Tyrese Gibson "BLACK MEN CRY" - Lets talk about it

emotions has been going on for Centuries with each side presenting strong Arguments for their stance on the one hand logic is considered to be rational and objective providing a clear path for decision- making and problem solving on the other hand emotions are seen is subjective and intangible but essential for our well-being and personal relationships should you buy her a dinner or should she learned how to cook to make a dinner who's right and who's wrong let's find out welcome to emotions versus Logic the show that pushes dating and relationships to a whole new level with your hosts the real Dana and Steve the dean Williams the real Dana AKA Dana with the data is the former co-host of the number one YouTube morning show star of the morning she's currently digital content creator and co-host of the ManUp show with Judge Joe Brown on the real Dana YouTube channel her MTO [ __ ] what you think and love yourself first with over 40 years in the game Steve the dean Williams is an expert in relationships of all stages from the single life to the married life at all points in between Steve teaches men to unplug themselves from the dating Matrix of TV radio and some of these cupcake YouTubers who cry about women all the time the call-in number is 833 85987 44 that's 833 859 8744 who wins tonight emotions or logic oh my God I I think I'm G win because I'm a winner but you have't him winning when we do the show you have winning that's that's here and nor that's here and nor there that's there I think uh he might win this one tonight man you know I didn't pay too much to the topic tonight because I've been tired all day today um well I did go to brunch and I had some mimosas I think that did me in and it's kind of like hot today and it haven't been hot in a minute and then two this dog is he's kind of wearing me out like what what kind of dog do you have I have a pit but he I got I adopted him I adopted him he was in there since February so he was the longest dog in there so it's like and I had a pit before so I was like well let me get him cuz want to give him a home yes he it's it's been one week one full week so and it takes like three weeks for the dog to get into a rhythm and I do have to get him on his schedule I always want to go outside and he he he was on the roof today so it was just he just he's doing too much he's just doing to what do you mean what do you mean he was on the roof doing what well not on the roof roof but it's like we have a panel it's like the second floor and it's like um a panel where the gutters run through or whatever so I have um a balcony off of my room so I put him out there like a little play pin but you know you have like the bars because it's like a gate around whatever but I think one of the one of the bars next to the panel it should be a bar there so he was able to slide through and I'm looking and I'm like come here before you fall from the second floor panel and he act like he didn't want to come back because he wants you know and then early in the week he did run off cuz he was able to get out his leash and I was walking him I had to call the cops and it was just a mess the for you I just thought I'd leave it Dan swag is on point Thank you Frankie so yeah but it takes three weeks for the dog to get on a schedule and you know um situated but he's wearing me I'm tired [ __ ] I have a nap no no naping anything huh all right all right okay all right well we got uh we have a good show I woke up extra early today why because my father was sick my daughter calls me around six because she was calling me back and she was on her way to the gym I need to be like that but and then my father called was like can you walk he walked the dog in the morning he wasn't feeling well so I had to get up around 7even Saturday that's what it was and I didn't have a nap all day all right well I I've been uh I've been I've been uh you know working but also uh I got um I've been uh I got a great man movie for you if you want to watch one why I gotta be a man movie because it's for men but I'm just saying the name of it wait was it oh uh gangs of London it's on Netflix who is that it's a it's a Ser it's like 10 and episode I just started season two uh gangs of L wait yeah I make sure this gondon London govern London hold on wait wait let me let me see I won't give you the name I think it's it is gangs I'm sure it is gangs of London it's on Netflix oh I'm sorry on huh I said who the hell is playing this in the background but was me oh well I don't even what are you talking about okay did you hear that no I didn't hear that oh I'm like I'm like why are you playing a movie in the background but that's a video that I have um that got off mic sorry about that yeah so you gotta you gotta write that I gotta tell my guys it's called gangs of London I've heard of that I've seen it it's good fire fire you know why I didn't you know I didn't click on it yet because I'm I'm kind of tapped out from top boy oh no no no this listen listen I'm a huge top boy you know I want some bloy food you got no food right you got the food okay okay this I'm shockingly gonna say beats top boy I like top boy but but that's sometimes I need to decompress from the drug I'm still on my period pieces with like serpent um the serpent Queen you know I'm on Ser queen I'm on my last episode I got to finish the last episode of second season so I'm I'm on oh it's I know oh it's no it's episode seven next week is eight okay I'm on seven I gotta catch you watch it honey when it's midnight on Friday I watch no no no no no because I okay so I I watched when I watch those TVs I watch television shows I do that like a two or three in the morning so I was watching my wrestling I had to catch up my wrestling I fell asleep so around two or three in the morning so but industry on HBO oh oh yes that's nothing but game oh yeah yeah yeah I I he hey industry has so many levels I I love because that reminds me of billions I love that I love industry London version but it's it's a London version of like boy room I would say this is nothing but Power yeah that's a p that's all about power I mean those are about but what I'm saying if you like those I'm telling you I know you like top booy but I'm saying you just got to watch even the first episode the beginning of gangs of London just the beginning of it just how because I it's on my save list I saved it I put it on my list oh my God it yet because you know what I'm into now I watch I'm watching a good wife I didn't watch that at all when it was on television wait The Good Wife I'm watching it on Prime so it's no commercials it's with um Julianne margal and the guy who played Mr Bigs man no I'm I'm telling you I'm telling you just start watching gangs in London just start just start watching it's again I I feel you on top boy but think about okay think about top boy think about industry and think about billions it's about power gang it's it's gory it's it's no it's oh man it's man I binged it I was binge i w i mean I watched like 10 I was like working and watching every chance I got it just and I'm on season I just started season two so I was like whoa and they're gonna have a third season so I'm telling you gangs of London you got to watch it's power like you know industry is power billions is power on a corporate level right well well gangs of London they have okay you have your gangs right but then you have like industry the noname power people the UN I just call them The Untouchables these are people that run the like rule the world type thing that you can't you can't mess with them if they if they say you got to do something you better do it okay or you gonna be gone I mean I mean that's how powerful that is it but I know it's not better than Naros oh no no no no no I I didn't say no wait wait I didn't say Narcos I didn't say n I'm just saying that this is in the same neighborhood there Naros is on the same street but I'm just saying this is gangs but it's a power structure but it's also like industry there are power components uh there are levels there are powerful people that have more power than the Gang like the top gangs that are running the that runs London and D I would say the world but these are these are like no name powerful I'm just saying they just like whisper in your ear something and it's like is you're got the gone or not so it's really good it's really good and when you hey when you get to the the uh what is this episode six you G man the the shooting the killing the gore the blood okay it's better than top booy because top booy didn't give you that kind of Gore and blood I'm talking about we're talking about gory shooting heads blown off splatter with shotguns and stabbing and cutting off hands and Africa crazy Africans in this joint is crazy good so yeah I I I'm G tell my guys later on tonight about that but yes absolutely so so uh all right so we have a show guys yall want to call in 83385 9874 so d uh so your boy Tyrese I said men cry in the dark well that was the title I gave you well yeah yeah well I'd rather talk more about it on on no you're asking should they cry in the dark right yeah what I said should men cry in the dark because you know was a book called men do cry in the dark and it was about men being emotional or crying releasing stress like Tes that's yeah I'm gonna you know after our show is over I'm gonna talk more about the men crying in the light as far as the emotional male that women see that they should never see a woman should never and that's what we'll be talking about in the second half but the woman a woman should never see weakness in a man a man should never displ okay first off I I believe okay has no problem with a man showing his emotions I indeed I always say this I've always said this if you want to cry get in your car drive to the middle of nowhere go ahead Cry Your Heart Out cry do whatever you want to do and then get back into the game but people should never see strong people cry in situation I'm not saying it's not okay I'm saying I agree with you on that and I I would kind of even toot that to women in certain situations um you know let's say if Cal Harris is President I doubt it oh God you know and you in that type of power position you should not be crying well no you should right even like when I think Hillary cried I think she cried at one you know when she was doing the hot sauce and everything there was a point where she went to the podium started crying and if you're in that power position you remember okay you remember the the the the when she was running for the president she was doing hot sauce and all that stuff right okay there was a point in there where she was on the podium and she started tearing up and crying really while she talking yeah yeah yeah you can't you can't oh I didn't cat she was running office yeah she was running but what I'm saying is when you're not supposed to do that yeah well you're but again like I said gangs of London you they ain't crying on the front end but what I'm saying what I mean I just I just I'm so into that but anyway but I again we'll talk about we G show the We're not gonna show the video and play the audio but we'll pause it and talk about because it's kind of long so we'll pause is the audio uh I think three or four minutes but we could pause between things please do one minute at a time don't no we'll do a minute at a time we can do a minute at a time I'm just saying if no I'm saying if you hear something that you're like you want to talk on just tell me to pause it okay and I'll stop it and we'll do it like that so we we'll knock it out like that but guys if you got a question please put a uh q and if you want to call in we got you guys so let's go ahead and uh let me play this man oh man this is H I just I I just I I just all right let me pull it up I had to I had to grab it here we go here we go all right here we go your discretion advised here we go a couple deal with all of that grief or do you just try to stay busy to avoid okay wait a second we have we wait you want to grab the questions first no you talking about we one from Joker and is there a question before that did I miss one I think it was a question before that but just hold the questions when you see them until all right guys I hold I definitely will I got a question guys put a queue in there and I'll answer those questions but let us continue this this sad mon monstrosity here we go I'm doing the best I can with every 24 hours I get that's get some tissue for brother no I don't need no tissue black men cry that's right you know [ __ ] tissue every 24 hours I get I'm doing the best I can Beautiful Pain 199 two there is no square footage I could ever live in there is no rims no jewelry and no car there is no net worth there is no press release there is no co-star there is no collaboration in the world that could ever replace my mama I could ever feel the void of what it's like to wake up and get married and want to be in something for the rest of your life and it goes away you making me cry Ty some tissue he acting I don't need no tissue let's stop it right there real quick was that a minute that wasn't even a minute steeve that wasn't a that you telling me that what it's almost over with that wasn't a minute that was a minute all right well I'll play us halfway so I just play the other are you crying now that he said oh my okay that was I say you crying all right let me let's just finish up the last little bit here's the other half here we go almost done man yeah oh man I love you you understand how much power it is and letting it go yeah cuz You' been holding it the whole interview I've been watching you you asked me the question I did but I mean I'm I'm getting you you should have never asked the question if you didn't want to see I love you brother I love you I love you how hard it's been to get through I love you I love you black man okay do you not cry absolutely you might not bring it to the radio abolutely absolutely but this is what being grown is than you brother I'm not doing this I need one my makeup going to mess up I hear me my conceal sit today a little bit more I can pause right there can you want to stop right there I got some more but you want pause right there how how okay what is the what is the time left uh it doesn't give oh it's uh it's at 150 to okay it's that's a minute 50 so that's like two minutes we just did so here we go so let's talk about that and then we get that hey hey fif shout out shout out to my dog the silver back fif that's what fif don't worry we gonna cover that in a second second half with my dogs and stuff but I we D Dan agrees on some stuff I'm kind of shocked but shout out to 1950 in the building the silver backs but D what say you on this this sad Guy saying that black men cry and it's okay to cry it's okay to you know cry and share your emotions and I'm going through this and we're going through that and you know I want to cry what's your take on that I think I don't have a problem with him being emotional the reason why he's emotional but you know it's like every time he goes on a radio or he's on his phone he breaks down easily I'm sorry I just wanted to I have a bone on the pick with you oh oh okay I'm sorry I just what should I but he's Silverback so what what would I say I have um you have a you have a you have a you have a silver back a gorilla to pick with you about no but don't say you say banana but no okay so you gota you gotta see you got however you want to say it okay question racial stuff but I have a gorilla to pick with you yeah she's got a gorilla to pick with you there we go there we go all right yeah so he he breaks down easily he has he has a resume of doing that yes and that's why sometimes people don't take him seriously because it's like tyres you an actor you a damn good actor are you doing it to go viral however he's talking about his mom so that's gonna break a man down but do it behind closed doors well okay all right the only time I can see y people crying that I will agree with there there's only one time and I would say really in sports where for me I used to play sports so I can I can understand a little bit what people put into it athletes and things like that D you know what I mean and and and again for some of them I'm not saying crying because you're you're you're sad and angry you're crying because you have so much passion to win and you hate losing it bothers you to a point where you're not really C it's just you w up and you just get I I I've seen so many times you know where where when we l because I I hate losing d d I hate losing but you know what you perfected because guess what you are a Cowboys fan I I well well and speaking of crying I can remember the last time I teared up was in 1983 I can give you the exact date no I'm gonna pull up the exact date I'll give you the date I I can I can give you the exact date that you cried perod or cried in public teared up teared up tears a little welded up uh I'm me show you hold on um I'll tell you the uh hold on uh I I'll