Reality Ep 47: Love Is Blind UK's Bobby & Jasmine Reveal They're Trying For Kids & Spill Show Gossip

welcome back to another episode of reality you know the Vibes all the tea we are talking lovers blind UK Jasmine and Bobby are in the building hello you know what it's crazy because when I think of the show I feel like you guys are like the winners like then you're together you're glistening you're glowing how does it feel it feels mad doesn't it it feels mad I mean we've had a crazy year so far um it's been pretty normal up until this point and then everything drops and you know people seeing you in the street and like Love is Blind Love is Blind it's been very good though very supportive I mean we've had the best time so have have you been enjoying your new fan frame cuz yeah like obviously the whole country not the whole world's watching it have you seen all like the cometry in like America and stuff like how does it feel like when people stop you and stuff cuz cuz it's a positive thing they're not stopping you about anything bad it's like they're they're stopping you about your love story which people are really invested inh I mean it it's Tak taking some time to get used to because I've got like colleagues that are messaging me saying Jasmine are you on Netflix love is blind and these are people that I work in the hospital with so so it's a little bit awkward them seeing me with my nurse hat on and then them seeing me you know snugging a man on TV it is you know is a bit awkward but you know what I'm not mad at it at the end of the day you know every everyone finds love all your colleagues you know it's normal it's a normal thing so you had to sit on this bad boy piece of information for a whole year that's been the hardest thing is sitting on it keeping it quiet you know keeping it a secret that's been the hardest thing and I've got a big ass mouth as well so it's been very hard to uh keep it in but you know what what shows that you guys are actually genuine is the fact that you've stayed together even within that year because if it was just for the show then respectfully you know after a month juices see what the reunion but you've stayed together so what was what was that year together like because that was a year away from the cameras that was a year of you two genuinely getting to know each other so what was that like it's actually been the best year I think the most difficult part for us has been like the past couple weeks when now your relationship's out in the open everybody knows you've been on the show but of course they don't yet know the conclusion so I think this has been the most difficult time has it you haven't been able to go out yeah we spend so much time together going out going to gym going to the food market drinking the week not too much just a little bit but that's been different no but my heart's warmer cuz I'm like God this this show really works cuz someone put me on there so I can find myself a man gosh this is so beautiful so wait talk through that so you've been going to Food Market you've going to the gym I'm just I'm loving this for you no we love it don't we it's been so difficult now I have to go to the gym on my own I'm at the food market on my own I'm looking over my shoulder like imagining Jasmine she's not there I'm just on my own EA you literally feel like Billy Noom mates honestly cuz I'm like now I'm going you know and don't get me wrong I love my alone time but then when you're so used to having that person there it it is a bit difficult but like you know we don't have long to go so when you um so when so wait wait so when you at events like for example like we were at the same event the other day how does that work then do you just not communicate with each other we couldn't even talk we we we could I think we spoke to each other like a couple times but it was kind of like little GL yeah cuz I was like what and even at one point I remember she looked over at me and she was [Laughter] like but on the most part yeah we we're keeping it lowkey no okay well obviously when this goes out the world will know that you're you know what together and and everything so let's rewind back to the pods mhm what an amazing experience that must have been obviously speaking to like all of the different people going on all the different dates and obviously honing in on what you really want Bobby who else were you speaking to I mean I I just forgotten I think I forgot I don't remember you but the thing is I didn't really I didn't have any other connections I I had dates with everybody just like everybody else I had dates with with 14 13 other people um but did just it just didn't hit it didn't land like for me jasine was my first date and you know it away what I'm looking for it she was the only one for me yeah damn and Jasmine obviously you were talking to Bobby and you were talking to Sam at one point as well weren't you yes I was I mean I guess I owed it to myself at the end of the day I'm you know trying to find my husband so I need to explore other options um but then you know eventually when Bobby was like listen I don't want to speak to anyone else I don't want to be wasting my time I'm like I love that energy yeah and that's it I broke off with Sam so it's very easy for me to like make a decision cuz I knew knew he was the one but deep inside I wanted him to make the first move yeah um so I waited for him to kind of give me the green light and then I wasn't coming in like too strong in the beginning at the end of the day it's a big decision for me as well I wanted to make sure like n this is exactly what I want she is the one so we were a little bit of a slow burner cuz I wasn't going to go in there and just say anything to anyone you know I wanted to make sure that this