Bbnaija 2024: I lost my brother at 17, Shawn only voted us out because of Wanni-DJ Flo| Hero Daniels

hello DJ Flo hello hello hello hi hero what's up welcome to your session thank you very much how you doing now grateful to be alive did your father cut you off the trust fund I know me how do you mean cuz you look like you have a trust fund really do you ah oh I hope I do somewhere interesting how are you now I'm okay I mean are you well at first I wasn't which is normal because um I mean the plan is always to stay till the end you know and having to come out very early on in the game you can mess with your head yeah you know so it's almost like damn I didn't prepare for this so what happens next but you know I'm taking it one step at a time and figuring it out cuz we got this we have to you know yeah I know so what would you say has been the biggest misconception since you got out something that is not you but people say it's you what exactly is it um if you have to think of it then maybe you don't have misconception I don't I don't I don't think so I mean I was just saying some funny funny stories here and there when I came out about um um some one hous in the house and it was funny I think it was Kelly R they say some funny story about um okay now that DJ FL is out C can have pie of mine because he said me and Kelly something something something I'm like take several seats are you joking you know he's my guy at everything but I mean I don't think there's really anything major I just stay my thing in the house yeah some people say I was too calm okay some people said I was too calm I was too calm you know you know sometimes people like drama they just want a lot of but unfortunately I can't I can't give what I don't know how to give you know I can only be myself and you were yourself tried my best do you have any regrets I try not to have AET I just try to like learn from you know so no I don't think I have regrets I still am so there's nothing you think maybe perhaps your D could have done better so the thing is we would don't know how that would have gone either way you know some people would say okay maybe she should have started giving extra drama from the first week but but the end of the day you still don't know how that would go you know she could have studed that and then people because people always have something to say regardless of anything you do see me I'm calm you complained you know she gave drama you complained so you see that is it's something it's always something with people so I don't really think there was there could have been anything really because if there was anything she tried to put her emotions in check even from the beginning of the Season ruy you mean ruy yes so try to put emotions in check room from the beginning of the season so it was almost like I mean I wouldn't say I know there are other better ways to also handle situations because we're also different human beings you know we things differently you know I can ignore and walk away from situations you know some people cannot and I'm not going to take it away from anybody you know that's just how they feel they can express themselves and I'm not going to invalidate anyone's feelings you know so I would not tell you oh you should have done it a different way because we would have how go either so no I don't think so all right so DJ Flo turn me yeah let's go interesting so who's DJ Flo tell me a bit of your background H very interesting um okay first of all I don't even know your real name it's FL Flora my name is Flora Cho the one and only um so I mean starting off I I just start off as a DJ obviously um how did they say this thing I come from a family of one I come from a family of two well um I used to have a brother we were just both of us you know I lost him in 2016 oh yeah so I've had to like figure out this thing called life alone cuz you know this been a long time coming and [Music] um you know it made me have to I use the word put so much pressure on myself because I had to CU now it was just me and my family so I had to be there for them the best way I could so I put so much pressure on myself with having to acheve CH since early you know so I feel like as a human being I had to also grow up fast you know so how old were how old were you when my brother 17 was I 17 yeah I think I was 17 or 16 or something wow so sorry yeah exactly so I just had to that's like you know sometimes peopleone would say okay you you're are very mature you know with how you you reason and how you talk and everything but because I also had to like sit with myself because I know how to sit with myself I'm I I try my best to be as emotionally intelligent as I can be you know and having to process things you know in a different way so that's why I don't react to things the way some people would you know I take my time my time with things so um i' I've had to you know do a lot for myself you know my own growing up so it's just been it's been it's been a lot like I said even commun I was like I have entered a lot of industries by Industries I mean like we've done we've done businesses we've done different things just to consistently survive you know I mean in a country like Nigeria you have to hustle it one way another you know so I really have put my hands in things here and there because um and then one thing with me I don't I don't I believe in starting over again I don't I'm not scared of starting over again you know it doesn't matter how long I've been doing something for if it's not working it's not serving me I would pick myself back