tell you the exact date I'll give you the dates and times exactly it was it was uh what let me see hold on uh I will give you I'm G give you exact date I probably give you the time so it was the date was uh hold on I'm G give you the date H okay uh wait oh wait was it 80 oh wait I got the wrong date excuse me let me give you the right let give you the right date yeah it was that was it right hold on I got this uh okay here it was it was the schedule I'm I'm I'm looking at it right now hold on uh okay it was Jan jary January 22nd 1983 and it was okay so it started at 12:30 so I would say probably around 130 PM Eastern Standard Time that's how that's how I remember okay I I can tell you that were you around people no you were by remember yeah I remember my mother uh bringing me some food uh and and no one came over so no it was just me watching but she noticed it so so what happened was my favorite quarterback of all time Danny White he drops back Dexter Manley comes around outside knocks him out the NFC championship game he gets a concussion and and and we lose the game we Lo the Cowboys it was like when Dwight Clark caught the ball the year before that hurt but this one hurted because we were dog walking everybody and my favorite quarterback of all time so I was uh 12 years old I was 12 years old so that that's when the last time I can remember that was the last time I did years old 12 years old I was 12 years old living in DC in Maryland I was in G I tell you I was in gaitherburg Maryland off of Clopper Road in Orchard Pond was the apartment complex but you were Ravens and Washington [ __ ] territory rooting for Dallas okay yeah yeah yeah I was a Cowboy fan rooting for the Cowboys I was always going I was always Jud I was a black sheep I was a black sheep yeah but that was the that was the time I teared up now there were other times when I was playing uh football uh and we were in the championship and things like that and lost that hurt that really pissed me off I mean to a point where you felt like doing something but you just didn't do it but you know to that point right there I've seen athletes cry yeah when they like lose and it's just so devastating yeah that's the point yes and sometimes even when they're happy and that's okay right right last thing that Hall of Fame kind of is aren't we kind of being hypocritical with with Tyrese because say that's okay but when he's crying on the radio especially when he's talking about his mother and the pressures of life no okay no so the hall of fame or Hall of Fame you see a lot of athletes cry okay the tears that they have are saying that I am have moved to an exclusive Club of athletes because that's the High I mean when you when when you're a child playing throw up tackle and you you you have a and you play football your life every athletes dream especially in football is to get to the high the the height the height is the Hall of Fame that's the that's that's where you're recognized as great that's greatness so the emotional person that cries on his Hall of Fame speech he's not crying for sadness he he's crying based off of saying that I'm in an exclusive Club I I've reached the Mountaintop this is the The Mountaintop so it's an overwhelming feeling even when they are uh even when they knock on the door to say that you have made it some of it and the tears are not sad see the difference with Tyrese his were sad tears these are tears of of a higher emotion saying that I've worked hard the lifting the weights uh the the workouts uh the hard work the studying and and the times that I couldn't go out and party the times I couldn't do this it all it all has built up to this point where it all worked out it was worth it all this work that I did put me in a in a Echelon I'm in the the top of the top the the top of the top so they cry because of that so emotions one said tears of Joyce you know what I'm I'm a side with tyres on this one what yeah I've seen those same athletes So i' and I've seen men respectable who did shed a tear whether there would be an interview could have been talking about something tragic or they could have been talking about you know let's just stick on a little bit of athletes I've seen them cry outside of being losing or winning maybe a colleague or a partner or your best friend pass away and you're talking about that story I've seen that so here is a man on the radio and honestly so this is the thing when he was talking about his mom I'mma give him a pass I am now what what what get on my nerves with him is when he start crying over the [ __ ] wife all right now you the first one say [ __ ] okay so okay now Dana you're I guess the first episode of gangs of London these men are hardcore gangsters the the one of the this one of the top guys okay I don't trying to give it away but one of the top guys at a funeral right he's at a funeral and he was talking and he choked up like he was about to cry and then he and then he got and then he hey he held his straight he kept talking what was he was he crying because he found out his mother died what was he crying for because okay it's the someone who was like a brother to him someone that he grew up with I'm talking they started from the bottom but who was it okay was he about to hurt someone and he was like let me Chuck up these cheers I'm no no no he was at the eulogy he he was at I mean he's at the he's at the funeral right he was at the funeral you know he was a great man he was a great this and he and then he pushed forward he didn't even he didn't go go you know he was a great man and I that happens a lot but that wasn't his mother and that's why I'm giving tyres a pass it's just that in that conversation he added the ex-wife okay I listen I I don't I'm I'm not even giving I'm not giving Jonathan major a pass because right right but and and which which is kind of messed up it's like we're grading them or when you can and cannot cry oh yeah there's rules listen okay listen listen I will listen listen I have no right nor anybody has a right to knock anybody to cry when they lose a parent or a sibling I that that's just out of my room I can't that's that's a bad judgment I can't do that but when it comes to a woman when when it comes to a woman and he guys are because he was talking I got more than he's talking about in the clip but you you you you talking about I would say this when it comes to a woman that you broke up with or you got a divorce and you're crying because now you see the light of how vicious she was she wanted you for your money you're crying over that no if if was if you're a widow your wife or your partner passed away and you talking about her and you choke up or whatever that's even fine because I'm not gonna say don't never cry over a woman it's just it's certain elements to it listen if something happened to me honey and you know and I'm gone which should be a long time from now I do want my um son like if he talk about me and he break down a little bit he right that's fine I wouldn't want him like crying over a [ __ ] well that's right so it it is later so so I am gonna get but we could finish listening to it because I have a feeling that he's gonna usher in yeah he's gonna usher in yeah he's G he's about to usher in here we go guys got a question wait let's answer this question real quick uh hey we got a question guys y'all call in we had several questions wait okay wait I didn't see questions I see people saying things don't see any let me go up no somebody said Steve are you doing a Halloween game is it free or something yeah the Halloween game is coming in September 15th is absolutely free for you guys we have trick-or treat uh trick-or treat sexo and Club game that's absolutely free but we do it in September so you guys can't make an excuse in October that you didn't you didn't learn it fast enough or there wasn't enough time so anyway as we saying so had a question for me he says so Dana you never had a man cry over you I don't know if no no I'll answer that yeah come on D stop TD don't sit there and lie Every Woman a man never stood only a man cry over me no not not to my knowledge no every woman has had several guys cry over them no depends come on he didn't do it in front of me he didn't do it over the phone no one didn't ever come back and say you know he cried out I've never witnessed it I never have any knowledge of that so no no never cried over me wait a second hold on wait wait wait wa wait wait wait wait wait wait wait uh hold on let me let me let me make a comment wait wait Joker wait give me a second hold on a second what you talk okay young man see this is what's wrong with oh wait wait wait I'mma hold that comment please I hope that man please please let me punch you in your chest in a few hours because you can't talk like this you can't talk this way but anyway we got we get question here goes um Dana just uh on wait just uh advice on uh if female Ms is Tech what is that it's texting I said stop but what wait wait what are you talking about someone's text what you say rewrite the question what wait what are you saying what does this even mean your grammar check your spelling and rewrite it and submit it back no no wait wait wait and G you listen listen listen your pops and your grandfather see there's a see we got to look at time cuz I come from a different time I come from a Time de where even when we get our butts whipped because we used to get beatings and spankings what did our parents say you better not cry or or or you know before they started talking to us before they abuse no that wasn't abuse that was the best thing and then and then football they would grab your face mask they'll punch you in your chest they'll cuss you down and things like that it was the best it was the best thing that young men could have in my time first of all okay I get that Steve but what Giani is saying first of all you you you're not making any sense like he is first no first of all you're gonna tell your father to stop crying like a [ __ ] over his mother I would as a if if I was maybe your father is a [ __ ] because I would have smacked the [ __ ] out of you if I was your father I would have smacked you my son for even saying some disrespectful [ __ ] like that right right what so you if you're Cutthroat if you're that Cutthroat it's not even about you being Cutthroat you're just something is something else is going on with you no no what I'm saying is and I'm say G this is why I wanted to say it because you you kind of took my thunder I like what he's saying but what I was saying to him is this listen when my grandmother died I told my pop stop crying I was his mother right I understand that's what I'm saying that's what what what did I say before if you lose a parent or a sibling there's nothing wrong with crying so if someone is crying I'm not I can't I'm not here to judge that's how you feel that's how you feel you're going to do what you do that's not what the problem is the problem is is that he's talking to his father in such a disrespectful manner that his father should have wiped his tears and beat his ass on on point at that point because you can't you can't you can't listen you can't tell the person that actually if it wasn't for her you wouldn't even be around you know I mean to to to to tell your father and be disrespectful and call him a you can't call you can't call your dad a [ __ ] for crying that that's not manhood you don't you listen if I can see if your dad is crying cause uh your mom cheated on him then you could check them you could change I that I I will feel at that because if your dad is like I lost my wife she cheated on me and I don't understand no that's when you can chin check them but but a loss of a parent or a sibling like I just said there rules see people don't understand the rules to this loss of a parent or sibling if you feel like you have to I have no right but I'm not but see with Tyrese he is a Mommy's boy so his crying is more effeminate and emotional there was no because wait here's the thing why did he say when I lost my mom where is I don't know if he lost his I don't even know if his dad is around but if he lost his dad shouldn't his thing be when I lost my parents or I lost my father or something like that but he was talking more about the mom which bothered me because he could cry but I think okay you know how you women are good with Gator Tears like like y'all can cry on point because y'all can think of something really sad and it triggers you crying well I believe that in that moment he used his mother as a catalyst to begin the process of shedding the tears to complain about everything else because he started off with his mother which is fine but then as we we play the rest of it he rolled into other things that has nothing to do with it let's listen to the rest of it Okay let's listen to the rest of it here we go all right here we go let me uh listen because remember he started with Mom now let's hear the rest of what he's talking about here we go me black men cry when divorces happen women aren't the only one that are devastated when a miscarriage happens women are not the only one that you should be checking on when you can't put food on the table because your career goes up and then it goes down stop calling skipping over the man and just checking on the woman oh Fu this is real [ __ ] out here I'mma wipe my own teil make my make I love you sis when you do things from the heart it affects Hearts that's what Beautiful Pain is Steve you muted the whole thing oh sorry that was it that was the end of it that was the end of it but what's your take what's your take you got all the trick links going on in the background yeah so he goes it was the last part it's like check on the man too but I get what he's saying but why are you crying because of that no you don't cry because of that and my thing is when something devastating happens to a couple you should check on both of them but it's it it's it's you show up differently I'm not going to show up for you know the man um who's married to the woman and you know say you're friends with them I'm not going to show up to him the same way I wa I will show up to her well well okay I'm saying it's a different type it's a okay let's say a couple lost a child okay uh as a man I would give the wife a hug and let her know I'm sorry for your loss and if there's anything I can do you know just let me know okay to the to the the husband which would be my boy CU you know I really don't don't really associate myself with women whatever that you know so with my boy and I make sure they're together at the time because I'm not going to do this separately I'm saying if they if I see them together I would do you know okay so with my boy the conversation like all right you're good yeah it's it's not see the way men talk to other men you know we don't you don't have see see I would have a problem if I okay never I never lost a child I'm saying if I lost a child and add someone well we have a call if I ever lost a child someone's like kind of like make like talking to me like I'm a woman I would I I would piss me off but hold we got a Call Erico 914 sir what's your name and what's your question sir yeah my name is G what's your question sir how can we help you yeah I'm just calling uh I disagree with why you're saying he he's crying okay well let us know why you disagree sir all right so I watched the interview and I watched that that that little clip right there and when Charlamagne asked him about the things that he's been through cuz he said to him have you been working on your stuff or you just been keeping busy to avoid dealing with it I think that's what triggered him starting to cry like he thought about what he said well but then he but again he might have thought about what he said but then he L with his mom he L with Mommy first did he leave did he leave with his who did he leave with his problems or his mother um his mom first right so he led with his mother to build up the tears to fall down so people can feel sorry for him and and as a man as a m we don't share our problems on the front end suckers do that because they want validation and they want what we don't and and he he he's never he's never done that publicly what do you mean public everyone knows him for crying when are you talking about public he puts all his business on the front end all he does is tell everybody what's going on in his pathetic life to get validation and people to feel sorry for him so what are you talking about big guy I'm just saying in this situation I just think he got caught off guard with the question and everything that swelled up because he's been dealing with a lot no no no wait wait wait wait tell me are you you so you you so if I asked you hey man I know you dealing with a lot you GNA start like a little [ __ ] no well no no no what then what are you talking about know if you agree with Tyrese so the moment someone ask you oh man or your mom like trying to be your mother to you oh are you okay oh the mean cruel world is so mean and tough what are you gonna start