Hold My Drink with Charleen and Ellie: Online Hate & Wedding Chats with Erin & Taylor McGregor #134

welcome to H my drink with Charlene and Ellie our podcast is a group Dr between your best friends the girls Brom on a night out where you spill All the gossip on relationship dmas and life um we are I was going to say we're coming to you live what no we're not we're coming to you not live obviously [ __ ] podcast yeah um but if you're return listener welcome back and if you're new welcome hello welcome to the chats to where we just spill everything basically mhm and talk chice it's like your weekly therapy your weekly yeah your weekly hang out with the G Pals yeah I hope that our podcast is like well actually I like I love tal and Brooks podcast love I hope that we can give that feeling when I listen to that someone else just listening and even if you're not really like actually listening to the conversation it's just nice to have some like like if you're getting ready or like yeah driving like it's just something something to make you not feel alone you just feel like a comfort where I feel like remember Shan and car's podcast I listen to every episode three times they used to sleep like so well it's like yeah maybe because it's a familiar cuz I knew yeah cuz I know them like as voice love love it I'm like the I say I'm the top fan of their podcast yeah for listen to it um you can also know watch the podcast too we have a camera lovely camera in front of us they are live every wed sorry every Thursday on YouTube so you can watch us there as well and see us and watch us on the Telly wooo I think I've watched on I watch on tell you already yeah I put on I put on go of our episode um on this week's episode we are joined by eron and tayor McGregor we chatted about their mother daughter relationship going on like the brand trips together yeah I can't imagine going my mou I know yeah but Aon is like the coolest um both their careers and how they manage hate on social media and so much more so we hope you enjoy today on the podcast we are delighted to be joined by the beautiful Aaron and Taylor McGregor welcome welcome to my dring we're so excited have's here thank you so much for coming in I've never had for having us a mommy and a daughter Duo no we had your actually your mom you yeah but not be not interviewing them yeah this is fun was your mom on she just giving me death the whole time she yeah I love her telling stories childhood but you look like sisters to be honest you really do you really do eron you were quite young having Taylor weren't you I like not much 18 yeah I was 18 pregnant and just gotone 19 having her so pretty young a baby yeah still grown what was that like kid that you um it was real like shell shock I think like Taylor's what 24 now this year 24 so I had a 5-year-old at Taylor's age so it's mad I think of me at 18 I'm like oh my God she just be changing and I'm like I had a 5-year-old at your age I look after you that's not my fault yeah I was Sheltering it's very difficult I think yeah like how did you navigate life at that like like you look at Taylor now 24 and going out and like do like get my life together was there stuff when you were Taylor's age that you obviously couldn't do cuz you had Taylor at that time I think when you're young you're real naive like you really don't think of these things like you look at your M and you think she has an clue or what they say you know they'll try and give you advice or you think you're going to stay with the same fellow for the rest of your life and you think that your parents having a clue but they really do have a clue because they can see things I'm not saying that's like that for everybody some people are lucky and they do get to stay together but I think now as an older parent looking back I'm like I guess their sadness for me having a baby so young was my life was stopping your whole life changes it's not about you like I see Taylor going to our festivals or worrying about what she has to wear or like spending all our wages and having no money till next month and like wanting to lend money like I didn't have those opportunities I didn't have that freedom to like go away and not have to worry about who was going to look after Taylor so I feel that I suppose that is the cons of having a baby so young your whole life your whole goal of being free is taken away from you yeah but then I suppose the pro is I we grew up together yeah but I was very motivated so I was very career driven even as a young girl like I wasn't finished me hairdressing career so when Taylor was three months old I went back to work to finish that off a um and it was very difficult like I used to bring her with me like even do like freelance hairdressing she was always with me like I get that yeah and I remember like one of me clients meeting me maybe like a few years ago and be like I remember her being brought with you everywhere like sitting there eating our cereal while you were walking so I guess I knew I was responsible for yeah from a very young age and as heavy as that was on my shoulders that I suppose made me yeah CUA it was my job to look after Taylor it was my job to get her school uniforms and her school books and get her to dancing and she always came first but I suppose there was there's moments even now as a parent where I'm like oh my god when is it about me yeah like I remember someone saying like laughing and joking when I got pregnant and Harry CU obviously then I became a parent much later in life like a huge gap I was like 16 1 like I was devastated not only child anymore my eyes you remember telling Taylor you were pregnant on her oh yeah she was still sitting on the toilet she was still s I kind of went a bit into shock I left the house yes I left the house and I was like no I was at the only grandchild as well for 16 years and then my whole life Came Crashing Down but I felt yeah dramatic m you're grown up yet I near had you at that age come on yeah it's when you tell a small kid that why they're getting a sibl it's the same reaction no like I was 16 years of age and crying my eyes out like literally I had to get off the L remember I was getting on the Louis we're going to Vegas in a few weeks we were all going in family day shopping and I was like I'm not going with you I got on the leis got like two stops down I was hyperventilating on the leou and I had to get off now I love there you go I know at the time you're so used to just being you and everyone just Focus for 16 years and then boom everything was changing yeah there you go now both of my pregnancies for some was a Tean pregnancy unmarried mother that I hid and was going to knew I was going to get into trouble and the second one was my teenager storming out and not talking to me so I'm like conratulations I talk to her for about a week I went into school and I was crying I yeah I would not speak to you I think I actually St with my D for a while cuz I just could not Fe no R in my life that's all good for pregnancy hormones she's the worst pregnant person ever I remember after how she was talking about having another one and I was like please God I would literally M out if she got pregnant again really being pregn is very different yeah no I I was violently ill on Taylor but I I think like I always remember getting the bus and I'd have to get off the bus stop and get sick and then get back on the bus because it was corks at a time it was really narrow right he used to get the bus in to me job and the traffic would be that bad that by the time I'd got to the next bus stop the bus would be back again and I'd have to get on I think Harry was much more difficult like I had to be medicated on Harry I I think for me having a boy the sickness was way worse they always say about do they yeah do they say they're different being a boy and a girl like a girl takes your beauty a yeah you're meant to be glowing more on a boy more on a boy isn't it yeah I don't I don't think I glow on any of them yeah that when you're feeling were you just puking a lot puking constantly felt nauseous she swelled I remember there's a picture just just after you had Harry and her face is like that SI and I was like this I love when people got got all puffy you ever see kashian face when she I think it looks so nice I think it look like oh my God Aaron McGregor has filler and I'm like now just it's not filler everyone's obsessed with the fact that they think I have filler in my face puffy cheeks like when I smile my cheeks no I hate it I do I I used to hate that when I was younger as well cuz I was like I thought they were cheek button cheek so cute wait they start dropping girls the cheeks start going down like this no no no I'll be getting a face lift on them a certain age honestly see Chris Jenner's one that had me convinced she got it was in one the episodes I think I think she's had two she had so yeah they literally just take the skin off your face and just pull it pull it back oh yeah so one day you see me and I'm look like I'm suctioned that why love it that's the look that one and eron going back to your hairdressing career so did you do that up until Harry or were you still going after that up until Harry so after Harry I think it's so funny cuz my clients literally were like my second family so they I know would have been like they would have been with me true a lot they would have been with me true Taylor then I moved to a local Salon in crumlin and some of them then came with me when I freelanced they would have like the breakups of the dramatic boyfriends that I had the engagement that I had before Terry like they saw an awful lot I grew up with an awful lot of my clients and they became very close to me they are some friends yeah yeah so when I had Harry like I remember like people nearly knocking on my door being like are you coming back yeah you see my room are you coming back and I'm like no and I think I might have done a few hairs after Harry I think you were in between you think you done like two or three yeah but like probably me mar and me auntie ones that like just could not let me go and I'm like girl just have to let me go and then I just I just w't let anyone else cut my hair now though yeah you were only saying the only person that cut my hair properly I'll go get my color done somewhere else but I will not let anyone cut my hair cut your hair no very hard to let go of your hair J yeah you feel like it's always in you like would you be would you be you could be anywhere but would you like notice someone's hair or like would there be little things that bring the hair dress back out and oh yeah first thing I say first thing out my eye will be janty is your hair of course look at me today Aron okay we all got slick back for that and yeah it's one thing I'll always notice is here I'm doing good job yeah like you with makeup though like you probably not something straight away yeah yeah so did you did you finish out school or how was school for you no I told my mom that I was going to leave I thought I'd never leave and grow up and be a hairdresser cuz I thought I'd never get into the big bad world now if I could like give anyone advice I'd be like stay in school really yeah stay schol listen to your parents I mean it's not what you want to hear when