I have no authority over my 3 year old daughter!

Karine is a very young mother. She has 18 years old and has no authority on Emma, her 3-year-old daughter. - No, stop it! It's been a very long time now that the little girl totally ignores everything his mother tells him. She never cleans her room... - Mom, I don't want to! Eat what she wants, when she wants... - What are you doing?... And takes a nap painfully, by demanding to have the television constantly on in his room. - Can you put it strong? - Nope. - Whether ! And Karine feels unable to crack down... She sometimes screams, but as soon as her daughter cries, she instantly forgets everything she demanded... - I don't like to see her cry; she's crying, I have to go see her right away, I don't like it. It breaks my heart to hear her cry! Her attitude annoys everyone around her. Her mother-in-law does not understand her way of doing things. Is the little one, I already disputed it so that she tidies up the room at our place? Have you ever heard me say things to him? - Nope. - Never ! - There, you come here, you don't want to go into his room. Her companion, Emma's dad, doesn't know more what to do. - There's no need to scream loudly, you directly scream loudly. - Yes, but I have to! - No, it's your tone of voice, you don't have to yell if you say: "Emma, come here!" As for her best friend who, she, imposes an iron discipline on his children, Karine's behavior is simply incomprehensible. - You'll have to put a little bit of lead in the skull and be a little tougher. In the face of everyone's recriminations, Karine will try to regain control, finding help with a group of mothers who also experienced difficulties. - Me, I really try to defuse the conflict right away. But will she be able to catch up lost time and finally show authority, with his daughter? - I have no authority over my 3 year old daughter, she leads me by the nose. I give her everything, because I'm afraid she doesn't love me anymore. - It's Emma who orders her mother. It is not normal. - If she continues like this, arrived at a time, she will not be able to manage Emma at all. That's not possible. Emma, she's going to make him drool. - Something needs to be done to change that because I think the little one, she's going to snack on Karine, day after day. - Mum, what did she tell you earlier? To store what? - My room. - But you tidied it up, but you're making a mess again, so Mom, she'll have to tidy up afterwards. - Yes. - What do you mean "yes"? because you don't care to have messed up but it's good it was very young that karine fell pregnant she was 14 she is 18 today and things are a bit complicated with emma her daughter aged three more years be gone emma i myself makes cesu despair she has no authority over her Emma is an adorable little girl but who simply refuses to obey his mom but this assembly I put all in the trash and well if you don't think I'll put it all away trash this opinion the problem is that karine is unable to crack down on her she never disputes it and tends everything happened to him and that the little girl from the height of its 3 years has it very well understood it's not your room doesn't look like it already with the girls I move lyrics that won't have absolutely no effect on the ema will stand on your stool completely indifferent to what he says his mother thank you rule 1 it does not matter because only one goal is 30 years old the go threats that no longer have any effect on the little girl for a long time a long time now she knows very well that her mom won't put anyway not his threats to execute she will even allow herself to be sweetly cheeky it's so much more simple and immediate hebba does not consider not karine really like her mom but more like a big sister and I thinks she wants to reverse roles it's she decided that it would be no even if I say yes well for her it's no that's how she decided that so that's how i think i don't look bad but I have a hard time with this that I have trouble overcoming what I had to badly now that she is three years old I went too low and to go back up with m I should have taken me earlier mom she is going to take her shower looked no more doing anything you go out thank you look where you are now selling it in front of the closed door emma is going to resort to a weapon unstoppable that work systematically she will start crying just a few seconds later Karine won't be able to stop herself from reopen the door to fly to his relief Karine didn't want her daughter to be in the bathroom while showering in the end not only emma will be there during this one but in addition his mother is going make sure they are comfortably installed in a small chair with everything you need to play so they don't get bored emma got what she wanted like a little Princess once again she had the upper hand his mom because he feels unable to crack down and to impose anything on his daughter he must say that this young mother has not had a totally easy childhood abandoned by her parents she ended up by being taken in by his elders parents who imposed a extreme discipline a severity he has lived very badly and which traumatized her it's the complete opposite of what I was told educated I believe no in fact I think that everything that was imposed on me as a rule but I don't impose them my daughter because I have very well what it is I I'm not going to calculate that in fact like every lunchtime benoît the father of hands will go home he too is 18 years old he worked all at night he is a temporary worker in works and gets up every day at 4 a.m. morning when he comes home at noon he knows already that he will find karine in all his states I'm sick of it Since that morning I said to tidy up her room is ahead by a blur total i think carla hurts frankly I've already seen getting started crying can come out paschal at this project me I tell me their breath after yes it is safe allowed to trade on one half percent but for the moment because it feels unable to change and that's the problem it's nap time for Emma a nap taken with the television on in his room cause but the TV I'm not afraid of one story if ever tv i am cleared in circles because it's my name i can blow actually