Chrishell Stause Threatens to Quit Selling Sunset, Kristin Cavallari Says Mark Estes is Best in Bed

[Music] oh things are getting spicy on saling Sun there is some new drama as crelle stous is threatening to quit and she's not afraid of a lawsuit we have Kristen cavalary who's opening up about her her bedroom life with Mark Estes her 24-year-old boyfriend and Tamara judge's mom says that her face disgusts her let's get into it you're listening to no filter with Zack Peter your go-to source for all the latest pop culture and reality tvt surf fresh all week long now let's dive in hi guys good morning San Francisco no it's not in San Francisco it's Los Angeles or or at least that's where I'm at and I know we got a lot of you guys from all around town um Atlanta Georgia in the house what's going on Lauren from Atlanta Georgia what's up okay so we have a lot to get into well sort of um but one of the biggest things that came out of this weekend is all the selling Sunset drama which we'll get into in a sec we also have Kristen cavaleria I was listening to our podcast um what is it to be honest let's be honest is what it's called and she had her boyfriend her 24 year-old boyfriend Mark Estes oh we have van from South Africa hello South Africa Michelle from La did you guys do anything fun for a Labor Day weekend did anybody go camping did we go you know to the mountains to the beach to the windows to the walls till the sweat drop down them balls all them people crawls oh ski ski ski ski what did I do for Labor Day week nothing crazy I like really wanted to keep it chill um had like a recovery weekend I hit my miles at the gym my goal for the month of August was to run 75 miles and I'm proud to say that I ran 84 miles so I added in an extra um an extra n miles that I ran and so I was like okay now that the month is over I'm going to give my body a little bit of a break a little bit of a rest weekend before we jump back all into it again so or we we get back into like the regular Fitness routine but yeah that's not bad right 84 miles I ran 84 miles in the month of August which I feel very good about um and I've run zero miles for the month of September so far so oh and I have the shin splints to prove it but um yeah hopefully you guys had a fun Labor Day weekend fun long weekend let's see what should we start with first um I did binge pretty little lives I I think I said on the podcast yesterday I had a pretty little Liar's binge and so I'm almost done with the series well because I started after the time Jump which is the second half of season six and there are only seven seasons total so I finished season six and now I'm getting through season 7 which is the last season it's very good and I also saw on Hulu that there's um what is it the uh mother daughter experiment have you guys seen that show it was on livetime and it was where all of the I think Courtney stoden came in with her mom Kim Richards came in with her daughter Heidi Montag came in with her mom um and that's where you see Kim Richards and what was it Natalie nun Natalie noon Natalie nun and they got into that fight remembering Kim's getting in her face and she's like Kim don't take off your sweater and Kim's right there taking up her she's like Kim don't take off your sweater and she's like I don't like the way you're talking to these girls and Kim's like bucking up to her and I was like damn Kim's gangster Kim may be a child star from Beverly Hills but Kim is Scrappy you know Kim's ready to pull out the Vaseline and you know she's got knives in her Pockets came was wild but I was thinking that might be fun to watch I've never watched it so I don't know maybe we'll we'll actually go oh Catherine from Puerto Rico hello Puerto Rico we are all over the globe today okay so yeah I think mother daughter maybe we'll add that to our watch list and and discuss but um yeah I've also been catching a lot of clips of Teen Mom the new season Teen Mom is it not family reunion what is it Teen Mom OG but there's like a version I don't know but what Amber Macy and um Caitlyn Kaitlyn and Amber just got proposed to by her you know naked M rat looking boyfriend before he runs away it's so weird watching all of the engagement and the relationship play out on the show I haven't actively watched the show but I've been watching the Clips and the updates Amber's story specifically cuz like Leah wants um her stepmother to adopt her because you know that she feels like is her real mom and then somebody did a montage video where they were putting together like all the scenes of like Leah and Amber together over the past several years and over the different seasons and like you can tell Leah does not like her mom and like really likes um Christina who's her stepmom and Christina I think feel like I feel like has really stepped up and been more of like the mom the next chapter is what it's called thank you Laura so yeah okay well let's talk selling Sunset cuz crelle stuss is threat to leave so selling Sunset which is the Netflix show they just released their the Netflix real estate show they just released their trailer for season 8 crelle and Chelsea Chelsea lasan lasani lasani Chelle and Chelsea um they're now calling out production they're naming producers calling out the production company and they're calling out Nicole young who's a co-star Katherine says you and Heather McDonald should do a podcast together that would be fun uh we've done it I've gone on juicy scoop she's come on no filter so we've definitely done it in the past I would love to yeah we should we should do something again um but so yeah crelle and Chelsea are calling out Nicole young because apparently there's a rumor that Nicole brings up on the show this season and I guess it's a rumor about Emma Emma hearnen who's also on the show so these are all cast members on selling Sunset and so I guess Nicole has some sort of rumor that comes up about Emma and so now crelle and Chelsea aren't happy about it so they're popping off on social media so they posted several Instagram stories over the weekend trashing Nico or well trashing Nicole and calling Nicole trash so they're slamming her as a liar they're claiming that they have no interest in filming with her moving forward crelle specifically said I will never work on a show with her on it again I would rather be sued she