Love is Blind UK Ep 12 'The Reunion' Reaction: JUICY!!! 💦

but I just in the back of my head I was like  it's going to be dry I just think it's going   to be dry but it was juicy it was very juicy  Demi comes for cat for me this is probably the   the juiciest part of all of it Sabrina and Steven  yeah I just put what the f Sabrina seems ready so   you know Emma's like you know what happened and  and Sabrina's basically like well let me tell   you what happened yes so basically two days two  days to quote my girl from um love Island two days   Bobby and Jasmine and it's such a contrast like  they're so happy and Nicole look in the day it   was hurtful what you said and he was like you know  yeah I'm really sorry for that so it wasn't even   true it's not it's not her fault she didn't make  him cheat whether it was 10 years ago 20 years   ago like whatever yeah just not about it welome  wel going people thems so this is episode 12 of   Love is Blind UK and listen yeah I was after  watching the last episode as a bit like right   okay be interesting to see what happens now but  I just in the back of my head I like it's going   to be dry I just think it's going to be dry but it  was juicy it was very juicy it was very juicy just   to go straight into it so there are some couples  as they walk in that are sitting together some   that are not sitting together so the first ones  that stood out to me were Nicole and Baya Bobby   and Jasmine they're they they're like together  they're like hand in hand they look really happy   and obviously Oli and Demi are set on opposite  sides Freddy and Cat on opposite sides but also   Sabrina and Steven are sat on opposite sides  as well which I was just like well hang on a   minute uh I m m and Tom as well but obviously sa  and Steven they got married so I was like what   out of everybody you guys were like the most set  the most the the ones I absolutely had no doubts   were going to get married so I was like what I  know happened there so this is like a year later   so I didn't realize this is how long this show  had been uh being filmed and stuff for so it's a   year later and it goes to so Emma and Matt's go  to Demi and Ali first and they're like so what   happened CU obviously you said it was enough for  right now ringy said No at the altar what what's   happened and Demi just says look you know Ali is a  great guy um but realistically he just wasn't her   guy Demi feels like she has really evolved from  where she was when she first started the show   and that she's she's kind of she's Demi 2.0 she's  back to she's know she find it really difficult   to watch some last episodes and she didn't really  recognize herself and she kind of needed to really   do the work and really do what she needed to  do to kind of really get back to herself so   she's actually moved back in with her parents  and she's just doing her she's just doing her   for now Ali again he seems at peace he he feels  like it was the right thing to do I put here em   and M were really good in terms of how they asked  the questions and stuff and how they were kind of   eliciting some of the responses from them both  because it did seem like it was a real mature   way to to deal with things it didn't seem like it  was a they didn't seem Aggy with each other at all   and seem to could really respect each other's  decision and they they were like look you know   Demi was really really really happy about the  lot of the support that she's had from people and   she's actually was crying happy tears but she had  a lot of support and encouragement from people and   she was just really grateful for that then Emma or  Matt asks Olli about the other person that Ollie   was interested in and the other person you had a  connection with who was cat and they're like you   know did you did you realize that cat that do  you realize sorry that Demi had such a strong   connection with with Oli and cat was like look you  know I was very much yab yab yab like this is who   I like and whereas Demi really kept her cards to  her chest maybe was a was a cover thing to do and   then I've put here Demi comes for cat she's like  look you know I liked you we were friends and I   it left a bad taste in my mouth that when people  were asking you about or you were talking about   me and Olli that you felt that we wouldn't be  compatible Brar in mind You' never seen oi you   never physically met him so what is it that you  feel would be immediately incompatible about   about me and him she's like you know I wouldn't  I wouldn't have spoken about you in that way   if anything you need to focus on your connection  don't worry about mine and she was like just hang   on a minute she was like I wasn't talking about  anything like that like I was just saying that   I just felt that you know from the conversations  that we'd had that I didn't think you you guys fit   as well and then Jasmine was like yeah but hang on  a minute like you you don't what do you know like   you know you you're you're judging it on some kind  of physical compatibility even though you've never   seen her you're judging it on what she looked  like and you can see that she was really like   C was like kind of crying and she just like I I  didn't that's not what it really wasn't meant in   that way like I just really cared for Demi and  um I get my words wrong I probably said it in   the wrong way she that's not what I meant at all  and what I have put here she start B um but she   she really said that know she didn't really mean  that way and de was like look I'm not