they don't play it's sleep okay mâcon and no no illness we don't play we sleep Okay but for us important of all that time los pagallous not put his authority it's the little one in fact you have authorities with her it's the same case our youth when he was blessed who will take over no question of playing for his daughter it's nap time she has to sleeping is the lack of dosage what am I telling you now we repeat stupidity go stop up there and gulf makeup plus the ste if you want what got married since benoît a certainly shows authority but despite everything, television will remain lit emma will continue to do this that she even wants things for him are complicated it's only been two months since they aim in this house at birth their daughter's name and karine are went to live with Catherine, the mother of benoît who hosted them for three years during this period it's a bit like her who was the mother of everyone including the little one emma and catherine she really very funny my mother really he has me everything learned about my role as a mom from the beginning of childbirth until now these three years when carine from the moment where she brought and got me good it was it was my granddaughter or my granddaughter son so she was an integral part of the family immediately accepted by join the clan if i may say what so after I the ideas as if it was my daughter does and she can see that karine since they live in their own house fails to hold her role as a mother she leaves everything pass his daughter what has the gift to piss off catherine is what little I have already argued with her so that she search in china where is this that you heard me because of thoughts never there you get here you don't want to go back to his room but mikko has finished playing toulouse yes but even if it is enough cruz and the don't fix no then say oh no but no less you will give bmip month she you will respect more time will she want gonna think you're not interested but it's still no longer yes but no but she has no limit this little her don't know what it's like life will be all a rate the guide and you do not leave what is she doing and doing a bullshit and first of arles and you believe not what you tell her my little darling my doll it very well and I think what she is she asks for something else and for good reason what else is it tension but then you have to you put it don't believe in danger I put that I will have I repeat myself I think that half in anemic then he will bullshit you didn't discuss what didn't want to sleep she cried once performed in the show at the same time small modules are obliged to go to employees it is no she is the proof that it would be of course the name I take your du mail a little d at midnight and but as soon as he don't win she was crying the oxm not l having perished I will give him a hug but mostly that's why it's raining it is because before - which happens to me is become important and what they attack is what mistreats her fortunately not is what he is but the people of mons don't have karine she with chalk n'guema does not like not or even more if the dispute I think that it pays that his story that it took place late he is the child I missed so I don't want them kids are missing so i give back in give of what you do anyway length only a few hours and so well what you want what you lack respect she would in fact cede that she do what she wants but that mm she can't force the ubs she doesn't know what what she does she doesn't know she has no limit well precisely it is to do it in spite of what what she wants so she will go look for a knife she is going to cut her hair he had me seditious happened I would have liked a perfect mom when a little but spicy will give life that's how it's in them Know the face you threw while doing mistakes when we will do more is after shouldn't reproduce them what I am am deceived and tell yourself that there it is you what are you doing to him? in fact you are not doing it any favors she asks but I'm not necessarily the advice is either me or the others she should a little more when she ask for advice ad brand take into account at least try and then after it's over sony exchanged say well no we don't have necessarily always right there is not than Catherine Benoit who gives her tips her best friend also has a lot reproaches to be made to karine aurélie is divorced and raises his three children on his own girls aged 8 to 3 an education with the stick the little wooden emma that soda at the table and for aurélie pas question that these girls drink the same thing it will be water and nothing else thank you what do you not eat very well children who must wisely finish their plate before being allowed to leave the table unlike the hands that she prefers play with food and obviously no question for karine strength and ate them all association no longer had it but no even if she wants to eat a yogurt emma will come back proud with her two yogurts aurélie she has no intention at all to give in to these girls who don't have finished their plate again it's the bafin it's the game complainant pascal could have taken his plate but taking sight because it was true that sometimes there are many the good move you must not give in now do anything by example jean his menus corpus that i lay down the ton monette is and from the east because the child yes but it stops seeing she does it every night it's this turn it's because the end little emma wants especially having fun barely she started her first yogurt that she already wants a second I am not your mother you accomplish faso but I can say it's not necessarily no already this one then after you will have the other agrees for the right reasons but i don't like the time to cry i know very well we had several conflicts because of that finally conflict in quotes because he goes there dispute and I will go straight behind what I'm going to end it continues to get heavier I have girlfriends and baby whims killed ten wins 3 when I'm no it's no that's all it doesn't have a reverse or not to denounce no that's especially what annoys me because we actually contradict it's not that it doesn't bother me at all because that I wasn't wrong sometimes