also warns Nicole um is the one that put out this rumor about Emma and that it's categorically false and super damaging which makes me think like what is the rumor like what did they say about is it a cheating rumor um and then crelle ended up taking a jab at doneand done Productions which is the production company that produces selling sunset for Netflix and she even names Adam Dello and so because she claims they blindsided Emma with this rumor rather than allow her to defend her on the show so I'm assuming there's something in the trailer that they picked up on and then they were like what the [ __ ] was that in the trailer and then they started asking questions of the other cast members and doing a little digging only to find out what the rumor was so it sounds like the rumor was unbeknownst to Emma throughout the production throughout filming and now we know that the rumor is going to be coming up on the show because it was set on the show so um Jen says I thought the rumor was that Emma is dating a married man I thought so too um I thought it had to be like some sort of infidelity rumor but whatever it is they don't want the rumor out there but the rumor I mean it kind of I got that impression in the trailer I believe somewhere in the trailer like there is some sort of rumor that comes but I've like we've learned not to trust the trailers because the trailers usually you know can be a little misleading or deceiving sometimes and when we actually watch it play out so you never you never really know but like didn't we see this on what was it was it selling the o see it wasn't the last yeah where there was the two guys and the rumor about the threeome remember with one of the guys is like yeah you and your wife asked me to hook up with you and then they were fighting in the courtyard or in the side in the back I was like o the gays are fighting and so yeah that I mean they were hot I would love to be I would love to uh be a fly on the wall for that Thome but apparently he was off fend he's like you're gross bro you're not even attractive bro you're not even attractive and I'm like really you're commenting on whether or not you would actually sleep with this guy when he's accusing you of trying to have a you know whatever um I wonder if there's anything on Reddit about uh about the Emma rumors but I don't know we'll see we'll see what happens um I'm I'm sure people have like the about it uh okay looks like there's a thread on Reddit a selling Sunset thread where they dive into this um let's see Emma yeah I mean I feel like people really like Emma so are they trying to like ruin Emma's image Emma's good Gra rces but what is the rumor I think the rumor is I mean is it really that damaging if you're sleeping with a married man I mean that's rich coming out of my mouth and I know that but I mean you know yeah insinuating that she's a homeworker yes that appears to be what the rumor is but again this is just speculation we don't actually know what the rumor is Sarah says don't really care about the subject but I can't really start my day without Zach and this backpack well maybe this will make people watch the new season of s Sunset I don't really watch s Sunset I only really liked Christine Quinn because she was like a [ __ ] on the show but she came out and she's talked about how fake it is and then we know Adam Dello who is a producer on sing Sunset he was also a producer on the hills and I remember there a lot of The Hills cast had drama because remember he was um Kristen cavaler had an issue with him because he was like promising the girls there was like this whole fake storyline of christen cavalary you know having substance abuse issues and you know the girls wanted to confront her on the show and Kristen's like I literally am not having these issues like I don't get what you guys are talking about but the girls were willing to bring it up on the show that way they would get you know they would they were promised like a birken bag or they were promised all of these things that I don't think they ended up really getting but they did it for you know these perks that the producers Adam specifically would promise them so it looks like you know cat says I wonder what the homophobia accusations are about I believe Chelle calls her a homophobe in her stories and it could have been Chelsea also yeah so Chelle and Chelsea that was the other thing and that's what made the affair that's what clouded you're right there was another story that they posted saying the only true homophobe is um is Nicole she's the one that's the actual you know was it just homophobe or did they also call her like racist or something and then they said that like you're just trying to deflect from your own rumors because there are all these rumors out there about Nicole and Nicole wants to take the heat off of her and so she wants to throw the heat onto Emma and so my thought because I initially I thought it was like a home wrecking rumor but then when I saw the homophobe stuff I was like oh is this like is that why they're saying that it's so damaging and it's so false like are there you know is there some sort of rumor that comes up about um about like Emma's really homophobic or Emma is really you know I don't know everybody throws homophobic and transphobic and racist like everyone throws those terms around so loosely now that I feel like they don't even hold the weight that they did like If This Were 2020 and you were calling somebody racist that was like the worst thing you could call somebody but now I feel like people just throw that around so loosely that it's it's kind of lost its weight so if that's what they're reacting to it's like oh my God everybody's now called racist for any little infraction that they've made um even if it's not racially motivated so I don't we don't know what the rumor is and it looks like we're not going to know until then but like I said crelle says that she would rather get sued then continue to work with her because the rumor is categorically false and super damaging which makes me think okay maybe it is you know Jade says don't they all sleep with Jason what's the problem why they why the other twin never gets any girls why is everybody got to be out here trying to sleep with Jason Jason needs to stab being a hoe Jason from selling sunset I don't want anybody