Selena Gomez FINALLY EXPOSES THE TRUTH!!!!!!

hello best friend and welcome welcome back to my channel I hope you guys are all having the most incredible day this is the first time that you're watching my channel my name is Sebastian and I welcome you all with open arms I spill pop culture tea videos every single day so if you're looking for a new messy best friend you have found me all right best friends so today we are starting off the week off so strong because Selena Gomez she is on the cover and the story for vanity fairs octo oober issue she opened up a a lot girls she opened up a lot she dropped some bombs um one in particular is I believe must have been so difficult for her to talk about I did a whole separate video on this because I thought it was important and it was about her not being able to carry her own child and I decided to do a separate video because I feel like we have to talk a lot about it but I will say this in this video I'm so proud of her for opening up and for speaking on this so let's just jump into this best friend um it says here Selena Gomez on her best Ro yet and romance with Benny Blanco quote I've never been this Loved Before okay so it says here her speaking voice is a famously soothing low hum to say it's unmistakable would be putting it mildly you try going incognito sounding like Selena Gomez quote yeah it doesn't work she tell tells me which is you know the reporter literally one time I was in line for something I was fully in Disguise and I was talking to someone I don't even remember what I said and then the woman in front of me goes my God it's you I thought I heard your voice that was years ago I was like oh God what do I sound like to people and then I also feel so silly once I get busted Gomez has long since given up on wigs and hats as cloaking devices in the 25 years since she debuted on Barney and Friends at the age of seven she's actually tried to let go of every kind of Disguise and be the same person in public and private it's a gutsy Endeavor for someone who thanks to Instagram has the slightly scary sounding distinction of being the most followed woman on Earth for 3 years Gomez has been part of the delicious hit series only murders in the building and she's just given the rawest performance of her career in the audacious movie musical Emelia it is gomez plays a Mexican drug Lord's terrified but widely resourceful wife when the movie hits theaters in November her work will surprise the many many people who didn't know what a fear Fury actor she could be we first met in Los Angeles at the makeup company she founded rare Beauty it's a slow gray afternoon but rare beauty is flushed with positivity from the product names lipstick in Shades like worthy and strong eyes Shadow STS called integrity and well-being to the little slogans on the bathroom mirrors like find comfort and being rare it's all completely in Earnest and the company's products are seriously good as the rewards rare beauty is reportedly worth two billion dollar Gomez's office is bath in white bathe in white pink and red it's a bouquet of a space when I come in she's surrounded by The Smiling California team that keeps her carefully calibrated days as a movie star TV Star Pop Star Beauty executive and mental health Advocate on track there's a laptop on the desk a script for Amelia Perez and a list of questions for a famous friend she met through Taylor whom she's interviewing for something later there are personal momentum moment momentums momentos there too like family photos and a note from 11-year-old sister Gracie she's funny Gomez warmly um says warmly she picks up the note and reads it out loud hey [ __ ] I love you so much the next time I'm here can we do each other's makeup and make a get ready with me Tik to the moment totally tracks Gomez's friend and Amelia pz co-star Zoe Zana tells me later I don't fit well in cires circles where people only want to talk about themselves h Selena's not like that she says she'll show you 300 pictures of her little sister and parents and grandparents when Gomez's team flies out she settles on a couch uh files out she settles on a couch the color of molded wine she looks cozy and hail in a denim Free People jumpsuit and ug slippers her skin is a glow her hair voluminous she is like some other stars of her magnitude much more slight in a in person her features right delicate Gomez redid rare Beauty's office last year and shared a carousel of photos with her 425 million followers on Instagram at the time of our interview she's taking a break from the app but hasn't announced it to her fans the selenators because she has a habit of dramatically announcing social media breaks then logging back on less than 24 hours later to post a selfie or leave a common somewhere it's one of her move a more aggressively relatable habits this inability to resist the apps after boldly saying she's done with them she says I learn not to say that anymore she dead pans right now she's trying to quietly enjoy her time in the analog world I've been loving it she says calmly I've been working out I've been taking care of myself it's the first time I've had a break in a little bit so I feel good there's no shortage of things to feel good about Gomez recently snagged an Emmy nomination for best actress in a comedy for only murders her first ever acting nod despite working steadly for two decades she says I freaked out I went to dinner with my friends that night maybe the voters saw something in the past season that they hadn't seen before Gomez also became the most nominated Latina producer ever in the best comedy C category thanks to the series she had no idea she was about to set a record quote when I heard that I felt like I made my dad's side of the family proud she says it was really cool to have that be a part of my story I'm grateful for breaking barriers hopefully this is not a one-time thing Gomez's father Ricardo Joel Gomez is American it's Mexican Aman he and her mother the former actor Mandy tii who whom Gomez had credited with steering her through some daunting poverty early on and inspiring her career named her after the Deano icon Selena and raised her in a Grand Prairie Texas it's EMP it's empowering and it's el el girl it's eleviating eleviating it's like a I'm I'm so eled is it the leave girl whatever Zana says of seen Gomez make history as a Latina when you meet her you get the sense that she is owning her growth and owning her life and her voice I'm grateful that our paths have crossed um the two of them men in Paris on