but anyway to say otherwise he one has sick of it all every time he says something and then what happens behind since it is contrary to me it's the pressure that I have but it's useless he feels useless to the news at the level education impression useless but he did not want to get angry in front of the children she will therefore wait for those ci had played in the bedroom for say everything she thinks to karine elle don't mince words you give in too quickly I passed ten cities where she began to toil the wind are then i spent 10 she ate her plate and only after the rejection of the football world us open paris with a hand from the moment they eat not its a site he says no but you say yes yes but it's not just about prices she knows you by heart your daughter she knows very well that here if she take by the feelings say ah bah here I am going to draw a little tear for my mother I will have what I want and you are not going to help me I would have past although I like it or I don't like it too much that I have an agreement crying no that after all but felipe made a bullshit she does anything this mission i don't know i was looking for samu after for me that's it that's it itchy and she hasn't eaten anything it's easy as punishment punishment position so sorry it's not a solution do this always punish them it's his problem still afraid that you puts a little lead shot in the skull and make it a little tougher as much you are really soup as much me, you already have it, it's often at home military discipline I'm too strict ok I know everything that will emigrate them if I don't make myself respected the imagines I don't make myself respected like everything you don't do respected with the hands you imagine me I have three running can you imagine me doing eat by the 3 it's over here me I don't have dad behind to say you are going to calm down you but it's your mother quietly I don't have that I am right away because it limits if it should headdress is someone who does not exist no you are not going but in fraud and the cast repeats it late it stays there karine who does not sell well at the end of the account goes when aurélie is hard on m but she also knows how much because he had a tough childhood never been surrounded like a real family with parents with stability with an education so I think all these are missing calais fauna like this with a today his companion his mother-in-law her best friend everyone reproaches him with the same long day of reproaches that will end up paying a few days have past and karine decided to take herself in hand she researched internet and were going to find a association that could come to him in assistance the parental workshop what then after it is someone outside often I want see if it can really but the others that you what since you give me advice all this must be given only that get out of you, we're going to say I'm at the end of it because my son but I don't know if it won't be the same again more like there are relatives they have other problems I'm already going too listen to their problems you gotta know if it is related to mine see the solution which to see how I can there get better and then after we will see how will it be what we will see well precisely it can be it can help you since he is a person who doesn't know and then she can give only advice that will go up voices handle it all it's a little worried or even that karine will come to this big house where a place this evening one of his famous workshop in this room gathered a ten mothers who just like karine came here looking for advice themes of the day will be communication not violent with the child a meeting moderated by audrey one of the members of the association either of foreigners room why they don't we there was going to put on the pajamas why they don't we tell them hold on soon why they do it by define the plate they don't do it why everything what they say don't do it how to successfully generate cooperation in the child went away still in this balance of power of fez in recife it goes there 10 armh one problem with my daughter don't apologize in fact she never argued I invite her argue and I write so you shout you got it said that quietly come back to the point I was to do I will repeat 20 times and I see that it doesn't work so I screamed but more cruel don't care that I think three years that I think that she understood that that therefore why arranged since moment by eat what karim's problem is that they don't don't communicate in the right way with her daughter she is often content to shout for immediately yielding afterwards but there are other ways to do it i want say no we've decided that we've decided that we were going to eat together eat with you come in the name of the whole is an activity at the end of her choices all in song that you say but on your side she's really it's not normal that we know where mom is she likes to believe that her child she face and that's there on it that the children therefore play suddenly a test he is looking for a frame of landmarks and mom she forgive everything mom Helen so not that it doesn't work like that it doesn't and different steps past they represent the more authority daddy he may be not there the day dad will replace dad there here it is but given that as soon as he says something in fact I contradict really what says what all the mothers present are laughing but one of them a certain Virginie 24 years old mother of one 1 year old baby girl is going to be touched by the fragility of karine and will allow him to speak it's my grandmother I imagined my parents this world where the house I had believed in me on the other hand with my daughter I you compensate I compensate the comedies 100% emotional security game that you are everything i didn't get gc give her for me it's not about money it's a question of what you've been through with your own parents with your own childhood but I think it is necessary when even be an executive all because it's not rendering them a service that you don't do your girl is what it is but catches in touraine he is happy maple thank you a thousand times when he had betrayed the trinquets because the proof she is looking for and you