to clip that out of context Jason from selling Sunset sounds like a hoe um she yeah and then she calls out D and den production she calls out Adam Dillo because apparently they're claiming that Emma was blindsided by this rumor and didn't get a chance to defend herself on the show Chelsea called Nicole a diabolical piece of trash um and then they also tag Bri and and Mary so it seems like oh I honestly don't know what the deal is um no word from Emma though so we'll see where Emma you know we'll see we'll see um who sounds like a hoe can Zach say the name and then say they a hoe Jason from selling Sunset sounds like a hoe um see it was very specific Joe okay but that we'll see when does is is it the 6th or the 9th selling Sunset Premiere it's oh Friday the 6th yes which also speaking of Friday the 6th um The Secret Lives of Morman wives a I watched the whole show I binged it it comes out this Friday because I interviewed two of the cast members um which will come out next Monday um but I think we'll I'll release a couple of like little teasers or clips from uh the Mormon wives show but the full interview will drop this upcoming Monday it's good it's juicy um the show is really good it's it's going to give you the Salt Lake City Housewives Vibe so what I'm saying is binge it this weekend because my interview with the girls drops on Monday and there are spoilers in the interview so be sure to watch it this Friday so I guess we have sing Sunset and we have the secret lives and Mormon wives uh but it's good it's juicy it's fun and listen I binged it all in like 48 less than 48 hours so you can binge it I binged in like two days yeah I like watched half of the Season then the second half of the Season then I watched I think the finale the morning of the interview which was was a couple of weeks ago now but Secret Lives and Mormon wives on Hulu it's good hurt it was so good it's just juicy so that's why I'm saying let's binge it this weekend so that we have it to discuss next week but and then we have selling Sunset as well which I guess we can watch this weekend also so I have to get Hulu this week yes get Hulu this week go get Hulu watch it all my friends that are like reporters that got to interview the cast as well like they've all like we've all been talking about it because we can't talk about it publicly so we have to talk about it with each other because we've got screeners but yeah okay that said let's talk about Kristen cavalary yes Laura that's your homework is to binge Secret Lives of Mormon wives on Hulu drops on Friday so you have Friday Saturday and Sunday to binge um Christen cavalary so she's dating one of the Montana boys and they're these guys on Tik Tok I don't really know what do the Montana boys do are they singers the Montana boys create Tik Tok dancing lipsyncing and sharing their Cowboy lifestyle I thought that's what they did they just dance and and lip sync on Tik Tok and they do like sexy cowboy dances so anyway he's 24 Kristen's what 37 I believe Kristen cavalary is 37 uh Kristen yeah she's 37 he's Str wow so she's more than 10 years older than him good for her he's hot she's hot but so they did a Q&A video did you see the video Joe made about her and Schwarz I don't like to talk about Joe she's just kind of weird at this point she did like a montage video with all these like like clips and photos of her and Schwarz together and she's like this is me saying goodbye I was like girl we've been asking you to exit stage left for a while it's been months now let like don't just let the mouse go but you run with it go girl go run like the wind Bullseye run forest run we're done but so anyway Chris capary and Mark Estes did a podcast yet he came on her podcast let's be honest and they did like an unfiltered Q&A and if they don't answer then they have to take tequila shots but then Kristen also revealed in that episode that when she does these tequila shot things that she usually isn't doing she doesn't take tequila shots she says the first shot is usually a tequila shot and then after that they're all water shots and I'm like well how we ever supposed to believe that you're actually drinking I just want you to know I don't fake it anymore I used to fake it remember when I had my wine line well actually no yeah I used to fake I used to drink fake alcohol when we would tape like in the mornings when it was like 9 10 a.m. and I had I was like here's my wine and everybody be sure to get some wine and I would record it but I think those were pre-record and they would air like the next day or whatever but so I would be like I'm drinking wine everybody get your wine and what it was it was an empty Cam that I would F fill with water but then eventually I stopped doing that I just you know I don't drink in the mornings I have coffee in the mornings so if I have a morning taping there's a good chance I'm not drinking alcohol and it is fake um but when I do like my members only I mean you know I get lit when it's an evening live we getting lit tonight but so they were actually drinking shots in this one she made it clear it's Friday night it's Friday night and the feeling is right and so she's saying that I'm curious what you guys think of this Kristen is saying that Mark well actually the question was asked of Mark first and the question was is Kristen the best boom boom in the bedroom that you've ever had and he said yes it is the best boom boom in the bedroom that I've ever had um which I mean Kristen's experience she's a 37-year-old woman she's had lots of experience right Mark's in his 20s and usually you're pretty cocky in your early 20s 24 so he's you know early to mid 20s I'm sure he's been around the block a couple of times but Kristen I she well she didn't ask him but the Q&A came up about Mark and he says that Kristen was the best sex so then Kristen asked well you know or did he ask he did ask Kristen he's like am I the best sex that you've ever had and she kind of hesitates a little bit and then she says yes you are the best sex that I've ever had what's he gonna say no yeah that's my thing is like what are they going to say no no you're not the best I've ever had when they're like currently in love with each other and like talking about having babies and all that and they're still like the honeymoon face but I guess my question to the live chat is