looking to   beef for one like any there all humans we've all  gone through this experiment and been vulnerable   you know I just needed to get that off my chest  and let you know that that left a bad taste in   my mouth but you know you apologize so cool then  Emma's like you know you did say to Ali she's like   you did say that the Charlotte that was in the  showell was so it hasn't been anything that's gone   on with you too and Al almost can't get his words  out he like you know yeah we kind of you know   and uh you know and we kind of you know I don't  know have to coin it but you know and basically   Charlotte's like look you know I don't know what  I would have done without him in in the past few   weeks having you know had to watched all of this  and she's like you know I don't know what I would   have been without him being there through through  all the stuff that she's been through what they've   been through I know what is it that I mean her  part in this was very unless I missed something   but aside from her walking down downstairs and him  being like yo she's fire I can't really understand   what it is that she's been through so has it  been something like in her personal life that   she's saying that she's been through and he's  been a rock to her or is there something within   the show that she's been subject to and he's  I I just didn't understand that I've actually   put what what what have they been through I don't  know and and then the shout out to dem's parents   then it now for me this is probably the the the  juiciest part of all of it Sabrina and Steven   yeah I just put what the f Sabrina seems ready  so you know Emma's like you know what happened   and and Sabrina's basically like well let me tell  you what happened yes so basically when I said in   the in the show that like I was really open to  like quitting my job and you know starting a new   agency and stuff Stephen was really supportive  of that but actually there was just no support   that materialized when we actually got married  and actually there was he just didn't support me   in that way we ended up having to be long  distance which we obvious didn't plan for   but actually where I made loads of effort he  didn't make any effort at all you know she was   talking about when he did come over like you  know she really made an effort for him to be   there whereas like he didn't make any such effort  for her you know she was recounting the fact that   she bought him an iron board the fact that she  bought 770 worth of groceries the fact that she   don't drink tea or coffee but she bought the tea  and the coffee for Steven and he couldn't even   be bothered to do nothing for her that the  communication just fell off bearing in mind   that like one of the things that they were very  much like you know I appreciate you remember they   was you know I appreciate you the communication  the way that we communicate like apparently he   she made Seven Trips cuz well how many trips did  you make from Belfast to London she's like seven   so she had that number ready and then they asked  him the same question he was like you know two   is I can I hold my hands up to that you know um  I did drop the ball in that regard and I put it   here that yeah she's come through with the receip  beats apparently he did nothing she there was no   respect for her there was no consideration for  for for her her family and he text her two days   before Christmas to be like yeah I ain't coming  and when she was was like you know but my family   have gone to effort and stuff and he was basically  like [ __ ] happens they get over it you know and   he was like you know the way you're portraying  certain things in this year that that's just   not the way he's like you know I could sit down  here and I could you know a you out as well but   out of respect for you I wouldn't do that but to  be honest I don't even recognize who this person   is right now because some of this is just lies  some of this is actual lies and he's like I'm   not lying he's like well you know enlighten me  enlighten me what I'm lying about you know and he   was saying look at the end of the day he like you  know I was going through I I'm guessing something   something difficult had happened familywise or  something like that but he was like you know   having given up his job to be on this show he lost  all of his clients which means that finances were   were not in the in the best position and it also  meant that you know he he was like look we were   in a position where we didn't have to worry about  anything like that because we were in the show we   were on holiday things were getting paid for like  we didn't have to you know the real world hadn't   really started so you know imagine that the real  life did happen and then we've got this distance   and he's like you know your walls can go up  pretty pretty high he's like so it's already   quite hard and then having that distance in in the  way as well just made it was even harder and he   was like you know I'm not shying away from my part  to playing this is like but there a lot of lies   that you're telling there as well and in the end  it got to the point where Emma had to stop step   in and be like let's just stop it there we just  leave it there because Sabrina was they were ready   to continue and all I kept saying cuz I watched it  with my mom and all I kept saying was like the way   that he's her mom had grilled him cuz he was the  one that got one of the biggest grillings out of   everybody I can just imagine how