you're 18 or 19 even with Taylor like I'm trying to give her advice and I'm like she's not listening to it ready when I'm ready yeah yeah yeah when do you think that will be ask for you're only getting ready now you do definitely change you do but where were we going there with the haird dress and thing oh Harry after Harry yeah then Dancing with the Stars came up you see oh so that's how I transitioned from I was actually opening my own Salon oh St so when I was pregnant on Harry this they call it nesting I suppose right but for me it was about trying to set up this company I suppose getting pregnant on Harry brought up a lot of fears of what was like for me with Taylor because obviously I was a single parent I was on my own um financially I was you know she was reliant on me so I when I got pregnant on Harry I felt like I need to get all my eggs into a basket and we need to set up everything and did and I was like kind of in preparation nearly like yeah yeah like I look back now and I'm like what were you thinking but but that's clearly what I was thinking let's open a salon nesting into like a business and let's open a salon and we end up leasing a like building for like 5 years that didn't become a hair salon yeah yeah but I was determined I was like No we're going to do that and then when I had Harry I literally was so in love with him and it was so you know it was like this full circle moment of like I had Taylor I had the boyfriend everything the puzzles yeah the puzzle the the puzzle just fitted all together yeah yeah do you know yeah it was just perfect perfect it everything had settled down everything was where it was supposed to be and I was like okay I'm just going to stay here with him now I literally now he was colic and reflux like Taylor MH babies and I'm like not going to get colic baby again but I did so I literally lay with him on my chest for like about good six to eight months just at home and then the call came I think was over a year old for Dancing With the Stars and that's how I transitioned well obviously my brother being a superstar in the middle of all that kind of changed the course for for everything and everybody um and that's just how things unfold it w how did you find Dancing with the Stars it's meant to be intense oh I was you on it this year have he's been asked no no I can't I have to Lefty I wouldn't do it I do if I got asked do I would I'd love to do a Challengers I feel like it'd be a real challenge boot I feel like I know majority on the thing not anymore it's all new they're all new people yeah there's not even one person I know anymore on it is there has it changed a lot since you were on it well the as in the dancers yeah um the format hasn't changed it's an amazing experience is it is it but it was difficult because it was tough no it wasn't the dancing part I always wanted to be a dancer you doto and all so you're well able yeah like if I could go back yeah as a young child I probably would have done how it made me want to do B just watching even though I like my dancer like life was polar opposite to ball real like I was a freestyle dancer so it was crazy how oh yeah we were freestyle dancing in the halls and I be oh yeah trumbl and kick in the split black and blue we came I came home and I had just bruises all up my legs and I was like the two of us setting up the phone doing tumbles down the hall what are we doing I was like look at me Taylor you PR there was all my thousands of Euro freestyle danc yeah wasted my money we were in nightclub and was like d split I was like shut oh I was there and I was like lit I went down I went straight back up cuz I was like if I go down I'm not coming back God I always want to do freestyle I'm like I can't even touch my toiles don't understand it as dancing though explain it to me I don't honestly I actually don't they're ring all around the they drag draging yeah I mean like my toes were quite flexible probably the only thing that was flexible to my body cuz I wasn't that you I was more of a Daner yeah I was more of a dancer than flexibility though like I wasn't I had ROM I don't anymore don't know where it's no God I'm always getting slacked for dancing on no God no and yeah I've seen a program or something and you wanted to join for a long time and I was like no because I'm like a dance mom I knew I'd be Dance Mom we won't be doing every competition like no CU it's really expensive and she couldn't St on fed like you st on yourself well wellit you can pay someone to get it on H well you get a costume plain and then someone else will Stone it or else if most M did down themselves down all furn I have this page on Instagram and it's um somebody who makes the outfits for freestyle dancing and I already have a dress pick for my 30th birthday that I'm wearing from would it be like me covered in Sosi there's a whole lot oh that's a bit me now see the outfits not I'd love to do it just to wear the outfit yeah and the ponies and all the hair got info from like Jon or something for one of my dance competitions yeah it was like latex or something yeah oh this s was but was it was it tough like physically like oh it look so hard flinging you're L SE me after I beat the bres that I had like I literally I broke my toe two weeks before a big dance competition M DK did you not like do something to your elbows yeah no that was a different one but I broke my toe and I'm not messing like my to probably never went back to normal size and I danced on it two weeks later and I like fine you just have to power through any it's very social for the kids though it's more of a social thing really comp and all I wasn't like people would like you know get in with our dance groups and all to like it's very what political is it yeah it's very political like you have to know the judges and I was just I'm dealing it because I like it not because I want to make friends that's terrible but like I wasn't doing it to just get out there but I felt like when I got older I was never winning because I wasn't that person to go over and be friends with everyone or like make friends with the judges when I knew I should be winning and other people knew but just you being real cuz you're not going to start looking the J yeah I don't they're from England I'm never going to see you like I loved what I was doing and when I got older I was like this is just knocking me down my confidence down when I'm just trying to do something that I love so I'm not doing this any I had to take a step back how old were you when you stopped 18 were you you 18 I was 18 you start to put your worth in like where you're ranking in a in a place like it just me confidence was literally on the floor I think I was going through like a bad breakup as well and I was like I can't I need to step away from this or else I'm literally going to be the lowest I've ever been it was really it was actually really bad when I kind of decided to live I didn't even tell anyone I just stopped just stop showing off to dancing has anyone watched the Dallas character sorry if they had took one look at me they like get out the door like I don't even meet the height requirements but that like I think it's like five something five I'm 5'4 four five five well it's the confidence thing I think that's what people it can either Make It or Break It so% I oh so Taylor would actually work better with some criticism she kind of proves if I would give out to her and say she didn't do amazing on the dance floor and I be I remember specifically one competition I came off the dance floor and she was like that was she and I was like um okay went off PRI and then I went I think I done my final got into the final and I won and I literally drilled a trophy and was like that's what you that's what you needed so probably at the time probably gave in face and she just walked off so Taylor and I remember then trying to change me approach one time going okay let's try and like be motivational and like tell her she's amazing and then she didn't get placed and I'm like it's not working yeah W some people walk yeah better better with like constructive criticism or a bit harder don't walk under that I with motivation I think it depends though like cuz like only for so long can you be told this needs to change and this needs to until you're like leave me alone like I feel like at the start maybe yeah that's okay but then when you get to a certain point you're like all right now you're just being mean yeah yeah yeah yeah I think I find it very hard to take constructive criticism as constr think I take it wor now my God hate me yeah take the warse now that I'm all on did when I was a kid I think it's when your frontal L forms and all that like things was different I feel like second I turned 25 I was like wait who like what's going on it all makes sense you when you turned 35 and 40 and it's like all the things that you think right now is completely different when you get older it just changes everything and you're like H things that I thought of are like I remember being out with me friends and me newer friends I have 10 years was in the company of a childhood friend and she was telling stories the childhood friend was and I was like I don't even remember that and me newer friend of 10 years was like it sounds like a completely different eron I was like it does doesn't it yeah so it just change changes yeah I can imagine think got a lot of things change like all your morals values like everything I feel like though I've learned that a lot younger than you did like my family is me friends and I feel like you didn't learned that for a long time yeah probably friends were priority whereas my family is my priority now and like my friends who I'm friends with probably like less than a handful I'm friends with since I've in Primary School like literally since junior infant and they've been there my whole life so small but strong I think that does come with age though as well like I've definitely over the and I've said it on the podcast before how much like family is like number one for me for like and that's not never to say we've talked about it before it's never to say that like your friends aren't a priority to you but like if if if I if I'd have the choice of like hanging around with my little cute mommy and daddy like over doing something that I can do any other time like I'm really starting to Value the age of my parents now and that's how I know I'm getting older cuz I you're very old so like what think me 28 like you are very old so what I would consider as an old time like 28 is still pretty young for you to even think like that yeah yeah I know like that Charlene not as much I would value my family friends the same I feel like but I wouldn't if I had two offers there I don't know I wouldn't think of like maybe what you think of I'm thinking like oh God my mom and dad like and like or like little things that my dad say me to play on my mind for ages like little small he asked me to do something for him last night and like it's playing on my mind all day like be bit more like that than than I was I used to now that I moved out I moved out like a year ago but like I actually want to spend time with them more whereas when I lived there I was like oh yeah and that's normal like and whereas