Ugly Behavior - Love is Blind UK Reunion Reaction

dating oh oh olly so I guess that uh oh I defended you bro I know hello hi welcome to memri as I'm Ashley I'm Mitch and we're watching Love's blind UK the reunion I was going to do something really dramatic I was going to say it is once again time to travel Into the Heart of Darkness and watch The Reunion for Love is Blind UK okay we can still we can still include that I don't feel like you think that was good I do it was just very it was like it was intense for sure this reunion is intense though they're hopping it up are they they're pretending like step and uh what's her name aren't together anymore are they not together anymore I don't know we we haven't seen any spoilers they are pretending like Stephen and Sabrina aren't together anymore Sabrina yeah they're pretending like Demi and olly hate each other that could be true and they're they're pretending like there's potentially another person on the Love is Blind cast that Oli is seeing currently Dum so so we shall see yes I don't know I think we should just watch itless you have any burning we're going to do it I got no theories okay let's watch it's been a year since I said I do oh so it's a year later one year later Bobby I know and it's Bobby this is dramatic this is dramatic this is honestly ridiculous seeing her again is going to bring back so many feelings what's up with the echoey background and all the black light I don't know what the black light situation is I kind of confusing of my teeth are faked because I was born without and if I went through this it would just be teeth just two teeth walking through like a vampire vampire yeah creepy I feel like the way they're setting this up they thought this season was going to be a lot bigger than it was frankly I enjoyed it was big it wasn't that big it wasn't like they were expecting it to be compared to all the others the end I always feel like the drama wasn't that dramatic even if it was really dramatic but viewer viewer base wise I do not think this one hit like they wanted although they instantly picked up for a second SE yeah it must have done pretty good for them to be the season one Love's blind UK cast I do what is this why are they doing this at least it's cheeky of course it is it's British yeah I do like little cheekiness yeah they're having the guys sit on one side and the women sit on the other do you think oh no they're not they're not they're not they're not oh wo but no they're having them all sit next to their respective no they're not no they're not they've shuffled it up a little bit and you all look kind of Happy Well Nicole and bah and Bobby are holding hands so they're together so everything else is a question oh my gosh Sabrina and Steven I mean maybe what did they get why did they get in a fight cuz they didn't want to live in the same place like honestly I think there's been a little bit of confusion with invites cuz we seem to have Craig David with us and not only one more door of that and I'm walking away he's heard the Craig David so many times at this point right it's what people kept saying that's funny I feel like he's also poking fun at himself for leaving in that conversation yeah that's pretty good self aware yeah in that moment like I was holding on to like it'sa I do not for now but we away from it was like 's a good guy but he's not my guy wow okay so she's like watching that old coru [ __ ] and being like so in a way people are like right in that like olly was not giving her what she needed to feel good about herself but then she's right like you've got to have that yourself too like you can't rely on a partner to build that up for you definitely and then there was like a shift when they moved in cuz she was getting something and maybe from nothing something felt really good but it just was never enough you know that makes sense yeah I think what touched me so much that they would brought me back to home like having that kind of sentimental touch I want that back I want that back that's cute that's got to be hard like watching the positive end when with somebody that they didn't end up working out with cuz it felt she felt very validated by OE in that moment yeah absolutely and then she also knows how it worked out so it's complicated I'm sure it's weird they don't seem like mad at each other do you know what I mean like they both seem like they're she's feeling a lot though yeah you can see it yeah for sure even though yeah they're not fighting with each other at the moment no it's not like she seems like she hates him or something she has a lot of feelings about like everything that happened I think this is weird too like this whole thing has been them with one or two producers and now it's them in front of a studio audience yeah true that is a big shift and they're like mini famous right now versus just being like randos and you've seen what everyone has said about you online at this point so like that's hard cuz I'm sure they're taking all of that in otherwise I will end up at home on my own with 10 cats and I don't even like cats I mean Catherine at that point how speaking of cat oh that would have been such a good transition he missed out he missed it I didn't know Ollie never vocalized it in the part he obviously said there was other connections but I never knew who I don't know like how like normal it would be to like tell other people you're dating exactly who if they didn't or you know