do we believe this do we really believe that Christen cavaleri's best she's ever had is a 24-year-old Montana boy I have my doubts they both said that they've never faked an orgasm Christen said she's never faked it ever ever ever in her life she's like no I'm not going to fake it if you're not going to do it then you didn't do it for me or vice versa I'm going to make sure you take me to completion so Joe says based on Mark est's vpl he could give it good he has a good VP I've never seen his BPL um they're standing right and they're standing right next to each other yeah of course they're not going to be like no you're not the best I've ever had like what is she supposed to do oh yeah that guy from two years ago that was the best I've ever but I'm like really she was with Brody she was with Jay Cutler like she's had a great you know Christen she was wasn't she dating that one guy um okay Christen cavaler a dating history from reality stars to NFL athletes so she was dating Steven colleti which I'm sure that wasn't amazing she was dating Talon I'm sure that one wasn't that amazing either because you're young I feel like when you're young you're not really good at boom boom in the bedroom I feel like since entering my 30s like boom boom in the bedroom for me has just gotten so much better and I don't know if it's a confidence thing or what but like it is incomparable to I think that you're just so insecure and you're like in your head a lot and you're trying to think of what you're doing you're trying to think of what like you're supposed to do and what like it's all about that right whereas I feel like you gain a little confidence you push boundaries a little bit more you're willing to explore a little bit more and you're just kind of like not as a sh you know all the tricks you know all the tricks of your body you know like what buttons you can push in other people so I don't know um okay so let's see who else so stepen colleti yep we we had Talon yep we had Matt oh he's hot Matt linard who was he oh he was a former quarterback star at USC and then he went on to do uh Arizona Cardinals Houston Texans Oakland Raiders and Buffalo Bills he's hot he looks like he can give it pretty good um Brody right we all remember Brody Jenner I think Brody I don't know do we think Brody's that good in bed I think Brody's actually pretty good TBH nicke I don't think Nickles is good in bed I just I don't know he doesn't give me good in bed Vibes nick xano uh from what I like about you oh I remember him now he looks fine Chris Evans I don't think Chris Evans is good in bed at all um oh Justin Bobby you guys Justin Bobby you know knows how to lay some pipe right Justin Bobby you know he yeah um Miguel Medina don't know who that is Jay Cutler was her ex-husband she also dat I feel like Jay Cutler was pretty good but I also feel like Jay Cutler was maybe a little lazy in bed and maybe wasn't wouldn't do as much um and then there was the comedian Jeff Dy he's cute he seemed like he would have been fine oh she was dating Chase Rice casually country singer casually Chase Rice looks like he knows what he's doing I think Chase Rice was probably some of the best sex she ever had but does Justin Bobby know how to shower Chris Evans um is nice and thick is he is he I don't know if he is I heard Brody is pretty blanded bed yeah I would think Brody might be pretty blend I think Justin Bobby would be better than Brody for sure Chris said Jay Cutler was great at Oral I believe that see here's the thing at 24 years old you don't have you don't know those tongue tricks you know what I mean Jay Cutler knows some tongue tricks you know that beard has seen some fluids I don't believe Montana boy is really that good as she's claiming first of all she was kind of hesitant to answer it and then she did say like do we really believe some 24-year-old Tik Tock dancer is the best she's ever had in bed maybe connection wise because they seem to like be so so in love do we think that they're really in love or is this kind of an infatuation I think they have a really good deep connection but like you don't really know somebody and you can't really like fall deep deep deeply in love with somebody unless you've been in each other's lives for a very long time no am I crazy did I just fall out of a coconut tree I don't know Sarah says I guess I'll have to try them all before I give my opinion um I do believe that Jay Cutler has great tongue skills but I also kind of like based off of looking at all these guys I think Chase Rice probably was great in bed and then now she's dating Mark Estes I don't think Mark Estes is Mark Estes is the type of guy that watched some porn and based off of that he thinks he knows what to do because he saw you know where the loudest moans were in these certain scenes and that's what he tries to do cat says I can't imagine being into a 24y old at 38 I can't imagine being into a a 24 year-old and I'm 31 like I'm closer to his age I just I would I could not date somebody in their 20s at the youngest I would like maybe like 28 29 I don't know but like it has to be like I feel like end of like your late 20s are a little different I could not do anybody younger than 25 no anybody younger than 27 27 has to be the cut off for me and like really I have to really make like I would prefer like maybe 29 I don't want anybody younger than their 30s like you would have to be an exceptional exception to make it past that I just I don't know I just feel like you're not like your brain's not fully developed in your early 20s you're just not all there and you certainly don't know what you're doing in the bedroom even when you think you do because that's I think when you have a lot of like than you confidence so Jose say I volunteer as tribute to objectively verify and rank the best best to worst lovers I should do that you're like here all the guys um here are all the guys oh Montana boy wow Montana boy see but I've also heard from a lot of ladies that like size can help but size doesn't always matter because sometimes the guy has the size but he doesn't know what to do with it Lexi says Zack you're literally my favorite podcast I asked redacted why he deleted his his tweets and thinks you stole his content but he reported my comment what I don't even know how to report a comment so there you go I I'm very