Rica so we can scheme something there LOL now this is in my so I'm not considering this a spoiler because so let me let let me break this down to you I I truly don't even remember who Steve says wins you know so that this that's not what this video is about is there a scenario where they would let a guy leave the show to go to his family's wedding and then come back to the show if Jen's really into him I believe so um if you're if you're um this guy's Sam and you're like look I really want to go on the show you guys finish taping on May 16th I've got to officiate my brother's wedding on May 10th I'm sure with two or three months notice they could say all right well if she is one of the finalists that if if you're it if you're the guy go do the wedding officiate it live your life and then come back I don't see that that being that being a problem for them to make way for someone who would be the finalist if that is what's happened again I don't even know so this that's why I'm not labeling this a spoiler because I don't know how it goes uh but either way uh first impression winners do very well on the show so he's been doing good on the show um but we've got the third video here from and again I I'll just play like a like it's it's it's hard to truncate this 8 minute long video but um you know I'll just play another clip clip from it pasted and I Second clip knew about his past and um yeah we just that was my person at the time and [Music] um uh I ended up going back to Texas and we were planning a trip to see each other again because obviously we really love liked each other and I say like but y'all can read the room um so you know talks about that you know they're intimate and you know all that jazz so anyway here's her update here's I believe the final update let me know in the chat room here on patreon if there's more to the story I think this is her Final update final update so I just woke up um and got dressed but I'm going to do my makeup and talk a little bit about the video that I posted did last night if y'all are going to come on here and hate on me don't even watch the video it's probably going to be long I take a long time to talk about stuff all right so this is a five minute long video I'm going to play all of it in its entirety I'm going to sit back and watch it with you I'm not going to I'm not going to pause it I may comment but I won't pause it I'm going to kick my legs up stuff that I was trying to be respectful and not give out too much details of what happened so that's the reason why there's a lot of ANS and Ms and I'm again I'm not an influencer so let's get into it I know y'all would have came from my throat if I wouldn't have explained I need that hair product all of the story on how we met um and I feel like I did a pretty good job of letting y'all know like a timeline and I tried to put details in there that I thought were important I'm not a perfect human being though and obviously I'm not an influencer the way I talk the ANS the butts the ums it just kind of goes with it posting the video I didn't mean to cause hate on his side that's not why I posted the video um regardless of what anybody thinks and I don't mean to bash him I know some of my friends are not going to like that I say that but I don't I I solemnly just posted that video so people know the truth we get it okay and I feel like that's something else that I'm going to get hated on for is actually speaking up and saying what happened no no no hate someone's going to come on here and say you're just trying to stay relevant obviously he's moved on from you he went on The Bachelorette whatever I appreciate I appreciate you some of you haters y'all literally comment mean stuff on my post and then you'll go and follow me and not just follow me on my Tik Tok but y'all go and follow me on my Instagram yeah they suck make it make sense they won't make sense there was a comment that said it was just an extended booty call no like sorry no that's just completely wrong um but it does make me laugh I don't know about y'all but I would not be spending a crap ton of money on plane tickets to go see a booty call also on that topic I wouldn't let a booty call go and see my parents good point and I'm sure he wouldn't either another comment that I saw was I was expecting you to see all right I will pause it I mean she's got a good point uh you know I've I've had casual relationships with people that didn't meet my parents were pregnant not pregnant um I don't even know where like some of this comes from look it's just that you go viral like this and you're going to get these people you know people try to be funny they try to be rude whatever uh but um you look great I'm happy you're sharing your story and I'm sorry for the hate you've received I also want to point out that I have been in talking situations before and this was not like that I did my mascara off camera cuz I didn't want to give yall a front row seat to the inside of my nose but I want to talk about the time frame of when all this happened we talked for 6 months prior to him letting me know that he was going on this show um I knew he was going to film for the show 3 days before he left wow um and I know that some of y'all are going to come on here and say Grill you should have left by talking to a man for 6 months there's a reason why I was fine with it and that reason he does talk belt on the show so I feel like it's fine for me to stay on here he was engaged before I met him they broke their engagement off 4 months prior to me meeting him I found out about him being engaged by his Instagram um he did not come and tell me that so that was another thing that was kind of um a shocker to me now don't go hating on him because you'll have to remember we did meet in a bar so that's not something that you bring up to a girl you met in a bar because half the time I would say honestly nine times out of 10 the bar stuff doesn't work so at the end of the day I know it's a crazy story and again I don't wish any hate upon him um people make mistakes do I think that was a mistake yes um but that's really easy for me to say on my side of things you know you never know what people are going through you don't know the inside of somebody else's mind so just be kind just so I just woke up hold just be kind hold I got to got to get back up oh we're working we're live all right just be kind and by the way yeah I mean how sweet is it right here she said someone says I feel like if others knew how to communicate effectively they would have realized the um was your attempt to be intentional with your words and processing which is how it should be yeah look this is somebody who comes off very genuine to me um you know am I good at reading these types of things yeah I think so I think so I think I can tell when someone's just trying to get out there for the clout versus someone who's like man this guy fooled me like for a long time you know let's say she's I don't know 25 let's say she's been in the dating world for 10 years I don't know um so he takes away six months of her life and then the time afterwards where you you know you you have the baggage you're dealing with it it stinks and maybe he was scarred from his previous relationship I don't know how far that goes Reality Steve is kind of talking about that as new people are coming out uh there was a little bit of information here on um the page here um uh you can see this on Reddit but this was all this was from reality Steve's um excuse me here this is from reality Steve's uh a Blog um about the third person uh that was there um let me see if I can find out who she was uh someone Ste so I'm still talking to him now I've hooked up with him since he got back from filming let's swap stories they really I their timelines overlap so that's two that we know about if we honestly think there are the only two women that this guy was talking to and or hooking up with during this application process um so I guess there's someone else who came forward and said they were hooking up with him after he returned um again I don't know there's a lot to dig through there um as far as these types of stories go this seems like the one that's the most scattered just because there's a lot of information coming out um if I can find a better way to tell the story I will I am now officially labeling this as a spoiler uh thread because we don't know um the uh I should say um uh we don't know if this guy Sam is single or not so just to be safe I'm going to call it a spoiler but I really don't know uh no nor do I really care to be quite honest but I do wish her well and I I think what happens is she felt the need to share her story fans poked and prodded she felt the need to elaborate and that's what got us to where we are today um so who is this other person and is their story wortht telling if we get in for more information I'll make another video about it or I'll cover it on this afternoon's podcast the rush hour with Dave Neil you 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