what I mean in that kind of situation the pods you're speed dating a bunch of people and then I don't know yeah it seems normal either way really I Soo I don't think you need to report everything un like uh no this is something that's been bothering me a little bit that I've been seeing online this narrative like oh Oh's not going to be attracted to them he's going to choose his other option what I find disrespectful is when you they're all dragging up the drama this is just like the comment section but it's them now you know but what really left a distaste in my mouth was that we're claiming to be friends yeah I do I think Dam and Olie are going to work on the outside world no my's going to get me into trouble yeah yeah call it was rude [ __ ] head and he kept saying to me I don't know I don't know and this was when I oh she's making [ __ ] excuses for for judging Demi yeah it was a distasteful comment but that's not somebody you call friend kind of wild the cat isn't just apologizing you know what I mean but like we saw that like Jessica Vestal apologized to Chelsea when Chelsea was like you said stuff and she was like I have was wrong nothing it was the wrong thing I never should have done it the same kind of shade it was like she's going to it was like she's not as hot as she hot as and she's like yeah that was not my finest moment I'm sorry you didn't have any you know kind of Mal intent towards it why would you say my mouth is going to get me in trouble saying yes oh Jasmine's even coming to Demi's defense they don't like cat very much though do they you were insinuating that that was because of the way she look she was yes you were though she was though she was though just say you're sorry man just say you're sorry just say it yeah dude I'm insecure and I attack other people when I'm insecure like that's a normal thing that people do it's not good just own it and apologize I don't know what oh who no um yeah me and Charlotte Havoc um Havoc will like connection outside of the the experiment and so they're dating Olli so I guess that uh oh I defended you bro I know we so they're together they're they're at least like he's together with Charlotte Sublime huh and so I've got a lot of gratitude for him and it stay remains complicated but um they're not saying they're dating but they're something yeah it's been a year or two though he said she said last couple of weeks I can't I don't know I can't really be too mad at him for we've talked about this like connecting with someone you knew in the pods after you break up with the other person it doesn't really it is what it is you know what I mean it also does sound like maybe I'm wrong but it sounds like Demi just didn't even try anything with Olli after no it sounds like clean cut she was literally just like we he's not mine you know and she's still smiling at him it doesn't feel like she's mad about it even the Charlotte thing she's like whatever we're not together anymore well he was was prompting Charlotte to be like you guys are together just St her together you know you know there was so much I fell in love with about Steven and we didn't talk about any of the big things they didn't but the communication was awful there was no consistency in Steven's Behavior towards me oh whoa dude she is feeling abandoned yeah the added pressure of what the long distance was caus long distance is hard he's not wrong so he wasn't he wasn't giving as much probably as like something might expect because it's like sometimes people need that extra space and like sometimes other people don't want to give it or can't give it yeah and like I don't think that that's it's just like another layer of like communication you have to develop with someone that can be a deal breaker at work I Trav how many times did you come from Belfast seven and how many times did you go to Belfast I think twice and I I accept that's where I let the side down for sure so Steven's giving a little bit here he's like I didn't show up as well you know like he's not entirely denying anything that Sabrina is saying quite yet right when we weren't together the communication just was not there I am not a big textor or communicator but if it's somebody I love that I want to spend my life with like I don't know we always found ways to like check in a little bit even when we were super busy yeah we also like gave each other a lot of space like there was a time where we were like longish distance and I was working a job that I like worked until some 10 11:00 at night and was back up and at work at 78 in the morning and like you gave me the space to not call if I you know couldn't call yeah that that was again that was like 12 years in or something yeah it was a long time in hey hun don't think I can come to Belfast like two days before you meant to be there that sucks attack just like can't make it [ __ ] happens they get overhead also not true oh that we weren't great like we was when we was dating every single day and that sort of thing so they're fighting and he says he's kind of feeling down and I don't know we're not dating because they're married at that point that's sure a couple aren't so sure anymore are they to do I do gratitude journals where's your gratitude Journal now Stephen I have a lot of gratitude for this experience and the way it's impacted all of us I wasn't listening to you okay good that's probably the best it doesn't work out sometimes yeah I mean I don't know if I think that