HEATED Debate on terrible first date ideas!

we had a question of the week mhm on our socials if you guys want to tap into our socials please do so um extra gravy show on all socials extra gravy podcast on Tik Tok but um we asked you guys what are some unacceptable First Dates yeah this is fun and the answers were quite entertaining oh my God meeting friends theirs or yours on the first date yeah why am first date no first link sure wa for like a concert or a festival friends like you accidentally met them but that wasn't the plan that's what I'm saying that's first link so I wouldn't call that a date not like Hey we're going out okay listen I'm going to invite my friends you invite your friends for throwing a party like I mean that's not bad actually for first L I would call it a day it's not a date it's not I think that' be a great first date personally I get to know if I even want to be around you and your people that's you got to do a link before the date what do you mean I just I call those things links I don't call it what links like that like if you're going to meet friends on a if you're out I'm out yo I'm here are you close whatever yeah that's different yeah that's different but like if you're like okay hey like I want to take you out and they're like okay yeah and like okay I'm going to take you out to my boy's birthday you're going to meet all my friends no that's CRA I need to escape that happens I'm getting anxiety what do you mean why ask I'm asking why because I don't even know you now you want me to meet you and your friends that's weird I'm trying to get to know you we don't I don't I might not even like you and now you're bringing me around like that's crazy I feel like I get to know people better through their friends first date now your now now now now she now he she's telling their friends that oh yeah no this is like serious you don't bring somebody around yeah no third date fine but like dat I'm down with the first date with the friends I'm I don't mind thate my boy be like yo my boy is talking about you man he's he's different about you man that [ __ ] so different about you first yeah that shis I would literally sis is crazy I would literally run I would run knowing knowing that like if your friends are like saying that like they're just yapping like they're just yapping first no first leg no way I'm I'm concerned about the second one your ex is funeral is funeral well I'm kidding that is that's insane like I hope that person's joking I'm sorry first date come to he's right back there his name is James oh I I don't know [ __ ] well I know that there's no way like what know yo J what you got what's going on what's going what's the story they can't hear you so the said he has a deep dark P you got do coming um someone said running errands I'm not mad at that no what do you mean I'm not mad at that at all Costco first date you want to I come on a Costco first date is a date though but running I'm running Costco's not an aand that's an event that's an event ik or Costco is a date I don't care ik yeah or Costco photo or some sh I want to know what you're buying first of all like what are you going to pick up the shelves buy a bed good Ikea buy like a real good bed okay I was talking about KAS that's not the number one that is an errand it is an errand is yes I feel like errands require payer now you're just helping this guy's dumb no no no I I don't know what's considered an eron but I feel like Costco is a good first date for an Aaron so why are you against the but that's grocery shopping and why because do this on your free time like what do you mean like but now I gets you know what kind of products you got in your house snack Costco I said is a first date Ikea is is a funny first dat why you had the spaghetti and meatball I'm saying those are those are okay I'm saying that's okay I'm saying anything elide that's cool if you're like oh I gotta got to go to Canada Post I got to drop I got to drop like a package I got to send it back to Amazon I got to go to nces and then I got to go to Walmart and then I and then I got to go to like oh so if it's multiple places yeah that's Erin's she didn't say no I'm not no what no why I I don't know why yeah why do you hate that it's like it's like you know what actually cuz that sounds like chores like I don't even first you're not doing anything first date first date I don't know no I first of all I'm not even getting in this person's car first date I don't know this person now you're driving me around I don't know what our next wants to pick you up for the first date you're like I know I'll meet you there no yeah there are well you guys a different story if a girl like I'll pick you up like I feel like in every romcom that's like the thing is like he came and he picked me up4 okay and we're living in the real world and uh no you send your location to all your girls and you make sure that they know where you're going and you and you'll meet them there because also if it's a bad date now they're driving you home no call the [ __ ] police three girl I'm not sending one of those I'm not I'm not sending my location because my girls are going to pull up I'm sending my location so they can call the police like so if I say 911 they're calling 911 I don't know I'd give my location somebody strong I feel like that's the best thing to do give to somebody strong someone with a car cuz if your friend your weak friend pull up girl where are you now yeah like oh my God loses surface like oh I'm on the city bike pedaling I'm peddling as fast as I can you dup the movies horrible first date oh horrible first if it's not paired with something else it's a horrible first of course yeah you're not talking you're staying St straight at yeah that's messed up I think the movies is dope if you do uh a daytime mov movies nighttime food that's cool