welding up and crying like a little girl cuz you're saying you're saying that I'm wrong so explain to me so you're you you're cool with crying when someone asks you a question that shouldn't even be handled or talked about on the front end my whole point guess what he ran off see that's what I'm saying why you wait hold on hold on D hold on uhuh uhuh we ain't doing this we're not doing this don't run from this ISM hold on no no no no no no no no no uh uh we gonna call you back buddy you're not running away from the question now I got you cornered you want to run like a girl and I know you're watching right now you know I'm calling you but yet you won't pick up your phone see that D I got I caught you now look at him he ran he won't see he won't answer his phone C he because now he realized I'm a sucker too because all it takes is someone say oh I'm sorry oh it's life beating you up oh you can't pay your rent that's teering on stalker I can't believe you call that man no I I can't stand when they come in here and they come in here and they say I don't agree we have dialogue then when I catch them they run we got another call I catch them they run uh here we go Eric Cod 205 sir what's your name and what's your question 205 going once 205 going twice 205 last time goodbye okay anyway D you got it so like I was saying D there's like I said before there is nothing nothing wrong if you lose your parent or a sibling if you want to cry cry I have no but like I was saying back to the guy thing I'm sorry I was saying before I throw to ug so I would hug the wife in front of him out of respect because I I'm paying I'm paying respect to his last name and his family by letting her know that cuz I'm kind of saying to her but I'm kind of saying to both of them you know what I mean if you need anything you know I got you and then it'll be a quick hug you know not not not a not a press up hug it'll be one of those churchy lean in and come back and that's it but to him it's just gonna be a simple you good like I was saying if that happen do you have the other clip oh no you got show hold on we got this hold on a second here a guy calling last time 205 this the last time we're gonna ask we asked three times what is your name and what is your question oh my my name is Ray I was called in the chime in about the stop yes sir R all right Ray go ahead and chime in what's your what's your statement sir what's up r no I'm just disagreeing like standpoint because like he was down you know uh I guess the clip about tyres yes he was speaking about his mother and other stuff he was g no no no sir sir I didn't down the mom I didn't down his mother no I I didn't say down his mom I said down him well yeah as a man you have to have leadership skills to show these effeminate males that they should not cry about ply things outside of family men don't cry like that all right so the first thing he said was his mom so you're saying he's an INF feminine man because he crying about his mom okay okay sir sir I said it two times I'll say it to you again if your parents pass away and you want to cry cry but what I am saying a feminite males have a we just like women do to have crocodile tears by thinking about sad things to make themselves cry he used his mother it seemed like I'm not saying he did it seemed like he used his mother a sad point to weld his little cake ass up to start crying and then got to the root of all the problems it wasn't about Mom it was about his divorce it was about him not putting food on the table it was about his acting career and all silly soft things that men shouldn't be crying about Sir does that make any sense no I'm I'm saying who it was Charlamagne asked the question and I think from your standpoint like you're saying that he's basically was looking for okay what Char ask question tell us the question tell us the question charag ass he asked he said um what are you how are you feeling because you didn't had lot of basically you had a lot of uh L okay that make you cry so if I ask you that wait if I ask you that same question are you gonna cry well me and Charlamagne are two different people Char I'm not talking about me and tyres are two different people my mom hasn't died if somebody ask me about my mom of course I'mma share the T somebody ask me about my dad of course I'mma share it to okay sir so you're telling me that I'm glad your mother's living so if you have a hard tough life outside of that and everything ain't going your way and I ask how you doing you gonna start crying if you ask me something as serious about my my my mother passing yes I'm I'mma reflect on what you're saying and I'mma have some type of reaction he didn't bring up his mother he asked him how his life was he BR uh Tyrese brought up his mother no Charlamagne said man you had a lot of losses he end up saying Somebody's Mother he end up saying somebody's some something else no and then Tyrese end up saying about the divorce and sisters this that and other but I'm saying he didn't bring men don't on hold on wait wait hold okay thank hold on a second Alex men don't struggle you soft cupcake guys struggle and that's why women don't respect you but let me go ahead sir but what was your well but I don't understand something I just had to say something to another loser but but I'm saying to you caller is this is that there's nothing wrong there's nothing wrong with him crying about his mother but this is what I'm saying once you stop talking about your mother there should be no more crying that's the point I'm making you could cry with your mother he cried but at the moment he stopped talking about his mother he should have stopped crying does that make sense no I don't oh my God what are you seriously I'm not agreeing with you wait wait wait wait let me get it wait wait no no let me get this straight let me get it straight I don't want to wish bad on your mother let's say in the bizarre world somebody passed away that you were close to okay this that's fair can I say that someone in a bizarre world okay because I don't want was bad on you if we're talking and that person came up whatever it was to to you that's close and you started crying that is fine but the moment you take crying and start crying about boohoo divorce boohoo bills boohoo why didn't people ask about me why you know you could ask about the women but why don't you ask about me we heard too men that's suckers suckers do that kind of stuff that's not manly D you got it I I I don't know what to say you got it D um no I gotta agree with you Steve it's too many um it's too many [ __ ] boys that's my point he don't he's agreeing with this listen I understand the tears for the mom I get it because him and his mother was close I think at one point she was his manager especially when he was starting out and show I get that but when he starts going off the second phase of it that's when it's like Tyrese you have a pattern of crying about the women who did thank you did you wrong and then he goes into you know check on me blah blah blah now he does have I I think bipola he does have some type of mental um um he mental disability I would say that he deal he does deal with some type of mental health and he always brings awareness to it but at the same time some some of that [ __ ] come off too creepy like Kanye West is you know Behavior so um I don't I I don't I don't really take celebrities like that too seriously on certain things but he he went too far with check on me when blah blah blah blah blah and then I don't know if you have the video Steve when he went live talking about Samantha no but you if you can pull that up that'd be great but I have it I thought I saved it somewhere sometimes I look at stuff and I don't save it because I it's like I can't I can't absorb that you know what D I like to educate this young man indeed you understand what I'm talking about because you watch the same shows I watch Like industry you know like House of car let me let me and let me let me say this because I just got text for someone and also people do things for attention especially when you are a content creator on social media I constantly the Jud just take Judge Joe Brown right now you got [ __ ] Boys on X want to put the judge name in the title just to talk [ __ ] about the judge hoping the judge chime in to give you attention you see what I'm saying so D two things I've seen I've seen a content creator the other day that does reaction videos to rap go out and tell everybody well things are happening to my parents You Know da d d d da I mean I I'm like why would you do that that but let me show D but let me explain something caller let me educate you on something because Behavior you understand this you understand uh you understand how the house of cars in a game that they know to pull on the strings of soft effeminate males and what do they always do the only way that you'll get sympathy not just from women but from soft ass males is by crying and letting and letting other people know it's okay to cry because that's how they get you and that's how so you understand you gotta understand Tyrese is trying to promote is it not a movie and an album is he not trying to promote that okay so call are you still there 205 yeah I'm there okay he's trying to promote that so if I'm Tyrese's publicist you don't think I'm GNA tell him the way to get to guys like you is by shedding some tears and get some sympathy do you see that's the that is the thing that you guys because I can't say men get suckered into y'all feel sorry for people that go out and try to tell you uh well I just want to let you know I lost somebody today I just want to let you know somebody that's close to me is sick I just want to let you know this is my problems because you want to know why because let me tell you what the world is based off of ignorant gullible people that feel sorry for people they don't even know and that's why they get you people all the time because they know now women I I got excuse the ladies because they're emotional they should feel sorry and motherly towards certain people so I exclude the ladies but for you guys and you males out there to feel something for somebody else that has nothing to do with you is amazing to me and that's what I'm keep trying to tell you publicists and people are smart enough to recognize and that's what I telling D with industry house cars they know the majority of you you soft males out there are more motherly and more emotional so they only way that we can get you to connect to us is by letting you know it's okay to do the one thing you know you shouldn't be doing and that's crying and feeling sorry for yourself and the fact that you're calling in and saying which is your right sir that you disagree that's fine but you know what kind of male You Are by defending instead of looking at the bigger picture it's game being run on you you're feeling sorry or feeling bad for somebody you don't even know and you don't even know why they're even doing it I also say this too because you highlighted those shows you understand those shows that we watch the lead characters they're the wolf and they pray on the sheep contr the Sheep so a lot of people are sheep and I get it I'm a wolf I would never be the Sheep I'm I'm I'm I will never be the prey I seek the prey I control the prey so majority of people in this world in this nation or whatever they are sheep yeah well here's the thing Cooper I appreciate tyres is a sheet too Tyrese is a she right right but caller uh caller do you have any other questions and everything sir uh or anything like that buddy no I mean you know I still so um you know a lot of stuff one thing that you do that because I I pay attention I I listen more than I you know talk but what do I do tell me what I do but what what I'm saying one thing that's one of your characteristics if somebody don't agree with you you try to use verbal slander no I'm wait wait wait wait is iter let me finish no wa I know but sir wait you can't make that without me saying something listen if you I say feel what you want to feel I don't I don't it doesn't bother me I'm just listen my job is to educate other guys to learn how real men should behave by listening to soft guys say what they're saying I'm not verbally slandering you if you feel that you C I said you I said that's what you tried to no I'm not trying to do it sir you I mean no no whatever you and anybody else say Lord It's your opinion but it but it's beneath me you see sir I don't sir you are beneath me because I don't see what you see what you say no what you say is beneath well sir sir if you want to cry no sir I sir I I agree you cry and after you get done let me know what kind of tanes you wear and things like that because you sound like you to see what I'm saying okay I'm sorry I didn't mean okay I'm sorry about the T PES all right you buddy thank you very much and stop crying stop being a sucker thank you sir all right guys Line's over if y'all want to call in oh wait let's get to uh 213 213 sir what's your name and what's your question sir 213 going once 2 one3 going twice 2 one3 okay so uh let's get to uh 904 Eric code 904 what is your name and what is your question 904 going once 904 going twice 904 what is your name sir for the last time and what is your question sir yeah I'm van okay hi V man um how you doing no yeah I'm good what's your question sir how can we help you buddy yeah so I just I kind of timed into the conversation a little bit late a little late and I kind of want to get a little bit more clarification on what we're actually talking about well it says Tyrese Gibson black men cry let's talk about it yeah I personally man I'm 28 I got a 12y old daughter and I got another kid on the way me personally I don't believe that there's anything wrong with a grown man expressing his emotions because I mean y'all [ __ ] think people my bad people think it's cool when you get mad you know I'm saying you respect the big bad wolf when he walked in the room puffing and puffing and ready to blow things down like why can't we find a positive different positive outlet that's not positive okay that's not positive when you're acting effeminate that's not positive your job as a father is to show strength and and yes with your daughters You Can Be You Can Be butter that again with women or especially your daughters you can love hey you tell your daughters every day you love them and be and show emotions to your daughters and and and love your sons but you've got to show this is a cruel world you you got to understand y'all think the world cares yeah and again that's the thing everybody completely aware like the world don't care nobody cares about right so go ahead and cry okay think nothing wrong like back in I just got out of jail probably like two years ago for armed possession and cocaine and marijuana [ __ ] been hard for me I ain't never had no f before none of that you know I ain't never really cared about that because I'm I'm selling drugs I'm doing what I do and I'm getting money so I'm not really caring thinking about the after effects of it but I'm a mechanic always did it on the side but now I'm trying to really do it and I can't and it's been hard I messed around and got fired from a really good job back in the beginning of the year and I was upset I was mad I was mad at the crack who fired me I how like you you're not allowed to be we not allowed to no no no and I'll tell you why you're not you're not allowed to be mad at the guy that wait a second why did he fire you because you're your record no not of not because of my record but basically I kind of I was I had just got out like I know about I was acely on my [ __ ] like I was supposed to I didn't knowled so I made how can you blame how can you blame that white man for your weak choices then and cry about it look it's either I can sit there and be mad and have all that hate in me like oh [ __ ] this Fu this system [ __ ] this crap sir it's not his fault you didn't do your job screw him and you know say that type of stuff build up this is what I'm sir young man young man this is what I'm talking about with all due respect yeah you're getting mad and emotional and angry over something that you did they didn't do it so why are you getting mad at somebody who didn't do anything to you I'm human what do you think I'm sit there not feel anything godal like this like the 60 even them dudes ain't even them dudes in the 50s and the 60s and the Baby Boomers and all of that the the men that that we all look at thinking a so hard them dudes died at 6070 years from and all that young man you're in the middle of the you're in the middle of the the ocean and your analogy watch this one D because I'll throw it to you next you're in the middle of the ocean you're poking holes in your boat and you're grabbing water from the outside and dumping it in your boat and now you're crying because the boat is sinking that is all you're doing it's your fault and you D I'm gonna let you talk to this because this is this is amazing you got to take responsibility for certain things