is the real deal and this is what I want so um had a sleep on it when I knew I was ready came in the next day all guns blaz in I was like no I'm going going to get my girl got my girl and then the rest is history that but a quick rewind and a bit of an awward recap now on kind of Sam um at that time what was it that you found interesting about him at that moment in time I think you know what Sam's not a bad guy he may you know make some people feel uncomfortable with what he says and obviously what he's done but he did have some like nice traits he was very kind of emotionally vulnerable with me and you know he would he what I noticed a lot with him is he would like for you know future plan a lot like oh okay so on your on your break you know can I come and pick you up and you know we'll have lunch together and all these things so he kind of painted you know a bit of a future you know do you know what I mean I was about to no because some people sell dreams in this life you know I'm telling you I'm not I'm not not not K but I'm in general you know like same like when I'm dating someone and they're like painting like the future like we're going to go to the together I'm like what really okay let me get back like it does make you feel really excited yeah and that's what kind of like drew me to him in the you know in in that moment in time and then when I reflected back on it I'm like listen I don't want a man with just words I need action action yeah and Bobby J right here give me action period that's it period love that and obviously you decided to just like call things like quits with Sam I guess you wouldn't have seen his reaction up until the time when you've watched the show he obviously left the Pod you wasn't very happy chap m how do you feel now you've watched his reaction what's your opinion on that reaction from him okay so when I was in the Pod and he had walked out he I I heard him kind of slam the door but then I thought maybe he was just you know trying to get out the situation as quickly as possible cuz you know it wasn't an easy conversation that we did have um when I you know kind of watched it back obviously it was just a bit like you know what you know you're going to go to Nicole straight away then obviously you weren't that upset about it um I guess people deal with things differently but it kind of confirmed my decision you know what Jaz like that that women's intuition is the only thing that's going to save you in this place and I was right um so that's that got love for him you know nothing bad to say no bad blood but I was just very thankful in that time you know I listened to my women's intuition and it was right yeah so that's it of course and obviously Bobby you've I guess I guess it's a different show cuz you when from when you're in the lounges and you're talking to the boys to now watching how people behave in the pods um do you feel like you saw another side to him in in the in the from the pods or do you feel like um I think I saw it anyway you know I mean I think I had sort of a good got he got the intuition too the in he got it too I don't think I was so shocked to watch it all back but of course you don't see everything because you don't know what people are saying in their dates you don't really know what's going on behind the scenes so yeah it's it's tough watch but I think in the end the right man won so 100% and and and do we feel like you know in the reunion you know obviously he was kind of very apologetic to be feel like he like took accountability for his actions just for everything just for everything I don't think it's our place to say because we're not Sam right um if he is sorry then I guess actions will follow through with that do you know what I mean I don't know haven't spoken to him but I guess that's on him right yeah and I mean like like I said at the time you know in reunion I wasn't fully sold on on the fact um that he had sort of took accountability and change but hopefully it has been a learning curve for him and he can come out of it you know a better person and and there is some growth we all make mistakes yeah and just to kind of like um reiterate kind of and and bring back up what what you said Jasmine he is still a nice person and like I guess he is human like all of us right like some of us all have like our own toxic traits and you know we all learn we all make mistakes yada yada yada so I'm sure that for him he's on his own Journey um but I guess the most important thing right now is the fact that you know you chose Bobby and and you found a genuine loving Bond and you made the right decision and and you're still here so let's let's rewind back to to Greece yeah right what was it like obviously when you guys saw each other face to face it was very like genuine there was no awkward moments it was very lovely like there was no like there was nothing to comment on it was just lovely lovely VI you know so let's talk about Greece how did it feel now you're out the pods you're kind of in this setting you're away with your boo you're getting to know each other just a little bit more but face to face now how did that feel it felt amazing because it was so easy at first I thought you know it was going to be a little bit awkward but once we had like time to ourselves we just it developed it developed very naturally and I felt very comfortable around him I could do my thing with him I could be myself around him and he was just very accepting of that and we'd have so much jokes like we were like you know kind of swimming in the in the swimming pool all night long it was Vibes that we did some yeah we got we got wild you know and it was but it was so much fun and like she said like we hit it off right so we can tell I think reunion that's that's always