How to Get women to Want you

welcome to another Nate Frasier Experience Podcast and you clicked on the link because you obviously having issues picking up women and you came to the right place I'm going to show you why you having that trouble and how you can fix that and this is for the average man meaning you don't have to have 100K in the bank you don't have to drive luxury cars just a simple N9 to-5 guy that's living comfortably you know we gonna figure out why these women are not just drooling over you and then we gonna fix that so you could get woman to drool over you so come on in I'll show you show you the way so method number one or the reason uh number one for why these women are not going after you is because they don't want to settle down in a peak of their sexuality [Music] meaning like they're 19 20 up to 25 they reaching a sexual peak meaning they could get the top 10% guys and have these guys bring them on Yachts take them on extravagant vacations all this stuff because they sexy looking they they young they sexy so they not going to settle down at the peak of their sexuality with any type of guy they'll settle down for a a Chris Brown Chris Brown type of [ __ ] or 50 Cent or a [ __ ] like that but a regular guy they not going to settle down because they know they sexuality can bring them anything that they want H that's an interesting way of put that makes sense you know what I mean so they not going to settle down for the regular N9 to-5 guy that's going to be like nuh-uh I'm not buying you that Gucci you feel me I get you some over here Ma's we not buying no Gucci we we got a budet we got to feel we not buying all this dumbass [ __ ] so they not going to settle down they having too much fun it's hot girl summer for them they not doing all that [ __ ] they want to they want to go out twerk go on these extravagant vacations meet top 10 tier men they want to do all this stuff now when they reach when they go past their sexual peak that's when they going to settle down that's when they got maybe two or three kids two or three baby daddies they nobody don't want them because they getting up there and age and that's when they going to come knocking on your door so don't don't settle for that you know what I mean I always tell men do not settle for something that you can't see yourself doing like you you don't have to be forced into liking a woman that has multiple kids you always have a preference but if you want the the best outcome of a relationship it's better off picking woman that's in the same situation as you for example um I have a daughter I'm a baby daddy so picking a woman that has one kid already is a better situation than me than than a woman that doesn't have kids because then you you have to explain to them how you and your baby mama Dynamic work and stuff like that so it's always better for me to pick a woman that already have a kid because they understand how baby daddy baby co-parenting works you know what I mean but if you single and and you doing your Thug Dizzle pick a woman that's single don't don't settle for a woman that that that messed up once or twice when you got all these plethora women that that you can choose from you feel me so don't don't even try that [ __ ] just let them have their hot girl summer let them mess up and not because them having a they uh sexual Marketplace so high at the early age they supposed to use that to pick the right type of man other the fact that they don't pick the right type of man they mess up the whole dynamic of everything because be you being at the best sexual peak supposed to get you the right man you want to use that to go on trips and all this other stuff so let them do whatever they do skip over them women you know what I mean if if you if you try to approach a women like that and you feel like they in that same type of boat U forget about them don't even try to pursue you feel me just skip over them go to the next okay number two you're not the best man that you can be what the hell does that mean and what I mean by that is we have a lot of potential as men we have a lot of potential since we shorties we don't reach our sexual uh Peak until we like 35 that's when we have the right type of money we we have the right type of house that's when everything we we got the foundation laid out and everything right you can't be the best version of yourself at 22 it takes time so you need to focus on getting your life correct getting your money right saving money uh living life with morals meaning just don't be out here having sex with any type of woman because the society may not shame men for having multiple women but it's frowned upon you know what I mean it's it's on a moral standpoint it's frowned upon it's always nice to just have a a woman each relationship you know know what I mean and if you don't want a relationship just stay by yourself and work on yourself because at the end of the day that's how you attract a woman because women will see your lifestyle and see that you have your life put together and you have a purpose and what I mean by a purpose is you have a career or you have something going on inside you got some passion you're not just sitting around in a house scratching your balls trying to inbox Every Woman cuz a woman going to be like okay this is all you do you just working come on home and do this you got to have a purpose you got to have start a business do community service go to church