curious what content I was accused of stealing again redacted has also tried to do this to Empire's Bob I shouldn't say that but I did oh well happy Tuesday um he's done this to other people so redacted is known for doing these things to people other people making these accusations which are false um it's funny you're not that original but everyone keeps stealing your content I guess it's it's easy to rip off mediocre these days um Maran out says 21 20year olds don't have a clue what to do you have to be the teacher I think that's why he likes Kristen because he's like oh Kristen knows what to do Kristen's teaching me all these fun tricks look at we're hanging from the ceiling like Kristen is giving him the cheat sheet right he's jumping you know a decade in advance love you Lexi Sarah says um I'd rather be with a lesbian in a man I'd rather be with a lesbian in a man's body what what I'd rather be with a lesbian in a man's body why is a lesbian in a man's body I would rather be with a lesbian in a man's body I don't get it I don't get it um Lexi the podcast with Monica got so much backlash they did a whole new episode on it I'm only listening to La why why did it get backlash I actually don't care that was more on thumbnail templates which anyone can do with can but not that hard I know I know that Joe but what I'm saying is the accusations get thrown out there a long time listen all the accusations that have been made against me from redacted have all been proven to be totally false and baseless so I feel confident pretty good my track record is is pretty clean um it's messy but I mean it's clear um people love to steal your content let I honestly don't care if they do to be honest pamma says I know a lesbian in a man's body I could arrange that you know a lesbian in a man's body who is the lesbian and why is she in a man's body what is she doing inside the man's body is she like you know giving him a colonoscopy and that's how she ended up inside his body except for the fact that Zach did in fact [ __ ] the husband shut up Joe I did not [ __ ] the husband Maran say especially when you don't even agree with redacted oh he reports some blocks oh I don't do that yes she is transitioning but how what does that have to what does somebody transitioning have to do with the best sex you've ever had I'm we're getting way off topic now I'm very confused um wow Marian Stout has been a member for 23 months wow I can't believe we even have had memberships for 23 months thank you Mary and Stout Maran Stout is a loyal one okay that said um but I don't believe that Mark SS is the best that Kristen's ever had but I do believe Christen is the best that Mark has ever had and then the rest of what else did they say in the podcast um yeah they never faked it Kristen cavaler is the one that pursued him he like kind of like made a move in the DMS and then she's the one really went after him and she invited him out and she did the she did the me move and I can say it's the me move because I had a podcast before her and so typically what you do is say hey do you want to come on my I would love to have you as a guest on my podcast you know if you like see someone online and they're kind of cute they're kind of um they're kind of cute but they're kind of um kind of cute but kind of [ __ ] what is it um damn I lost my train of thought um but anyway oh we have a Chris Evans League too Joe oh no way that's not Chris that's not real there's no way that that's real I don't believe that that's actually real Chris Evans how would we see how do we know that that's actually him I mean that's his booty cuz he did like the scene in the movie but like I don't know he had an interview and owned up to it but how did you find it show ISA yeah like I'm going to show you on the internet what do you think I fell out of a coconut tree you're going to get my YouTube channel taken down Liza's watching from Canada hi Liza I was a follower of yours for over five years but didn't realize you had a podcast well thank you kapai um on that note guys I do have a very special guest you've seen us together a couple of times um hanging out on the Graham I just did his new podcast which is called in bed with Bruno so you may recognize him from RuPaul's Drag Race here to spill a little tea with me I got Mr Bruno himself Bruno Alcantara hello that's me hello everybody how are you people may remember you from disaster dator and now you needed to come and get some no filter action that's true that was so much fun as well I guess we have a lot in common more than we thought has your dating life improved I mean I I like to say that a little bit better every day being a little optimistic okay so you have um you just launched your new podcast in bed with Bruno it's very exciting yes you just launched the first episode it's on YouTube right now look everyone's so excited to see you Jen says hi Pamela says hi cat says Bruno so hot well Bruno so I got in bed with Bruno I don't know when our episode comes out but it's obviously going to be the the most watched episode of the show you was so much fun I mean we are flirting for hours in my bed yeah I taught you how to make out yes you telling me what is your what is the ideal kiss and practiced more since then I mean I've been trying you know nothing crazy nothing crazy better it it's you're supposed to have a Summer of Love I know oh Joe has Joe has a question for you Joe wants to know has there been any guest on in bed with Bruno that Bruno has gotten in bed with before filming wow no no the answer is no not yet oh so there's there's still not before not before not before but I think Margaret Cho got a second dip no so you've had you've had a lot of gu you had Margaret Cho on you had me on who else is who else can we expect Dexter Mayfield influencer actor dancer uh we had Vincent singer songwriter so much fun um Margaret Cho you and mohart and each one's very different so you all brought something you know different stories and very interesting in your own way um you made my oh Taylor hail full of light and love and we had a great chemistry as well yeah so you made my bed very special so my bed is definitely a hot spot now yes so we were just talking about I don't know do you know who Kristen cavaler is she used to be on the hills in luguna beach so we were just talking because she