Kinds of Kindness is Yorgos back in his weird bag,
it’s like he said oh y’all thought Poor Things was freaky just you wait. I kind of love the fact
that he’s roped more people into his films, with slightly more palatable ventures
in Poor Things and The Favourite, and a cast of actors so likeable they’re likely
to draw in an audience on name alone. I think it’s exposing more people to experimental
cinema and I really love him for that, it’s what mainstream movies are
missing. Stuff that actively wants you to be critically thinking both
during and after the film finishes.
Yorgos is so successful at this as he is able to
balance entertainment and captivating stories with just wild scenarios. The fables he concocts here
are just truly bizarre but not without purpose, there’s meaning behind his madness. I will be
attempting to unpack the meanings behind all of this craziness and I think a fitting place
to start is simply the title of the film, it’s so incredibly smart as it doesn’t really
give away what the film will be tackling but by the second story you’re starting to grasp
what the connective tissue is between these vignettes. In this we are exploring kindness
in our society in various ways but I think more so the perversions of kindness.
In Kinds of Kindness, Yorgos uses an anthology to portray his weirdness
in a multitude of different ways.
Throughout each of the stories we are
brought into worlds which have varying degrees of magical realism to them but
what stays consistent is characters who are perceived to be kind or characters who
are viewing other characters as kind.
In the first story Raymond, played by Willem
Dafoe, is perceived to be kind by Robert, played by Jesse Plemons, but control is a form
of kindness to those being controlled. It’s this dizzying, disarming kindness that once
you’ve escaped it you crave it, it becomes part of you. Yorgos is interested with the idea of
capturing how comforting control can be for some, the elevation of all your own choices, the
idea that someone will make decisions for you, out of interest for you, out of kindness.
It’s sad that it takes being asked to severely injure someone for Robert to even realise that
perhaps Raymond doesn’t have his best interests in mind, and what’s even sadder is once he’s
able to get out he has lived for so long under control he is unable to live without him that
he crawls right back to the warm oppressive grip of being controlled by someone. To a fresh
eye this is clearly an abusive relationship, and in part I think Yorgos wanted to explore
the intoxicating and enchanting kindness that is felt from those in abusive relationships.
It’s a thread that appears throughout all three stories. Raymond in the first is controlling,
Daniel, played by Jesse, is mistrust and paranoia, and both the cult and Joseph, played by
Joe Alwyn, in the third are sexual. It’s deeply ingrained in the roots of the film and
it’s something wholly unique to this film, the disarming allure of abusive relationships is
rarely explored and Yorgos does so here with a tenderness which is perhaps a strange word
to describe this film but it’s kind to the characters in the film who have lost themselves
to these abusive relationships and shows how easily any of us could find ourselves in one.
The second story is extremely powerful in showing both sides of these relationships. Daniel we
find at a low but clearly he has this devotion to his wife, Liz played by Emma Stone, as he’s
desperate to find her. Once she’s returned to him, she’s different in his eyes and he believes her
to be a person pretending to be his wife. His wife has went through an extremely hard situation
and it perhaps has changed her slightly but since she no longer fits the mould in which
Daniel has laid out for her he has resorted into believing she’s not his wife.
It’s quite the allegory for controlling relationships once again, Daniel is seeking
to control his wife to fit his narrative, Liz is not granted the autonomy in her
life to explore who she really is under the oppressive foot of her husband. This
oppression is clearly comforting however, much like Robert in the first film, control
has become a expression of love for Liz, you see this more clearly in this story that she has
an affinity for Daniel, she’s become enamoured by her captor. She would figuratively and literally
cut pieces of herself out just to please him.
As this pertains to the ending of this story
I think it’s more metaphorical than literal, Liz perhaps has killed herself in the end but
to Daniel that means his wife is completely devoted to him and fits the mould he made
for his wife. Or alternatively it is just a metaphor for Liz being willing to cut pieces
of herself out for her husband, for love.