either of them are terrible just may not be cut out for a long dist relationship they had to do that and it didn't work out right and I mean it makes sense he owns a business in London like he couldn't just be in Belfast all the time like that's understandable why your partner might be upset and is it something that you've done all you don't have to worry about any of those things yeah you don't have to worry about your partner when you don't have a partner you know what you don't have to worry about your partner when you don't have a partner that's true and they didn't have conflict when they were dating which is the problem they got married Mar without having seen each other in that conflict that's something Nicole and bah did see in each other and Bobby and Jasmine they had to navate the situation with their right they had no problems and so they didn't know how that would actually come up that's an excellent point at least something small as a spat is probably useful for the longevity of couples on this yeah that's fine but half of this is lies shall we shall we shall we stop there I think stepen calling it lies is pretty harsh he could be like that's your perspective on some of these events and it's not the way I feel it went down because everybody has their own perspective but saying that somebody's making up lies unless they are hard and fast lies is like pretty intense I agree with you but it has got to be hard to sit there when he is taking everything and he's admitted a lot he's taking a lot of accountability and she wants him to take more but it's all on him and that's got to be tough to sit through yeah so he got tired of it at the end that's true and then they clapped him out and then Sten half of these are lives okay okay so I move to London pack my stuff up been there ever since and um Bobby in London I feel like we're best friends yeah we we really are oh they're best friends haters man most of the time it's true we're already each other's friends same yeah yeah we're only each other's friends yeah these people get it they do get it I like the host of this one they're funny definitely I was already certain even after date one that that that was the kind of woman that I'd like to spend the rest of my life with so um you know for me it was always Jasmine a they're so cute Maria's living vicariously through people over here I know smiling everyone like she's really like intense listener you know and to go for someone who I truly connect with on a deep level who's going to love me and make me feel safe and um here he is a that's so sweet so cute oh that's cute oh I like them so much booby Johns is that a joke even though I told him booby Johnson are you happy J yes I'm very happy my wife's happy then I'm happy good they're such a good couple they're really cute they're so they're really cute they're so C I love them together Jasmine and booby it reminds me of when you went to pick up your suit and they had your your name written down as Mitten Mitten yeah and you accidentally like ordered a sandwich recently and it was you said you put it in his Mitch and I was like I'm here for a sandwich for Mitch and they were looking through like I don't have a Mitch and then he he sees this one and he he just shows it to me he's like is this you it said Mitten and I'm like I laugh and I'm like yeah yeah that's me look at matches the couch oh wow look at this it matches the couch how about we take a brief ad break Marissa does he get your seal of approval now 110% oh of course he does of course booby gets the approval booby gets the approval she he did immediately as soon as they got married she said I love you like you're my son now or I think she probably thought that he was going to say now at the altar cuz she's seen too many people jilted at the altar well I think um definitely planning on having kids something we're we're working on as we speak oh it is having sex it's awkward to tell people you're trying to have kids do you know what I mean it's really awkward yeah I like them bbby and Jasmine I like them they really cute oh they're so cute oh they were a little bright light in this for and if you look at all the outfits they're one of the only bright outfits as well so we need to know guys where are things now so obviously post wedding he ran off and never came back he's just awkward I don't really think he meant it rude or meant to take away like her ability to talk to him I think that is an awkward situation do I stay or do I just leave he's an awkward man as much as he tries to be smooth like he's kind of awkward yeah he's comes off a little nerdy or just kind of yeah he's not a smooth talker not their job title not the car they drive not the house they live in how they make you feel yeah so I'm always going to choose to raise my kids this way I don't I don't think he was I could understand what she's saying but I really don't think he was meaning to insult her family I think he just like sees like men and women paying for things a little bit differently I don't think it was the rest of it cuz he had really kind things to say about her the way her family treats people yeah I hear you like it was ugly behavior from me he just said that he came off kind of ugly in a few places he did and so it just made me mad to see how sweet she was and how welcoming she was to him to then still go on and indirectly insult the women in my life yeah it's her and her sister true and there is this implication