Vex she was I can  just imagine because if she if he was coming to   hers for Christmas and she's gone out of her way  to cook extra food and this and the other and two   days two days to quote my girl from um love Island  two days how are you going to how are you going to   do that and maybe he just wasn't in he's like and  he did say he look I'm not Mr Perfect you know I   know where my misgivings are and and actually  you know I'm not Mr positive all the time but   you do the best that you can when you're dating  and stuff and you put the best outside basically   so I kind of got the the vibe I was getting from  that was very much like he was doing all the stuff   in the courtship phase but then when it actually  got to the real phase CBA and I'm I'm not one to   Sayid because ultimately you know neither one of  none of us here watching from our little sidelines   would possibly know Wan because we were never  in it but I kind of feel like I mean she came   with the receipts fam for her to be like y this  how much the groceries that cost you and this   how much to bought the iron board I mean to bring  that up a national TV to be like yo I bought you   an iron board what did you do for me like she came  ready to and even and and as soon as she asked the   question she was like he did nothing he didn't  show and she was like you know what why did you   even say yes why did you even say yes because the  V you gave me you didn't kept one of them but he   was like well I could say the same for you I could  say the same for you actually but I'm not I'm not   doing that I don't know man it seems I mean even  when they were talking about like watching it back   and stuff and they were like you know there's so  much love in those pods and you know he was like   I've cried watching it and she's like I find it  really difficult to watch and and be like that's   the guy that I fell in love with and I don't know  where he went and I think there's a lot of pain   there there's a lot of you know potential that  which we all have when relationships don't work   right when we've all got that whole what could  have been the what we thought was going to happen   and then it doesn't and it's like it's it's grief  you're actually grieving the the life that you   thought you're going to have I don't know I said  I feel like there's the there's probably a little   bit of Truth in what they're both saying really  and the fact that he didn't I mean you can't even   I mean if you've not got the finances to get over  somewhere I don't know how he could have made that   any different because you can't afford to go you  can't afford to go um but there are other ways   that you can show up where if the money cuz you  know money can be earned like end of the day you   both shared very like you know you stood in front  of your friends and told them there how much that   you were ready for I think this is the thing that  I don't get right because you you're going to have   your friends and family come and do a  wedding dress up sit down eat food meet   people fraternize etc etc and you're going to  have all those people that are skeptical about   it and you're and you're going to reassure them  and almost shoot them down to only then not be   bothered to make any effort once you've actually  done it and I think that's the thing for me that   goes well hang on how how genuine could you've  been in the first place and because had she said   okay he didn't have any money to do X Y and Z but  he did do other things like I'm hearing there's   nothing there there was nothing from what she's  saying and I think she would have been able to   say oh you did do this and you did do that or he  would have gone I did but they didn't do none of   that so I was like it's it's definitely giv like  maybe it was just here for the experience in the   show as opposed to I don't know that's that's that  that as a viewer then again I don't know him and   I could be completely wrong but as a viewer that's  the kind of vibe that I get like it's just I don't   know I did rate his maturity what what seems like  maturity on the show I did think you know it takes   a very strong person to see all the couples that  been successful now you're on TV and you know be   accountable for the bits that you that you took  that you were part in but yeah man I just I said   to my mom like she came ready with the ice queen  hair do like she was like I'm I'm going to let you   have it all Iron board and all the iron boards it  killed me I just like CU if she's brought up the   iron board as my my um n always say to me yeah  nobody anybody do anything for you you know do   anything for you and and and the next thing then  turn around and say you know oh we we do XY Z food   you know don't do that don't do that like do them  kind of things and do them with a willing heart I   mean don't come and turn around and like I me I  me do it I me do it I don't want to don't do it   then don't do it and I think for her to kind of  come on national TV particularly like you know   finances are difficult the best of times and I  know I would not appreciate someone coming on   national TV and and and airing out my financial  business like are you mad don't come on National   like no one sent you no one asked you that for  that information like but from the time you like   yeah bought an I am Bor and I on the groundies  and now now he has to come out and say yeah I   didn't make the best financial decisions and M  so you know there's a bit of bitterness there   that I'm like I don't think she