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any you yor we're back in Hawaii for the dramatic conclusion to Jen's journey and was it ever we picked up with Jen meeting up with her family she was hoping they could help provide some clarity on which of the remaining men Marcus or Devon was right for her Jen's brother friend Nicole aunt and mother were in Hawaii to meet her final two suitors she admitted to her family that she said I love you to both but only Devon has said it back so far Jen said at this point her feelings towards the men are pretty equal Jen's family meets Devon Devon brought gifts for everyone he looked like Santa Claus with all of the bags he had Devon told them that Jen lights up whenever she talks about them he added that he grew up with a strong single mother as well Jen said to them that that's how they really started to connect Devon told Jen's mom and aunt that he never an Asian girl but he loves it loves Jen and that it's not about ethnicity for him he was quick to tell them that he loves Jen and that he has zero doubts about her Jen's mother thanked Deon for loving Jen it was so sweet he really drove the point home that he wants to be her Rock and would find the responsibility to be a blessing he said that it would kill him to not be the one he asked for their blessing and and they said that they would need more time because in their culture they take that time jy's mom really pressed her on why she loves Devon Jen said that Devon unwaveringly loves her and wants to know all of her Parts her mother was concerned that Devon didn't know much about Vietnamese culture Jen said that Devon wants their future kids to know their culture and learn to speak Vietnamese her mother then told her that she needed more time to get to know Devon Jen tried to say that she shouldn't worry because she would never marry someone she didn't want to marry live show Jen's sky in the audience Dylan Jeremy and Jonathan were in the audience and they told Jess Palmer that they were there to give support to Jen what could be happening Jen's brother and Devon Jen and her brother talked about her and Devon's similar past with a single mom and strained relationship with their dad her brother said that he would support whatever she wanted to do James said he could see how happy Jen was with Devon but he wanted to grill him Devon told James that he was confident in their relationship he said he never has to change anything about himself with Jen and he's never had that before Devon admitted that he's worried about the other guy that's still involved Devon also asked for her brother's blessing and and got shot down again I'm definitely not going to give my blessing now he said James added he wanted to speak to the second guy first he said it wasn't because he didn't like Devon but he wanted to make sure he was doing the right thing for his sister Jin told Devon to hold on and that she'd never felt like this before and I love you except with Marcus maybe who she said it to First don't get in your head okay said to Devon as he got in the SUV and drove away Marcus meets Jen's family here we go Marcus turn I'm so nervous for him James is worried that Jen is falling yet again for another emotionally unavailable man Marcus brought just one gift back he admitted that he was a bit nervous Marcus shared how he and his siblings were put in foster care he had two older sisters who were adopted out and then he and his sister Gabby got adopted out eventually to another wow to be split up like that is so sad Marcus also shared his experience of nearly losing his life while serving his country James speaks with Marcus James shared his appreciation with Marcus for sharing so much with his family about his past and how he knew that it wasn't easy for him Marcus said he would couldn't do it unless he really cared for Jen he also admitted that he underestimated how important emotions are especially because he had to block them all serving Marcus said that Jen makes him believe that taking the next step is possible James thought that Marcus played Ring Around the Rosie with his questions James speaks with Jen's Mom and Aunt Marcus said that he believes that he can fall in love with Jen but he's not there yet he said he's missing the feeling of certainty he started to cry as he spoke about it he really wants to be that guy for her but it seems like he's under too much pressure this seems to be way too fast for him the feelings I have for your daughter are real Marcus said jy's mom is worried that Marcus could hurt her in the long run JY told her brother that she feels Marcus is close to being in love with her but he's not not there yet she blames his past trauma James told her that Marcus fits the mold of men from her past who are emotionally unavailable Marcus is a really good man who has good intentions but it is a little concerning Jen said she hopes she knows where his heart is at how long are you willing to wait James asked Jen I'm not sure she said James cried as he told his sister how he just wanted the best asked for her Jen confronts Marcus about his feelings Jen said her family said some things that were really hard to hear she asked him how do you see this ending for us Marcus said that he thought they made progress that day where are you at with your feelings Chen pressed are you not certain about me Marcus said he doesn't think it's her he thinks it's the pressure to build a