now I go cuz I want to see I remember hating my mom did you oh my yeah you st when cuz I don't remember this stage you remember that I don't I vely remember well I literally I did you a year and then we like told what to do and then I came home and we've actually haven't bought really since I don't think I went but like I I hate hated my mom for for telling me to come home like you mean like stupid [ __ ] I vividly remember like out drinking in a park or something and I'd see the phone lighting up ringing and she text me why aren't you answer I'd look at the phone ringing and just put it down to know I'm cuz I was a dancer I was like yeah probably like once or twice like in my teenagers but I like I was aarm she thinks I was bad but I actually wasn't cuz I just danced a whole week and the whole weekend like if I wasn't dancing I had a competition that was probably good for you you weren't out I was the most Troublesome kids me m thinks I was strict but I don't you were strict I don't think I was that strict I I didn't have my well my first like proper drink until I was 18 like she would not let me have one drink not one single drink not nope you kept your pledge and I was 15 I keep it oh schol I didn't have no no no well like I would never go out and get drunk or like drink in the park I never drank in a park until like probably one or two drinks like it wouldn't have been like I was getting black out junk I think I probably got black out junk once and I was nearly 18 so like still grounded me and I still got into [ __ ] but yeah never I think when you're um wearing a child on your own you can overcompensate so there's probably certain things where I felt that she maybe was missing out on and I overcome compensate or maybe I feel that I didn't instill certain things into her like even now I'd probably have maybe regrets of things that I didn't do or I could have done better or I say you know I didn't do a great job there I was still very young like I she called me spoiled and I'm like that's your fault yeah I was very Lear I was still learning I remember like I used to sit on the sofa and I'd be like it be the weekend so her dad would take her on a weekend and then I would have her on the the second weekend and I would like sitting there waiting to go out so we used to go to the plaza plaza was a big thing and it was three was it 250 a drink on a Sunday night you to Young that in t sister used to yeah and uh I'd be sitting there with me house coat on i' be like I have no baby s me m go on out then a few hours go i' be ready to go cuz I still wanted to live your life yeah yeah you need that though yeah that's L and there's nothing wrong with that either like you so I was still learn I was still grown and I suppose you might see my older friends now with their children and they again have different mindsets yeah so it's very hard to navigate motherhood as a young as a young parent when you're still grow trying to live your own life see them Tik Tok and it's like it's videos of people's parents and like it's their first time time oh my God that makes I think when I had that I think when I had that realization I was like oh my God it's like an epiphany yeah them your mom and dad are like these like super not superar but like they're just your mom and dad but then like they're actually just like a little like when you lose some and you go to your manom if she can find it it's gone it's gone see that hot press couldn't find one thing in it my mom walked to it she'll find it she'll find it St she she could put her finger on anything in the house and then it's so funny because we lose our car keys and our you know the things you put in the car parac tickets constantly where because we're thinking of absolutely everything for everyone else and not so many things going on in your mind that it's like where's me key is where's it's like but if Terry asked me where something was or Taylor I'd know where it was know and by the time you then had harur had you kind of Forgotten what it was like cuz obviously it was a good few years afterwards to like have a newborn again and all these like new stages Chang yeah yeah really good surprising I didn't forget child birth no I thought I thought your R makes it for no really I remember being in the doctors and she's like I think you have like ptsg oh really after Taylor yeah it was quite traumatic i p yday after you haven't hurried up are you there no but like I got a phone call she was rushed to theater and like oh God it was bad yeah they had me like they had the resource table and all ready from you they yeah yeah and I was like I dying cuz she was like you're really really sick Aaron and she was like did they tell you that when you like so what happened she you went natural on her like so you would have been fully aware like of what was going on like they rushed me they they rushed me up to theater after I had them oh after they yeah they gave so I had the baby and I was like really proud of myself I was like oh my God was after having this baby gas and air and Cherry for child and he was just handed the baby and my M was rushed away and I was rushed to theater and like he said he didn't even know what was happening and I was crying and they were like what are you crying for cuz I'm was afraid of needles even though I get BOTOX and me I'm I'm terrified but I don't mind my B I don't mind them in my face the nurse is looking at my lips being like what just not my arms only my face oh no tattoos are so sore I think it's different type they knew that I was at risk of losing blood cuz I lost like a lot of blood on Taylor and I had to have blood transfusions on Taylor W so they knew that that was a risk for me so they were prepared for that but there was a A notot in the perent the cord and they couldn't getent out which is really really dangerous yeah I don't know whether I was over beding or they couldn't get it out and anyway I remember being up in the theater and be like I'm afraid of the needle cuz they were going to have to give me like a spinal block yeah so they were up there for ages and I remember her saying to the girls like we need to get the resource table and I I was like by this stage the drugs had kind of kicked in cuz they had to give me yeah because it was like I was in the the operating theater and then we came back down and at this agage like nobody you didn't even know this did you cuz I had rang like shown them a new baby and they're like okay Aron it's time to push out now and that's when the complications happened so then I was brought back down to like a high intensity it's called like high intensity so it was a room like this with glass doors and the nurses St so they had to watch me the whole night and they had to like plaster my arm to the to to the bed to keep it there no because they they were trying were doing stuff with blood I think they have to do your blood count to make sure that like I didn't lose that much blood that like I was going to die I think that's that's why and I was roasting in the room I was like oh my God it's so warm and Terry was freezing he was like that's obviously I had like an infection or whatever was happening to me um and the next day the girl came in and she was like you really really sick do you know that and I was like not really and and the consultant came in and I said to her did you know I was that sick and he was like like you were gray but he said I'm used to seeing you gray for the whole nine months of your pregnancy because I was so sick yeah so then Taylor came straight in then the next day and she washed him and dressed him or like cleaned the baby up cuz I was obviously too sick yeah your eyes were all blood off from pushing as well swoll so yeah and was that to do with your nausea while being pregnant or no that was just complication yeah complication and then that blood your eyes was obviously from pushing pushing so hard but like I was like I was only a baby Haven I'm tiny I've only like size two in in a show still can't believe that when children have the smallest Fe in the world so I I'm like even me fingers are like quite small like I mean try this is getting smaller yeah let me try I just I could see it this is a rock for anyone listening I'm not watching it's quite small my hand a little bit bigger on smaller let me try w wow stunning it literally just catches the light do you have to clean it all the time I kind of do I'm a bit obsessed with it to be honest did did you get that doesn't even go down on your pinky try your pinky my pinky my it's perfect on my perfect it's beautiful so I'm tiny God tiny little girl my God so I like to think I have a small womb oh is that what it is yeah everything's te well I mean I would presume if I have small hands small it's really I'm quite so Taylor was literally like dragged down me I was only small tot I was only was 7 712 like Harry was 711 and Taylor was 712 12 7 n was Harry 7 n what was that in the Snapper I think it is yeah anyway Chun they were for somebody so small like me car carrying babies like nearly 8 was quite yeah but like Taylor was nearly a section though a stop I did not you him you did [Music] I remember seeing someone out and I was like Hey and he was like who were you like it's eron and he's like oh my God no Stu yeah didn't recognize me you look that look back so funny how old is Harry now Harry will be eight on Saturday Saturday he's having a big BJ bash no he wouldn't be able any he wouldn't be able for are you going to do just something yourselves or yeah we're just going to probably we go with the flow him so he doesn't really like crowds he doesn't like they go to McDonald's probably mdon so he likes the idea he's really social so we were to go to a birthday party on Saturday and he was really excited so how would I know cuz obviously anyone who's listening Harry is non-verbal and has autism so how would I know he's excited you tell him he's fully aware of what's going on that he's going to a birthday party and he's laughing and he's joking and he'll get into the bath for me andone he's ready he he'll get ready oh him telling him getting ready Mom oh yeah if he doesn't want to go somewhere you'll know he doesn't want to go to get into the bath he'll be you know so like his behavior just cuz you can't talk you're watch actions so I knew he really wanted to go and we had been to this Farm load of times before where the birthday party was he couldn't see any of the kids or anything he could just see the car pack P plank went into like a meltdown couldn't handle it no couldn't handle it so he loves the idea of people he loves the idea of going somewhere in his own home if people come in he's he loves it really he has a girlfriend oh yeah she call him her husband why husband oh my God they're getting married and they're going to New York and ten and Disneyland and they're oh my God she's friend she has autism but it's actually the story is so cute Terry Terry's a real hands on dad he's an amazing dad and an amazing stepdad I have to say and he went on he does lots of courses for um for autism so he was on a course and he met this guy and the children became really good friends so his daughter yeah his daughter has autism and verbal and Cherry obviously has Harry and both singers they gig together