was right to do  that but you know if you don't if you feel like   you you've been jaded you don't own nobody nothing  de so fair enough then we go to Bobby and Jasmine   and it's such a contrast like they're so happy  they're like best friends and she's like you   know that's what I wanted that's what I've got  you know they speak really philosophically about   you know about each other and and the joy and the  love that they found with each other there's lot   little like cut scenes and stuff about had G to  his pad for the first time and had been really   excited about that and their first year together  and Christmas series and stuff I didn't realize   that they were each other's very first dates in  the pods and from then they were like yes and then   Bobby's like you know I knew from then I wanted  to spend the rest of my life with her and I put   here that Jasmine gives a great answer for Bobby  not being her usual type because I think Matt's   like you did say that he isn't really your usual  kind of go two and she's like look I came on here   to kind of rid myself of all those kind of like  Superfluous very superficial layers and actually   find someone that can love me in the way that I  feel I deserve to be loved and that's exactly what   I've got with Bobby like he makes me feel safe  he makes me feel loved um so yeah it was a real   good answer um and you can tell she she fany the  pant of him as well so you know she may not that   may not have been her initial type of you know at  first but she's definitely learned to love it yeah   I it's so nice to see someone happy because again  most people would be very cynical of shows like   this to be like there is no way this is going to  work and then when you see the ones that you know   you thought were going to work and then they just  don't you know so it's nice to see that that in   in at least one case love is actually blind like  because they're still together they met through a   wall they got decided to say yes and a year later  a year a year is a long time you know like you   know that that that's quite impressive and Emma's  like you know social media was a big thing for   you Jasmine like you know how how has that been  and she's like look as much as he need you know   he can reassure me and stuff she's like you know  I also need to do the work and I don't think I   have I don't think me and my friend are always to  well her talking to me about it more so but we we   never hear that we never hear people talking about  doing the work cuz most people who have had any   kind of emot emotional damage any of those people  that have had that nine times out 10 will just be   taning through to the next relationship and to  their next car crash set of trauma they ain't   looking to sit down and you know work through why  am I wired like this why am I triggered by things   like this they interested they're on to the next  bangalang and onto the next as say catastrophe   so to hear someone talk about doing the work  I WR that Emma's like you know have you seen   firecracker Jasmine and Bob's like yeah he's like  thing is we've seen all sides to each other and   Jasmine's like you know the great thing is here  that I don't feel judged we don't we don't that's   not the kind of relationship that we have and I  think that that's a really special thing to have   isn't it that cuz I'm I mean I'm quite sensitive  so if someone shouts at me I find it very very   difficult to separate I'm who you talking to I I  think and you know I I have to learn that anger   is still an emotion right it's still an emotion  where how far you take that anger is is another   thing but you know it's still an expression of an  emotion and that should be allowed in in in some   kind of way so the fact that you know he he kind  of cherishes that side of her that firecracker   side I'm I'm like yeah I don't I don't know how I  would deal with that because I always feel there's   a way even when you even when you're irritated  there's a way to still be respectful even if   you're angry even if you're irritated there is  still a way even if you're being you know very   assertive You' being very assertive that's fine  and making your point clear but it's the it's   the disrespectful nature for me that I can't take  and I feel like when people get too angry and they   kind of lose themselves in the anger they kind  of to forget themselves and forget the situation   things you know people can say things and I'm  a big believer you know some people say oh it's   just words but like sometimes words they will  cut deeper than any kind of physical wound will   because once you've said it those things will then  permeate around someone's head do you know what I   mean so yeah don't know how I feel about that but  happy that they are happy for each other in that   regard and then it cuts to Marissa to Jasmine's  mom and she's like like you know you didn't   didn't have your approval before really what do  you think now she's like he 110% has my approval   she's really happy and they're basically working  on kids and get some mini Johnson out so they   are good then it goes to Tomy Maria and Tom is  explaining that basically after the uh everyone   was really upset and stuff and really emotional  but considering these big cultural differences   and how people are raised and how you want rais  his kids and that's whatever they decided to part   way so Emma's like you know how did that make you  feel and Maria's like look the thing that really   frustrated her is that in talking about