but my argument is I don't think there's nothing wrong with a man crying oh please okay wait wait wait cry to yourself me personally I hoed off in my truck and I cried in my truck that's fine I was mad I cried in my truck I got that [ __ ] off you know what I did I got another job the next week and kep it pushing okay so you know what bothers me unfortunately that the woman the woman below me that's a woman is trying to tell most of you guys y'all need to stop doing that sucker weak stuff woman saying this my life my M let me ask him a question CUA he said he cried in his car Had Me Like a pit from let me ask a question let me caller call caller call her call her call her call her she's trying to ask you a question please listen go ahead D yeah yeah I can't can you hear me now yes I can hear you okay so you said you cry in your car but would you cry and on on IG live would you ever cry if you in a public room you know I mean when it come up not personally me not personally but have I cried in public yeah it was a time where I was out on bomb fighting my Cas and you know I got my girlfriend living with me my mama living with me I'm trying to get them like Hey Y'all let's go to church you know what I'm saying we got a lot of demons on us a lot going on I was bad off on Miley real bad I had a lot going on and I was just trying to find some type of light cuz everything was looking dark to me at the time they ain't want to go they ain't want to get out of bed the kids ain't want to get out of bed so I was like right I'm going to go to church by myself I sat in church and for some reason I just broke down and started crying nobody even noticed me I'm talking about I mean that Bo crying like a baby nobody even came and placed a hand and say it's gonna be all right so none of that and you know what I did I felt better afterwards I got myself up and kept on with my day ended up you know getting locked up the next week or two had to do my time or whatever but yeah like there is nothing wrong with crying especially when you going okay so you said you you said you still sell drugs no no I'm I'm I'm I'm good you know I've been been away from that I'm you your life around you turn do you ever cry that you turn the about the fact that you turned your life around um to me that's not anything to cry about you know but you cried because you lost your job though yeah I mean to me it was a really good job it was really good benefits really good pay and then it was they didn't background they didn't background test test background check me they just let me in the th and I I felt stupid that I allowed myself to make that mistakes or those mistakes as many times because I mean I ain't gonna say it was all the white dude fault it was definitely my fault this white dude tried the best that he could to help me out but at the end of the day when when he came to me he's like look man I tried to help you but I can't help you no more gotta let you go you got to figure it out and you want to fight him you want to fight him tantrums and say F you right you want to fight the person question let me ask the caller a question um do you think that you know you said the white guy was trying to help you do you think that you have some weakness within yourself that you're lacking a feminine discipline uh empathy for the most part I don't care about what happens to other people like the whole Tyrese thing when I first watched that clip I'm at work in the shop like hey y'all boys boy Wilding up here crying and stuff I'm talking about you cry I'm asking I'm asking you I'm asking call her call her call her call her call her call her call her call her you about you do you have any insecurities or you know feel as though that you know you need to improve on some things that you are just weak to of course I mean that's of course we should all have things that we feel like we can grow better at I don't hear anything or exert ourselves at all times it could be me game I don't you can hear me yeah yeah we can hear it hear you can hear me you man yeah we all hear okay wait a minute one second so young man what I'm saying is listen I just want you hear what you're saying you had I don't care what color he is you had somebody that looked out can hear you we can hear you you had somebody who was looking out for you you had somebody that uh gave you a solid you had somebody that didn't look at your background I'm go out and come back in somebody that had your back on so many levels and your thanks to that person was not doing your job and then that person who was looking out for you in ways that you can never imagine because he had to do the right thing to save his skin letting you go you wanted to fight that person are you serious anger is anger no that's not anger that is same misogynistic that's that you spin I can't manin dude how you talking dud I say this with with with respect that is very effeminate of what you did someone doing something that they didn't have to do and they did it and your appreciation to that person is not doing what you're supposed to do and then you want get mad at that person for letting you go and you want to hurt that person who looked out for you that's feminite that's mommy issues that's why lot people hear me you can hear me we can hear you yes it's probably a lot of people that was raised by their fathers they feel the same way as me young man this is but this is the problem we're having this is why this is why this is why women walking all over you guys dog walking you because you guys out do you understand women are our greatest consumers right you know that women are our greatest consumers you know that you want to know why because the the advertisers and marketing know that we can all we have to do is connect to their emotions and they will buy from their feelings so you know what people are flipping you guys on doing they're doing the same thing with you soft guys you're just a mark like D said and I I hate to give her credit yall are sheep you you you you want to connect with another man because he's crying and you want to feel like it's okay listen I didn't say his mother I say listen he can say my mom and that's cool right once he got talking about his mom right he should have been like this yeah so anyway American men got from that interview with him is that it's okay to C care got his life you think you think he sold me on something the average consumer don't buy no no no you don't sold you he sold you on something greater and worse he sold you on it's okay to cry as a grown man cause Tyrese did it and that and that's the problem that he sold you on so would you cry at your daughter's weddding no or nope so you tell me they Ain why why would why would were with such Jo I'm why would I cry over okay a woman or her mother cries at the wedding that's that's what emotional women do they should cry or not if you're crying because your daughter's getting married then you might need some therapy that is I'm sorry de I I I I can't understand why a grown man you got keep a stone wall emtional figure for everything that goes on in your life stone wall you have to understand the world when the world can see your weaknesses they will use that against you for gain and and the thing is right so what y'all guys are doing is you're playing poker with your cars facing the other direction because somebody on the internet told you it's okay to cry it's okay to share your feelings it's okay to share a tear because sometimes real men do it and D hold on a second wait wait D real man share real man emot no no no wait wait call call her right you're right call her you're right and I man I want D I'm G show you something young man I want to show you two things like if you got something going on in your life if you got call please be quiet you please be quiet listen I show you two things I want to show you what you a feminite guys do let me show you what crying let me show you what it looks like so you can see it for yourself here's the first video I can't even do [ __ ] right here and you know that man why you doing me like this man everything I do is a [ __ ] problem G and I'm tell you I don't have nobody man I'm going through a like to G I like is you and you really trying to hurt my heart no no no hold on wait wait wait hold on D hold on for all you all you w to cry people let me show you how women see you guys here's another one y'all want to cry do this do this here we go watch this D watch clean my soul and I CED with you with all the joy and the sorrow on the [Music] fear oh boy so so no no no so wait wait wait wait so caller if youall want to a do if y'all want to cry go ahead hey find a bunch of guys go in a pool take over take off your shirts no no no take off your shirts D take off your shirts and cry do it I get it though man I wanna I wna say something because particularly that that video you saw with the men Retreats I don't have a problem with men having their space me you got a problem let me talk let her talk please so I don't have a problem with men having their space because women create all types of spaces to deal with their issues or whatever and men do need their own private space to deal with their issues why because men are definitely more violent in this world so if you are not allowed to never cry and you have to always be hard you need to release that and I'm glad that men have a space like that to releasee it I don't need to see it why talking I'm not finished talking sir stop talking over me I don't have a problem with men I don't want to see them release it but you need your space why because if you don't release it you're GNA bring more Havoc into society it has to be released now but I do agree with Steve if you going to cry cry in the dark cry to your s crying in your car whatever the case may be try not to cry in public because it's not so much that you are you are doing something wrong is just that you are displaying yourself as prey and people are going to try you that's my point you don't want that a man you see what I'm saying so go to your go to your ,000 retreat let it out and then come back to society that's my d That's why I can't stand how is it a woman how guys I ask everybody how is it a woman sees this this bothers me it bothers me that a woman sees this and the majority of you males think it's okay to cry over things that have nothing to do with family do you understand the world this is hey D you this is why you see that that's how I know that you know when you watch industry you know when you watch uh billions you know you watch all these men you see how tough these men are and you see that the respect that they demand even if they're having bad times hard times you'll never know you'll never see it on the front end especially and I'm sorry you know I'm not gonna make fun stop stop I'm not gonna make fun of those men that was in that hot tub they spent $10,000 to release their pain if they're spending that money to release their they have some serious pain to release Please Release it because if you don't public sir sir sir why in the [ __ ] are you still if you hear me talking be quiet if you hear Steve talking be quiet when you're talking we're quiet is that hard for you to comprehend I mean I understand it but it's a touchy topic no I'm trying to feel about but you can't control yourself so this is why you do cry in public because you can't control yourself you have no self-control this so after all the back and forth between you and that's what it comes down to you sir have no self-control and that's where your problem lies crying sad y man all right caller we we'll throw you back inol yeah no control young man but we throw you back in man thank you for the call okay my brother so let me so let me to with that tyres doesn't have self-control when it comes to women yes yes we we have another call Eric code 281 what's your name sir and what's your question sir Eric code 281 going once Eric code 281 going twice Eric code 281 last time okay let's move on all right Eric code 470 what is your name sir and what is your question 470 going once 470 going twice yes I asked you a question what is your name sir and what is your question sir yeah hey so my name is Sam um and I heard y'all on the live stream was talking about like men crying in public right yes sir well I just want to say I agree with everything you stand for um but and everyone who's called has pretty much been the big [ __ ] I don't know why WR all them well well thank you Sam thank you Sam we appreciate that and you have't just drive carefully because it sounds like you're in your car but thank you Sam okay oh I uh I'm not in the car by the way okay all right well thank you Sam we'll throw you back in thank you sir all right guys lines wait lines are blown up D hold on a second uh wait 205 did we talk to 205 already 205 did you call him did we talk to you already 205 oh you hung up Erico it's blowing up D Erico 804 what's your name and what's your question 804 going once 804 yes what is your name sir and what is your question my name is Jimmy and yes Jimmy I oh wait wait Jimmy no you're the prank guy I'm sorry I can't do that I'm sorry that's the guy that speaks about uh nasty things I I recognize his number I had to hang up on him I had to hang up on him uh but gentlemen uh got a question please put a q we got y'all covered gentlemen and the second we do the show guys we're going to talk about more leadership and why as a man you are not supposed to show any kind of emotion it's one of your greatest weaknesses nobody's saying that you should not cry but guys y'all have to understand that women do not respect men that act like women that cry like a bunch of babies because they don't get their on certain things let me grab this call real quick 47 what is your name and what is your question sir 470 going once 470 going tce what is your name sir and what is your question um my name is Elmer uh what what's the topic this evening Elmer uh goodbye I'll see you later Elmer I can't I what do you mean what's the topic that y'all see the topic wait a second now let me get to you big dog let me get to be okay let me get wait wait wait a second wait wait what do you mean we're not human okay wait a second this is why y'all always ask me about Man movies what do you mean you got to walk away do you understand for many of you guys y'all your biggest question is why am I always the best friend and why does a woman always walk all over me because you do the worst thing you show your emotions sorry D got another call you just came in D got a call 332 what's your name sir and what's your question I'm Jay man how you doing yes Jay what's your question you got sir how can we help you U just uh the subject you were just talking about about man cry we're listening yeah um a month ago my dad P story I started cry right of the bed at work I'm saying I couldn't even hold it right in front of everybody I started cry okay that's fine nobody said it wasn't fine what are you talking about oh I was just saying that you was just talk no sir this the sir this the fourth time I James or sorry I'll say Sir because I don't remember it's the fourth time I'll say it if it's your family mom dad and you shed a tear ball out crying you can do that nobody saying there's rules to crying but I'm saying what Tyrese then did was talk about his relationships his uh his lifestyle not having food on the table and crying about all that silly stuff that's where the problem is n i don't about none of that man took it up yeah that's what that's what I'm saying I'm just saying that nobody's judging you for crying that's that's how you feel about your father you feel what you feel for your father I'm not here to knock you on your father I'm not here to knock you on your grandparents your mother or siblings or somebody that is close to you because you know how close you are to them what I'm saying is my job is to show young men or young males how to be grown ass men by learning how to put their emotions in their pocket and stop acting effeminate around people and women because people gonna walk all over them sir that's where I'm going with that sure I got you okay so no this has nothing to do with your father so you know we're not we're not knocking you for your father's lost your father hear that right right I'm saying that when you call in and say well you know what it's so like let me give you an example let me give you examp this guy right here he says uh this doesn't make any sense why do we have to walk around like we're not human do you see is being human is why losers lose and winners win do people don't understand the world doesn't care about you and if you show any weakness you're giving them the the blueprint on how to manipulate you but D what would you like to say on this D that's true oh wait we can't hear you d i was muted um yeah so I don't it's saying I and so with the caller you was like you know you was at work and you just broke down crying because your father or somebody passed away and and and that's and honestly that's a natural thing