wife's a hairdresser yeah he's going to be Grooms man at the wedding it's like this little like it's a real lovely story like two dads walking to try and better their children's Liv they're a little couple now and they made like friends and they're like besties they go to the gym together they they they were in Switzerland gigging together anyway we had a play date with the little girl um a few weeks ago and she was like yeah when we're adults I'm going to marry Prince Harry and we're going to get married my quiet little boy is that what she call and Harry when she comes in he's like CH he knows like how to get you to do what he wants like if he wants something for me he'll come over and like give me a kiss and I'm like one more oh my God he oh that must be sound nice for Terry like to have that to like relate it as well other dads that's why they're like best friends now like cuz it's difficult for whatever how however difficult is as a woman we have each other we can like you're going to True by trouble we talk about or any type of trouble girls talk about it yeah where men don't really do it like that they they shut down they don't talk about it they Terry's kind of very open book now though yeah but he definitely dealt with things completely different than I did like I would have cried so for instance when we left the party on on Saturday or Sunday whenever it was he was very angry was he and he was like you need to get this into your head now that he's not going to go to this wedding you need to make peace with that and I'm like I think he needs to make peace with it and I'm like okay that was obviously his way of dealing with so he deals with things so for me in the moment I'm like we got to get you this we got to get them home we got them get out this meltdown and we got to make everything real time again and then I get really sad and down after the fact do about a day or two less after a day or two after the fact that it's after happening things start like creeping in and I might like kind of take to the bed or I just get like this awful pain in my stomach where Terry deals were completely different so it's good I suppose that he has that outlet of someone who understands it because even though your family is around you you feel so alone in it like you really feel like nobody gets it like you feel like nobody gets it even with Terry like Cherry just have to say to me like I get it eron I'm in this with it but you still sometimes I'd say feel yeah you really especially when men deal with things differently as well yeah then it is different but I love watching your stories and how much you spread awareness about and like it makes such a difference like like even educating people on like the what they called the ear defend things like that like it's so important to talk even though we didn't really know what was before har like we learned with him oh still learn I had no idea he's obsessed with you isn't he oh yeah OBS obsessed with you he'll like come in and like cuddle me and like she's like why does he cuddle you he doesn't cuddle me he pushes me out of bed like he'll wrap his legs around me and see watch the like watch film with me but like she can't even give him a hug he loves sitting with the girls but I do think as well like I suppose looking at Taylor live her life now I would try and like and and let her live her life and encourage her to live her life because I know and I suppose this is a huge not guilt but I know that it'll come the day where she's going to have to take the rain on that and I'm very aware of that you know I'm very aware that like that's a heavy bden to carry and that when me and Terry aren't around anymore that she is going to have to do that and whoever she decides to spend her life with that is the card that we've been dealt with so I guess for me I was lucky that Taylor was 16 when when I had him yeah because she had me for all those years you know we can leave a party meet Terry and Harry where there's some people that have children that are young and their whole family is separated where I yeah because they have to one child will stay at the party because they're a norm a normal hate the word normal you know a neurotypical that's the actual correct word a neurotypical child will stay at the party and one parent will have to leave so we are blessed that we have Taylor but I'm also very aware that like she's going to have to do that yeah and there was kind of a moment in time where I thought I don't know whether she is ever going to do this or she's going to be capable of doing it but I suppose in the last maybe two or two or three years she's kind of shown me that I can do it and I will step she like sees the part that I'm living my life and it's like oh she can't do that but I'm living my life while I can you get got for it happen tomorrow like at least I'm at to getting like the festivals and the holidays out of my system do you get me so I feel like that's the part that you're seeing oh she's not capable of doing it whereas I'm just trying to you're doing it now yeah you're aware of yeah when it coms it will come you get me but right now I'm living my life and child but I'm I'm trying to I suppose get her to watch what I do or how how we do things because how how I would behave with har a l stter on Harry than she would she let him away with more hours I'm like no no come on like you're going to deal it like so I'd be like no you have to do it this way Taylor no cuz he does it for me quicker than he does it for hor so me he's dead wi like dead he knows he can get away with so for was with me I'm like no come on I sometimes actually like when we were training him to go to toilet he actually went for me Force did he yes yeah he actually did he did go for me Force cuz I'm tricked how was that for you around the time of his diagnosis like hearing that he had autism and like just the feelings of the whole family as well I don't read what what is that I think it was more dealing with her than dealing with him like he to me he was still Harry like I still loved him exact same it didn't really affect me the way it affected her so I was actually just listening to her than him yeah feeling with you was just changes a lot of the impact you know you're dealing with your own emotions you're dealing with the life how things are going to impact everything so yeah I I think it's probably only in the last two years like I was brave enough to have that conversation with Taylor to be like like you need to do this yeah like yeah you know you're going to have to do this one day relax like still here you're fine like you're not going here anytime soon but then I'm like she doesn't realize the urgency of this so I think as age mhm when you're young you think you're Invincible you don't worry about things you think like like for instance I'm like do you me Taylor can we not like what about we start like saving and like looking to get a house and get a mortgage I'm I'm if you do this now by the time you're 20y still be living at home at that right where she's quite happy just to live and I'm like no so live for the not plan not plan ahead and I wish whereas I'm actually like I'm a planner person but I'm not like that far F plan yeah I'm like if I'm going die be like I'll have like they like done I'll have an itinerary done or if I'm doing something like say if someone tells me like half 12 half 12 I tell them why you're like that at that's yeah she has me late for everything like when I was a kid I was literally late to everything so I can't be late now and when I start being late for something I panic gives anxiety yeah I'm like I need to get there now like hurry up it was a great thing for it all worked out and then have D that I'm like oh I'm late I'm late like I don't care it depends on what it is like I'm late for life i' be late for my own F yeah like even today was like right mom like we should be leaving and I'm like they're not even going to be there yeah you just knew what you were you know what it's fine they CH definitely so Aron you're getting married very soon yes how much can you say about the weding what do you want to know the wedding is very soon very very soon like we're weeks away wow um and it's coming in on top of me is it yeah I'm kind of at the stressed out stage though I'm not at the fun part yet you got a price man dresses like two days ago love that still need to be aled need to be up I've no dressed for a day too no dress well that's your business you know what the hardest part is which R my can't pick a pair of shoes oh six years and they can't I picked mine they can't all agree them they have to be the same I picked two this stage I actually being funny if want to go and CR girls and KN just do something time chilled you've been very chilled I think I thought she was going to be crazy I'm just I'm getting now annoyed about the show I picked one they all need the same shoe but they won't agree one so some can't walk in like a stilet and they need a platform and some are like platform though and they are very high but they just look good like they just look sexy so I feel like I can't walk but I'll walk down and I'll get my pictures in them and then I'll try and there's a few girls it won't do that that can't no it's not won't that actually can't like you're 20 jet you can walk at the heel yeah come back to me when more in about two years I just wear boots I went out on Saturday and I pair of Runners I was like I am not here in a pair of Runners actually you're giving it the large one there about shoes we went to the VIP style Awards I gave you a pair of me shoes and your feet literally were going out of them oh my God no my feet are scared from her hand shoes I had another pair of beautiful Jimmy chills right they were so ugly and she's like oh they're fugly and I'm like she's like they're granny sh they were they look like you know Ballroom shoes no no and I had to get changed and she had to wear them so like she's giving it the large and there be able to walk down the aisle good luck with that H so I actually don't care no at this St figure it out if you are listening to this podcast girls get your [ __ ] together when it comes and did you find like all the planning and stuff like I know you mentioned earlier on that you were previously engaged before as well but how did you find like planning this wedding like did you plan much for the last wedding or how did oh no that was just have a date that was and it was completely different all those years ago weddings now are like people on Sarah like look I'm terrified like so like I was sending the girl like the wedding planner right pictures of these weddings and she's like they're like multi-million pound wedd I'm going to Vegas so this is what happens you have all these plans and you're like I want this and want this and then the budget comes in you know I in like so the band is like 25k plus flights accommodation and you're like okay or then like your flowers and it's like okay so like basic flowers are like 7,000 and you're like for flowers They're going to that's crazy no that's just basic girls is it like honestly people do not realize the price we're in the wrong business get the W honestly I'm like what the hell and then I suppose by the time you're coming