how he  wanted to raise his kids and stuff he F she felt   like he was indirectly insulting his her family  you know the way that she was raised from her   parents and stuff she's like at the end of the day  she's like you know you've been in my house you've   met my you've met my sister you've met me we are  you know I I choose to raise my mom my family the   way my mom raised me and that's to raise us with  kindness you know we not to be worried about what   people do for their jobs or you know what car they  drive or any of that rbby issu like I I I choose   kindness and you know for you to kind of say that  you don't want your kids to be raised in the way   that I was raised you know is kind of an indirect  insult Tom like you know he's reflected on some of   on some of his ugly behavior for the the for  the first time from him from the show um and   that he's got you know Maria to thank for that and  her family and and that kind of stuff so he seemed   to be really like on the back foot and quite  apologetic my mom was like he just she just she   finds him really pompous and and he comes across  a little bit pompous and and in this interview I   kind of found that I hadn't really seen it before  but I kind of found that like as he was explaining   I felt like he was in some kind of B room meeting  as he was explaining certain things um and it   didn't seem as you know maybe he was just nervous  you know in front of lots of people the fact that   obviously he had let Maria down in that regard  maybe he just was was was struggling a little bit   I don't know but Emma's like you there anything  you want to say and he's like you know I just wish   I could have treated her better Emma's like you  know when you spoke to the mom and stuff you know   is anything that you think about that Maria and  she's like it just made made her blood boil cuz   she just like you know I can't like you know how  sweet my mom was with you and again like you kind   of insult our family you know then it kind of they  talk about him and Tash and it kind of shows the   whole you know what they were like in the PS it  showcases what that night was like when Tash came   back and you know what she was actually said and  what Emma did was she cleared up like cuz I said   this initially in in in my review he basically  said to Maria that you know she dropped the L bum   and stuff and I was like well te technically she  didn't say that she was in love with you she said   that she had fallen in love with you when she  was in the PS and either way Maria was like me   and Tash are good I love Tash like she were good  and then Tom made a joke being like you know the   tensions actually between me and and Maria yeah  I I think that I'm glad that Maria kind of said   that because there's I think it vindicates Tash  a little bit because she didn't turn around to   him like I'm in love with you don't you know and I  think he having being you know having had confused   feelings for Maria maybe kind of just brought into  that because I think it would have been easier for   him to allow Tash to be the one that Maria was  annoyed at than for Maria to be annoyed at him   for entertaining any kind of idea or any kind of  potential that she may have deemed inappropriate   that he didn't shut down so it was easy to kind  of like yeah well she said she loved me so I know   oh like do you know what I mean um but it seems  like her and him and Tash are called to and he's   like you know we've been speaking of last week  um but you know she seems like she's very much   got her closure and stuff when Emma's you know  asking you know how do you feel about Tom and   and so and Maria is just so old she like you know  is all right like how how are you guys we're okay   like is there anything positive you can think  about about the time you spend together I mean we   had a laugh you know but it's really strange it's  really really really strange uh strange sorry then   it comes to bayah and Nicole it compliments her  her eyes are beautiful how she looks stunning like   he's just I've said this before and I say again  he is boted with her and also this time around I   can see how ped she is with him as well because  even though I knew she liked him I just felt   that I don't know again maybe her guard was up or  whatever but you you can tell that they just seem   really in love and there's a lovely Montage with  them about their time together over the last year   and then it shows the moments straight after their  first dates with each other and it's honestly the   cutest thing in the world like he is so made up  like he's absolutely buzzing like he's just like W that was that was some serious stuff  like oh wow and she's doing her little like it and it was just really funny having them  watch themselves back but they were giddy they   were giddy from that and it makes the and they  did talk about it it makes the fact that she   then show Sam after feeling so good about that  about how she felt about B it makes it even more   weird knowing who she then picked and but then to  be fair Baya really takes accountability and like   you know I should have really stepped up sooner  to let her know and then Nicole's like you know   to be fair I take some responsibility and that had  I been a bit more direct about what I could see   with us maybe you would have been a bit more like  yeah yeah yeah and he's like no you don't need to   No it's it's not mean I should have I should have  done more then it cuts to Sam Sam enters and I'm   not one to been talk about physical