yeah so then you can talk about the movie and you can talk about that that's cool that's daytime movie night night time food yeah oh that's funny I do the opposite dessert for the walk I do the opposite so you get to know them and it's like based on if you like them then maybe it we'll continue exactly cuz I really enjoy movies right so it's like and it won't be like a random movie it'll be like some probably some cool artsy [ __ ] in a cool spot so like yo there's a movie playing after as well like what do you mean I'm not putting my secrets out no but were you crazy cool cool artsy like were you crazy you're not going to like the regular movies like go to The Distillery didn't know those movies they show during the summer yeah I literally did that I was my Italian Film Festival she was I was going to say you're going to the film festival that's that's different that's not the movies when she says the movies she's talking about CLE you're going that's pretty cool like that's that's a that's a festival that's BR Drive drive-in's cool too but then again first date why am I getting in the car with you in my trunk in the trunk that's kind of crazy in my trunk with blankets and pillows and snacks Wild N Candy very actually you know being a woman is hard bro that's ter and I got a van yeah no you got to think about these things how freaky what if I show up with the painters van with the what painters van you know that white wall white van with no windows are you I first of all I'm asking what you do for work cuz if you don't do a job that makes sense to that car I work with kids interior design I work with kids imagine I do interior design for kids Ks are scary a no no no family Barbecue that's wild I'm not that is super wild shouldn't me any the pressure is insane I've had girls do this before what yeah mental illness yeah I remember a girl I was going to go to watch her ball game she she played ball okay baddy and she's like oh come meet me at my house whatever G right you're Jersy you're wearing her Jersey it's tight it's tight as [ __ ] got a s go go Mommy freaking um oh meet me at my my crib or whatever and then we'll just go from there I was like all right cool so I'm expecting to be like downstairs waiting for her she's like oh come up I'm like okay cool I'm thinking nobody's home first time get inside the whole family Aunts Uncles do you know that that's a funny feeling from going oh I might get some cheeks though what the [ __ ] why am I meting your auntie right now yeah and she's like she was like parading me around that's wild and it was like showing me off like a shiny toy or something and I was like oh I have a homie that can top that St you don't get [ __ ] immediately turned off yeah I don't like girls who don't get [ __ ] listen man you bitchless like n you a got no [ __ ] n i [ __ ] with that I have a friend that uh was in Colombia and like matched with this girl and then she was like yeah pull up whatever to me like and he went to the house and entire family I'm talking relatives like Aunts Uncles like and like but there was no event happening they all came to meet him first time swear to God I couldn't I couldn't make this [ __ ] in colia in Columbia that's his own fault he's from here yeah of course I know I know the situation I know that situation but he had like he was shocked and so obviously he uh he made up a story saying like oh his boy there's an emergency cuz he was traveling with friends he said there's an emergency and then he had to leave and I was like that's [ __ ] crazy like whole family waiting to meet you like you guys are getting married right now like never even never met the girl that situation every one of them about to treat me nice barely spoke English barely and he walked in he had to like do like the like pretend like he couldn't just walk in and walk out like real quick but he had to do the Bata first yeah yeah yeah he had to do one two one had to Lear M real quick all right it's crazy yeah I felt bad for him somebody said their house with SH my mom is sleeping yeah what why are you going to the house [ __ ] would do that why are you just going to the house [ __ ] losers not even [ __ ] what a bum who would do that yeah disgusting unless [ __ ] with your mom's home bro what the [ __ ] got two of them right here we for got a loser freaking a week but you guys you guys we have to put this in context first date we got to remember this is the first time this is why it's [ __ ] up this isn't any other day no you guys are both first day I remember I stuck a girl in oh man it was elaborate I snuck a girl in my mom she falls asleep on the couch all the time watching TV mhm and she snores okay and so I can Pace out the snores I know the her Rhythm I know the pattern and so I was like okay so I'm timing when to cuz you know your door got that alarm that little beep so I'm trying to time it she's like Short's like I'm outside I'm like all right bet it's like 1:00 a.m. right my mom and you just hear you're like a and it kind of stops exactly for like 5 seconds and then like that's crazy Mission Impossible [ __ ] brought her downstairs clapped cheeks came back up and had to sneak her back out bro and the way the basement up you can't hear nothing so I don't know if my mom's still sleeping it is like 5:30 in the morning now oh now you and I'm like okay we're just G to have to do this or whatever we went up I'm like okay we sneak to the door her snoring stops completely halfway to the door I panic I'm like she starts tiptoeing out I open the door my mom sits up the way the couch is set up you can see the front door when you sit up my mom sits up the girl's already outside the door yeah and I'm just standing there the door with the door open at 5:30 in the morning my mom's like what are you doing where are you going I'm like like oh no I was just checking the