An Emotionally Unavailable Final Man - The Bachelorette Extended Mid-Season Preview Breakdown!

we are halfway through gen season of The Bachelorette and you know what that means it's time for an extended midseason preview and with this one we get a ton of information honestly some of it so blatant I'm surprised they put it in so let's not waste any time and jump into this thing to go over the next few weeks hometowns and of course the finale and as per usual please no posting any outright spoilers unless you can back it up with sleuthing and a link to the full preview is in the description I feel so lucky right now it just feels like everything's falling into place okay wow what a first 10 seconds I mean this is telling us a lot now some things we've known or infer like this blatant shot of Jen and Devon on a HomeTown as this seems to still be in the States but the dead giveaway is this crowd of background extras wearing the these cute Jen and Devon t-shirts it just has the vibe of something you'd see on a HomeTown plus we know that the one-on ones in Seattle next week are locked up already so this won't be from then next week we know Jeremy has a one-on-one as seen here and also in the season preview by the Space Needle And as for the other one-on-one that is going to go to Marcus as I talked about in my season preview breakdown video but speaking of Marcus the newer bit of information we get is what seems to be confirmation that he'll be making it into the final three as we can see Marcus here in what looks to be the final filming location of Hawaii and not Seattle or Marcus's listed hometown of North Carolina plus there is going to be more confirmation later on so let's keep moving I am very confident that one of these men could be my fiance feels like engagement air out here I am more ready for an engagement than I am for anything my whole life sorry Spencer you might be ready but I can't say the same for Jen as she is definitely going to be eliminating Spencer next episode coming up it's the episode before hometowns and there are only four Hometown spots up for grabs and once again we have a blatant Hometown shot with Jen and Jonathan in the plaza to Panama in San Diego we know Jonathan is from California so this being a HomeTown really tracks for him also there's what Jen said on the vile files podcast when asked to imagine what her life with Jonathan could look like what does an Engaged life look like with Jonathan ah an Engaged life which we'd be living in San Diego I love San Diego so that plus confirmed hometowns that we've already talked about with Devin Marcus and Jeremy leaves no room for Spencer sorry bud otherwise here's another Hawaii shot with Marcus so even more confirmation on that but let's keep going I've been doing nothing but Falling in Love With You from the first time that we had a conversation I know I haven't told you this but like I am falling for you I could see myself being with you for the rest of my life and speaking of more hometowns here's yet another Hometown shot with Jeremy meaning this Seattle radio group date with former Bachelor Jason and his wife Molly is the last we'll be seeing of Sam M could be he takes it too far with the I love you business or Jen just ends up not believing him as teased here in the season preview everything he says it's calculated I love you but why me how can you love me you don't really know me whatever it is Sam's Journey ends next week same goes for Grant oh and I'd also wager that this fireworks shot is the night portion of Marcus's one-on-one in Seattle where if the fireworks are going that means he gets a rose and has taken one of those Hometown spots moving on I love you I love you Jen I'm so excited about each and every one of these men but I've never introduced someone to my family before so here comes Devin with the full-blown I love you my guy seems to know the game and understands that right after hometowns is the time to share your feelings and get that fantasy suite also if the Costco welcome sign seen all over your neighborhood didn't give it away yes this is from the end of a HomeTown but all right let's now see that Jen's family stuff that she was talking about I know your history with people who are emotionally unavailable like you put in so much but he's given so little okay let's stop here with Jen's brother who's talking about a man being emotionally unavailable and if Jen's family is here in this moment that means we're at the final to meet the family dates so let's theise at this point I'm thinking that the final three are Jonathan Marcus and Devin of those those three men who do we think is the one that is the most emotionally unavailable Devon just said he's in love with her and has been pretty expressive up to this point Jonathan seems to be as well now Marcus is the only guy who's mentioned struggling with seeming to appear weak like when he was injured during the rugby date or thinking back perhaps Jonathan could still be wounded from his last relationship and it's him either way this just pushes me more towards Devon as the final pick but who knows knows a lot can still happen between now and the finale so there's ample opportunity for Devon to shut down too moving on I told her I loved her but right now I'm confused as my positive Like Loving feelings grow s of like my fears my words okay got to do another quick pause because this just seems like Jonathan in Hawaii so I think we can officially confirm him as being in the top three as well you deserve all the love in the world but I'm not there yet I'm struggling right now I am sick and tired of investing so much time and energy to someone who doesn't feel the same way all right now here we've got further evidence to suggest that Marcus is the guy who's not emotionally available with Jen but we also have to be pretty careful as Jen's outfit here where she's talking about someone who doesn't feel the same way is not the outfit she's wearing on this date which again is for sure a final three or maybe final to date in Hawaii now that doesn't mean she isn't talking about Marcus in this moment and that Marcus isn't the guy Jen's brother says is emotionally unavailable this could all happen over two different dates with Marcus and it's on the second one that Jen says this for now we'll just have to keep an eye out for this outfit and move on I feel like my cop isn't being filled I want it to work but I don't know what I'm supposed to do you want to get there with me but when tomorrow next year never at some point I'm just tired of it I don't want to feel this way so the drama continues and Jen is seen having a serious talk with both Sam and Devin now the Sam one could be legit but whatever happens here is going to go down next episode and isn't going to change the fact that he won't be getting Hometown as Jen's looking to keep the main thing the main thing and Sam's more of a side thing as for this Devon stuff this too could be legit as he does seem to be in tears but these previews can be so misleading that unless we see them both together in this shot we can't be sure that this is real this conversation could just as easily be happening with Marcus or even Jonathan however I do have to say these shots even if we don't know what specifically happens in the end just make it so clear about who's going to be there I mean at this point as far as I'm concerned it's either Devon or not Devon in the end I'd truly be shocked if he didn't make it into the final 2 with all this endgame footage that he in but let's continue are you okay with whatever is going to happen here I'm done letting men dictate my relationships you sure you want to do this all right now here's another look at a moment teased from the first season preview where Jen seems to be taking matters into her own hands we speculated before on a theory that Jen is deciding to propose instead of letting her final pick do it thus the comment about taking matters into her own hands and the claims that this ending has never been seen before perhaps all this uncertainty from the preview is an added layer in her decision to stop letting men dictate her relationships either way someone in her final two has a lot of explaining to do but let's now finish this preview off what I'm about to do today is something that I never thought that I would ever do but I have to do what's right for me I can't let you proposed to me and there the preview ends with Jen stopping someone from proposing again this could be because she's the one who actually wants to do it and if you ask me at this point I still think this is going to be with Devin however what I'm saying is still all speculation and your guess is as good as mine but what is clear from this preview is essentially who is going to be making it to the end Jonathan Marcus and Devon can all be seen in Hawaii and Jeremy is getting a HomeTown so next week any man who isn't one of those guys is gone and now the question just becomes who is this emotionally unavailable man giving Jen a hard time who will Jen pick and what is happening in this never-before-seen moment where Jen says she's done letting men dictate her relationships is it Marcus as the preview is hinting at is is it Devon who takes a turn after telling Jen he's in love with her during hometowns or is it going to be Darkhorse pick Jonathan all I know is that there's one man who would never play with Jen's emotions like production did to him all season but he well he's gone he's long gone so that's it for this extended mid-season preview breakdown thanks for watching and if you enjoyed this video make sure to give it a like comment your thoughts and theories down below and subscribe to the channel for more content and until next time Bachelor fan take out what I'm about to do today is something that I never thought that I would ever do but I have to do what's right for me I can't let you propose to me