The third story follows the same thematic
through line of kindness being a form of power and control being the root of this kindness
but once again in a strangely disarming story. We follow Andrew and Emily who are on the hunt
for a young woman who has the ability to bring people back from the dead. We find out that the
pair of them are a part of this cultish group of people who have been codified to believe
that Omi, played by Willem Dafoe, and Aka, played by Hong Chau, are these pure being who’s
tears are purifying and have immense knowledge.
We find out that Emily has left her husband
and daughter in order to join this group but still visits their home every so often
to leave her daughter stuff. It’s not hard to draw parallels between the previous
stories and this one with regard to control, this comes in the form of Omi and Aka who have put
all these people in a daze believing all of their peculiarities but I think more interestingly
is the ways in which, specifically sex, is contrasted with Emily’s husband.
It’s very clear in the film that Joseph rapes Emily, he lures her in with kindness and acts on
these impulses as a means to have ownership over Emily. However, earlier in the film when Emily
and Andrew are preparing to have sex with Omi, I think this equally could be viewed as a form
of rape. Specifically Emily doesn’t seem to be thrilled with the idea of having sex with Omi and
yet she does as she’s been essentially forced to, Omi has ownership over all of these people
due to his power within the group. It’s less explicit but both of these scenarios are
using sex as a form of control and power.
It’s fascinating each of the vignettes deals
with control but with different modes of control, the first being power dynamics, the second
being love and the last being sex. In a way Yorgos is exploring the same idea of how
easily kindness is perverted into cruelty and often kindness is used as a way to nullify
and control people. He explores this idea though through these different ideas of control
to show how bleak kindness can become as so much of kindness is able to be corrupted and
weaponised as a form of control over people.
In each of these stories we find the people stuck
in these abuses of power using a fixation as a way to obscure control and dull the conscious
knowledge that what they’re experiencing is an abusive relationship. We find Robert fixated on
routine in the first story, and when he actually chooses to stop Raymond having a control over
his life, he’s paralysed with choice. We see him at the bar unable to order a drink, and the
resulting drink sounds familiar to the bartender. Proceeding this he begins to play out how Raymond
helped him meet his wife. From this I think it’s clear that the drink he ordered was the drink he
ordered on the night he met his wife and he became so reliant on Raymond informing him on how to go
about his life, even when he is granted authority over his own life to do whatever he wants he
still falls back into the comfort of routine.
The second story Liz’s fixation appears to simply
be her husband, she is so enamoured by him and his love that it’s enough to nullify the hurt he’s
enacting on her. We’re only privy to after the time Liz went away but it’s easy to infer that
this was not a healthy relationship prior and Liz was simply doing what her husband wanted
to appease him. She really loved her husband, even if that meant changing who really is to
fit his idea of her, she wanted to do so as she had this complete and utter adoration for her
husband and believed in there love so much despite this love being so easily destructible
when she didn’t fit his idea of her.
The third story Emily’s fixation is this woman
with abilities to bring people back from the dead which is quite dark as the fixation she has is
something concocted from her captors. She’s under the impression that finding this woman will fix
all of her problems and as such goes to extreme lengths to get this woman. When she does she’s so
far gone that she simply wants this woman to get back into the group and appease her leaders.
What’s so incredibly fun about Yorgos’ work is that all of this heaviness and tackling of
dark and shied away from themes is packaged in such strange and wonderful stories
which are simultaneously entertaining, it’s thought provoking cinema and it’s pushing
the boundaries on what gets into cinemas.
It’s fun to analyse whether or not Yorgos feels
this way just generally about kindness. The film is called kinds of kindness but really explores
the ways kindness is perverted and manipulative, the film itself is kind to characters who
fall for this fallacy but really are we all just characters falling for this kindness and is
kindness simply a way of controlling each other
I’d love to know what your opinions were
on kinds of kindness and iof you agree with this read of the film or if you have your
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