just did a podcast she's 37 and her new boyfriend is 24 and they think that they're madly in love and they said that that them coming together is the best sex that they've ever had and my argument is he's 24 a guy at 24 is not the best sex you're ever going to have like you don't really know what you're doing at 24 or am I wrong are you having some great sex with some 24 year olds Bruno uh I agree with you I think you can get better with the time I think you learn new things I do think that nowadays the kids are wild out there um very free yeah so you know you never really know it's funny because I just read that I saw something diaro about it and the pictures of them I mean they look amazing together by the way they do they're a hot couple do you think that they'll last it's what a 13e age difference uh are you I mean the age gaps are you a big age Gap person I used to love um older people and now as I get older I actually have I meet some people that younger sometimes but yeah it doesn't need to be I think whatever feels right in the moment sometimes you me somebody and I I don't have this it needs to be older or younger no there's no rules yeah well the hard part too is you can date older when you're like in your 20s but then like as us as we get older the older guys get even older and then pretty soon it's not cute to be dating an 84 year old you know yeah where when you're in your 20s you're dating a 37 year old you know that's that works or 40y old okay fine it feels hot yeah you're like oh my God I'm so and I feel like people they represent something that you don't have yet sometimes you know that confidence and so many things that you always to like wanting to have yeah and they after while yeah I'm not I'm not taking an 84 year old seriously unless he's got like some money and then I love him we're in love forever forever and until till death do his part it makes sense yeah I could do I don't know I could do like a Hugh Hefner sort of situation right just what do you think is the when was your favorite like was it a specific age for your like best sex uh I feel like the older I get the better sex is getting so for me right now I feel like I'm having really good sex um I mean I don't and why is that do you think it's because you just feel more comfortable because you know better what you're doing better the partners I think for all of those reasons I think when you're in you're 20 like early to mid 20s you don't really know what you're doing you don't really know what you're you like you're insecure because you think even though that's probably you know for a lot of people that's where they look their best I think they're just the the most insecure with themselves with their body and with their performance and like they just don't feel like they're Measuring Up um and so they're constantly in their head about what they're supposed to do and I think by the time you get to your 30s you're like I don't care about what I'm supposed to do I care about like what I am like I'm enjoying the moment and I know what I like I know how to ask for what I I like I'm not afraid to ask for what I like and it just gets better because you gain that confidence and that Assurance within yourself amazing makes sense you any specific stories that made the sex very bad or awkward hello I have a whole podcast called disaster dator that talks about all my bad dating experiences um Joe asks if you had to pick one for the rest of your life what would you pick Cuban D Brazilian or black oh my God pick one come on out uh you know I love Brazilians it's it's my people you know what I mean it's just the fact that we speak the same language it makes so much easier yeah I also think that Brazilians are very special different energy you know in general in general is nice to be around we are very passionate um I feel like we have this talent to make people fall in love for us in one night stand and I think that's very positive yeah he usually can be an unforgettable experience and so I do love Brazilians yeah so last time I talked talked to you on disaster daters you you were talking to somebody right you like went on a date with somebody and it was like kind of going well do you have any updates on what's going on that was one time only it's funny because it was a good date I would say yeah why do they always do that they're always like let's go on a really good date let's have a really good time and then at the end of it I'm never going to talk to you again yeah there was no we did not have sex but we had a great conversation very meaningful deep and all that but you know what I don't know is it his fault or my fault we never reach out to each other anymore so why didn't you reach out to him see you're part of the problem I know yes I am sometimes I am I have so why go on a really good date with somebody and then not follow that up I think yeah I'm part of the problem because one thing that comes to my mind is how bad do you want it show me but I feel like if we all think that way yeah what is going to happen nothing's going to happen true I think you just have to lean into if you really like okay I have a friend right now and he's dating and I've been telling him he needs to take things very very slow right because he hasn't been dating for a really long time he's just starting to put himself out there he's also new to like the dating scene in LA and I'm like the dating scene in La can be very tricky like just be Mindful and my thing is even if you really like someone keep your options open because if you hone in too much on one person one I think you can get catch feelings too fast you get too caught up in the moment um I think when you do get too caught up you can um ignore maybe some red flags or some things that you wouldn't be cool with because you're kind of like blinded with the rose-colored glasses and so now he's already like they've only gone on a couple of dates and like he already posted him on Instagram on stories like a cute photo on Instagram I think it was like the um close friend Circle so I probably shouldn't be saying that but like but still he posted a photo like with him and I'm like oh my God this is way too much wow so he's like in love he's all in I mean that's cute you know um is it or is that moving too fast it's only been like two or three days it's nice to see