going to be an awkward me first time meeting somebody you know the the physical person is a stranger but you know this person inside out inside so it's really it's a weird sort of sensation to sort of describe seeing somebody for the first time that you know really well it's it's such a strange concept isn't it but once we got to to Greece saw each other again 5 10 minutes we was just like we've known each other for years and years so yeah and it just grew stronger and stronger didn't it and I feel like you guys did well because some of the couples like were good maybe in the pods but then like when they were like mixing with others like it might like different vibe I thought like you guys were really really good at just like mixing with everyone like and you kind of like kept that same level of energy I also feel like you both kind of like you love the tea like like you were all in the no both of you you were in every story like I loved it you not loved the tea no we did I could see that but I do get the vibe from you guys that like you're like best friends as well so like you know what's going down and like you know the relationships where your best friends to the person is where you really like it's the te you know what I mean it's a Vibe it's a Vibe I Feel Like Me and Bobby are like the mommy and daddy of the group everyone comes to us with a tea for advice and we're just like yeah like we're sitting on Bad Boy information but I'm here to give you advice but like it always comes to us for some reason or another on your lap but we're happy for it we welcome it let's because the situation obviously like Jasmine you were very very vocal you know you called out olle um obviously you know your girl Demi you weren't happy cuz obviously you were on the back end so you're hearing how she's feeling you're you're also seeing a change in Demi's personality you're seeing you know someone who you met in the lounges someone who's really confident someone who's really excited and happy uh to then kind of like being quite deflated um obviously I made a video about this on Tik Tok and said that you know like you go jasine the people were like no I actually feel like maybe she was a bit too harsh um that wasn't my initial first take but like watching everything back how do you feel in now I think watching everything back I definitely do you know hold my hands up and say my delivery could have been a lot better um and I've apologized to ollie after the fact listen it was I was under the sun I had too much tequila and it was coming from a place of Love cuz your eyes were water like I know I know your eyes were like I know is I knew what time it was I knew what time it was listen I like to have a little drink here in Mar I like to have you know a good time it was late in the day wasn't it it was it was but but you know it's still good that you defended Demi in that moment because I feel like you know maybe that wasn't something that she that wasn't a conversation she maybe was going to have so outright with with olle and I guess what you kind of did was you got that conversation into the the Forefront so that now he can start thinking about what you've said and can start thinking oh do I need to confront him so yeah I think it's good that you kind of you did that I think in the show they show you a very condensed version of what was actually happening in real life I mean behind closed doors Demi was telling me she was going home obviously watching it back it wasn't really translating on camera what she had said to me you know behind cameras and for me me and Demi were besties in the pods me and this girl were like planning we're going to get our fairy tale ending it's going to be meu in kofu and we're going to be living our best lives walk down the island get our husbands so seeing her in that stay it really did affect me cuz I'm like we don't have our phones we don't have our families she was my family in that situation throughout the experiment she was my family I considered her as a sister so obviously there was a lot of emotions kind of running and it was kind of like a pressure pot in there um so I did kind of become a little bit too overprotective looking back on it I'm like you know what in real life I wouldn't have gotten that involved um but because it's such a different Dynamic being in kfu no family no friends around advise you on what to do you just act you know at a character um but I think the conversation had to be had to be had however my delivery could have been a bit different I don't know I think it should be Unapologetic you know like I think that look I think you're allowed to be I like on the show like people like you know you say what you think that's not a bad thing and at the end of the day I don't think she ever like questioned his character or said anything it was just delivery wise yeah that's tequila talking you know com on it's wrong but anything else I think it was justified you know to ask those questions and to be honest with you you think back on it if someone was asking Bobby do you like her or do you not if my wasn't singing my Praises yes I like my girl I love her boy I'm not even going to speak no but do you want do you know what I mean it's a simple question yeah cuz I guess I guess I guess if the answer was just yes then that's where it would have ended right yeah and the convo but you know at the end of the day I have love for olle No Bad Blood like ol's a great guy a greaty um and we don't need no drama listen I got my man I one that's it exactly 100% um now do you guys bicker ever because the energy I'm getting in this room right now is just nothing but like love and every couple must get like annoyed at each other yeah it's very rare isn't it it's very rare that we have like an