appearances  like that cuz I think everyone look really nice   but I will say I was not a fan of this guy's  hair I mean again someone hate my ha my high to   hair or whatever and that's fine but my opinion  was I just didn't understand what was going on   with the party in the I just I I don't I don't  understand any part of that um and it probably   doesn't help that I don't really rate again I  don't know him as a person so I'm only I'm only   writing the character that's been shown from what  I've seen from the the Snippets that I've seen   I have seen since before watching this  as well though that he that Sam's on   Tik Tok and I've noticed that like he's  kind of I don't say cashing in but he's definitely you know you know kind of someone can  kind of laugh at themselves um but I don't know   whether it's someone I I can't tell at the moment  because there's not that there's not that much   on there but from what I've seen so far like you  know making jokes about the whole you know trust   me trust me trust me trust me hey hey I think I  love you so he so he he already knows I guess what   some people have kind of held against him from  the public and I guess he's kind of turning that   around now to like I'm was going to own it so in  one way if it's just a genuine that I'm not rate   it if it is just kind of like Cheeky Girls having  like my tagline one in okay whatever but anyway he   comes in and he does say the last few weeks of  his life have been really hard like he said he   went in the show genu looking to find love genu  looking to find a wife and he didn't find that   but in terms of what he has found is that I guess  the response from the public has been quite vifer   and he's found out that actually he's got you  know some tough skin and it's actually made him   stronger they do pick up on some of the things  he said and they're like you know Matt's like   you know you made comments about you know finding  it difficult to pick Nicole up and stuff and the   whole time they're talking about this Nicole looks  like she's fuming like she looks really really   annoyed and he's like look you know sometimes you  say things he's like I'm not a perfect human like   you say some things cuz you're nervous and you  know you get some things that come out wrong   he's like you know I wouldn't have I wouldn't have  meant any offense to her at all and Nicole's just   like thank you Baya like thank you so much for  just for having my back in the way that you did   from the get-go even basically when I didn't even  know and it means the world to me that you would   have so much love and support for me it's just a  really nice moment between the two of them they   do look really good together by the way and then  they ask some again about think I love you like   what was that about like I think I love you and  he's like look you know I didn't want to say that   I'd fallen in love and I think what I meant to say  was that I was falling in love which I think is   an absolutely okay thing to be at that moment in  time and then you know when we saw each other it   was obviously quite awkward so you know I didn't  feel comfortable saying right there and then that   I love you but here's the thing who told you to  say anything it's almost like you felt like you   had to have some moment like to solidify this  moment and you felt that telling someone that   you think that you love them would be sufficient  like Lu stopped her stopped her and was like hey   I think I love you it's just I I don't know I I  I get the and I said this at the time look it's   absolutely fine for you to to not be quite  sure of what your feelings are but then you   just don't say nothing dear do you know what  I mean I don't know maybe that's just me then   like right we need to get to the bottom of  this who actually called off the engagement   and Nicole's like look after I spoke to Baya and  Baya told me what you know what his concerns were   and stuff and I she's like I I just you know  I I trusted Baya and I really you know believe   what he said um she's like you know I'm I said to  Sam I'm not comfortable going to Greece I'm not   comfortable doing any further part of the process  with you in that regard which she then said that   Sam got really upset about um and it didn't and  didn't you know didn't take it well the next   question was why when they had the linkup did  Sam tell bayah that Nicole wanted to sleep with   like why would you do that and Sam's like look  you know I really regret that happening I really   you know I got there and the seem to got  a lot of animosity and you know I um you   know I really that happened and then out like an  absolute like just bullet Demi is just like Sam   just say sorry to Nicole for the love of God  say sorry to Nicole like what and he like um   you know and and Nicole like look in the day  it was hurtful what you said and it was a lie   and he was like you know yeah um you know I'm  I'm really sorry for that so it wasn't even true and if you remember at the time I was very  much like why did she not why did she not defend   herself not to say she needs to stand up there  and have no big big argument with nobody because   if I've already decided that you are not worth  my time I'm not arguing with not a not a word   and maybe she told the people that she needed  to tell like Baya but I still if I know this   is getting a and you're going to label me as some  kind of like thirsty Jezebel mate I'm telling you   now like that did not happen you and whatever's  going on the top of that