weather I have practice smart dog I had to go to school 3 hours early that's crazy just there I was like this is horrible what a bad idea like I had nothing else to go I'm like I got ball practice I got to get going early uh we're doing laps and [ __ ] yeah I got to school 3 hours early I just slept yeah that's wild bro and I was like all this for some cheeks man not worth it dedication hiking some outrageous trails Cliffs mountains Outback yeah don't take me on something extren a problem wait that's not a problem w w first date hiking you want to go to Costco but you climb a mountain with a [ __ ] what is happening right now I think that's actually great like no you guys don't like a good saying you will not go into a car get at Hill but you will go hiking in the forestone oh she fell okay okay hold on hold on first date okay first date but like you guys were talking for a while like you know the person you see how woman I already knew start playing her fingers I like outoor [ __ ] I like she's like no be realistic yeah and start thinking about it I mean I don't know to be honest okay this is how a Netflix documentary start right fine fine I will I will take back my statement before yeah I I just like I like Outdoors um dates so maybe for me I'm just thinking and like I've done some now I think about it now that's cool that's nice um I think outdoor things I guess hiking like sometimes is just you guys in the forest and Like Nobody's around and that is dangerous so that's why I'm like make sure you talk to for a little I'm not going to lie I've done some dumb dat first dat like i' I've went sprinting like Hill sprinting it was my idea but you know what I want to make sure so you're showing them how fast you are yeah he got this isting her [ __ ] to the challenge just to find out you can you keep up no yeah when I yeah yeah ganger it's yeah now I realize how silly that was but like like it was cool like it was all sand like I wanted to know Sand Hill that's crazy going to the other person's home great first date it's actually my favorite no not the first date it's my favorite first date it's fine I honestly it's the greatest first date ever yeah well dangerous dangerous I mean I would be safe I'm a safe guy strip club I think that heard think that could be fun I think it depends on where stupid like if you're in America different okay America F I feel like it's very cultural but first dat first in and come there with a stack each that's romantic that's stupid for that's romantic showering some [ __ ] with money I like no that's weird no no no no like I don't not any day to me Hest not any day like I'll go I'll go like if you want to see titties for free no I'll go with like I'll I'll go I'll go on vacation in the states I've like I've done that and i' I'll go with people and friends and like whatever and even in a relationship but like first date or second date that's weird yeah why am I yeah well that's weird strip club is another human zoo that I you watch there there's clubs all clubs are human human Zeus for sure just it depends on what club is what M and you'll get different type of humans all the time that's czy great to observe uh McDonald's not right at that uh what for a second like yes M and queen McDonald's be specific first of all it's a man that put this so who what girl took him out to McDonald's hey he's probably that's spot that's his spot that's his spot y making McDonald's your first day spot give her a big mag a big mag want to go to my spot someone set a pyramid scheme like one of those one of those like where they bring you and they're like for the first day and and then it's like a meeting and then everyone's trying to sell you something yo you know what what's the iPad for we got him showing up and the person is the pyramid scheme is crazy they greet you with welcome so um I'm going to be cooking for you but uh how do you like these Vector knives that's crazy that's crazy uh family outing yeah we talked about that their house a cabin in the woods Cabin in the Woods Russia would love that apparently saf te no coffee juice date first not getting stuck with you with dinner or drinks without a mini date hm what does that mean what no coffee coffee a juice date first okay a juice date okay I'm not mad at that at all no guys go get some smoothies and just chat for a bit um this is why I do like lups for this like a preate yeah that's why I do link UPS yeah so like they're saying so so this is what you qualify as a linkup I wouldn't do this because again if it's not a good time I wasted how much of my time just having this juice with you but if I'm out with my friends you're out too we can kind of I Wast a lot of money on good first dates yeah yeah because if the date's not going well I just pay and leave yeah yeah so that's why yeah that's why you do the coffee juice date like you're not going to yeah and then you like this person now okay let's have a real official date that's what so that's a link somebody said Costco see Costco it said they said it's a bad date though that's what they're saying see timton crazy n his house hiking something out R we read that one yeah I'll cook for you at my place date hard no yeah that's on again that's um sketchy [ __ ] no and now now now they put some poison in that [ __ ] and now you're asleep and you're waking up and yeah n on Reddit yeah it's tough coffee ice cream game Game Cafe not mad said she's mad at that that's actually great yeah I'm not mad at a game coffee ice cream that's all good snakes and lattes yeah for first dat she doesn't play some Connect 4 I'm surprised that was even on there I think that's a great conect and you connect more you feel me but no thank you guys so much for these uh for these answers yeah fun we'll definitely check out some more of those Rolling Stones dropped their top 20 most influential creators