family that he never had he hoped that him saying he's getting there and his feelings are still growing could be enough Jen realizes she shouldn't still feel confused live show James was emotional again Jesse asked him how he was feeling as you can tell I'm not too happy yikes Jen's last date with Devon Jen met up with Devon on the beach where they walked over to two spiritual guides they did a spiritual ceremony that is supposed to happen before any life event Jen said she wanted to put any concerns in the past and this was a chance for them to have a fresh future they got lava rocks that represented their fears and shared how they felt with each other Jen wants someone who won't leave when things get tough they threw their rocks into the water to release their fears Devon and Jen dipped their bodies into the ocean as a spiritual Rebirth of sorts they shared a bunch of kisses on the beach as Devon remained worried that he wouldn't be the guy in the end then the evening they met up with a passionate kiss Devon said that he wants Jen to feel the weight of his soul that's intense Devon and Jen talked about throwing the stones in the ocean and how it made them not afraid to take the next step together Devon said that he trusts her opinions and decisions that was something that really made Jen feel seen Santa Claus pulled out another gift and it was from the shaman on their New Zealand date he told him not to give it out until he knew whom he wanted to give it to for the rest of his life Jen loved the level of commitment that it showed Devon keeps blowing me away Jen said you can continue to be loved like that but you just have to love me back Devon said I do love you Jen said she said she now knows what unconditional love is Jen has doubts Jen woke up frustrated and confused after her amazing date with Devon she doesn't understand how Marcus can't feel as strongly about her as she does with him his uncertainty is making me uncertain Chen admitted Jess talks with Marcus Jesse wanted to see how everything was going and if he had made progress with falling in love Marcus said to Jesse that he told Jen's family the truth he has struggled with his feelings Marcus said that every time he spends time with Jen their connection grows Jesse's like so do you love her or are you just afraid to tell her Marcus said he's just not certain even Jesse seems confused if you do in fact love this woman you have to tell her or I'm afraid you are going to lose her if you don't Jesse said Jen talks to Marcus she doesn't want to go on the date until she talks to Marcus Jen had to wait an uncomfortably long time for Marcus to answer his hotel room door when she knocked she asks him to talk and that never seems like a good thing and he knows that she wants to know if he would propose does he just want to date her does he even see her in his future Marcus said he regretted not diving deeper into that topic I feel like I tried and you just didn't want to Jen said I don't think that you were excited for the future Marcus said it's not that he can't picture it it's scary for him I'm struggling for sure he said Marcus said that he wants to keep trying and she makes him want to keep trying he doesn't understand why it's hard for him tears rolled down his face as Jen described how how much time and feelings she invested into him when he couldn't give it back at the end of the day I know that I love you I want to be the kind of person that fights for it like I want to do this with you I want to give it a try I don't want to give up on us Marcus said that's how he finally says he loves her does he she's very conflicted and confused she has a pit in her stomach instead of feeling elated probably not a good sign Jen leaves the room comes back eventually and Marcus admits that he's afraid of losing her I did fall in love with you it's clear to me that you know what you want and I think that's why I've been asking myself some pretty hard questions he said I'm not giving you what you need I open my heart to you every second that I got Jen said she is sick of proving herself she's done waiting I'm just done Jen said Marcus then said that he is worried that he wouldn't find someone like Jen again Jen thanked him for being honest but she knew that she didn't want to feel like this anymore bye Marcus Marcus in the hot seat Marcus said it was tough to watch his breakup with Jen back he said after getting home he didn't know if he had made the right decision or not was it his decision I think that was all Jen really anyway he said that he hates that he let her down he didn't want to be part of the problem of why she had ever felt Unworthy of love the difficult truth is that I needed to get out of her way Jen and Marcus talk live Jen said that their relationship meant a lot to her and that she was glad that he went on this journey with her he said he felt the same Jen said that she wanted to run toward her feelings with Devon and not run from them she felt like they weren't aligned with certain things after the fantasy suites Jen said that even if Marcus had said I love you sooner it wouldn't have worked out because it just wasn't the right relationship my heart was in a different place and wanted something different Jen said decision day Jen was fresh off her breakup with Marcus and although she loves Devon she said she was a bit confused about what she wanted to do Devon was not confused at all he met up with Neil