and and and and and do volunteer work you got to have a purpose a woman a woman loves love to be attracted to a busy guy you know what I mean that's what get them attract because if you always texting calling and and always behind them they gonna be like okay this [ __ ] got too much free time you need to keep yourself busy focus on yourself go to the gym become a better man because if you could become a better man then you can choose a better woman if you're not a better version of yourself then you only settling for the worst type of woman you need to focus on yourself yourself is what they say you attract what you are so if you a best version of yourself you going to get the best woman for you so you need to work on yourself all right number three wait where the camera go oh all right I didn't know where the camera went are you that stupid so number three you don't have a abundant mindset and what I mean by abundance mindset you don't believe that you can get any woman that you want you got to have that abundance mindset because for example let's say you talking to this woman right you you you you blowing her phone down every day and night trying to get her to answer you you doing all this stuff to get her attention and she's just not grabbing it she knows that you don't have any other girl in the background she know that you you don't have nothing going on but just her so she going to take her time she going to sit there and be like well I ain't got to answer him right away he always going to be around because he don't have no other woman waiting for him but if you got an abundance mindset you inbox her one time she don't inbox you go to the next one you don't we ain't waiting we ain't waiting for women to answer you back communication is at its highest it's it's no way in hell that a woman would take two to three hours to text you back and you sitting there wai all giggity like oh my God she text me after 3 hours no we're not doing that we not doing that if you inbox her one time maybe two times and she decide to not hit you back or she take long to hit you back talking about she busy go to the next one you know what I mean now if she show effort like if you inbox her maybe 30 minutes later she hey how you doing then she's interested in you you feel me she's showing interest but we not going to chase these women that's out here oh look he inbox me but I ain't going to say nothing else we're not doing that we're not wasting our time that's all we doing we wasting our time when there's other women out here that's willing to accept our text message and and whatnot and and give us uh their their time cuz that's all we asking for time just so I could get to know you so then I could possibly make you a mate get married with you and we could be a happy couple but if you're not showing that interest in the beginning and I have to prove to you that I'm the one for you then it's it it's not it's none of that we not doing all that you feel me so don't always have an abundance mindset always have an abundance mindset if you inbox one woman then you had inbox three other that same day and you just waiting for the right one to answer that's all you're doing you're not going to devote all this energy into this one female that could possibly not even like you and then if she don't like you now you square one what they say the I forgot it was saying they said um you missed 100% of your shots that you don't take so you got to take them shots you got to it's all right people are not frowning upon you because you talking to multiple women that's why that's why it's called dating you feel me that's why it's called dating we not sitting here and and putting all our eggs in one basket we got egg over here egg over here egg over here because you never know what could happen so don't do that have an abundance abundance mindset believe that you can get any woman and if a woman is not showing no effort drop her go to the next one and our last and final reason why these women are not choosing you is because you giv up everything early and y'all dating stage without her putting any effort I'm talking about the first date you taking a [ __ ] to Stak house and spending $3 $400 you don't even know you like the [ __ ] oh damn you don't even know if you like her yet and you already spending all this money so why would she even put effort if you already giv her everything that's like you going to the job and you asking for the best pay but you didn't put no effort in how I know I should pay you the most if you didn't put no effort in once you put in the effort I would compensate you you giving her everything and she not putting no effort she not texting and calling you uh uh at a regular basis she not set some dates she not creating some talking points so y'all can keep the conversation going you got to look at all this stuff because if a woman see that oh I could just get this without putting no effort she just going to use you she going to use you and and keep using you until the right guy come around and then when the right guy come around she going to leave you and then everything that she was doing with you she not going to do with that other guy she going to put the effort in she going to be like oh no it's okay honey we could go to McDonald's on our first date we could go to a picnic we're not doing that we we could do this fact so you got to you got to when you have a abundance mindset and you know that