argument I I think it took us a very long time like in the experiment everyone's like yeah but how are you going to cope when you know things do get difficult when you when you are when Jasmine gives you that North London energy and that attitude I was like well we'll see we'll see but we we waiting for a long time for it to happen um and it'd be months and months into our actual marriage until you know we had our first fight but it's very with us our fights are very much sit down talk it through say how you feel we grownups you know we communicate like grownups exactly he talks I listen I talk she listens we resolve it like grown-ups and we move on that's that's how we how we work isn't it you know what's funny I remember on our first argument he's like okay I'm not going to talk while I'm mad I'm just going to go for a walk clean my head and then I'll come back and I'm like this man is grown that so mature I have never had an argument like this before wow yeah I was like oh my gosh we're doing this now we're doing grownup damn grown-up relationship and that was great but so are you aware that people like see you this like straight talking like but I think it's a good thing mhm but obviously you know you you haven't been the only person from your family who's become famous off the back of this show it's also your mom and like people are like yep we can see where she gets it from what's it been like obviously like people are giving their opinions how's that been I think I saw you put up a story on your Instagram cuz I don't I've not seen everything I don't know how far it's gone in terms of like the comments but like cuz I guess in the beginning it was kind of like funny yeah um but how how was everything in that area um I feel like it has been really hard like you know kind of seeing people's comments about your own mom yeah that that is I have been getting messages like you need to disown her you need to give her therapy yeah really B com honey it's never that deep it's never that deep and if he's not crying about it then I'm you know for sure like yeah the thing is like we' move past it very quickly you know like me and Marissa had a conversation the day after um you know Jasmine had already spoke to her let her know maybe it was too bit too harsh you know what whatever I was already over it um she apologized she up moms are like it's not like moms are mom my mom is like that as well just like so like detective over her children wasn't that deep was it it wasn't it wasn't that deep and you know what I feel like people say like why didn't you say anything at the time at the end of the day I need to respect her she's my mom I can't be talking back on her on camera not even off camera I wouldn't be doing that I'm not that way inclined I did speak to her saying you know what you did come across rude at the end of the day this is some this is another woman's son you know respect has to be you know kind of present both ways I do get where she was coming from she was coming out of a you know out of a place of love you know exactly she's an immigrant mom for crying out loud the people that know know do you understand you know you know if you know you know they worked hard to get to this country to you know to protect us to raise us and it's not been easy my mom's worked really hard to raise my brother and I by herself and I'm not using that as an excuse for her rude Behavior but at the end of the day no one's perfect you just got to learn from it and do better and that's it people um also thought like maybe like your mom would be getting too involved in your relationship cuz that's been some of the commentary online so like what is the deal on that do you feel like that is the case would you feel like it's not not at all not at all like um Marissa respects the boundaries you know we were very clear in the beginning you know this is how it's going to be and and she's been very respectful very supportive we get on we got a great relationship now I mean even after after we got married Jasmine was working like 6:00 a.m. till 10 p.m. in the hospital I was spending more time with Marissa than Jasmine was you know she come around make some food she made a lot of effort you know she made a lot of effort to to Really build that relationship so no we we're really cool man really cool it's all been forgotten yeah and your wedding day looked Magic mag talk to me about it cuz it was the it was the most perfect story you know no drama just love it was it was as a perfect day as we could have ever asked for you know what I mean it was I think beforehand lot of nerves cuz we hadn't smoked for a couple days before you know we wanted to really you know make it like the real deal Let's uh go back to our families our friends and turn up to the day and just be let's let's make it magical um but it was it was so exciting so probably every emotion I can think of packed into one um but no such a nice day so much love I mean I was crying my eyes out watching it back every time no but listen to this right so behind the scenes um before the wedding Bobby um tells me like his cousin got him a stripper okay for his you know bachelor party behind the scenes and next thing you know Bobby sends you like a two-minute voice note I wasn't attracted to the stripper you know I'm not attracted to her it wasn't it wasn't my plan I had no idea you know I said to my friends you just come around for little little drink in private next thing you know yeah that that that happened so I was like mm he's like the day before my wedding you going to do like I was like none of you come to my wedding now it's no but obviously it was fine that's good and and watching the episodes back obviously you've now seen everyone else's waiting was there anything that surprised