to do if you haven't grieved properly and you probably broke down at work and you couldn't control where you were at because of I'm a man and I should not be crying but that's your dad and you're only human in that aspect you know what I'm saying so that happens some so like you said you couldn't control it it came out of nowhere because you didn't grieve or because you didn't cry maybe at the funeral or before whatever the case may be so that is going to be a natural reaction and we're not talking about that so like Steve said eliminate mom dad or even wife or child passing away you know whatever you may go through I would rather for a man to spend that $10,000 and go on a retreat wait let me finish ited listen if you let me please let me finish my point is I would rather for a man if he if he has a lot of pined up stuff spend that 10,000 going on his secluded Retreat to let it all out or let it all out by yourself everybody needs to let out whatever is inside them holding them or um let out the weight that is weighing you down got to let it out how you do it how you do it should be very um you should be very cognitive on how you do it because if you're not then you're gonna break down at work and can't control it well let me ask this question sir when you started crying did anyone come console you or ask you what was wrong sure all the females okay well here's my problem again it's not the problem your father passing away why didn't you just go in the bathroom and go cry and and and and why why draw the attention that's where I find that's the thing is I wasn't even trying to draw the attention I was trying to hold it but you know me at work I was me trying to tell the manager that you know the situation that I got to leave work start busting Crying by soon I started telling her that well I didn't quite try to make a s and all that [ __ ] but you know I'm saying everybody seen it but you know if he was close to me you could have seen that he was a problem well I'm I'm just say I'm just saying that at at the at the end of the day that this is why a as a as a as a man again cry but I I don't know what does it I'm ask because I don't understand this what does it do to tell other people what's going on with you when you're sad is it that that you want the validation you want people to rub your back you want people to feel sorry well what is I'm just saying what is it that y'all look for I don't understand now I only told the manager and you know the manager had like a couple people around her and that was it I not like I was going telling everybody like okay cause yeah C people do that well that's what I'm saying that's why that's what bothers me because people do that all the time because for some reason they want people to feel bad for them or something I'm saying I'm saying gonna draw the attention like that right it's not a good way I'm I'm saying at the end of the day that if you lose somebody that should be something personal to you and it's nobody else's business it should be something personal be nobody wouldn't even know they were just know like I'm not I'm not at work I had a situation but I got that phone call while I was at work you feel me so I had to tell the manager you know I'm saying by me telling the manager I couldn't even hold it like you know saying I tried to hold it but you know by telling no that's fine you do yeah but that's fine again no judgment man we'll let you go but hey man you're good to go though but we appreciate the call all right EDI I'm sorry that the stream is whack sir but uh I'm not gonna say I'm not gonna be the first one to say f you I'll be quiet I'm not gonna be the first one but thank you call appreciate just just leave yeah thank you just leave EDI just leave this is my point hold on let me bring it to this is this is exactly what happens when you are feminine and emotional just like the person crying it's like you want everybody to hear hear your pussified feelings instead of just leaving you want the whole world to know what you're feeling that's the problem D you see I'm saying one second one second because EDI says this stream is so whack telling people telling people to cry alone old mates dad die he said old mes are you in London are you are you in old old M your old M died so and if so Europeans are way more emotional than Americans well hey hey not if you watch gangs of London hardore but I it seemed like with you was there there probably some African immigrants and GS but the point I'm trying to make I'm talking about a lot of people from the UK you guys y'all do [ __ ] like that yeah but in America there are some people that do it but then you have the majority that laugh at them who do it because we're just AR like pinky Grinders as well same thing if you first of all if you are watching us overseas hi thank you but if you think it's whack then just move on yeah but see but but like a woman that's what they do you want to express what you nobody cares about what you feel over here dog We're Men ladies we got a call here 205 I mean all that noise in the background sorry D 205 what's your name what's your question sir oh Ray again I'm calling back God Ray what's your ray what is your question sir what's up uh hello Ray going once hello I'm right here what is your question sir we got running the show what what did you want to say what's up no I'm saying you said I was running so I had call running from what that what you said he wasn't talking about you what is he what are you talking about him I don't even you said I running I off the phone running from what yeah you tell me you said wait a second wait wait wait wait I didn't say 205 was running I said area code 9 914 was running away when we get off the phone when we get off the phone you said I'mma call you bet no I called 914 back because he ran you're you're 205 no no you know when I got off all right okay you're right all right you win goodbye you win goodbye okay let's keep going let's grab this call right here before you get to the call can you get to my super chats because somebody had a question oh yeah what's your super wait I'm sorry what was your Super Chat let's get your super chat right here uh what this one right here yeah oh wait wait sir can you turn down the background 804 please turn down mute yourself please please meute yourself just please real it says an emotional man is the reason why our society is composed of factured right now men don't want to work join a military um Embrace adversity whatsoever join of FY gim or lift weights and he sent um compound fractur super chats thank you elim appreciate you all right area code 804 what's your name and what's your question sir how can we help you hey buddy it's Jimmy I called in I've never called before wait Jimmy hold on wait hold on Jimmy I hold on Jimmy before I hang up on you because I I got a I got a list over here I got a list of people that hold on Jimmy I'll let you know right now hold on Jimmy because I'm about to I have a feeling I am about to hang up on you Jimmy uh no maybe not no maybe maybe it's another okay I'm sorry jimy what's your question buddy what's your question you you sound like guy EXC it's off topic a little bit like it's not really to do with the crying yes sir but um so I lost I lost my wife uh three three years ago yes sir and I've got four children I've got nieces and nephews and stuff that I'm responsible for and you know I do shed a tear every now and then I I try not to let the see kid let the kids see me because I know it affects them so I mean I understand you know in a certain aspect of not crying but also not being able to control it you know what I mean but um really my I really called in for advice on you know how to move forward in life you know what I mean because like I'm I'm kind of stuck in a rut and well Jimmy call call in okay Jimmy call in after uh with data goes and I have my show show call in with that and we we'll discuss that okay buddy well maybe he wants as well wa wait I'm sorry Jimmy I'm GNA let I'm G let an emotional woman tell you some feminine things so I'll just be quiet go go go ahead go ahead go ahead and mother him D well no he well why would I mother him he a woman of all no because first of all he's not complaining and he said he want advice and this is a Duo show so do you want to hear my advice or did you just wanted to hear Steve yes ma'am I would I would uh take I'll take any inv yeah wait hold on real quick hey Mike Mike I'm sorry I hurt your [ __ ] please forgive me U go ahead sir go ahead I just want I just wanted to say sorry I hurt your [ __ ] I'm sorry go ahead Dana good so you're saying that you know your wife passed away two years ago and you find yourself you know crying from time to time and feeling emotional missing her and upet well and it's I guess it's really not and of course I miss but it's more so the kids not being able to have that um you know I'm a great I feel like I'm a good father but I'm not a great mother you know obviously I'm a man so it's like I I don't have those those TR I'm sorry can you mute your mic if if you're so that we won't hear you scraping your plate what's that go ahead caller I'm sorry no um just Prett pretty much you I'm just saying like I know I've got the father in down it's just it's hard to to replace the role of the mother and so it's like you know seeing them suffer in certain ways or or miss out on certain things because they don't have their mother as hard you know what I mean but it's how long have you been married sorry how long were you married uh so we were together for 17 years oh wow 16 going on 17 yeah we met when we was teenagers I would say this I'm not I'm not a th th IST but I would tell you this it's a process you are not going to you're it's this is something that you're never she's always going to be in your heart in your mind but to actually heal from it it's a process two years that's that's that's short time not enough time yet yeah it's not enough time number one you known her for more than half your life just about you have kids with her married and I think as far as like you saying being an only parent um and you have kids I think that you know yall should have like a group therapy session um some some have well it's it's not so much a therapist it's more like um um what do you call it grievance like you know when you yeah we did like a circle grief thing we did all you know it's just but talking it may help the kids but for me it really don't help like talking it's gon it's gonna but it affects everybody differently because they're kids so they they they process different your process is different because you talking about a different type of relationship so first of all it's GNA take time it's not a one trick pony and if yes when you call back Steve could spend more time with you but don't think of it as one trick pony if I have this advice and I do it then I'm going to move on and heal and not feel so sad or whatever no it's a process and you have to go through the process there's not a shortcut there's no shortcut there my real thing is like I'm trying to figure out the the best way to handle it without just blocking out it completely from my mind why would you block it out sorry why block what out block the memories yeah well you know because it's it's it's a double-edged sword it's like there's a lot of joy and there's a lot of you know called pain sir's called life put a helmet on and don't block it out you have to you always want to think about the good times you hold on to those memories never block it out the good the bad now I don't let me ask you this did you treat her well when she was alive maybe the last five years did you have is is it guilt is it guilt is is a lot of your emotional things you're having you think it's coming from guilt well you know yeah of course because there's things that you feel like you could have done to stop certain things from happening but not in the sense of how I treated her no well if it's it and I was say let me put my Oprah hat no let me put my Ayana hat on um if it's guilt you need to forgive yourself first and then you need to go through the process of grieving and is not going to your grieving grieving does not have a expiration date it doesn't I've heard that I understand that too yeah so but if it's guilt on top of the grieving you need to forgive yourself and you need to hold on to those memories and you know so don't block it out and that's because that's going to frustrate you even more and maybe you should just seek down a line some type of therapy 101 if you're into that if that's what you want if not just just be a good parent you know eventually you probably going to want a date that's probably no time soon but just focus on your kid right right focus on your kids focus on you know women women have different you know stuff like that that I can't really let you have your emotional moment wait and then do you have do you have family support the grandparents are there in are there enough yes yes ma'am enough for sure yes all right so again when it so when it comes to the women things if you have a daughter then maybe the grandmother the Godmother aunts could come in and help out with that so it's all about having that support system and and it's all about forgiving yourself and allowing the process to take place there's no expiration there's no one trick pony it's called grieving and that's part of life okay well I appreciate you taking the time on it I really do all right well and I think he's being very genuine it's not weak not weak it's not him being a sheep you know that that that is something serious that men never talk about so yeah call Steve back have that you you know that dialogue with but well it's one thing to be a man and think that you you you'll address a certain situation one way until that the situation comes across and you got somebody laying in your hands dying you might you might address that situation differently when you laying in that situation so it's like everybody handles things differently and everybody thinks they're gonna handle things differently so because gu what as a parent as a parent my greatest fear is I never want to be in the grievance Club when you lose a child and that's a and everyone I know that have lost a child I hear people have lost a child they say it's like you're part of this club and that's what that's as a parent like that's one of our fears as a parent but it is life so again you know so you didn't lose your child but you did lose maybe a soulmate your wife that was that was your wife that was your woman before she was your wife that was someone who was part of your life for half of your life so that's something serious yeah I appreciate y'all spending the time on Hey sir I want to apologize for the eye rolls the smirks smacking lips and being ready to dismiss I'm sorry I'm sorry I I hey I got tough skin man no no no no no no y'all y'all Hey listen the other males that feel your pain are coming to your aid but but again wait let know they gotta walk through this Earth with Kev they a't ready for it no no no they they listen we are in a world where men act more like women and they feel that they want to circle the wagon and they want to come to your Aid so if you can give them address hey hey uh BK send him a message so you can get his address you can go to his house and give him a hug and tell him I'm sorry y'all G cry together okay all right buddy we'll throw you back in we appreciate the call Buddy hell at me on the other side I respect always always talk about her especially to the kids don't don't try to block those memories out don't try to block her out yes sir yes uh 252 one second sir we got to read this Super Chat can you mute yourself please sir uh real quick uh oh wait uh I'm a woman okay can you please mute yourself real quick please ma'am give us one second please okay please mute yourself thank you okay it's a kimono thank you you got another chat I just wanted you to oh thank you elim um oh my God here okay y'all don't stress do you want me to St away okay ma'am can you please with all due respect we'll call okay listen this how it works we we ask you to mute yourself and then when we're getting done reading the Super Chat I'm going to say Eric code 252 too okay so just be patient ma'am okay all right sweetheart thank you I appreciate thank you very much now go ahead D y'all don't stress on the callers man 80% of black people don't know how to be a man or woman because we weren't taught or barely saw it just tend to the ones that want to listen like this man well why it's not a black thing it's not a black thing that's my see this is what this is what's wrong with okay the the the video we saw nothing but white men paying $10,000 yeah yeah white men doing that so so to so your point it's not so it's not a race thing it's not a I what you're saying but that is not a race thing no this is a mindset and here's okay okay please understand the difference between successful people and everybody else is all in the attitude of how they see themselves in the mirror