SABRINA DRAGS STEVEN! Love Is Blind UK Reunion Analysis

was I surprised that Sabrina and Steven got married no was I surprised that they broke up also no but this tea that Sabrina was bringing to the reunion I was not expecting I was not expecting personally for me why I thought that their relationship might not work long term is because they were taking things day by day they weren't being very serious about their future like especially with them being long distance instantly thought her staying in Northern Ireland and him being in London I I instantly thought that might not work and I just feel like it was it's unrealistic in the marriage like fair enough if you guys live like you know you know you know 2 hour three hour driveway but in different countries I was like if they stay together it must be love it must be love but clearly it was N I was also thinking that possibly with the future kids talk and stuff might be an issue just because I felt like Sabrina was being very agreeable in that conversation because to me it seemed like Sabrina was very indifferent about having kids while Steven was very much like I want kids and I want them to be like my biological kids so I thought maybe that might come up if Steven kind of wanted to have the kids sooner rather than later but that wasn't a factor of why they broke up so the distance played a big thing and not just the distance but the lack of communication Sabrina expressed that there was just a disrespectfully low amount of effort from Steven he doesn't like to call he doesn't like to text but they're long distance like that just makes no sense and don't get me wrong like sometimes I don't really I you know I don't mind calling actually but sometimes you know especially when you have a lot of people in your phone like I just want to be left alone but I feel like in a marriage you make that effort especially if you know that your partner wants you to make that effort you're in a longdistance marriage of course you'd make the effort you would at least check in I would hope like every other day you know and then it came to well how often did each other go to each place so Sabrina had gone to visit Steven seven times and Steven had gone to visit Sabrina Northern Ireland twice twice that's diabolical and I see this a lot in longdistance relationships I feel like most of the time is the woman going to go meet the man rather than the other way around then Sabrina goes on to spill further tea and basically say that he ditched Christmas like like they had planned to spend Christmas at Sabrina and 2 days before he was meant to go to sabrinas in baale fast he bails their first Christmas together as a family he bails 2 days before he's meant to go that's just that Steven Steven that's diabolical that's kind of when you know your man not even your man your whole husband don't rate you what you talking about 2 days before you were meant to go for your first Christmas you bailed H and then basically it comes out further that basically Steven's excuse for the fact that he hasn't been making an effort to go see Sabrina why he couldn't go um to be with her family at Christmas is because he's broke sorry what do you mean you're broke what do you mean not even 6 months into the marriage they're already running into money problems what then come to find out they got married when they were both jobless hey what do you mean you're both jobless and you're getting married sorry my love is not blind though I need to see the bank statements like how irresponsible now Sabrina she you know was about her business she got her business up and running real quick but Steven Steven was struggling but in the Pod Steven was talking up like oh he's this entrepreneur he has this gym business in London meanwhile he's broke and this is why I don't be trusting these entrepreneurs like when a man says he's an entrepreneur I need to see your bank statements I need to see where your go where your business is registered under the government website because a lot of these entrepreneurs do not have a pot to piss in and a lot of of them are very prideful so when they start this business and it starts failing they feel like they have to keep going until you know they can get their business back on the ground again to prove a point and they will waste their time trying to you know get this business back up and running cuz stepen is talking about he lost all his clients okay why couldn't you go get another job like a lot of these entrepreneurs would just run up their savings get into debt instead of just getting a job getting a retail job getting a supermarket job getting a warehouse job getting any job to keep themselves afloat as well as try and save their business no they they don't want to be seen in these places because you know they've got too much pride and it would feel like they failed if they go back to like a retail job or warehouse job for the meantime and you know what I get that pride thing and I feel like that's all well and good to be you know that stubborn when you're single and you're only having to depend on s but when you have a whole wife and you can't even fly to Island how much are the tickets on Ryan a like if if you really bargain hunting you can get to island for like a ten I can understand him maybe not wanting to come to Christmas empty-handed but he still could have got some gifts he could have gone to Facebook Marketplace he could have done some baking you know he could have found some gifts for cheap so I'm guessing it was either a pride thing or he just didn't really like Sabrina like that he said at the time at Christmas they weren't in a good place so maybe he was just like you know what I'm about to break up with her soon anyway and I can definitely tell that Sabrina was pissed that she was broke cuz she was talking about how she had spent £70 on him when he came to go visit her not you spend £70 for like she was pissed because she was saying how he said that he was going to provide for her but clearly it was the other way around H and this is why more women need to be entitled to men's money because what do you mean because what do you mean 6 months into the marriage you're already experiencing financial problems this is you know truly the financial problem AR should be coming like a couple years in not 6 months hey a couple years in okay maybe you fall on hard times but 6 months in absolutely not this is why my vows will be for richer or richer and in my prenup I will say I'm not going to be involved in any Brokenness that you experience like 6 months in I'm getting an now Sabrina was also saying other stuff like how he basically didn't you know really care about her like she was making all these accommodations for him but he wouldn't do the same like like when they would hang out with each other he would just do his own thing and not really take her into consideration and I feel like this is what happens when you're too agreeable because Sabrina very much gives yeah that's fine yeah that's fine or she you know she she backpedals a little bit and when you give men an inch they will take a m so if you know that you're a backpedal a people pleaser just do yourself a favor and get with somebody who's on the same page as you so that you're not having to do this backpedaling but yeah Sabrina was pierced she was definitely throwing him under the bus and Stephen was pissed that Sabrina was throwing him under the bus talking about you know I'm not you know there's things that I could say about you but I'm not saying it because you know I respect our marriage you was it was also saying that some things that she was saying were not true and that you know those aren't the facts and when men start talking like that they're guilty I believe everything Sabrina is saying and this is why it's important to build your marriage on a solid foundation all of this wishy-washy stuff you know is bound not to work out very rarely a shaky Foundation works out in the long run and if you're Marrying an entrepreneur make sure that you're checking the bank statements and checking the tax return but what do you guys think about Steven and Sabrina breaking up the golden couple it seemed of this season has gone Rusty real quick are we shocked are we not what do we feel about the Tea that's been revealed do we believe Sabrina do we feel like Steven needs to say his side of the story because they kind of cut him off when he when it looked like he was going to start to Spill the tea they were like oh let's draw a line underneath it I know I wanted to hear what Steven had to say but I feel like I believe Sabrina but what are you guys' thoughts