down down to the Nicky Knack things rights Amazon and like girl let pick the shoes make sure they're cheaper yeah because we're running now on your store you're talking about putting the perfumes in the bathrooms and that people robbed them yeah I knew that was going to happen with the big bot that's ridiculous don't you think that you're inviting people who you'd know who wouldn't Rob your perfume like well I think as well people forget that like it's such it's this weird thing because obviously I'm obsessed with wed right so everything on my social media now are like stories about priz or and you seen somebody um there was a story about you know that girl Olivia that got married married a while ago basically she's like yes and she had the high neck dress she NFL is she she's W an NFL player so she her sister was going out with this guy okay only a new relationship and she didn't invite him she didn't her sister didn't get a plus one okay so of course I'm reading through the comments and it's like it's chacky not to give a guest a plus one and then other people are like I'm paying for it she's definitely not getting a like a new boyfriend it's like yeah you probably met want her toys I feel like people have so many mixed opinions on that like I I on one hand I do but then again I don't think everybody should be entitled to a plus one would you want somebody at your wedding that you've never met for in your life depends on the person I mean if the sister had approach and been like listen can he come I'm sure she would have said yeah I think maybe if it was her sister but like your long-distance cousin who you've never met her fell like do you invite them how yeah how do you know who to fite is there a real do you know what I mean like how dramatized she like at this rate nobody can't I don't care I should at this rate about four weeks ago I was like I think I'm just going to everyone how much will we lose like how how do you how do you dwindle that down of who to invite I think it's different when you're a little bit older as well like that your circle goes a lot like smaller okay and then you go to this phase where you're like let's invite everyone let's invite everyone this big thing and you want this big thing and then you're kind of like okay let's pull it back and things do change you kind of go like the wedding plan and I was like I told you I hate to say it but I told you to watch your invite list you need to keep it down I was like oh what she talking about so like people were saying to me oh you're having a big wedding and I was like it was about 150 people and people like oh that's not that big and I'm like that's that seems big to me it feels big it feels feel like the max wedding's like 200 200 and it's difficult because I suppose like I have a huge family right as in like me Ma has a huge family I have loads of cousins and then Harry has his side and it's like but I don't know your side and like it's all these politics of close sniff family as well so like all cousins are like best friends yeah so it's a hard one to navigate so years ago what they would do is is it was always the eldest cousin that was invited that was a bit of a RoR then years ago when my mom was getting married their parents were allowed to invite everyone so like the neighbors up the road and all would yeah that's what I said yeah I was laughing to me m M's laughing there and they left at 10:00 at night they had like their going away outfit so they would get changed they going under honeymoon remember the arch they would get get under the arch and they would leave and I was like guest on either side guest under watch them leave and they watch them leave and W go me m said yeah cuz we didn't live together all those years ago so it was really exciting for us like first night of like stay whatever whatever you get up to yeah whatever you get up to on your fourth night if you really want to pretend that that's what happened I don't want to be on the same floor as you is kind like the hotel put me somewhere else that's fine because probably won't be much AC any I'd say you're so tired by the end of the night though I'm like I actually just goes I'm like no one talk to me like that's such a big that's a day where you start like you got to probably really early your makeup done so by the time I always think if you get too drunk and for get the day that's what I that's everyone wants a BRI though like no one likes to drunk bread yeah imagine like run away bride run away bride I saw this other thing on Tik Tok and it was absolutely so funny right and I was like this reminds me of my communion my confirmation it was a bride and groom sitting on the bed reading their cards I have a picture on on the floor and I'm line with all my Communion cards is sleeve with these love card glasses on just on the floor yeah thing eate with like wedding like people so like Ireland seem to have a real big problem cuz again I watch all the comments like on Ireland am they had this thing about like how much is it enough to give at like do you cover the cost of a meal what way is that what they 100e usually what is it now more what you think it is for a meal for a wedding just for the meal 8er 100 stand on the oh [ __ ] I don't know I said 100 200 three it's not four [ __ ] off for one male for one person mine is is it tacky if I say it Ma should I say it no say don't say it's ster wow for a male for one person was that like three course m i me on the so a fourstar venue in Ireland which is pretty popular venue for was we went to see it and it was €195 per person yeah for for their dinner we're not talking about before you come you know that there's a drivr down the road look can McDonald's people don't even eat it half the time or they oh no my M she warned me she was like you will eat it like I just want chicken tenders chick tender chips in Al sauce never thought it' be that that that one of the five star hotels in Ireland is true 95 do they spoon feed it as well and and you have to book 22 rooms and the rate of the room for a one night wedding guest is €750 don't know where this is oh this isn't your no this is in mine this is M no somewhere you view this is a five star in Ireland like one of the one of the big five stars in Ireland so where do they you'll get it pull these out so obviously there 's the contrast but still 195 is that's without your band your flowers your dresses your bridesmaid so that plus one and that cousin being invited or that neighbor being invited that all adds up to to the people on the outside it might just it might be a case of them like being like ah yeah but like surely my fell is invited but you NE you never re I wouldn't anyway have Tau of that like hold on a minute but that's them paying for everything else included if they go yeah also so expensive for guests to go also have to take that you're getting your guest is getting their makeup done they their outfit on they're driving down they're getting a babysitter they're you know paying for their drink for the day if there's no free bar so and a gift so it's really really expensive for a guest as well so I understand both sides of it now I understand why everybody doesn't get invited to things I understand maybe why I haven't been invited to things so it is it is Bride Wars is real out there yeah but for Ireland they seem to Irish people seem to I don't know it's a real Hot Topic to talk about gifts American culture is is they have a gift register yeah Australia a wishing well or something it's called yeah yeah or the new one is I think like years ago m m said she would have got about five or six KS yeah because they didn't have a house you see they didn't have a house so everybody bring something for the house where the newer generation is is we have houses or we live together so we usually have everything so people might put in their invites that we really just want your presence not your presence yeah but if you would like to contribute to our honeymon blah blah so that's probably that's what's been advised maybe for that um Romania cuz I'm I'm loving yeah I love all this right so Romania they invite everybody from the community so they would have a huge big wedding that they know very few people even at so their God Parents they choose their own God Parents as they get older and they their friends are all invited but what they do is is they all give cash and the couple buy an apartment oh that's nice but what that means is is they have to go to all the weddings they're invited to for the next 20 years and repay it back so it's basically like it's like a loan but there's no commission up from the banks and stuff actually a really good idea oh you're and you're paying the the money back intermittently as you go to these wedding in wedding you have like 10 in the year oh well that can happen and then another one of my followers have known probably the next year another one of my followers said her husband is Asian and they send it in a red envelope cuz red is for good look right and they put money in the envelope and they write the name and address of the family who gave it so every culture has something different so look at the um big Indian wedding of the billionaire family see that I was obsessed with that know she was at the pre obessed that was the pre- wedding yeah yeah that went on for a week six more yeah that was six months six months um Indian weddings can go from 5 days to seven days and I was speaking to a lovely girl in the airport and she said depending on how wealthy the family is it can last for months happy days at least the days are going just keep going jez very interesting it's so different and when you actually like think about it all like what's it like to be like a bridesmaid are you haven't done anything I didn't even plan the hands on the hands oh I didn't even plan it I think I don't no I actually done a little bit on it I think people also don't realize that like bridesma actually have to do stuff you have to be there like you have to be there for the bride you have to do stuff for the bride she was a bad maid of honor so she knows that she's not going to get much for me no I mean I'm going to dress Harry and do his hair on the morning so that's my contribution love that that would be cute of like 18 months of planning T's day is doing Harry's hair Dr that I do every single day I that and does Harry have his little outfit oh we only had the she dressed is he adorable yeah so he had to have like a special fabric because he saw you yeah so we got like a customade bamboo shirt and when he put it on he had no problem putting it on no did he like initially he was like and like that like what anything like that with it tracks out like just not want to get dressed loves being in the N so love that and that's a m seriously love being in the RO yeah so I think like yeah he just it was just that initial having to put clothes on cuz once it was on him he was fine he yeah didn't mind it at all yeah so handsome is adorable so handsome but I mean we don't over get up the aisle or not we're going to try we're going to try with is Nanny forc me Taylor and then but in reality I'm very much aware that's probably not going to are you did you have to kind of tell yourself that like no her like yeah if he if he