and when successful people talk to people who are just average they cannot accept what it's going to take to become successful they don't understand the language they don't understand the mindset and they don't understand the mentality so what you're trying to do is say Well Mr lion can you go b or or or Mr lion can go quack quack quack because your Roar is so loud it's making all the other sheep and all the grass eaten Lions feel bad about themselves and I would appreciate it if you come out if you just just take a moment and understand the feeling of the sheep and understand the feeling of the duck and understand the feeling of the zebras and the deers can you just have compassion please you guys y'all gotta understand D I promise you D you'll understand when you watch I gotta push your ganger ganger lond you'll understand exactly but this is watch this is sad D when sheep try to tell Lions put James Bond never cries uh no J no the coldest thing James did when he found out his girl lied to him he put her on the subway and didn't talk to her for like five years that was the most which James Bond was one where he died the LA the one where he died he was with his girl and they were together and and he found out she did something wrong he took her straight to the Subway put on the subway and cut her off Whoa man I gotta watch that last one but but he was sad when his mentor died that's a mentor that's Mentor that's somebody right but he but but all but all of Jane bonds they they never CED but that's different nobody mama was dying Mama his mama didn't die so yeah yeah yeah he didn't have kids so all right now we have a call okay 252 ma'am now we can talk to you 252 ma'am how can we help you ma'am yes yes how can we help you okay I I'm listening to everybody talk about feelings and this like and just what you had said to the Sheep trying to do the lion the one thing that people have got to learn is that their mind and their heart it belongs to them it doesn't it doesn't transport out to anybody it doesn't transport out to anybody else I can't transport my heart and my mind out to you to make you love me or want to be with me we've got to First sit and talk and learn to meet each other we've got to talk with each other and like and have to understand okay ma'am okay ma'am ma'am one thing at a time ma'am ma'am I like to reply on that real quick and I'll let you finish okay ma'am yes sir I am a dating and sex coach all of my clients I talk to all day every day you know what they always say you add why why oh girl like come on you don't even know okay why why can't I get that woman why am I in the friend zone why am I a brother why can't I get her to like me date me or why is she using me and walking all over me it's exactly because of what you're saying see I understand what you're saying but you got to understand what you're saying is what you should tell your in inside the home but you need to be honest with that child and let them know outside that door people don't care they say F your feelings and if I notice any chinks or weaknesses in you not only am I not going to respect you I'm going to use you walk all over you and I'm going to control you so I agree with half of what you're saying it it's who you are in the house but there's another half to this and that is outside your door people don't care about you or your feelings at all now that part that part you are definitely right but I've also learned this too there's no gold coin there's no diamond that drops out of anybody's dick oh wait a second hold on we got whoa what every every dick is the same the same out every dick stop interrupting her Steve let her finish my door who cares about my feelings and you're right about that and you definitely are right about that but people have to think long and hard about what they want and then all like you said about the young man about I'm in the friend zone I'm just like a brother to her why don't she like me a lot of them like they say play play the they play the flipflop they they they flip okay instead of showing her attention I'm going go ahead and take that attention to show some else then when she sees that I'm not interested interested in her then she'll come to me my take on this is I don't give a Russian [ __ ] my thinging like this like you said think like a man but with a woman that says it says this in the Bible the ways of a woman will never be known to a man so what the thing of it is I not only can think like myself I can think like you too no you can't I I I've seen and I've seen the things that men do to women because I've had it done to me then when I turn around and do the flip and then do it on them their egos can't handle yeah because you can do it to suckers you you don't do it to men you do it to M men's men's eego are so fragile they're more fragile than women no no I agree but you males when you tell a man no when you tell a man no oh she told me no oh no she can't do that to me and it's also the same way for a woman when the same thing it works the same for a woman ma'am I believe ma'am ma'am I agree with you but here's the problem you're not talking about men you're talking about these sucker males out there that act more feminine than you do who are bothered by you got that right who are bothered by your say right so a man you tell a man no listen you don't even have to tell a man no a man poses something to you and you don't answer it you're gone if you say I don't know you're gone maybe you're gone I'll think about it you're gone I don't know you're gone and you don't answer any questions you're gone because a man's not wasting his time so you're not talking about men you're talking about effeminate males that are using their feelings I feel oh you I care and right about that you're all right about that I've I've come intact with several of them in fact I married two of them and then when I found out how they were then it was up on me to do what I had to do it was on me to do what I had to do I got out of the Rel relationship and I was on my own and you know what when it's the same you talk about like you said the in inin men okay take an example uh man picks you up take you to his apartment y'all go ahead and screw then when it's done he wants to give you c f and kick you out when I've done it to man the same thing talking about okay here you go you you need me to take you somewhere oh I can't spend the night here no I don't want the sun to catch you up I don't want the sun to catch you here and don't bring a toothbrush to to to to even brush your teeth because you're not going to be here that long and see well I'm I'm trying to understand and and what you said infam man women nowadays are smart enough to know that when you see a man and you can look at a man by the way he talks the way he talks and the way he act you know he flips both sides of the coin okay Dave were you like say anything to this lady well I well the part when you it's it's like when you saying like if you go to a man house and you him and and then he wants you to leave right after ma'am can you turn down the background please ma'am ma'am can you turn down your background please turn it down please that's my boyfriend's talking that's his mouth right okay no that's not that sounds like let me move on the next one why don't why don't you do that move in the Next Room please so Dana because yeah I'm in the next I'm sorry Dana please I didn't me to interrupt you please so um okay you was talking you was saying all that your boyfriend was standing right there but um but okay so you say you you so you say you go over a man house and you know you sleep with him and then he wants you to leave afterwards and then you turn around you do the same thing with a man why are you doing what men do just because and is this the same man or these different men so because one man who you dealt with did treated you one way then you want to go and turn treat other men you encounter with the same way that [ __ ] treated you so you going to treat the other men like [ __ ] because you were treated like because the [ __ ] treated you badly uh yeah but see there's a reason for that the way I grew up where I came from everybody knew me I was known since I was four years old up until my 16th birthday I used to sing a lot on the weekend I'm also an incest Survivor my dad oh from the time I was four years oh from the time I was four years old ma'am please please ma'am ma'am ma'am we can't talk we can't okay okay there are certain words that we cannot use please can you please refrain from words like that please yeah we don't need to know your history so basically basic you this I won't use that no more real quick real quick Dana want to say something before I let you go D what did you want to say please so and and southernbell hit it right in the chat you're traumatized and that is why you look at men less than or a certain way trauma and then also if men are treating you badly or if you ran into multiple men that treated you badly why are you attracting that and it's probably because you are traumatized you need to do the attra the attracting to to them towards me because they figured this well since it's already been done to her I can go ahead and do it don't see the thing of it is I broke that cycle okay and I left that place okay well ma'am okay we gotta go okay' in a good place now to where I've been in a relationship with one man okay for 22 years okay that's wonderful okay well we'll we'll let you go but appreciate the call okay ma'am thank you very much 252 okay respect to you but I didn't know y'all was chicken when it come to talking well wait wait you say you say did you say chicken did you say you didn't know we were chicken wait wait hold on wait wait wait wait oh no no no no you can't wait wait wait what do you mean hold on wait what you just like that guy hold on wait wait wait hold on hold on wait wait wait wait wait wait wait no pick up hold on she pick up you pick up because I know she's watching right now pick up your phone pick up your phone hello have the nerve to call us chicken have the nerve to call us chicken wait a second wa wait wait wait wait wait wait why would you sit there and call us chicken because we didn't want to hear all that BS that you were saying why why why why would why would you call us chicken no no no no no why would you call us chicken why would you call us chicken let us know why would you call chicken that is not ladylike and your man should punish you by not giving you any sausage for a week shame on you be a better woman and represent your man better instead of saying them little heinous things because you ain't getting your way good day ma'am okay we're back guys lines are open all right anyway like we saying go ahead so anyway uh let's let's continue so say I'm saying D she want call she she want to sit here and listen all that here you go I got to go out give me a second I gotta go out oh wait a minute yeah give me a second oh my God I what is this e okay I don't see you oh testing testing testing Can you guys hear me can you guys hear me let me know if you can hear me uh my bad the the bad juju came from you okay you guys yes okay thank you thank you I can hear you okay I don't see Steve that's the thing so what is this my [ __ ] God okay I think Steve has to reset it sounds like I sound like an alien I don't know I don't know know tesy I testing testing okay I sound fine no you sound good okay so I think Steve say he had to reset he had to reset because it froze up streamyards is funny streamyards is funny actually let me look on his oh God he's live oh no he is live he's just not on the screen live okay so I just want to make sure like I'm getting confused now I don't know I don't have control of the chat I don't have control of the phone line so yeah uh oh let me read this Super Chat even though I can't bring you up um Elum I didn't mean it that way keep the gloves off y'all keep your foot on their neck men don't cry because nobody is supposed to see it except your closest confidant Wolfpack the best workouts or fights are the ones not broadcasted or seen okay thank you um elim men do cry it's just that majority of men we don't see it CU y'all cry in the dark the hater is what happened I don't know what happened to Steve I don't know what happened to Steve I don't know this is the show we really want to yeah okay no this show okay we have a question when Robert cried in industry and Eric um snapped him out of it that was powerful well oh yes honestly I think first of all I thought that was for that moment for that moment being on the floor yeah that was good therapy however he didn't know that he just came from his girlfriend's home and she died on him so he never communicated that because if he did I don't think Robert would have said those things he just would have told him go home and that is another thing that men do wrong you guys don't communicate you guys and that's part of you guys holding the things in you hold stuff in all the time and you either expect people to read your mind or you try to hold it inside and suck it up and move on but a lot of times you can't do that because again you are a human being we all have feelings so at that moment in Industry I app appreciate him snapping him out of whatever fog he was in but if he knew what had happened to him that night he would have just told him to go home who wakes up to a dead girlfriend with no blood coming out of her nose in the morning you wake up to her she's dead after you just got finished banging her out the night before and then you go to work and it's it's it's and it's it's the the biggest IPO opening like it's like their stock market in London so that was crazy that was crazy that that whole that show tells that show breaks down and reveals to you the people that are in finance in the stock market like even in billions these High um High elevated pressure cooker positions cuz they're making tons of money boatloads of money but it's so much stress that's why it's a lot of drugs like a lot of these St stock Brokers they do a lot of drugs whether it's cold hering or whatever because it's a high pressure job and you're making millions of dollars so yeah like crying how they probably cry in a bathroom or cry at home that's why they have all of these um um toxic dependencies these alcoholics drug addicts I could tell y'all some stories about Wall Street honey back in a day but yeah what is going on with Steve let me look at my thing here okay it went back up so I guess I will take over do y'all have a put a q in the chat if y'all have any questions put a q [Music] Steve Heather probably shut down his whole system and I sniff and smoke what drugs oh no no no I didn't do none of that I didn't do drugs I mean I took a eill twice I just knew and seen you talking about these young multi-millionaires who worked in the finance industry there were high all the time and then two being a massage therapist like in the beginning of my career you know they had money so if you when when you go to their home and you give them massage like their apartments are like laid out but um it was just they're just on 10 all the time and they need something to bring them down if you notice a lot of chefs like really good chefs they um do a lot of coke too because it's a high pressure environment but yeah so so talking about you know um men should not cry yeah you should but just cry in the dark uh raymen says question where are you from Dana from New Jersey East St New Jersey to be exact East Coast Tri State the drugs and money hit their emot emotions and stress from themselves yes and then what happens a lot of times you crash you always want to hit bottom because if you keep bottling stuff in and you don't have an outlet and then you throwing alcohol and drugs to suppress it is going to come out and when it comes out you can't control how where it comes out so you you're going to end up hitting rock bottom that is a fact that's where Whitney Houston's from yes por Rays yes yeah North Jersey yes honey North Jersey stands up because North Jersey is totally different from South Jersey big difference and everything um yeah the culinary world is fueled by drugs yes and people don't realize that some of your famous chefs some good ass chefs be doing eight balls honey we don't do we have an accent in Jersey I don't people in New York say I sound country they think people New Jersey sound country so and then outside of New Jersey they were like where you from like I sound just like you unless you have a Southern accent um a chat roll call drop your city yo we going way off the subject Jersey City yeah drop your city Albuquerque Detroit Detroit is about less than two hours from me Atlanta Emerald legosi bam you think he did C all that damn bam he probably did then I always hit the B oh god really men who say they hit the bottom that means you really don't hit the bottom Georgia Toronto Philly Las veg Florida Jersey New York Savannah okay Dana where's our beloved brother Steve at I have no idea sniffing coat with Bobby FL