that they're not strong independent women yeah yeah that's true like I said I wish that at times i' treated their daughter a bit better apologies and I wish I could have done better I you know maybe I'm sucker I believe him he seems open to changing throughout the show he seems affected by seeing himself in a light that is not the best he didn't make any excuses he wasn't like I didn't mean it like that I didn't he just said I'm sorry I showed up poorly yeah he just kind of was like yeah I don't know I have high hopes for Tom I don't I don't hate Tom I don't hate Tom I I agree that I don't like the way he showed up in a few places but and seeing his connection form with Maria I totally get it it's been quite good to have that Clarity uh like like why it didn't go forward with her yeah so it's like around the release of some of the episodes he reached out turn and I wonder what that means she scruffed her nose though it didn't look I think she's trying to maybe be I mean they're not together right so I think maybe she's trying to make it clear that they're not like in a relationship yeah I'm not someone that kind of like just that's it yeah oh she's she's cringing on herself well a lot of people had some feelings about the way that she expressed this I don't I think she was fine but a lot of people got mad there were some people mad about what the way she presented some people mad about the way he came in there um it was a pretty Dynamic situation talking about The L Word in present tense she clearly wasn't she clearly was talking about it in past pod tense any tension between the two of them there doesn't seem like there's tension no I love this is where the tension is oh that's funny that was good recovery from Tom that was this is where the tension is do you think you helped him grow out of that judging mindset at all I would like to think so I'd like to hope so I think she did she at least started his like transition I think maybe but you can have a jolt like you do have to be the one to change but there can be a uh you know a pushing a snowball down out for sure I think that's often how it happens is someone you respect and care about says something to you and you're like o wait you know we had fun there was funny times are you still friends we're okay no the answer is whatever they don't need to be friends though no they don't they don't the wor break up in the world but yeah she clearly doesn't like him very much and he doesn't want to the relationship stuff that was offensive to her and some stuff that was offensive to her family yeah and like it would be hard to be friends after that yeah it would um well first of all I want to say that Nicole looks absolutely beautiful today panaya what is he doing especially her eyes is it not BR not B broud is Sam not in the crowd today I think he is there I I think he is there they showed him in the beginning down that weird blackl hallway oh did they show him they did I don't think I saw that one the first thing he says being related to Sam though feels like it shouldn't have been like the the initial take I don't know bad at pool her laugh the both of them are just like their laughter kind of reminds me of the way you and I are all the time they just cracking up constantly they're goofy they're goofy they're goofy as hell Vibes are so similar it's kind of amazing that they found each other through this honestly it seems like a really good fit mhm they're just like beaming they're just like feeling like a real way oh she's she's jumping that's so cute that feels very them you know it does he's just like Blown Away by just talking to her for 15 minutes that's so cute that's all that was clearly had a very instant connection the two of you do you slightly regret not making Nicole slightly more aware of this it's true it could have honestly could have stopped the whole Sam thing in its tracks yeah it was that good it almost like scared me yeah you don't want to get like wool over your eyes orever you don't want to get Hoodwinked I could see getting married potentially to you how do you feel and if I asked that if I was a bit more direct uh she's like that's the way I was feeling I should have said something you she doesn't need to take all the ownership she did ask him generically do engaged here so he may not have like he may not even if she said that it was her feelings he may not have responded that way though so let's welcome back the boy who just wants love from a girl it is Sam from London oh no the boy who wants love from a girl no no Sam no Sam no Sam oh he's coming in to sit next to right between Freddy and cat is not okay look it's not been easy um I have to be real I do feel kind of bad for him yeah he's he's a up and he hurt some people and he was an [ __ ] at times but like holy [ __ ] to have like to be under the microscope like that would suck the backlash would be incredibly difficult oh yeah he's he's kind of he's a villain for the season yeah really okay before we talk about you and Nicole um you also had butterflies for jine there she is um Jasmine is like no is that women's intuition that we always need to listen to she's not going too specific she's just like cuz some of it is really intangible like you don't really know for sure you would not be able to pick up Nicole um would you like to elaborate on that right now yeah absolutely I do get nervous I was nervous so I thought she might be too heavy to pick up what the oh bah bia's