people excited about somebody because I feel like everybody they just pretend like they don't care yeah or or they really don't okay put yourself in the shoes of this other guy right if you maybe there is a quick connection well actually this did kind of happen to me recently but like let's say there is a quick connection and then somebody posts a photo of you on their Instagram is that a red flag well in my case specifically I like to keep my private life for me yeah I think a lot of people knowing about or being public can really mess things up yeah so if you see usually if you see a m my page they are friends okay we are not having sex we are not it's nothing romantic yeah if you see man it's they are my friends okay so I probably would like it because I feel like in order to make this happen and for us you know keep going with the relationship whatever it is let's keep for ourselves and maybe after a while when everything is very serious and very solid and consistent stable maybe we can just show everybody about yeah see I'm the complete opposite I put all of like all of my life is out there all of my dating life my personal life my life like it's all out there which has made things really challenging um but I've gotten to the point where I think when it comes to like me dating somebody I think I would really want to make that private first and so there was somebody that I was like seen we went on you know a few dates and we're talking and um and I do remember we went on a date one time and he took a picture of us together I think it was like our second date and he took a picture of us together and he was going to post that on Instagram and I was like I feel like that's like way too soon like I don't know if I'm ready for that I don't want anybody to know like especially because I also know like everybody here in the live chat can verify that they the second they see I mean even when I post anybody they automatically think that oh are you dating them are you sleeping with them like you know they run with their wild theories that I'm like it's somebody that I actually am dating and sleeping with I don't you know I don't know if I would want to put them out there so soon so how was it for him what did he say nothing I mean he did end up so he didn't post the photo of us but he did post a photo from where we were we went to like a concert and he did post a photo from the concert and he tagged me in the photo I didn't repost it um because I think I'd even said on my podcast that oh I'm going on a date tonight and I was like if I post this then people are going to know that like this is the guy that I'm on to date with and they're gonna like look him up and like all of that stuff and it was just too I don't know it's a little bonkers uhhuh well I think it's amazing when they both are on the same page and wanting the same things the chemistry the connection is just right for both sides so then you can both go crazy or not I it's best to always take it slow I mean I think it's smart yeah it's mature yeah for sure yeah um Joe asks drag race was there ever a drag race contestant or guest judge that you've tried to hook up or that has tried to hook up with you and how many successfully have done it and was one of them Vanessa uh no that never happened um I love how people love j i I mean my sexual life is not as exciting as everybody thinks I guess um no that never happened before we are very professional when we do the show um we have a lot of fun the environment is very friendly and happy and all that but no that never happened before yeah Joe says all good been there done that Joe's referencing my confirmation of a situation with somebody the other day I finally just owned up to it on Instagram um Ida this is Bruno you may recognize him from drag race RuPaul's Drag Race his new podcast coming out called in bed with Bruno I'm a guest on his podcast You're Gonna Want To Tune in is this the same guy that ran that ran into your mom oh yes yes yes not Bruno but so the guy that was going to take a photo or that was going to post a photo of us on Instagram we ended up going out one time to a bar in weho which I normally don't do very often and while we were there we ran into my mom who was also hanging out at the same bar in weho which was like super awkward so he also like got to meet my mom super ear wow it was a lot one step closer to the it's done now it's done now oh wow what is going on now who are you going out with I'm not going out with anyone right now but you told me in bed with Bruno in your episode you said you know I'm not the type for marriage I I but I think I said I'm more of the divorce type than the marriage or you said in your podcast I guess yeah um I I don't know if I would I don't the idea of like getting married to somebody like gives me like anxiety cuz it's just you know I don't know what are you most afraid of is that somebody they are you afraid of yourself how are you gonna behave or they gonna behave I was thinking about this I think for me it's more of like the I don't know I just I don't know if I'm like I don't know if anybody would ever like want to propose to me I just I feel like like I'm a lot and my life is a lot and like I don't know if anybody's like realistically you know I don't God I'm sure you find it if you want to just the idea of like I don't want a wedding I know that like the idea of like having a wedding to me is like so cringy um and then like the commitment to somebody like I don't know if I would like want like that's like a big commitment I mean it is but listen we're gonna have to talk about this otherwise we're not going to Da together very true um Joe says spicy drag race how much can you confirm or deny about whether there are charges to be pressed by drag race staff against the worlds of Wonder because of all the Stars nine girls in production oh I don't know anything about this I don't know anything about it honestly Joe sorry Joe I don't even sorry Bruno I don't even I don't even watch um drag race drag race I haven't seen it I've seen all you're say it's time it's time it's amazing show and well I went to Dragon for the first time see so we are closer so now you start you watch one and then you see oh this is fun this is exciting and this is deep and it's it's very very good too yeah and that's how you like it deep um