Conneticut um you coming down to Miami for me to put my bid no I would not be in Miami for what I'm not part of that Vancouver yes um where you at I'm at home Steve done Zapped into the abyss look Steve got so much [ __ ] in his office with his podcast office he probably done hit a um a cord or something honey and everything probably just shut down I don't know and literally I can't end this stream so y'all gonna have to deal with me and Steve probably having a fit honey y'all gonna have to deal with me until Steve come back because I can't I could end the stream on my end but then Steve is still going to be um live so either you want to see a blank screen or yeah or I just stay on hey Dana um you look cute thank you girls speak the whole what is this let me go up a little bit the whole street gone black New Orleans we're telling everybody to drop your city honey hey I just subscribed my friend doesn't think you're say his name his gamer tag is edp445 can you shout him out yes shout out to edp445 where you from so a lot of people you know what Gamers they're very popular love the cowboy hat more of that yes honey ston only the best um does the call still I don't know I can't take phone calls because Steve control the calls he controls the chat and all that um Ray Ray blast Dana we need game time now for the students of the game you got any kissing 101 you can teach us kissing what you wna learn how to kiss don't do open mouth that's number one and you really shouldn't kiss on the lips when you just meet somebody and even if it's a one night stand and you're having sex and it's the first day you met her don't kiss but if it's someone who you've been talking to or is your girlfriend or whatever if it's something serious how in the hell did this fly get in here if it's something serious you just close lips with your mouth simple and if you want to open up your mouth like you all that tongue stuff is played out if you want to open up your mouth like just open up the mouth and either focus on the top or the bottom lip or something what like a smooch but all that slob each other down no Los Angeles Queens Philadelphia again y'all wrong no Dana you sound like me babies baby doll no Dana okay no what no to kissing if you're saying no to kissing you're lying because you do kiss do not shout oh why oh oh it's a troll okay D after dark session so okay but all right yeah y very extra with the not don't shout out y so extra no French King no no try to exchange minimum bodily fluids as possible um my tongue likes to swirl around every you're being perverted R blast and you're you probably have HPV in your throat oh okay so when you are when we are live this way and portrait style it's really like a short video it's like it's like we're live on shorts so live on shorts you get a lot of trolls yeah I'm being very disgusting and do you really think I might answer that question if you asking about tossing salad you're nasty don't ask a question that you already doing just to see what I'mma say you just telling on yourself [Music] okay no I cannot tell you about my content okay that must be Steve Dana if you could only choose between love languages of gifts or quality time which would you choose well quality time is my love language so love languages of gifts you mean so if I could choose between gifts or quality time um I would pick quality time but you could bring me some gifts while we're spending quality time how about that but quality time because that's one of the hardest thing that a man could give you is your time that's the hardest thing y'all could give a woman is your time that's the that's the most expensive gift is time like the hat thank you Ray time is the most sensious Dana you like the new season of True Detective is farfetched the new season you talk well I that was that wrapped already you talking about the Alaska one boxing Dave yes loved it where the cash at for the light Bill he gonna be like your job paycheck yeah Steve not coming back listen he gonna like all right Danny your time is up um so yeah um a man giving a woman time is the most expensive gift ever unless you call Steve Dana he's not coming back know I called him he said he has to reboot yo Dana you in shampoo yes we still cool Dana put a hit no did not all right do y' have any relevant questions ask relevant questions don't ask no perve questions cuz y'all like telling on yourselves you he is coming back up because you see how he put the the number and all this other stuff we just don't see him yet can you be your man yo Dana can can I be a man can you be your man that makes no sense ninja this ninja scared what do you mean um I still have my license Glenn I just just don't practice right now what makes you most excited about life that's a good question uh waking up every day oh I'm still here what I'mma do every time I wake up Life Starts over so I'm excited about okay what content am I'm going to create cuz I like doing this I do this full-time content creator you know uh making plans talking to someone special you know all that good stuff um Steve what the Mayweather fight he's fighting Dana can you talk about what a self-concept is and let Steve talk about it also what do you mean self-concept how long have you been doing this 5 years I would say a total of six seriously for the last two years seriously cuz before that I was just using it as you know like a hobby but I went from Hobby to taking it seriously I would say two years love your YouTube videos keep them coming thank you Gary um talking to D yeah um anyone ever say your channel Wendy Williams energy no but that's a compliment if they did um that's the best way to stay out of jail and trouble black men give good black women most of your time yeah stay out of trouble period how would your friends describe you I don't really have friends so they can't really describe me they'll probably say I'm silly the judge is my friend he's my friend so he would say that I'm nice he also say that I could be contentious um silly funny and I'm good-hearted I have a good heart how did you click up with JoJo Brown I sent him a message on Twitter four years ago and I said hi um I love what you're text I love what you're posting on Twitter it was Twitter at the time I would like to interview you can I inter I asked him can I interview him for my podcast and he said yes and then one interview led to another and I kept bugging him bugging him and bugging him and he kept coming coming coming and then you build a friendship and then it just became a regular thing because Co hit so it was actually 2019 and we started being regular and consistent in 2020 but I still wasn't taking it seriously until about two years ago um so yeah um I met him I reached out to him through Twitter I think Wendy from Jersey yes Wendy Williams is from New Jersey but she's from South Jersey uh what would you do if your partner's birthday is coming up before yours and you've been together for a few months well you say a few months I wouldn't do nothing I just say happy birthday I mean take him out to dinner you know what I'm saying but that's not my boyfriend I only known him for some months so we're not in a relationship I'm not obligated but I would definitely acknowledge the birthday quality time and a longdistance relationship should be uh at least once a week perfectly during the weekends it depends on the schedule and the distance yeah um crypto I just explained how I met him a few months yeah a few months is not you're not in a relationship in a few months exactly happy birthday is the best you get what's your worst date experience or one of them that's a good question [Music] um it was a time when did I have a worst dat oh I I did actually I don't remember though because if it was worse I forget about it I don't remember cuz if it's if if I'm in the middle of the date and I know it's like really bad just leave but I'm pretty sure it's probably a very long time ago nothing recent since I've been like a real adult but I can't think of one no I don't think I really had one cuz I always been in relationships long-term relationships so if you're in a relationship and you want a date and you get into a tiff but I don't think that really counts I don't think that's what you're really talking about how long you're dating a guy before you're serious what depends because now at my age you know um I would say a minimum a year but I look at it it depends because where I'm at in my life I don't do anything casually so it's always with the intention when I you know can I see myself being serious with this person not even in a relationship can I see myself being serious and if I can I'm like okay let's see where this goes so with me it's never intentional it's never intentional so I would say definitely a year and then you're going to have a conversation but before that I make it be known I don't do nothing casual and my goal is relationship and my goal or my purpose with you is to see if this could be serious and it may not end up being serious and that's fine but I definitely give any type of serious talking or whatever definitely at least at least a year um cuz usually like I I don't date locally anyway so I will have to travel I always had to like travel so yeah um which makes the timeline more extended when your birthday my birthday is October the 7th which is a damn shame now because October the 7th is going to be known as the day when Hamas um stried Israel and that whole mess for the past year uh that the date wasn't that bad then I don't it's honestly even even when it comes to bad sex like I've had bad sex I knew I was never going to speak to this person again so I forget about it I I forget about a lot of stuff especially if it's negative I'll deal with it and then after that I'll move on I forget about it I don't hold on the stuff or linger with it that's it gives you wrinkles most memorable date Oho now that's a good one I had I think I had several of those so was this guy I think I was 18 so I have to do by decades like age decades um what was his name John and he had a Mustang but it was the twodo sports car Mustang it was so sexy and on our first date did we have sex I don't think we did I forgot where we went but I had a ball I think we went to a restaurant but it was like one of those restaurants on the water on the Hudson maybe we did have sex in the first date I don't know but I I just had fun I had fun um when was another time I don't know I don't really date a lot but I'm trying to think I'm trying to go back into time I don't know honestly oh I do have one and it was his birthday it was his birthday and I wanted to take him out but he wanted to he was like no he was doing everything and I met him in the city and he had car service so when I got off the train in the city got into the car went to this lovely beautiful restaurant the food was perfect the vibe the Ambiance the everything the food everything conversation everything even the the whole night and then after dinner we went to like one of these um upscale hotel to the bar area you know and sexy had a couple of drinks yeah so that that was cool and that was about two years ago that was the most memorable but I plan on having more memories so yeah and it's hard for me to remember because honey if I don't talk to you now I forget about everything that we probably did together uh t as where you at oh I don't know that okay um Dana what are the factors the man you are dating make you feel protected well I'm not dating anybody now what are the factors the man you are dating make you feel what factors going but what factors go into that what you saying protected protect well I look at it like this I'm not dating you know there's somebody I like I'm getting to know someone or whatever so if a person is it's they don't live near me so it's not the actual physical protection but I look at it I am online that's what I do do so I look at it like the um keeping our business our business you know not exploiting me or trying to you know that type of stuff so that's protection as well right but um not running your mouth you know not trying to intentionally harm me especially when it's online and then let's just say if I'm around the man you know just making sure you are aware of the per per perimeters I hope I said it right whatever area we're at that you are full aware so if anything pop off you know where the exit door to guide me and lead me to safety Uncle Steve went awall I have changed so much yeah can you see yourself with star no no no and why would you think that give me a second oh yeah man I'm back oh you are back can you hear me you sound crazy I know I'm trying to see I wait I sound crazy right now what I sound like check mike check yeah sound crazy check check what about now check check better that's better yeah yeah you it's about time for you to to to go anyway I mean you've been running the show but first of all what happened with you Jillian said I you know you know what you know what second I wanna read Jillian she said I had a man who decided to take me skydiving on the first date he got scared and didn't jump I did jump and in a uber home by the time the coward landed oh my God Jillian that is so funny oh my God and I probably would have got in a damn Uber too oh my gosh man [ __ ] you D you know what let me show you what I have hold on let me show you this on you see this right now d i i i right there see wait you see this right there see right there what is that my my my new desktop I'mma have to break out I'mma break this out after the show is over with my baby my baby died on me Ray says how did you and Dean Team up and start streaming together he well I met him via star because he will calling and then one time I called in and that was the first was having dialogue and um and I think he said said to Star oh um what is her contact so I could you know invite her on a platform and he had this idea for us to do a show but he also said he was like oh she's cool so he don't he ain't trying to deal with someone who you know yeah yeah yeah I gotta hold on keep talking I'm just I'm just trying to get all man I'm trying to go little ad I was about to cry my baby my my computer died on me man I said if you got so many damn plugs you probably hit no no my my my baby my baby died on me and yeah what wait what did um giovan Dean telling then is time to go right away it's hilarious yeah I know he was gonna come in here and say that say what that okay it's time for you to go Dana you know I was G say that but wait I need to make sure you hear all this yeah let me see yeah you know hey you know was almost you know it's almost time for you to go but you know I mean you you was holding it down you was you was doing your thing hold let me see I gotta switch desktop probably 10 years well I yeah I've had my I had my my desktop for a while man it's no it was time I I you know I had to hey just hey that my side I call her my side chick well got my TV side chicks and it's had it's time to to Let Her Go had to said I get another 30 you get another well just talk go ahead I'm just trying to get everything together anyway together um Steve why Steve the people CH said Steve why do you have a feminist in your show sir do you know what a feminist is have a have a who in my show a feminist in your show first feminist me I guess me who's ask wait who's asking the question the people's Champion what let me see hold on wait wait wait hold on uh hold on wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait now now I can look at some of this stuff and see wait wa where's the people's champion at let me see uh wait hold on where is he at I was the cool substitute people champion no hey hey people's Champion wait well I I let be the first one to say [ __ ] man shut your [ __ ] ass up man ibody care nobody give a hell what you say man punk ass [ __ ] hold on a second let me see Dana can you hear this let me see you hear that yes yes and this all right cool all right so right now over the calls yeah no no continue lines yeah I had to test I had to make sure the lines are the lines are up and running have somebody call in know to test the audio on the phone oh wait a second I just gota wait hold on give me two seconds I just got to do this thing but yeah there's no fness on this show I don't know why someone would say something like that uh let's see here the people's Chomp exactly I don't know why he say that that's not even see all Communications let's see here just want to make sure the lines are open guys call in the lines open I can test it hold now keep talking D you got until I get everything together so I can do a show with my boys okay yeah Dana was the sub that put on Bill Ry the Science Guy and let the students go to sleep so you said I put you to sleep I did not put y'all to sleep honey I did not put y'all to sleep Steve is the one that just rubed the the show Honey so he was he he was the teacher that had to be escorted out he had he had a family mer no no I have no well you know had technical had technical little breakdown dud yeah so things happen