face well cuz he's Vindicated for having my back being my B eye cuz she got to see it then and then they're operating on the same information before that B has more information than she does after Nicole watches that she gets to see what Sam was doing and then it's like oh it wasn't me all along he was shooting the same shot with multiple women pretending like it was they're the only one at that stage of the experiment I wasn't quite in that in that position to say I love someone something wrong with him not being in love with somebody the problem is though that you just got engaged so I mean it is kind of a problem to me that you're engaged to someone you're going to get married to that person and you are not sure you're not sure whether or not you love them that's absolutely that's absolutely true and he got down on one knee like that day right to propose to somebody he doesn't even know whether or not he's in love with them yeah that's a problem and Bai how did you feel when you found out that things have been called off between them I was over the Moon I mean is like so happy so happy I made a mistake I made a mistake yeah obviously when I first walked in I felt that that Ben was a little bit off with me which now I Sam is not doing himself any favors here this is the thing he should pull a Tom and he should just say I feel bad I shouldn't have done it yeah and instead it's just a sea of excuses with him Sam say I'm sorry to Nicole please oh my God Demi Demi yeah exactly he can't own anything yeah for real Dam he's mad well cuz he what he did to Nicole was messed up I do apologize I do I really do I really hope we can move forward with this it's a shame that it took someone else on stage yelling at him to apologize for him to do it yeah that's upsetting oh Demi's like don't don't mess with my friends kind of person she's more mad at Sam than olly I don't think never weird with her and olly and olly stood up with her with that situation with cat and was like I like the way the Demi looks which like it is annoying that the internet like continues to say that that's not the case when I feel like they proved through living together that it was he was clearly attracted to her and I really do wish all of you the best like generally speaking like no like that is the truth thank you nobody likes him nobody likes him on that stage there's a reason why everyone is angry with him I do apologize and he walks away wow dude I do feel bad for him like I do because I'm sure like the hate online is hard to deal with cuz it's like if if there's a little bit there's a lot it's like a monsoon well it's all these people fighting the contestants battle for them which is really unnecessary like he's getting enough of the cold shoulder from all these people and like these are the people that have the beef with him not like everybody else it's what I really hate about stuff like like he should have a safe space like his Instagram people shouldn't be going on his Instagram and saying or yeah like it's just too much what is the latest with the two of you you are sat together which gives me hope and no we're not together Freddy's been going through DMs lately he's busy he's so busy honestly he had to create a database to keep up and I felt like maybe at times I couldn't be myself yeah he couldn't be goofy he's goofy yeah he's Goofy and yeah she did not appreciate that part of him that is just because I've been cheated on in all my relationships so that's where that was just coming from I was just in so that was like a trauma coming back I don't think there's I don't like her but I don't think there's anything wrong with the fact that she has trauma around cheating that's not her fault that she didn't do that no yeah so it sounds to me like they both agree that it wasn't the Turning Point the the the cheating information that she just generally like didn't like his goofy Behavior she just didn't like him that much she thought he was hot and they were having a lot of sex but they were like not super been Fring I didn't get you present and if I did get you the earrings it' have been seen as his Miss ladar so he was like in a catch 22 with the earrings oh she didn't keep the consolation prize I didn't want to B him um and we know how much you you value your sister's opinion we saw you have those conversations Betsy Dora is with us in the Betsy dorao standout star the Gandalf of the season I stand by the advice that I gave Freddy at the time she was really kind because she was like I don't want you to change your decision based on this but like I have to tell you yeah I could say he was very very reserved I could see something wasn't quite right his mood was probably different cuz he's used to being around her and changing a bit of his behavior so cat's even like yeah it wasn't the greatest fit and I'm glad that they both see that cuz that probably helps closure and moving on and everything yeah poor cat they're making her sit through herself ugly crying over over again it's funny cuz I don't see that her showing up as much in the later show but there she's very emotional in the pods it's very funny watching her ugly cry this much I kind of forgot about all that honestly yeah I did too that was cute I like that little Montage some people are really mad that she was on a previous show and I just like whatever I don't know I don't really care and I do admit that but Freddy taught me a lot um and I'm such a better better person