meaningful yeah very mindful very I think we need a part two of Zack in bed with BR you haven't even watched part part one hasn't even come out yet you don't even know we talk about in part one yeah but the the one's coming and I told him my bed is always he's going to be always welcome my bed or they're going to be more in bed with Bruno episodes yeah we're gonna do season two in a second and now that the world is gonna you know find out that my bed is a hot spot I want I want everybody to want to be in bed with Bruno I want everybody to be in bed with Bruno too because it is a good time and you guys can subscribe on YouTube what's the YouTube channel in bed with Bruno yeah yeah it's Bruno can but if you search ined with Bruno you're gonna find so everyone has to go search subscribe comment but make sure you you leave lots of comments when my episode comes out and you have to go and and show some love to Bruno's new podcast send to your friends your enemies your family season two will be on the sling with Bruno oh you're up the anti I guess we have a lot of fun to have yeah wait are you you you said that you want to get married right I do and you want a wedding and all that uh I do want it uh I don't want to wedding I just to me it just I'm like it like makes me so uncomfortable may I may change my mind but right now I love to get married but hey I'm not even in a relationship yet so or what are you doing to date right now I'm trying to be a better person um I really believe that you have to become the person that you want to attract yeah so I'm trying to become a better person in general so that way I can attract it the right person from my life yeah and I don't think and I'm not rushing because you know I think he should happen naturally yeah so I need a Miracle well I don't no I I think you're right though but like for me it's hard like with dating apps because I feel like I don't like doing the dating app thing because like I don't you don't really get to know you don't really get to like know who someone is through you know like five filtered photos they put on Tinder you know like you need to like and you also I think it's better to like put yourself in situations that you know you're potential partner might also be in that way there's like a chance of like meeting somebody that may be a little more compatible because they have similar interests that's true like how are you meeting people right now are you just doing like the dating apps uh it's so just if I go to an event and I see somebody that I like or a friend of mine can just like oh this is this person whatever besides that I'm not really going on dates right now I give myself sometimes I go on five dates and then I wait for a while and then I can go again but it's very I I would rather to be with friends having fun just s sitting down and doing that whole job interview it's very annoying yeah because it's like you have to do the small talking like how are you what are you like what are you doing what's your favorite color yeah I think sometimes it's better if you have an experience with somebody and it's it's not it doesn't feel like a date but you're just like oh we watching this together we going I don't know yeah something more interesting and then you're like oh I guess we have something come oh we have found this you know what I mean I don't know it's complicated I don't think Bruno and Stu would be a compatibility match Joe I don't think you you I don't think you know Stu no I don't think I don't what's your but you like more of like you like like other like hot like brazili dudes hey I don't like to put labels um I I've I've seen myself with so many different people um I think it's nice somebody that feels good to be around you know what I mean I think that also I'm gonna have to say this I like attitude in the sense of people they know what they want yeah and they are not just like I like people that they are clear about they want and they you know they have attitude yeah because I think it needs to be both ways you not just like doing it all yeah another thing is I hear a lot that you intimidate people come on now I'm very approachable if you come to say hi to me anywhere I'll be usually very nice unless you do something very awkward and crazy so I'm not I'm very approachable so come on yeah I think you're very approachable you're very sweet you're very demure I try yeah but I mean I do think like because you do have like such a um like Fit Body and you do have like a pretty face that I think that can be intimidating sometimes like with me I know it's not my looks that intimidate people I'm a brace I'm a [ __ ] and I know that I have a really rough exterior that sometimes can you know scare people off a bit and I know I intimidate people in that ways but I think with you you have you're very sweet um and I think you just your looks I think can intimidate people sometimes but that's not on me do you see it's not my fault so hey it's true it's true so am I gonna have to do everything just because you intimidated oh no I think the fact that you're putting yourself out there more and like now you're um you have your podcast that people are going to see more of your personality which I don't think people get to see much of your personality on drag race that I think that will show people this other softer side to you that isn't as unapproachable right because I think people think oh he's so hot that he's probably like out of my my you know out of my wheelhouse so they're not going to shoot their shot yeah so should should your shot there you go yeah they're gonna be able to connect with me in a different level yeah probably after in bed with Bruno and hopefully they will say I want to be in bed with Bruno too well there we go now you guys can get in bed with Bruno his new podcast is called in bed with Bruno it's out now first episode just dropped so stay tuned I'm gonna be on um you also had on what Margaret Cho who were some of the other guests you had on to refresh people's memories uh Taylor hail from the Big Brother and Dexter mayew Vincent um it was so much fun well guys go subscribe support and tune in to ined with Bruno he is also available on Instagram and on the only fans yes I'm everywhere come on he's everywhere what are your handles 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