the set of Emelia PES a bold heartfelt and Visually Lush Spanish language musical that's about to have an eventful award season of its own the film was written and directed by jais jackes Alward it stars Spanish actor Carla Sophia gason in the titler role a brutal Mexican GED leader who kidnaps a lawyer aldana to offer her a job coordinating secret gender confirmation surgery to the king pin can transmission and leave her old life behind gomez plays Jesse Perez's dormant volcano of a wife she's a lonely young woman and the mother of their two children who's feared from safe house to Safe House in amored armed Vehicles Laden with security guards as Emelia finds herself down a different path in life so does Jesse she's embod she's embod into break out of the Shell with all kinds of consequences Gomez set calls imelia p is a fever dream but it's not as wild a leap for her as it may appear she's long pursued supporting role R in unconventional sometimes risque work by uh Alters like Harmony Corin endlessly uh zesty Spring Breakers or Jim Jim zombie comedy the dead don't die that's intentional she tells me I'd rather be a supporting role I'd rather have four scenes in a Martin scorsi film than be a lead in a movie about a tomboy that comes into her own and falls in love with the boy next door oo love those movies totally watch those movies but that's not something I'm necessarily interested in O um okay he says uh where am I Gomez says she signed on to Amilia Perez largely because of gason who plays the drug lord both before her transformation and after pulling off a riveting dual dual performances um she actually carried the whole film and we followed her lead when it came to anything sensitive Gomez says she challenged me in some of our scenes she wasn't afraid to get in my face and I loved it it because I had to match that energy the Musical part of imedia pz came easier Gomez do into the singing and the often intense choreography which meant tapping back into her pop Persona I can sing Spanish really well she says having released several songs in Spanish um she says she enjoyed recording the songs for the film which were written by French singer and Lyricist Camille and clemont Duo but once fans to know she doesn't have plans to release any new music of her own at the moment she says I don't know if I'm ready you know it's a vulnerable space acting has always been my first love music is just a hobby that went out of control now it's part of who I am so I don't think I'm going anywhere I'm just not ready okay um she says I love female artists she says I've Been To All the Girls concerts Billy daa and of course she can always pick up the phone and call Taylor a longtime friend she's really like a big sister to me she says they talk about the industry from time to time with Gomez seeking advice on music or how to navigate new friendships at their respective levels of Fame more often than not although they're just gossiping about the things that all friend gossip about comparing no on the latest season of Vanderpump Rules uh and reality TV um she says whenever she is ready to record her own music again Gomez also has a direct line to one of Pop music's uh profilic producers Benny Blanco um the two are just friends at the time of their working together in the video I just can't get enough but things took a turn for the Romantic in July 2023 as at first the pair were relatively lowkey but they've since elevated to Full Tilt public adoration sharing mushy Instagram photos and captions of one another in his recent public display of affection Blanco shared a tender throwback photo of him and Gomez on the set of I can get enough says I used to play a teddy bear in your music video and now I get to be yours in real life she says I've Never Been Loved this way he's just been a light a complete light in my life though they've worked together for years fans seem surprised that the two were dating partly because Gomez is laidback while Blanco who produced hits like Katy Perry's Teenage Dream is a world class yapper whenever the connection is his Brash enthusastic openness paired with her dry humor clearly works I've Never Been Loved this way Gomez tells me he's just been a light complete light in my life he's my best friend I love telling him everything in May Benny Blanco was at the Howard Stern Show and he spilled a lot of tea says you uh when he was asked about getting married with Selena he says you and me both Blanco replied when H uh Howard Stern says that he hopes Benny and Selena get married he says you and me both Gomez Smiles at the thought of Blanco saying it so bluntly and openly he can't lie she says after the interview I was dying laughing like anything else you wanted to put out there engagement rumors were flying as the story went to press but to be clear marriage isn't an institution that Gomez ever wanted to rush into her mother gave birth to her when she was 16 and her parents were only married for a few years it was hard on me she says they were kids so we were all growing up together um even though even before she began dating Benny Blanco Gomez had a firm plan in place to start a family by the age of 35 before I met my boyfriend I was single for 5 years with the exception of going on a few dates she says and I was like okay if this is the vibe then what is the most important thing to me family in the past Gomez has said she would be open to adopting children partly be inspired by the fact that her mother was adopted if she hadn't been I probably wouldn't be here I don't know what her life would have been like she and I are very thankful for how it played out um the theme of family pops up again and again uh and pops up again and again during our conversation Gomez is a godmother to her cousin Priscilla's two children so she gets front row seats to the wonderful and sometimes brutal experience of being a parent she keeps it real Gomez says of her cousin's cander she's speaking excitedly about this then briefly pauses all this talk of motherhood is reminding her of something that's been weighing on her I haven't ever said this she says but I unfortunately can carry my own children I have a lot of medical issues that would put my life in the babies in Jeopardy that was something I had to grieve for a while Gomez communicates this calmly and without sentimentality it's not necessarily the way I envision did she says of becoming a parent one day I thought it would happen the way it happens for everyone but I'm in a much better place with that I find it a blessing