goes into the church you knows like or not the church whatever um no music he doesn't like the like the singer no is not to play anything if she sees him even remotely there do not do it no yeah yeah so you're just going to kind of take on the day and see how it goes is it yeah but I think like I've she let to dictate our mail so like I'm keep telling her like do not let him not dictate your M that day because like he will be fine like we will take them separately like things that he's going to enjoy on the day so don't let that dictate your M for the whole day because I know what she gets like it I don't think people realize that the impact that has like you think that like all these people are at a wedding yeah wanting to be at this wedding or not wanting to be depend on how you look at it um and the one person that I really want to be there is probably not not going to be there I feel like any normal child um doesn't want to be there regardless so like it's not just his diagnosis like what child wants to sit in a mass I don't want to sit in a MK right now people they so like I feel like it's not even just like the fact that he has autism that would contribute to that because anyone would yeah yeah this is good Bri made this is obviously on Instagram we all have get get hey but what's it like for you seeing Taylor do you get do you get any hate at all or like if you ever see hate about Taylor like even on your own page or Harry or like anyone in your family how does that feel cuz that's different when you see other people getting it than yourself yeah when you see your family getting hate compared to when you get it like i' be more annoyed I'm kind of not blessed I wouldn't say blessed I don't think anyone has the right to have an entitlement to say that to people but I haven't gotten much hate and when I do it depends on my mood like if it's my time want I will take the bed and she's like don't reply and I'm like why like why do people think that it's okay to say these things about me especially when you're hiding behind fake page a fake page or like a website like who do you think you are to sit at home and say these things about me you don't know me as a person no I remember seeing someone saying that they seen me in Super Value and I look real nervy and I'm not like that on and I out and I'm like do you look like the same person you are going to your local shop your dinner then you do on a night out like how you could had a bad day that day or something like I actually a very shy person and like people don't realize that like I actually am very quiet so like if you see me in a local shop and looked at me like that like that's so weird on your it's stranger on them to even go to the lens to do that you seen me like no like w I'm a normal person I'm I'm going to be in Super Value like living my life I have to get my dinner Lun like I feel like yeah you get a lot more than I do and I feel like I you take no you don't take it too bad but I I grew in that a lot like I got a much tougher skin like that it depends on my hormones it depends on if the day I do feel ugly and someone happens to say that I'm like oh my God or if I'm having a shitty day the comments might get to me or I found it difficult to understand people's mentality like trying to understand why they would think like that I know where instead of going I'm actually glad that I can figure out why they think like that because that's not I'm not that person you'll never be able to think like that never be able to think like that I do feel very protective like I remember even when youed to kind of were like up and come and I have this like Mommy kind of feeling towards is because I know how difficult it is out there I think can I just pop in here now for a minute when I was going through that my break up a few years ago why am I going to cry e oh why am I such a crier ER came up me with a c to my house oh I remember that yeah and the imperfection pajamas they were yeah and I I and I remember you saying to me you were like I something about you Ellie reminds you of when you were younger and going through all that and stuff I think I definitely still have that c at home but I remember that and I was just like just such a mommy like the loveliest thing and I remember I only said it to you when me were away something I don't know what it was but I was like I'll never forget that day eron locked up with card and the loveliest message in the card I opened it and I think I just sobbed even I read one thing and I was like but even just little things like that you can tell that's just your nature to be like that yeah I remember how difficult it was being a 20-year-old out that didn't have social media like back then if we had social media we'd all be cancelled I think as a woman we understand how difficult it is ground dealing with our emotions dealing with our breakups dealing what people think and to be trown into the Limelight or to put yourself out there instead of supporting these young girls and nurturing it we're tearing them down and I don't really understand that like how would you feel that was your daughter like I don't understand if you were going to walk right and let's say somebody say sh call that rail walk de you one no one would do that cuz in online they can hide behind so it's yeah like these things that people are saying about girls like these are young girls trying to make a career for themselves we even wented us said like she would be giving out and I'd be like oh like you're only recording yourself like calm down like it's not that hard and now I'm you're like [ __ ] take it oh my God this is so difficult like the thought of sitting on my phone and having to edit for hours on in I'm like this is so much harder than I could ever anticipate everything always is girls everything you look at things in your life as you get older and you're like wow I thought it was much easier like people would say to me so like people don't get paid to go on those talk shows and I'm like no you're putting yourself out there get you'll get something in return like like people that have these preconceived ideas of what they think owned in a business is oh sure they must have everything they don't see the struggles none of us do I think as you get older you think okay everything isn't as it seems even when you see like say the people on La violent I'm like these girls are going and these fellas are going on the island right there's probably what 20 of them yeah two of them two out of 20 are going to get careers right that means 18 of them who really have been on TV now are going to have to probably go back to 9 to five jobs how do you make that transition a few people who have seen that have talked about having to get that transition and going back I I've was asked a few times today and I was just like I can't don't have the confidence to put myself out there and like T on love violent that too too much no then You' see real mama bear coming out what did they say about her that I would think about that now I auditioned when I was like 19 I'm like did you I think we were ask around the same yeah if I had have got like people slack my looks or something I would that would have broke me at that age like even now like and then people get like no how do you feel Charlene about being child I think it's just like something we get used to we shouldn't have very thick skin I have thick skin out of all of us I would presume you have the ticker skin oh yeah I'm a it depends like you said on the day like if you get something where you're already feeling [ __ ] or like say you got bad news that day and then you get this comment and it can tip you over the edge that picture like was taken off the tails and oh my God it is like the worst picture I've it was so bad and I'll say that like a hand on but like the things that people were saying about me it was like I know this doesn't look like me no I know you're like one of a selfie instead yeah like L she was putting up a video that was like you know like a live photo like to prove that I didn't look like that like my photos aren't edited like please stop saying these things about me and I took that really bad because I knew even she said she was like tell you did not look like that I seen you in person it was just bad lighting it's the only people here were like or whatever that will ever think oh yeah look this bad picture well everyone has a bad picture there all I have 20 chin sometimes depending on the angle like it just all it all depends but people are just not Yeah just they want to hate and know if you think about like your mind we're never in that hateful mindset where we think that about someone they're in that hateful mindset that all the time proba in that all the time we're all like we're women we're [ __ ] we get it going to talk yeah but like keep your friends I always say someone always has that person that they [ __ ] to they'll always have that friend and that friend will always have someone else like it's always going to be a vicious cycle humate but doesn't need to put online on that's what I don't get is the taking it then from having the [ __ ] with your sister or your best friend or whatever I don't know people commenting back and forth to each other like you are commenting about me to this random person who's commenting back and like you don't know each other you are friends like that's so odd let them let them girl I think you are forget that there's some people who actually trive on that like neity and they want to be controversial and they love it where that gives me anxiety why you want to bring that your life there's been times that like I want to comment back to now I think someone actually commented saying that I need my nose done and I was like oh my God like that like on our normal page I was like that's so me and then everyone kind of like jumps on it jumped on it and was like you're saying this about a young girl who was literally like they were picking up for her no they were like there was loads of nice comments like and then the comment was deleted and I think she text you saying wasn't even yeah saying it wasn't hor it was her Nanny's cat here no you know what I love girl do you know when they reply back to one of our stories suppos our friend yesterday's one that never happened to me not yet never happened to me not yet was Terry I had a video up with Terry and it was like yeah he's a muppy I was going right back and out sometimes yeah sometimes oh god oh oh girls thank you so for coming on we appreciate you coming in we're we talked our lives away we had a whole list of we got two we went we got through them as we went um and we appreciate you coming we talk for hours oh we stay here all day we know we can you tell people your Instagram handles or whever they find is Taylor McGregor uncore I actually don't yeah what am I one to r that like to set up Instagram I have my Instagram since I'm like 14 like my followers are like majority men from Conor and I'm like just trying to build my own follow she's kind of built her as her own mine is just like no but you you're after com like yeah see it your mom saying it when we were away I'm still kind of trying like to just get my phone in the dark like it's actually a lot harder than people