but I ain't tripping I'm just trying to I'm just trying to get it all together so yeah keep talking I'm I'm just trying to set up the calls get all that together no I gotta switch over to my computer I so V was like put me honey if I put you to sleep why you still here you were still listening to me talk yeah it was so you so you were relaxing your brain because I was soothing your brain I was soothing your brain with my words that's I'm like yo and you know what it's always the males that always want to say something negative want to say something negative about a woman or a man but it's always the mes it's it's very once in a Twilight blue it may be one woman other than that it's never the wom it's you [Music] males now keep talking to I'm just trying to I got to download my app yes it's sothing it's no no on no don't don't try to come back and black asses to no it's but it's always it's always you guys it's always you mes and then you get mad you get mad at the woman when she leaves like Jillian Jillian skyd Jillian Skydive landed honey and got in a uber cause she could sense the cowardness in that man and in what man oh yeah Ray blast good thing I'm not a negative male do I get a gold star for that title substitute Dana yes you get a gold star you want a Go Star you get a gold star really they begging for stuff now okay people saying good job I guess these are your people telling me I'm doing a good job my people are my people are good man they they uh they're good they're good people I gu a good job because your whole platform is nothing but men yes we have nothing but men yeah a few women but nothing but men so no you have no women and I think and you don't want women so it's like I'm I don't mind women listening no women women can come in and listen how men talk they just I'm talking about on a show it's all men I'm the tiny exception so I guess your audience is like okay she did decent for your audience I guess because I don't talk about relationships my platform I talk about politics I talk about current events public policies yeah and majority of my audience are seniors Boomers genx and the older what's after Gen X Millennials the older Millennials adapt of gen Z's Dana while you're on what do you do for paying for your what oh the S1 the sciatica the lower back or whatever what do you do you stretch I don't get that saming um ask the language arts question in chemistry class wrong period okay um let's see Gen X Y then Z yeah no it's Gen X Millen and jines I love women however I don't like women that this men 24/7 well they're not women they're still females and they have to dis men 247 Dana study no I didn't study acupuncture and you spelled it wrong that's a whole another field honey that that's that's no now I went to school with acupuncture the people that was going for acupuncture and US massage therapists like we were the cool ones and they were more earthy earthy cuz it was very detailed more involved but and you have to you have to live a certain lifestyle if you really want to be a good um acupuncturist but no I didn't study acupuncture now I study meridians because I'm a licensed massage therapist and I got my um New York license so you have over 1,200 hours that's because we learned Western and Eastern um therapy holistic therapy hi Amber uh 904 call I want to call back God who wants to call back 904 who's n who is that who is thata yeah why do women support older women dating teenage boys I don't know any older woman that wants to date teenage boys that is disgusting so what you mean teenage you mean young men in their 20s women have been women have been dating men forever it's never going to stop I wonder this yeah no I'm saying call in and test I'm trying to see I gotta reset up man you don't This I Gotta I got I gotta bring in my new computer but no at least they can hear me talk so if they can hear me talk I can just I can just take the questions and stuff like that uh so you're not going to well yeah we can't take him right now because uh I'm still trying to set that up right now so give me a second trying to set that up yeah why are men intimidated or have a problem with older women at date younger when you men do it all the do it all the time so I think it's not talked about women do it just as equally as the men I bet you that's probably the thing right there putting the wrong wrong side and wrong section go keep talking to him do you got it I'm just trying to looking at the comments so do you guys have any more questions for me non nonsexual I'm not unless you need assistance and unless you need advice don't ask me about my sex life if you need advice or help whatever okay but any questions about anything you know um PG Jesus uh women don't date younger men until they get older didn't I just say that I said older women have younger men just as much as the older men date younger women question tell the truth did you watch the DNC convention waiting for yes I was live live on my channel I said I'm only here for Beyonce because I would have been pissed if she would have showed up but it's still Beyonce and I want to see the performance yes you think I was watching it to hear Camala speak no I heard her speak and I was live and I was and we critique her the next day of course I watched it for Beyonce everybody else was on you Dana what you think a guy should plan on the first date with a woman I would say something fun not too serious fun fun fun fun [Music] fun you know you don't gotta be the movies is not fun you could be creative but you don't gotta be over the top I can hear feedback t yeah will get laughed at cry I don't think women were laughing a lot of times like to see a man cry wait what how about feeding that's not fun feeding but did man over sure we are in 2024 adults yes is not high school this is not freshman college so yes and if you only got $50 to spend you don't need to be dating an have you heard about the cowboy safety that's out eight weeks yes you echoing now Stephen that's what somebody said Stephen I think it was a guy that called You Stephen get crypto he called you Stephen oh no why you do that all right how's that better is that better testing what's wrong with $50 $50 says you're broke and cheap and you can't do anything with $50 you spend more than $50 on yourself how you want to do something fun you can't even go to movies for two people $50 so sir no you need to spend more than $50 you you want to feed the ducks good luck younger men date older women they're just hitting that that so don't get it twisted first of all what do you think a older woman want a younger man for is sex duh what do you think a older man when a younger woman for is sex duh same Reas same thing doesn't matter it's just that sometimes the younger men or women they get attached to the older but they do it for sex why why is an old man watching girls on Tik Tok I don't know what old man oh my God can we gonna I'm almost ready we we ready about to do the show guys I'm just getting last things together go ahead dve keep talking to to see what we I would not like to see what you could do for first of all sir you wouldn't even talk to me if you only have $50 we're not we're not talking we're not exchanging numbers we're not going nowhere so I won't see anything and I won't not be interested in say no I've never ever dealt with anyone who only spent $50 on a date with me that even when I was 18 who that [ __ ] guys we'll be talking that's not a date that's just that's just going that's just hanging out the pizza poar um guys in a second guys I'm almost done if a woman wants to be exclusive after like you or just the idea of just the idea of having a boyfriend because she knows nothing about you why does she want to be exclusive you hit it and it was great and she latched on to you no she just wants the idea of a boyfriend or she wants to lock you down because you hit it so good but either way run oh my guys we're gonna be going live in a second I don't know if we'll be able to take C structure in this live yes you do and I could give you some a little bit ofu but at the same time this is y'all this is mainly Steve people yeah yeah oh yeah Daddy coming your daddy is coming Daddy just gotta clean up his house daddy gotta Electronics I'm almost there big dog I'm just I'm just trying to get everything together I'm trying to I'm just trying to set the phones up on my uh my old old yeah yeah we gonna talk about that guys we talk about what is cat what is cat what what is only afford $50 or less I mean listen if all you could afford that's all you could afford make it stretch take her for pizza pizza take her for that $5 special MLL man I'm just letting her talk guys I can't believe she saying she saying she gonna let her talk she say pizza no cause somebody asked me you know it's $50 good on a first dat to spend only $50 where you going for at the pizza where you want $50 for two adults in 2024 where inflation so high where you want $50 honey you feeding the Ducks you gonna spend over 10 so come on feeding the Ducks and hot coco only for first date move forward okay that's still $50 yeah piz is what $4 a slice now who does that $50 you nobody didn't ask you for your money sir if you saying she deserves no money then don't ask her out why you asking her out and then why you get mad why you in your feelings Mr Bree if she deserves no money or no dollars spent on her why are you asking her out wait for the woman to ask you out how about that because whoever asks who out first is the one who should be paying so wait for her to ask you out since you don't to pay see how you solve that issue where you live that everything cost $50 or more everywhere anywhere in America sir anywhere in America buy one pizza for $20 and share the pizza okay so I guess you are 20 years old freshman in college or something listen if it works for her have at it don't but don't get a attitude when that don't work for certain women just keep it moving but a lot of you dudes you get upset you went oh I ain't spending no money over 50 why she ain't worth it well don't ask let me h do this stuff so I can move CU you tripping yeah if you are broke just say that and then if you are broke wait for the women to ask you out gentlemen don't listen to that don't listen to that I'm almost done let her let her let her man she she it's it's it's the one guy the one guy said $50 question mark I'm not giving a woman any dollars so I said well have her ask you out what's wrong with that I think the Lin nobody's not asking these guys out nobody's not asking them out somebody call in and test the lines real quick yeah guys calling test the lines real quick I just want to make sure it's working so we can uh chop it up guys call the lines real quick oh let put the number I rate New Jersey has the best has better pieza than New York sorry all right gentlemen uh just call in real quick this test somebody call in real quick let make sure the line is open and working so we go L who ask men out nowadays a lot if you and listen honey if you you claim to be that guy whether you turn it down or not but if you don't want to spend money on a woman then let her spend money on you but you gotta get that woman to spend money on you you got to be that person for her to want to approach you to even spend money on you to even ask you out and you haven't had su6 706 you hear me 706 can you hear me hello 706 testing hey I don't I don't wait oh I know what the problem is they can't hear me because it's on this [ __ ] right here hold on a second uh headset hold on uh uh sir can you hear me check wait rer yeah yeah you can hear me yes sir can you hear him Dana I can hear him can you hear hear me yes I can hear both of you oh you can hear us both all right thank you sir I appreciate it man appreciate it sir thank you very much all right Dana wait hold on hold your thought hold your thought real quick because I'm G talk to D got Dana for me no somebody had muted me on the chat and I was just asking if they can unmute me wait who who are you who are you in the chat I'm Jeremy Long all hold on are you on Dana's or mine no I'm on I think I'm on yours please all right go ahead wait give me one second I'm I'm to to okay give me one second then we'll do the show that you could chat again once your timeout is up well no I don't know think they they you or kick you out I think I think it said time out well then if they timed you out you probably said some whack something we and they had they had to shut you up but it's amount of time and yeah what did you say to get timed out uh she was talking about the $50 and I okay well all right well don't worry about it wa wait what did well what did you say what did you say to get timed out um I'm assuming I said um would you like to see what we can do with $50 okay so why why did the $50 trigger you I was really I was just curious about why um why $50 determines um the potential of a date well somebody asked me a question is $50 a good amount to take somebody out on the first date and I said two grown adults in 2024 no because everything is expensive unless you want to take her to Pizza take her maybe to feed the Ducks but it's not you spend $50 just on you alone so what is it that triggered you for you to get emotional to type what you type why let's get this last why we got to do the show guys we ready for the show we got everything going go ahead that real quick why are you so why you guys so triggered when I said when somebody asked me a question about 50 and I said no why are you tried is it because you 50 um honestly I found it kind of funny so I just kind of Gotta Laugh at it I it wasn't like a serious question all right okay that's your okay all right well caller we'll let Hey caller you got a question call back because I'm about to start the show Dana go ahead and let them know let them know how to get at you and everything so I can go ahead and get the show going for my dogs go ahead Dana Steve about to have a heart attack yeah let's go man we got we got I got game to teach these young men about feelings and emotions so we got to get it going guys I'm G to show you why if you act more like Tyrese why you're never going to win in a game or with women and what you can do so that's what we're gonna be discussing D go let him know I want you to say thank you Dana for holding it down while your [ __ ] broke down D I appreciate it you holding it down you know I I I appreciate it thank you very much you held it down I uh I had I had to go to my third computer just to get this thing so we got we kind of we got this thing glued up a little bit gentlemen but tomorrow I promise you I have my new computer up so wish you wouldn't have no problems and stuff I think it might be the wire that goes from my roadter to my computer it just went out so things happened but yeah so uh D go ahead tell them how to get at you and stuff we go I want people to subscribe to the dusty Chronicles gotta get those numbers up and thank thank you to Elum everyone that sent in Super Chat everybody on X love you guys and that's it everybody have a good night bye you bye all right thank you thank you very much D all right guys I'm GNA let everybody these people out and everything we got the white board up got the white board make sure the white board's working got the white board up gentlemen I'mma let these people out in one second I just want to make sure I want to say thank you to D appreciate it D I just want to give her credit make sure the white board's working okay y'all can see the Whiteboard okay good y'all can see the white board whiteboard is working so gentlemen let me go ahead and let these people uh thank you again thanks to D for holding it down gentlemen I apologize the uh my computer my computer just said f you you just gave me the middle finger so uh but lines are open let me go and let these people out let me go and uh bring in you know our 30 second thing our promo and everything but again appreciate D very much uh for coming in and holding it down I do want thing you see we're not as mean as y'all think we are but uh one second let me go ahead and put these last things in all right guys so let me go ahead and do this let me go ahead and uh do this and I'll let all all these people out Usher them out so we go ahead and chop up this game uh let's see where we going with this uh here we go be right back what up it's your boy PA Kennedy you already know what it is and you're listening to the manm mindset.com dating help for men with your host Steve the dean Williams what's up this is to and you're listening to the manm mindset.com dating help for men with your host Steve the dean Williams this is the shark Damon John and you're listening to the man mindset.com dating help from men with your host Steve the dean Williams okay oh wait I'm doing hold on I'm almost done hold on people wait let me play let me play my music while I uh get uh her people out hold on y'all know what song We gonna play come on let's get it y'all know come on I know I got it right here yeah [Music] when I put it in your mouth you drink it all