you or was everything pretty much kind of what you thought it would be yeah I think for me pretty much as as expected I think no real surprises I don't think what about you I don't think so I think everyone that got married it's we had predicted anyway and everyone that didn't we could kind of see behind closed doors that it wasn't it wasn't going to be yes yeah and how was the reunion show for you cuz obviously a lot happened a lot was said do you feel like you got everything you wanted to get off your chest off your chest yeah I think we just wanted to focus on ourselves and we have a great marriage we're happy so you know why get involved D in anything that we we don't really need to get involved in for us we were sitting back like somebody in the audience you know just taking in the tea like we do yeah I think we were glad to not be part of the drama and just you know let it play out um and enjoy it at the end of the day we've we've done our drama we've done our bits and pieces of drama throughout the show that was our time to just uh relax celebrate our marriage and that's it you know mhm that's good and one great thing about this show is yes you know you find your husband your wife but you also make really really good friends now a lot of people on social media are invested in your friendship with Demi um so do you know have you guys been like catching up or anything like what's the Deo um you know what I'm not going to lie to you like seeing the kfu situation kind of playback I was a bit hurt because um it it was a very different kind of aspect what she was telling me off camera and on camera so it has been the Oly situation yeah so it has been very difficult for me a very difficult pill for me to swallow of course um because not that I not that I was speaking up for her to get gain anything back um I think what I would have appreciated was to her her to have my back a little bit um but then again you can't expect um you know what you would kind of do for someone back so that's been kind of hard for me to kind of um come to terms with at the moment um but I think with time yeah we'll go back to how we were um but I think we just both need space at the moment it's been really overwhelming um but it doesn't mean that I love her any less it's just been really difficult and overwhelming these past couple of weeks um everything is magnifying isn't it I think everything inside the experiment whether it's love whether it's bickering whether you know anything is is like times 100 cuz it's such a small little bubble that you're inside of so I guess it's normal and I think we all just need to sort of take in everything that's happened now and just um yeah we'll get back to normal yeah yeah that's beautiful and that's a very like mature way I think of like communicating that and stuff um so for the future of Jasmine and Bobby are we getting a baby Jasmine and Bobby anytime soon is there anything we've thought about have there been any discussions about that listen we already been discussing it honey really discussing or trying girl oh I love that it was something that we spoke about in detail you know already in the pods we knew we both wanted to have a family and I mean now you know a year into our marriage we're coming up to a year uh we're ready now to to expand on the family so that's something that we're we're working on so hopefully sometime next year I just want to say that in this room I feel this energy of like calmness and love and that's that just must be what you feel with each other yeah it's been great now I've been blessed listen honey I have had such a bad like kind of timeline when it comes to dating now that this Hasen happened to me I'm like thank God honestly you literally had my back I manifested this man and I got him so it just hits differently it really does like sometimes I'm waking up I'm like how are you next to me in bed right now and how are you so nice to me and you respect me and you love me and you're so loyal like it's the same for me because I think for a lot of people they see this uh they see Jasmine as like oh she's very outspoken but for me I've never really seen her as that I see her as very sweet very calm very but I think that's the side that I get you know so um I'm blessed as well you know um mad in love um you know and I've got a best friend as well as a wife so I couldn't have asked for a better year you know it's been the best year of my life so watching it all back now just just beautiful I'm really really happy I feel like he brings out my feminine energy and I love that because I I could compare like how I was with other guys in the pods and I was very masculine I'm just like FBI agent type thing with him I never felt like I needed to do that I just felt like I could trust them and I don't know why it was a feeling and when you know you know that's when they say when you know you know that's how I felt with them and that was like a big part of my reaction when I first saw her because the Jasmine that I got in the pods was not this fiery outspoken girl it was really sweet caring innocent girl so when I saw her and I was like oh she got like whole lot of sex appeal as well so I like what not what I was expecting um so yeah I just I just imagine this really sweet innocent girl um which she is also um but there's a lot of sides to her and I love all all of them no and that is what love is all about Jasmine and Bobby thank you so much for coming on the show thank you so much thank you thank you for having us thanks for having us let's do this again heart is warming wow like wow like you probably got married from a TV show imagine that sick cuz not everyone makes it out the way you guys have made it out everyone makes it man but we Sage every day we Sage every day