realize to like get in with like PR companies and all the rest like still trying like sometimes you really have to approach them and be like hey I'm here and I'm like I don't want to do that but it's something that you just have to do to like push yourself out there no but you know you're doing that yourself like you have do I feel like I to a perfect was a big push for you to be like right this is my out like this is what she was lashing out content wasn't she yeah I was like Taylor if you come with this you literally have to walk you do know that like do know that and I was like I know I had B though like I still had a great time but once my content was done I'm able to like step back but I did get it done and I didn't think I was counted but the oh I had a B I had a c time I'm going back in September I can't wait best no you're well able girls we love you thank you so much for coming in thank you so we challenge ourselves to do a solo day do a little update does a solo day count as just bringing yourself out for for a drivethru can we see that's not really challenging myself no cuz you yeah well that's what I did and I took as that's your something you wouldn't usually do or would you hey now you I think I failed this Mission lad I'm not going to lie I I failed but you went to the gym the other week went to the gym got yeah it wasn't on my own but would you go on your own to the gym now yeah I'm actually going to join with PT on real yeah an online coach online and then you can go and yeah know what to do your own in yeah focused mhm yeah and I go up and do it by myself yeah you to get my head in the game yeah and then you're just not waiting on anyone else to just do own yeah do my own thing I'm starting to get up a bit earlier now as well oh nice yeah nice have Ro I feel like our job it's really easy to get in a rot and like not a rout of like just your weeks are just all over the place because you haven't got we never have a set time time you can just pick you can work at 10:00 at night if you want yeah you can do whatever so like it's nice to have one thing that's for you it's not work that you can slot in whenever you want yeah yeah cuz everything else kind of works around Rands or like other people to podcast like that would be your thing now that you just do when you want to do it so yeah I failed what was yours I went for a little breakfast tap you're so cute see I mean it was in I actually don't know name but it's in a besides Li Le lashes oh like right next door is it called red hand or something I think I'm complet make that up but yeah cute it was lovely a got a little brown breads salmon and it it was lovely yeah I went to Cinnamon the other day I brought Snickers to Cinnamon oh cinnamon obsessed I forgot that he exist oh my God it's my I think it's my favorite place for breakfast ever you have the brown breads I did I love brown bread I got eggs got avocado hash brown oh my God don't know what we went through a phase of being there a lot why were we there so I don't know we always out over that way or something I think we went live show yeah why were we always there I don't know there was a phase in our life where we were just there quite a l we were there with other people as well we'd bring we'd keep bringing people and showing them it like oh was so nice cinnamon if you haven't gone you need to go I went to the one actually with que out in there's one yeah one L as well went out there very very good cuz I find there's not that many nice breakfast places in Ireland so when there is one it's like yeah unreal cinnamon you need to go okay mhm I need I need the brown bread with a bit of butter on it I love the little Cubes but I just have you seen that hack where you poke with a yeah I did it before did it work yeah really yeah it's another great breakfast place actually in K is it Ry on the river or something or somebody you'll know you'll know where I'm want to go it's like out past me like oh yeah past leak slip and all I think um but it's in an old church oh wow very nice do it feel like going church um no not really it's all like coffee tables and all everywhere like you would yeah but the building itself absolutely none and the building itself is an old chch can't remember name something re Ry Ryan the river I think might made that up but there's another great very good but I did that trick with the butter poke a fork in it and you squeeze all out it comes out like cheese or like like little Snak yeah like spaghetti yeah very yeah cuz I just hard to find a nice breakfast place there is a few but I feel like it's a few and that's it and then everyone's there and it's like can't even get see no there's two places for you now if anybody's on the hunt for some Wy places also La ho Greens in terer Village oh very good we went thereon me yeah I like that place really like that what else just love a good breakfast day or in a side bow obviously I think I'm making myself sick with them not sick but like I'm eating so many of them I haven't I don't get them that often and I'm not sick of them yet started to eat chia seeds in them oh I saw a video on Tik Tok that if you drink chia seeds every day and like a thing of water that's so good for you yeah I had I was doing it last week do it guys went to the doctor my diet needs more fiber tell I can I simply can maybe maybe few months down the line basically when it's not so raw yeah when it's not so raw literally but yeah had to had to drink yeah you can get like Mill cheesy is it called mil oh they're yeah they're grinded up yeah grinded up ones I just put them on in a glass of water and I was Milling them back they're remant be very good for your fiber good for you I saw someone being like I think you can sprink them on anything like if you have weats or something put a bit them on it yeah they're nice Grand like yeah drink texture of them I don't really no no texture I don't really like drinking or eating them kind of both I think drinking to freak me out a little bit and I've seen P yeah I've seen no see have you seen people put them in overnight out and they like swell up that makes me a bit sick I don't like that no that's giv like Tri phobia but that's what you meant to do to drink them you have to let them moisturize first because if you have them on an empty stomach sorry if you have them and don't let them hydrate could called H it can be hang going let me look up great I'm just undoing everything I've been have I probably how are you even eating them Just Eat Well I get them in my I get like chees seeds in my ball but then when I drink them I just put them in a glass of water mix all the blend ones like they're not the actual chees seeds just in more okay it's like the mil ones or is that the word I'm looking for yeah finely mil fin I think of like a makeup powder yeah um it's like yeah drink them what can to be bad for you they can expand in your digest subract and can can cause unpleasant gastrointestinal symptoms oh do you know what you can't [ __ ] win so you need to let them swell up it's don't if you have large amounts so they're good at absorbing liquids so they expand yes so you meant to swell them first so then they don't swell in I don't think I like that texture yeah NE literally Tad it reminds me of it h tadp yeah I don't think I'd enjoy that um so yeah that the che what were we having breakfast breakfast we also want to say thanks we get loads of little gorgeous gifts in podcast thank you so much if you've ever sent anything into the podcast Studios they very very good to us thank you we really appreciate and we got some gorgeous bath bombs from her Instagram is Seafoam underscore and Fizz we got some bath bombs we also got a necklace made for us by a girl that you know remember she said she made them for us or is it Bracy Misha made necklaces as well I still need to wear mine I was meant to bring mine diet and then I completely forgot it and then I'm going to we this week though so I'll definitely wear it I'll definitely wear it this week but Misha um she makes like yeah where is she I need to find her now because I can't find it now but I'll put it up on H I put it up on the page but yeah wear M this week so yeah if you've ever sent anything into us thank you guys thank you and even little notes and letters that we add it's really very cute really lovely um but other than that what's going on tomorrow I have my event for my cash wooho I can't stop wearing for the first time in our life not now for to our name I'm Shook at least there's no color code this time because last time there was yeah this time was a color you have to wear pink or black and that would stress me out but I actually have things in my wardrobe that I could could wear yeah if worse came to worse no you have a ball I ordered to I ordered a dress from deop and that she's from Belgium so I don't that's going then my sister sent me over to heels I ordered to her house okay and then I got something off revolve as well but I don't think that's still in Indiana or in Indianapolis or whatever called in whatever yeah so you'll be fine it said it's coming Wednesday I don't know how it's getting from well could come tomorrow you reckon yeah it's only like a five flight I don't know where Minneapolis is is it indan Indian miniapolis H know no I don't think that's place is it Indianapolis Minneapolis Minneapolis Minneapolis we're just I think we're making up States at this rate let me see but you'll find there might be an update let me check you will find something you always pull it out of the bag and you'll have a ball and we're going to have so much fun and and also my first have comes I can't wear anyway cuz they need to get altered my mom was your mom be there something or a needle oh oh I was right Indiana Indian apollis Indi apoll in girl Indian Apollos I'm not too good at geography but that's where that's where it currently is and that was 4:00 a.m. this morning come here could still come it could still come we we have faith I feel like I never stress by things like thatz like it's just like there's something yeah like you will find something yeah there's much worse things that can happen yeah I feel like you never get to a point of being like I'm not gone no no no it never stuff like that never works out to be like ruining plans no you might be in the height of it a little bit but yeah and I also was kind of late ordering stuff anyway so I'm like it's like I'm waiting months for this one dress was so late so you'll be fine it's fine um you're going on your Hol poops I'm going on my Hol poops vacation on my vacation can't blood you wait when you leave Saturday I leave on Saturday so by the time you listen to this you'll be I'll be there sunning yourself I'll be bronzed I'll be full of cocktails how long is it a week seven nights 8 dayss yeah love can't wait oh two of us just keep imagin two of us just keep imagining like what it's going to be like and it's very funny like he just keep say like he like like eight week like what if weird things happen no like was like like it he was like 8 weeks ago like when we went on our first day I never would have thought that like8 weeks yeah well by the time we go yeah be8 weeks he was like but he was like I never would have thought like oh 8 weeks later would we going on a