oh she's doing it again she's doing it again d was good she's like I'm Snappy and it's not always the greatest and Mild Redemption Arc for me honestly she did a much better job than Sam did yeah she did she showed up pretty good okay she didn't with Demi she can't own that she can't own that she was being shitty or even how it looked she could say I did not mean that I see how it looks and I apologize because that's immediate where people go and I get that like you shouldn't be saying things that are that ambiguous that everybody thinks that you're saying a thing that you're saying you didn't say you know what I mean for sure um I've got a question for you okay do you fancy doing it all again I do for season two yeah we already know we already know all right okay not explosive because why would it be um yeah was it boring I just so okay here are the problems I have number one the teaser trailers for this showed people that Sabrina and Steven weren't together that's probably one of their biggest like dramatic pieces and they spoiled it for themselves yes because even though there was the possibility that they it was all a ruse it did it wasn't though it wasn't and it didn't super seem right so I'm just like I'm confused about that I mean but there was I mean it was it was a it was an average it was at least an average reunion I don't think it was a terrible reunion I mean we we we heard from Sam we had Demi get frustrated at cat and asked for accountability which wasn't given we had true I mean we had the show didn't do that Demi did that cuz Demi's a badass well yeah but like she can't just single-handedly carry the reunion do you know what I mean she tried I mean I don't know like I don't know what else to expect there wasn't much to talk about with Freddy and cat so that went through pretty quick um Nicole and bayah were pretty cute and same with Jasmine and Bobby so uh I don't know like I I don't know what else I would have expected Tom got grilled a little bit he owned a bit I mean they're just not super messy or something like it seems like I don't know if I've ever seen love as blind UK or Love is Blind do this before but um something I like about married it for site reunions is that they'll have just the couple themselves on stage for like a few minutes not like too long but they'll just talk to the couple and I feel like sometimes you end up with a better it's a a bit MH it's a bit of a better conversation then because it's not as like bouncing back and forth like even with uh yeah when Demi stepped in with Sam not saying anything like in a different context like she wouldn't necessarily been there of course Sam wasn't part of a couple I also I don't know don't love that it's filmed in front of a studio audience which maybe is a hot take but they all seemed slightly uncomfortable and like this is a much different venue than they would have they've done it yeah exactly so it's a little bit FR of stage right cuz like okay cuz like Demi and olly like maybe everything is fine but I almost got the I almost got the feeling like she would have maybe said more in a different scenario yeah do you know what I mean yeah I hear that but then like people are kind of cooled by the fact that they're in an uncomfortable social situation or something maybe yeah and like when you're on stage in front of that many people there's no sense of intimacy so then I think you're less likely to maybe talk about things in that kind of a setting yeah I don't know it was fine it was fine how' you feel what holes did we miss what gaps in our brains have you identified yeah also what are mother were there any other red flags from Sabrina and Steven I feel like the only big one I picked up on is that they just didn't fight at all which is they fight at all and some people said they want to live in two different places and they're not communicating enough about it which is exactly what s sinking their relationship so anybody who saw that they were on it yeah yeah that was 100% what happened yeah for sure yeah yeah I don't know that's all I have anything else uh we are going to if you're a regular viewer we're not going to be posting quite as much as we have been because it's been a lot lately and we need to time to decompress finish a little bit of work around the house and uh and you need a break from us anyway let's be honest honestly for real cuz it's been like every day I don't imagine it's been hard to keep up with I'm sure so sorry y'all it's like too much faces I think so U we're still going to be posting we're just not going to be every day it'll be like once or twice a week for a little bit here until some other stuff picks up yes um but we had our 5K Q&A coming up next as well as uh we're going to do two bachelorettes in one episode for the next uh video so and then we someone did suggest and we are going to start watching the circle oh we're doing the Circle we're going to actually watch it this time we're going to do the whole circle not just two episodes or something but we're going to do the whole thing so uh watch out for that in the beginning of September yeah all right thank y'all uh like And subscribe if you want to hang out and see what else we got coming up in the future really appreciate youall being here and we'll see you next time thank you bye thank you bye then I got it KN and I started going ridiculous oh that was a tear jerker hey we're going to go on a cruise this summer you should come with us