this frame I have the impression that you actually have a big need to be reassured about its role as a moment and that yes you are capable and that yes you have a good hand is this that you are part of the words that do not will not leave karine indifferent to the contrary even what touched me in fact is to tell me that it is above all in fact what she tell me what I I'm not the only one to have experienced what I lived to have lived with my elders parents of having been neglected by my parents to have here so after it's maybe finally here I had the tears in the eyes by a good because well here it is I recognized myself a little henri what it is especially for that after here is the symbhi no go small a meeting which will have its effect for the first time because he seems to have really heard the advice that were given the very next day attitude towards her daughter goes change after you go and moms or to tidy his room during this time let's read you go agree no we will both tidy up it's true then we'll go play outside there's not much of bazaar you are going to tidy up you see a guy who is over there you are going to put them away in her kitchen after while she goes make your bed then after you look at yourself pick up touski malandain kitchen then after your room she's almost done the stranger like my god it doesn't matter you're going to pick them up ah yes gabriel still the little late you go see the small verdun pie towards the shopping cart it's soon to tidy up the kitchen contrary to usual emma will obey her mom and without crying quite simply because the storage becomes a little adventure to live with she but the teeth finds him next of them on well no he is not nice I have not to caress that one if the good guys alone she stayed at her square that's nickel, it's all over it's true that it's nice when a child is listened to who takes but I thinks she likes it too that I take what she tells me whatever when she calls me I go and I was spending time michael here for the first time in a long time when benoît comes home from work he will not be welcomed by the karine complaints it's a house pretty happy that he's going to find it okay to arrange the moment yes absolutely you stuck the marks to be measured press all alone now that you're going home you there who play quietly calmly is good I think you hear it not karine and smiling it's beautiful the minimal ones it lasts I'm going to quickly make myself a monkey game optician when i get home who have people shouting all the time world is calm when karine is returned last night from his workshop benoît who is already in bed so he has not at all how did this go date for her and he's in a hurry to know explained how how you saw we were finally talking when she told me ask something don't tell him you do gosh i ask my aunt was put away the room the two of us were played outside it's good my love she ate it all what do you want a big dijon prebends often there were several of us times so I clearly saw that there was not how that struggled was a wine that in fact added what bah we beats we were 10 and that's it naturally that karine is going to forbid emma to barely take a treat taken out of the yogurt table before a small very small a yogurt quickly swallowed emma goes then go quietly to play in his room the goal of the method is to no longer content to ban the objective each time is to share with the child to establish a frame you see when it's you you do what i want when i want bedside doctor that I have to take time with her that you see if she fall you say daddy it doesn't matter besides the well yes I see that you are not well but hey now we get up it was to profit traffic from yes but I have too much done more destroy game but i have not shout here it was great I was more relaxed thing it will soothe the family atmosphere because I am more at home so much kwassa and the small so necessarily as that weighs what necessarily it calls that soothes the atmosphere that has here what I think it would do them good both I go campus where and all the same thanks to his voice the voice to regain confidence in themselves to see that prized since it's more is wrong to brisk walk sugar will she be the sea will karen the sea was hard to fix one of the most complicated moments always been the nap so far and hand refused to stay in bed and struggling to fall asleep because of the television that remained on in the chamber karine will therefore face this time in a different way she will take the time to tell a story story to his daughter rather than lighting TV things he never did before I was also told that you could turn you into a little mouse I do can't believe it although Puss in Boots finally says men need very little to be i love you it is very proud that karine will tell her progress to aurélie her best friend and then came the blow after the 100 of discount canvas and i think she sleeps better without the TV with in fact she has been less painful actually not done because that you have time to take care of her sees it who takes care of the angels is right the time i play with it after it was already my superego you see what I mean it's good it feels good to this workshop it will help little by little it has to be a frame that this morning to jump on the sofa Thursday and suddenly everything happens on the couch playability want to jump following each other to jump gold if you go away hold what your ready to put rules here it is as it is present on all the rules what a child without important frameworks in a way strong what you put out because if I did the parenting workshop since I don't use what she told me that nothing to have been what karine is only 18 difficult to learn to be a mother when you are so young and when we had a childhood hard so between her and m to things seem having changed these cookies 2 t on and why he's been through so much god together that we probably didn't better forged something together than hard to dismantle the marriage that enters more often forced describable you make yourself a little heart and it's even to make a little buzz look how to join only one thing matters now establish a real framework for his daughter while having fun so far it's good