that there are wonderful people willing to do surrogacy and adoption which are both huge possibilities for me it made me really thankful for this other outlets for people who are dying to be moms I'm one of those people I'm excited for what that Journey will look like but it'll look a little different at the end of the day I don't care it'll be mine it'll be my baby her family isn't pressuring her into marriage by the way nor is she pressuring Blanco we've always made sure we're protecting what we have but there's no rule she says I want him to always be himself I always want to be myself she's she means in the she means that in another way too I'm not changing my name no matter what I am Selen Gomez that's it ooh Selena oh okay girl it's a long article boo Gomez has been managing not one uh what Gomez has been managing not just her personal life in public view for years but her health as well particularly since 2013 when she was diagnosed with lupus she first spoke about her diagnosis in an interview with billboard in 2015 sharing that she underwent chemotherapy to treat the chronic autoimmune illness which causes the body's immune system to attack healthy tissue and can cause inflammation and affect internal organs Gomez was on her first solo tour stars dance when she was diagnosed and had gotten through nearly 60 shows before she had to cancel the rest and get treatment in 2017 Gomez revealed on Instagram that she had gotten kidney transplant sharing a photo of herself and close friend uh Francia Risa um there aren't words to describe how I can possibly thank my beautiful friend fronti Risa Gomez wrote in her caption um while Gomez was dealing with lupus she was also contending with serious mental health struggles which got a closeup in the shattering 2022 documentary my mind and me um that that move I it's it's amazing um Okay so the movie oh yeah okay so it was supposed to be sort of like a documentary more like a fun Artful way to capture the Revival tour but it quickly morphed uh it quickly morphed to be a fun a sorry it quickly morphed as she became struggling with panic attacks anxiety and de debilitating depression at one point she's like I don't want to be alive right now her former assistant Teresa says in the documentary I don't want to live it was one of those moments where you look in her eyes and there's nothing there it was just pitch black I have my days like everyone else but I'm not I'm no victim I just survived a lot there isn't a part of me that wants anyone to feel sorry for me yes um so when uh she so the tour was canceled but her mental health did not improve uh and she suffered a breakdown in 2018 my mind on me is such a feeling document of pain that Gomez says she got cold feet a few weeks before it was set to be released I asked my team if I was if it was possible to pull out she tells me lawyers got involved but we never took it to Apple because everything was locked when the movie came out I didn't look at anything for a few days and then I was scared to leave the house she was paralyzed by the thought of the movie being out in the world but founded her footing again partly because fans facing similar battles start shared their stories with her I just want to embrace it she says and I feel like it was really good however she continues determine to add a postcript postcript I like to remind people that it's definitely nowhere close to where I am now um my mind was not right and chemically imbalanced and it was really difficult people were calling me a victim that frustrates me because being vulnerable is is actually one of the strong strongest things you can do the narrative is not going to take over my life I'm grateful every day and I have my days like everyone else but I'm no victim I just survived a lot there isn't a part of me that wants anyone to feel sorry for me Gomez is still on a journey with her mental health but has tools and protocols to take care of herself she loves using temperature as a healing mechanism and finds cold water or space heaters to be soothing at different times she'll also do a mental exercise that's hugely helpful I remind myself that I'm okay I'm grounded I I ground myself for a moment where am I am I sitting in the office everybody that is everybody that I love is out there there's food I can get something to eat I can take a nap herec before I leave I put myself into the present I'm ready for it all it's just now I'm properly medicated um go Gomez donates a portion of sales uh from the rare beauty products to the rare impact fund um her aim is to raise 100 million and it's already raised about $15 million she says I know it seems impossible when you know reaching the $100 million goal but it's important to me because it's a crisis there are a lot of people from every part of the world dealing with so much who are not properly educated on it and don't know where to go I want to be accessible there's plant Parenthood that's a resource for women I wish we had a version of that for mental health it would be so powerful if someone was not to be too heavy but to try to take their life and then decide to go to plan Parenthood uh you know or the facility that was free she says I have Big Dreams for that I would like to see one day the next time I speak to Gomez it's at the tail end of July just after her 32nd birthday um she's preparing for for life to get intense again with promotion duties for both Emilia pz and only murders in the building um one thing about Selena that I'm so proud of her is that she is so incredibly open best friend she's so she's not scared to to really just open up and to be herself and to be you know so vulnerable opening up about children about marriage about her past about her not being a victim like I'm so proud of her and I'm so determined to keep sharing her words because she is such an inspiration and I know that there are so many people out there who might be going through the same thing and to hear Selena Gomez talk like that I think it's amazing but what do you guys think let me know in the comments below I'd love to hear from you guys go show Selena some love and I'm so grateful that you join me with this story time it felt like I was reading a book in class I know that I messed up on some words girl but when there's a lot of words my dyslexia is like you know jumping up and down and and frankly some words I just don't even know how to pronounce I'm so sorry about that girl but I love you all so much thank you so much for watching and I will see you guys in my next video bye