Lane to pick out a beautiful engagement ring Jin said that in order to fulfill herself she wants to choose herself she's not going to let Devon propose to her she wants to propose to him wow this is a bachelor Nation first Jesse interrupts The Proposal Jessi says that we need to hear what happened since Hawaii from Jen herself s before they are the proposed this is unprecedented Jen in the hot seat Jen comes out and wipes away tears she then started to sob this is awful they left Hawaii engaged and she said she was very happy but then he started to pull away from her his promises of where they would live and be together just drifted away Jen said she felt like she was secondary to everything in his life and he didn't even bring her around his family anymore they had a happy couple visit planned and instead of going he called her and broke off the engagement he said he didn't love her anymore he felt like something was off and he regretted getting engaged for the past month she's been trying to understand how he could switch his feelings up the way he did she even told dein that they could just ate but he said it wasn't what he wanted anymore Devon refused couple's counseling how could he do this to her I'm really disgusted at this situation at the same time he shouldn't be in a relationship that he doesn't want to be in Jen deserves better than that Jesse then asked her if she was ready to see him what this guy is here how Dian Jeremy and Jonathan have the look in their eyes of wanting to tear him apart Devon talks to Jen life Devon got a few claps and even a Boo as he walked out Jen didn't know where to start and said it wasn't what she wanted and it wouldn't be meaningful to her she wanted to do it off camera Jen asked why he ended their engagement on the phone and then started following Maria on Instagram she asked if their relationship meant anything to him he made a face and then said that he couldn't excuse the Instagram follow and that he failed her everything I felt for you was real he said he said he needed time and space to process his emotions but then went clubing with Jeremy he said he was there for a work trip but then went out with Jeremy am I not allowed to live a life he said Jesse reigned it in and asked what happened when he left the show he had a lot of doubts and he admitted that he suppressed his feelings Jen asked why he allowed her to keep falling for him for 2 months after the show Devon said he couldn't really explain further I was regretfully late on letting you know Devon said Jen couldn't believe he was posting memes about Sam she said that every Monday night she was heartbroken watching the lies that he told her after a commercial break Devon said he just wanted to focus on the break up and not after the break Devon said he had nothing to gain other than to make sure sure that she was O Devon said that he watches Jen grow and flourish and he said that he fell short of her expectations in the real world this isn't him trying to make her feel bad Devon said he does care but he was contributing to her regression she shouldn't have to compromise what she wants for him Devon added Jen could hardly look at him watching The Proposal Jesse said I know that your love story didn't un F the way that you thought or expected it would I'm truly sorry he added you also showed us what a straw of and powerful woman is who loves Jess everyone but then Jessa was like can we watch The Proposal together do I have a choice Jen said this broke my heart I don't even want to watch this proposal the little box in the corner of Jen sitting next to the man who broke her heart sobbing as unnecessary this footage should be burned it would have been beautiful if it was true Jen had this moment stolen from her she deserves the best I wish this could have worked out for her so badly Jesse said that he hoped in watching it she could feel empowered because she really did things her own way I think it would have been more empowering if they had honored her wishes to not have to see it Jen said that the man on the screen doesn't exist anymore but she's still the same woman that she is right on Jen said that she's ready to fight for love and to find the man who can keep the promises he makes to her Devon said that he fully believed those things then he said some things about falling short of expectations and I really don't understand this breakup the bottom line he basically fell out of love with her in the real world she told Deen that she hopes that he can find himself in his self Journey one day Jessa tried to reassure her that her great love is still out there I would say so then to try to uplift us they tease that Joan's season is coming up and there's a chance she could end up with Kelsey's dad who was also in the audience sneak peek of Joan's Journey Jesse made a bad joke about keeping his promises with a sneak peek of Joan's season of the golden backler at we got to see Kelsey come out of the Lio to talk to Joan and then introduce her dad to her Mark is a silver fox I loved him on Joey's season and I'm so glad to see him get his moment in the Sun and make a possible love connection he's incredible he's cute thank you you can just call me Mom Joan said to Kelsey adorable Joan said that she went on some amazing dates and that she's really excited for everyone to see her season I can't wait you can watch the very first golden Bachelorette on Wednesday September 18 on ABC