flight like he was like I just kind of imagine us in the air for all I know I know I know what you mean yeah he's like what are we like it's just even though you're so comfortable it's to like it's still just I was like what are we going to be doing on the flight now was like I'm just staring at you I was like like I'm so excit I wonder what type of holiday like person is's going to be yeah I say holiday really shows the side of a person oh yeah yeah yeah yeah but I know he'll be up to crack it on okay raring to go every not like a stay in bed not sh as it is at home now the man doesn't sleep really oh no I love that love yeah early riser yeah but no I'm just so excited I booked us um the lounge in the airport and all oh so yeah what who you playing with earling our favorite love love earling is so I love I'm Buzz I'm excited that's so I just can't wait to go for dinners and get Dr up and like sip by the pool and you know what that one thing I hate about when I went to I feel like I like have to be much quicker getting ready oh yeah Wonder with girls I can just chill I feel bad him sitting there for ages and I'm like still doing stuff I'm like [ __ ] I won't do anything to myself yeah and hair ends up like a and then you end up feeling bad in yourself and then and then you're taking out on him because you were getting ready yeah but he usually what to do now so have to tell me what to do here just tell him to like go down for a drink or watch the match or something if there's a bar across the road just yeah just send them off okay okay okay don't have them in the room no right not for too long cuz then I feel like ant's so punctal for yeah and like it's fine to be punctual but like he just just be rushing me yeah now might have to send me when I'm when he's not like the day I was going to the Pok or somewhere he's like when do you leave and I was like this time he's like would you not want to St get and dress I'm like I know when I'm leaving and I'll be fine he's like my [ __ ] Dad yeah I'll have to send him off yes send them off for a little drink and then you can come down to the Grand reveal Grand Reve it's nice to have a grand reveal too if they see me getting ready then not ground reveal oh I like that what you mean then he can be like yeah it'll be his birthday when we're over there as well so I have a few tricks up my sleep oh yeah yeah yeah oh true you send out for that anyway yeah so yeah excited fill is in when I'm back anyway I know you can tell hopefully it'll be all good news I haven't been on a holiday a boy in years oh my God yours yeah actually so last one B what was it the same place no kind of I think alante wasn't it was it yeah better time this time y so phone A friend is part of our dilemma segment every week where we phone Friends Podcast listener you guys and we put up a Dem on our Instagram stories and asked for followers to offer their advice so here is the Dilemma that we got inight on hi Charlene and Ellie listen to the Pod every week and I love it I never thought I'd email in but here we are I love when people say that I love they're like never thought but never think until something happens you're like [ __ ] um also thank you so much um long story short I'm unsure about what to do next year my BF oh my God I thought she said my BF is dead you have to read the rest of the oh my go go hang on I need start that again my b is dead set on moving to Australia even just for one year chose for context we've been together a long time my job means I would have no issue getting a job over there I've spoken to many people about this and it would be better pay over there for me too the only issue is that I reckon I'd be extremely homesick I'm so so close to my family and the thought of leaving them makes thought of leaving them even just for a year kills me just the thought of it makes me cry any advice on what I should do thank you about so you guys have sent in some of your advice so someone said I just got back from spending eight month solo traveling with my with my business with my boyfriend at home yes eight months apart was really difficult but if it's meant to be it'll be the first month or two were really hard for us both around Christmas but after that our communication got better than ever before and we adapted to the situation if you don't think it'll suit you let him go and do long distance one year isn't that long in your life and he'll forever resent you if he doesn't go and you could go and visit him for a month or two if your job allows it a holiday Visa is free so you'll have no issues getting into to see him but from his perspective I needed to travel for me and he wasn't feeling the same but my boyfriend supported my decision and were stronger than ever I love that we have a summon Lally saying she don't once and worked yeah I think I feel like in the grand scheme things ears nothing nothing think the it goes so [ __ ] quick and they have new experiences like I don't think that I know of anyone ever regrets going on no you always get something from it whether that's learning how to use washing machine like like manage life for it will always benefit you in some way yeah it definitely makes you grow um then someone said girl 100% go it is hard but it's experience that everyone should have you will learn so much about yourself you can come home whenever you like just keep money for flight save just in case I couldn't recommend it doing it enough even it's for you to hate it and come home yeah at least you can say you TR we always say that on the podcast I'd rather have done something than say you know what wasn't for me then be sitting here wondering well what what if I hate what yeah and even do like 6 months or like take it in little blocks for yourself like right I'll try three and then if you're at three like I can do another three like don't think of it as one big da in year break it up yeah definitely someone said I moved to oz in January of this year and I was the exact same before I left so close to my family and have really young siblings and my own two dogs and it was the best thing ever by the time it came to actually leave and I had cried so much I had no tears left it's such an experience even to come for a year it's such an achievement and to come and try it and to go home after two months is still so much more than most do so give it a go a I love that yeah even two months just getting over that homes sick I give you surprise that and i' say yeah I'd say your family would want you to go you know what I mean like I can never ever imagine a family being like no stay like watch thinker down like they can't be selfish on their half as well they want you yeah to travel and experience life and like live life they can't hold you back yeah then we have one saying exact same here but we did a 10 years later and we still wish we could do it again with our four kids life is short and capital letters do it it you have to do it I agree it's such a different lifestyle over there like we from us having been there we obviously only were there in Holiday wi say do oh you have to even to try it if you last a week and say you know what I know I'll never get over this homesick and go home no give it like at least someone else said I think going on a two or three week trip there would be an opportunity for you to get a feel for the place first before committing to fully before committing fully to move but your boyfriend also needs to take your opinions on the move into consideration as well that's true true but I think when you're there on a holiday you treat it as a holiday like we did a holiday if you're on all the way over for a trip you might as well go when you're moving most people go hav't not ever been there before yeah yeah so maybe go with the intention of doing a few months even and then you can always just stay yeah but yeah I think he needs to consider that as well but I think the thought of it scared you more than actually doing the doing of yeah go explore enjoy your life at the young age before you have to be a really responsible adult the homesickness will go away and you'll learn so much more about yourself definitely go for it home will always be the same don't miss opportunities to see the world a girly I think you got to do it we have so many means of communication now it's so easy to keep in touch living abroad 5 years stock up on your favorite snacks and drinks when I feel homesick I call for chats and snacks you're you find your people who are family away from home family and home is always there for you I cried my eyes out on the plane with notes from the fan when I left it was so therapeutic and I felt so so nice that's so cute said this was my exact worry and I'm here two years and hoping to stay for another two a see success mind will change go for at home will always be the same don't miss opportunities to see the world I think you really needs to do do SWS so cute yeah I think the general consensuses try it absolutely you won't know until you try it exactly and it's just such a beautiful place as well yeah like and you don't even though like they said like you're far away like you feel so in touch with people still like a FaceTime like there's so much new things you can do um so we're going to move on to Peak and Bleak the week our email address by the way if you want to send in your dilemas is home my drink at go now.com and if you want to be featured for phone a friend in particular you can put that in the subject line of your email as well so Peak or Bleak of the week is one Peak which is high and Bleak which is the Bleak of the week what is your Peak and Bleak of the week my Peak is that I'll be on holidays when you're hearing this it's my peek yeah yeah peek peek peek peek peek very good peek my Bleak is had a doctor's appointment and I really need to change some [ __ ] in my life yeah that was my Bak literally guys I'm too open on this podcast it makes sick but yeah I need it but I'm not worried about that after holidays no and it's fine for now yeah in the gym and all I was like you know what I'm going away next week there's no point of me changing anything fresh after no yeah after holidays full I'm I'm I'm married but I'm go I'm going to go through a glow up Within Myself the process yeah yeah yeah can't we because once you're happy it's like I felt like I just don't know yeah got I got into that zone of boyfriend I'm they're in there 5 years I'm like I need to pretend like Dan break me I I need a glow for health reason yeah so yeah yay what's your my Peak is that my vent tomorrow woohoo really really excited and then the Bleak is that my outfit hasn't come it's in Indian oh and also we had it rained yesterday for our shoot that we had but you know what it wasn't too bad true actually we got da it's not really Bleak it was just cold the ble is only that I got soing wet yeah thank God I didn't catch cold or not yeah thank God summer I shouldn't be catching no cold that's a joke it's honestly so maybe the weather as well loads of Bleak this week but thank you so much for listening and again a huge thank you to eron and Taylor for coming on today um they are just both I amazing women and we love them and you can go back to listen to our bonus 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