that you can go swivel   on someone's big toe like what you talking about  but she didn't do that and it made me doubt her   but you could see how much it clearly had hurt  her and the fact lied about it so this is the   thing like and you know Emma did say look you know  I to thank you Sam for coming on it couldn't have   been easy knowing the backlash that you've had  um and the thing is you know we all get caught   up in the fact that this is entertainment for us  it's a show but there are actually real people   that are attached to this and I just hope that  you know people you know can heal and move on   and stuff but my thing is right is this okay so  perfect example like I I've got a YouTube channel   I already know that when I'm talking I am putting  myself in front of whoever's decided to watch this   video at any point right I'm talking so I'm I'm  automatically stepping into the furora of doing   something publicly which means that it can go  one way or the other that someone could hate me   someone could rap me someone could like you know  that that is just surely it's something that you   you take on board particularly when you're doing  a tele Vision show that it's probably going to   be streamed to have many homes not just in the UK  but but internationally as well why would you set   out to do anything that's disingenuous like you  know it's different if you can't help it like if   you're just a natural douche I'm not saying he  is I'm just saying as a universal if you are a   natural douche you can't do anything to undouche  yourself I mean because the cameras won't lie   but you see with this you deliberately told some  that wasn't true and then you know I like oh my   God it's been terrible that people don't rape me  like why are people going to rape that why people   going to rap that behavior like they're not going  to are they you you've allowed an innocent woman   to have this awful like slander over her head and  it's taken until the reunion like for you to like   yeah I'm I'm sorry sorry I don't know I just I  don't rate it I don't rate it and I actually saw   as as well that um on his Tik Tok that cat was  on his his Tik Tok so I was like oh is that like   a thing now or I don't know but or it could just  be playing up to the cameras as well but yeah he   wished everyone the best and then went to go  sit in the audience then it cut to Freddy and   Cat they're not together and and I think they felt  like it was 50/50 I think at the time that she was   really upset about it and stuff but I think you  know he's like look we did we did have his SHO   there were things that I wasn't happy with you  know I gotten her nerves a bit as well it's kind   of 50/50 she's like you I did have a laughter  she's like I did I did we we did laugh a lot but   he's like you know our lifestyles were different  she he felt that she snapped at him a lot and that   he just couldn't be himself I don't know if if  like a big deal has been made about cat saying you   know want to cheat always to cheat and the thing  is yeah if you've been cheated on I think you have   absolutely every single right in the world to be  like I just don't want any part of someone that's   cheated like you know I've said to you before  I've been in that camp I've been cheated on and   whilst I wouldn't hold it against someone after  seven or eight years which she said she didn't   as well that she wouldn't do that I still think  it's within if that's one of my values that's   perfectly fine because I've been burnt by someone  that's done that which means there is a level of   trust which is just super high in that regard and  if you don't quite meet that or match that It's   my prerogative to say n so I don't think I I I I I  didn't necessarily penalize her for being like you   know want to cheat or to cheat because you the the  glow from your angel Halo has been dimmed somewhat   because find out that you cheated but what it's  then for you to do is for me is to help me forget   that so to know that's something that you did do  but it's something that you've learned from and   the way that I know that you've learned from  that is because everything you've done since   that point points to a person that doesn't do that  do you know what I mean like I don't think it's I   don't think it's her it's not it's not her fault  she didn't make him cheat whether it was 10 years   ago 20 years ago like whatever like you know you  still did that at some point so I didn't hold that   against her but I held everything else against  the LA like being a bit contaner with the with the   snapping umit seeming a little bit materialistic  in certain regards and and stuff um from again   what we saw from the show I'm not saying she is I  don't know her but from what we saw from the show   there elements I was like I don't really I just  didn't yeah I didn't really didn't Vibe with her   I love the fact that they asked about the earrings  as well and and was like you know why would you   buy the earrings if you knew you weren't going  to marry her and he was like yeah but if I if I   didn't get the gift I knew that would be seen as  quite bad I also knew if I did get the gift that   would also be seem quite bad so I couldn't really  win either way so I was like okay they asked his   sister his sister uh Betty is it whether or not  she still agreed that with the advice that she   gave to Freddy and she's like yep yep yep 100%  like think ABS spot on advice and actually was   funny cat completely agrees with her as well  and they're like look we're