you could get another female that that would help into not putting all this effort into like the first date like you don't even know you like her and you already spending 400 if you going to spend 400 give it to me [ __ ] we'll going do something [ __ ] it but if you giving a woman 4 $100 dates and and and you taking it all all you don't even know if you like her you need to take on a coffee date have a conversation you need to sit there and have a conversation because a lot of women like to put out her representative I got that I got this saying from somebody else they put out their representative to make their self look good you know what I mean but you have to get past that you got to you got to see through that you got to be like okay she putting her best foot forward let me give it some time maybe her true self will come out so but we not we're not putting all this extra effort in and she's not putting any effort into us we not doing that you feel me men realize that women are the prize but men are the prize too we create The Vibes women will come into a relationship mad as [ __ ] from the last boyfriend that she had and we have to overcome that by making her feel good making her laugh giving giving her a safe space to talk we bring that you know what I mean we bring the Vibes we have to start the conversations we're not coming to just look handsome we have to do all this we have to look handsome have the money we have to make them laugh we have to create conversation we The Vibes you feel me we create The Vibes so if you creating The Vibes and you see she's not you know I mean a oh yeah whatever drop that you feel me we don't have time for that we trying to get oursel together we we got work in the morning we not trying to play games we not trying to chase like that you feel we'll Chase for a little bit but not like that but you know the main thing to do is work on yourself a a better man can pick a better woman you need to have good morals you need to get your money right you need to make better decisions have better friends around you cuz you you know you have the type of friends I always claim they broke and you end up broke you need to hang around friends that's that has money so they can show you how to save money or tell you to invest in certain stuff so you need to become a better person once you become a better person you'll have the abundance mindset then you'll uh have the women chasing after you that's how you supposed to do it have have good Charisma always smile you know what I mean you don't have to always look like you ready to beat somebody the [ __ ] up you don't need to do that just know just show people that you living life you only got One Life to Live Well I walk around here uh uh with your eyes all eyebrows all scrunched up and [ __ ] like that you don't it's okay to smile it's okay to laugh about stuff in life you know what I mean and and that that's what get women a lot because if they see a man walking around smiling cracking jokes all the time they like that they like okay this guy can make me laugh he he can make me happy and then that girl would tell her friend and her friend will be like who is this guy and then word would get around and then that's how you get the girls on you you know what I mean and this is for average man because the the top tier man you could just P money out your pocket and all these hoes is going to drop to their knees but this is the average man the average N9 to5 man this is what we have to do to get girls you know what I mean and I wouldn't lie to you I'm doing it now you feel me and trust me people that know me they know so if you take all these tips and watch out for the things I BR up you have you have these women start falling to their knees remember not to chase after the the the tens I wouldn't even suggest going after the tens the tens they they they are not going to take you serious they they just going to use you as Pastime until they find the right guy I wouldn't even take tens I'll I'll go more like a a seven six or a seven cuz once you get a six or a seven and you could teach her the right way you could turn her into a eight or nine you feel me but we not going to go after the woman that's a 10 you feel me we're not doing that get you a six or seven turn her into a eight and N you feel me and to turn a woman into a eight and nine you need to show her the right way show her how she can love you a certain way or how she can respect you in a certain way that's how that's what we doing you know what I mean don't don't go after the 10 don't be texting or calling females all day know I mean you cuz you supposed to be busy on your purpose figuring out what you going to do to get this money so you can't be sitting around texting and calling and doing all this [ __ ] you know what I mean and women not hitting you back if you going to text women you better have another one text another one text another one text you feel me that's what we doing you feel me so you know what I mean always have an abundance mindset work on yourself get your money right you know what I mean always bring the Vibes always you know I mean be in a good mood uh have good morals and then that's how you going to get the women you feel me so thank you for watching you know what I mean I got other videos that's uh popping up so it should be popping up over here but make sure you like share subscribe you know what I mean and you have a good day peace