Jaebabylacy: COLLEGE ADVICE FOR YOUNG BLACK GIRLS ! Follow me!

feel like such a [ __ ] loser because it's like everywhere I [ __ ] go I feel like I can never like find friends or anywhere it's like I don't want to go home so this beautiful young girl is a freshman in college and she's basically talking about how she feels basically isolated like she doesn't have friends she doesn't know how to make friends and I'm going to give her some advice it could be your school don't be afraid to explore other options you know she was saying how you know she feel like she might not have friends anywhere but that may not be true sometimes you can be at the wrong School putting yourself out there seems scary but it's a necessity that you're going to have to learn now if you go to a pwi find the black student union I promise that's going to be your first step to finding a good at least one good friend if you go to a HBCU there are always things going on on campus where you need to figure out okay what do you want to do what is your like interest and then go look around on your campus I'm sure there's somebody or someone who can guide you and say okay here's a program you know here's a club here and that's what you need to be focused on Church groups always a great place to find friends you have to leave your room you have to leave your dorm room you cannot I know you feel isolated but you need to go try things and go meet people that's the only way you're going to gain friends and truth is you really only need to gain one cuz once you gain one and and try to gain one that's outgoing cuz if you gain one that's outgoing then that's all you need cuz she going to introduce you to this person and that person and hey this like hey this is my girl W and and then you go you ain't got to do the work she go do the work for you you're a freshman this is supposed to be the best year you know what I mean but you got to try you know I know you say you don't want to go home because your parents they gave you grief about going out of state and look if it's the wrong school for you don't be ashamed to say that go home try to school nearby maybe that will be a better school but just try to get through the year be genuine be real people will gravitate towards you don't think so hard into it you're not a loser you know what I'm saying at the end of the day it's a lot of people that struggle to make friends even when I was in college the first group I was friends with I fell out with them I was aone body and I found another group and that's just what it was I found other friends genuine friends my closest friends now and sometimes it just takes putting yourself in uncomfortable situations but it's worth it