probably going to   stay friends and actually that you know we we work  better as friends and Cat gets quite a little bit   emotional cuz she's like you know I've learned  so much about myself and you guys have made me   so much better Freddy's made me so much better  the girls have made me so much better dare me um   Nicole like you you've all made me better and that  did seem genuine and if I'm honest I have but here   cat comes off so much better and I think that's  the thing for me if someone can kind of go on   a show like this and and reflect on how certain  behaviors can can come across I think it's it's   kind of the best outcome isn't it because again  anyone it'd be really easy and and is easy for   us to sit down here and just review react judge  and stuff um but that's what the show's about   so that's that's what I'm going to do but it'd  be really easy for any one of us to be in that   position and potentially have similar things  that we're not even aware of until we see on   camera that wow is that how I come across in a day  to like Jesus so you know I can understand that   there's a lot of self-growth to be had as well and  it's really awesome that she's embraced that so   she's definitely someone that's turned it around  for me because like I said I wasn't a fan like   at all but from that I was like okay all right  but yeah man I think as I said it was juicy um   you know the whole Sam situation like I I really  hope it doesn't become one of them serial reality   TV series and you know we see pop up on other  things and stuff cuz I just yeah just not about it   um I think the the the the juicest one for me was  definitely Sabrina and Steven and say juicy not in   sadistic way like oh my God we love Tero and  break but just in how much went on there because I   wasn't expecting a like especially from them to I  was not expecting that at all and yeah I love the   kind of Demi growth and the fact that she's just  like yeah I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm an independent woman   where you at come on I'm an independent woman  where you at come on like she's just she's just in   her own bag like mean and I love that for her but  yeah I think the the happiest things obviously are   when you just see that love works and Nicole and  bile are really happy you know got travel plans to   go and and then you got jazz Jasmine and Bobby who  are planning little mid Johnson so I think if you   had to look you know there's a and the balance  of however many couples there are in terms of   the ones that still together obviously there's  only two out of the five that that are together   however the fact that you could find anybody to  genuinely fall in love with someone behind the   wall for them to date each other be together  move in together meet each other's family get   to an actual wedding a a w wedding venue altar  to be like I'm going to give these vows do you   take this person this love is blind for that to  have happened three times and for at least two of   those relationships a year later to still be going  strong like is that not a sign that love is blind one person working one set of couple working that  to me is a big sign so there's hope for us all   people there's hope for us all but yeah i' love  to know what you guys thought of this what did you   make of the reunion um do what did you think of  the Sabrina and Steven confrontation do you do did   you have a a theory One Way um what did you make  of Sam's appearance do you think of his apology uh   what did you make of the interaction between Ali  and Demi and Charlotte and and what do you think   about the being a season 2 because I feel like  I don't know whether the English one is just a   little less dramatic I guess which is fine because  we you know it is what it is but I don't know I   think Married at First Sight I've definitely  enjoyed that more I feel like it's been on for   longer number one but I feel like I've enjoyed  as that's weird because obviously with Married   at First Sight a lot of their story lines now um  I don't know how I don't know how transparent they   actually are how how organic they are because how  can it be that every single season that someone   cheats on their husband or their wife with another  husband and wife in the competition like that's   that's weird but it does just seem to be a little  bit like like juicier and it is on for longer so   I know that um em was like to Matt do you want  to do this again next season or or next year   and he's like yeah I do I think by the way in  terms of a Duo of posting I think she's amazing   I think she's always going to be amazing and I  think he's good I think I'd like just SE more of   him and him asking more questions just being  more I don't know but again is his first one   so you know maybe now that he's got the first one  under his belt the next one will be even more like   engaged and involved and that kind of stuff but um  no I enjoyed it I enjoyed watching it and actually   it's quite cool it's 12 episodes because I  can just be in out on the next so yeah let   me know what you guys thoughts were if you did  enjoy this and do drop me a like And subscribe   that' be amazing thank you very much and if  you do want access to my four reactions and   other videos like this as well then please  do head over to my patreon uh which is an   awesome way to help support the channel and it's  a great way to connect with me more so what not   not to love but for now thank you so much for  watching and I hope to see you on the next one