up and start again keep going yeah so that's what I just keep doing every step of the way you know push myself as far as I can go because I have so much goals and I have so much dreams and things to achieve yeah yeah yeah and how would you say those dreams are going honestly um what's the biggest fear biggest fear has to be failure um because um it's so much I want to achieve for myself and it's so much I want I say something I used to say even after I lost my brother I said I don't leave for one anymore I live for two because it's so much wanted to do together so much wanted to achieve so I've taken it upon myself to accomplish all of that you know for myself for my brother and for my family you know so [Music] um I don't know it's it's it's all right I mean I think you have a very positive approach to life and miracles happen most often than not from a place of pain sometimes and it's it's really hard Lo losing a loved one you know I I I personally haven't actually been there but I I've seen the effects on people that have really lost people that are very close to them and it's very devastating so for you to sort of use that pain and you're making something out of yourself it's it's just really really admirable and thank you I'm very confident that you know if you keep pushing um already you've achieved a level of success but the danger to being extremely pushy and trying as much as possible to get things done with a timeline is sometimes you get too hard on yourself do you think you get hard on yourself I'm asking you do you think you get hard on yourself I do actually I'm not going to lie but I also know how to you know take some time off and unwind you know you know one step at a time at the end of the day so um yes like I said I put so much pressure on myself and I feel like I am so hard on myself because it's so much I feel like I just want to do I just want to achieve and and also I I just like to consistently do something like work whatever it is so do you think it's some sort of coping mechanism to I don't know is it like a copy mechanism to let go of do you still think you have pain somewhere H I feel like I have [Music] um I don't want to use the word pain because I've been able to I don't want to use the word suppress but I've been able to control it in a way where because one thing with me is I know how to move on from situations I know how to move on from things I also know how to move on from people because of what I have been through in life you know so it helps me make decisions where I don't have to my emotions doesn't have to be involved so I have I'm very in control of my emotions that I can tell you for a fact I feel like one of my biggest trits as a human being is self awareness I'm very self aware of who I am as a person and you know my environment so it makes me I make certain decisions with a very clear head okay that's that's good that's good is there anything you like to talk about is there anything I like to discuss with big brother okay big brother really is any another thing you like is there another thing you like to talk about um so I mean I'm just I'm just really grateful for you know how far I have come with this entire thing like I said earlier we did not plan to come out early but we're here now we're here to get all them bags you know hopefully by the grace of God you know yes I mean the hustle continues it doesn't stop interesting you know it doesn't it doesn't matter if we came in came in we came out early we came out later you can come out later and still you know struggle with some things but at the end of the day cons myself coming out early it's not I don't want to focus on the negative yeah you know I'm trying to be as positive as I can be I can make most of the opportunity I so with that being said come let's walk we outside now it itala is officially outside let's work let's work no wor don't worry I don't tell you say I get percentage as your manager you know do you have are you hard working are you hard working can you work from Monday to Friday Monday to Sunday from here we can be going to work now oh fantastic I don't ready no while talking about securing the which pair are you rooting for to secure the Big Brother bag um of course my people zway and then Double K and Victoria I I want Victoria to win I mean I don't know about but Victoria is my girl so I really wish she makes it to the end if she wins I'll be happy regardless you're not a fan of Sean you're not a fan of Sean we're not we're not really close so I wouldn't say a fan of but we just not close no bad blood no negative energy or anything we're just not close oh but he voted me out so now I'm not a fan of him anymore but yeah but yeah Victoria hope do do you think it has anything to do with his relationship with wanie oh obviously of course of course it does and it's funny because when I watch the video of when he was talking about it he was telling Victor when Victoria was trying to was talking about um wanting to like like vote for like not vote for us he was like Victoria is she doesn't She's forgetting that she's playing a game she's beening with her emotions you are to bro what are you talking about the only reason you get because your girlfriend wanted that to happen so what what are you talking about talking about my your emotions blah blah blah you know so I mean is what it is nothing spoil we day here regardless and we go move forward ever backward never backward never on my brother thank you so much for speaking with me thank you so much yeah for having me your session is over I'm thank you